For some strange reason many guys who have experience with Russian women are often very secretive about what they know and will do VERY little to promote this in order to help their fellow man to find love. I personally think that this is based on a bogus and selfish belief that says, “The more men that find out about Russian Girls.. the less there will be for me!”
Well… NOTHING could be farther from the Truth.. And there are some key reasons for this. The Men who succeed the most are the ones who collaborate closely with each other to develop the best strategies and plan of action.
And yes.. it’s called team work.
The other BIGGER reason is this. In-spite of all you’ve read about how bad the relationship situation is in this country for Russian Women there is a huge proportion of these women who would still not consider a relationship with a foreign man as part of their available options mostly because they aren’t close with any other girls who have done it. If more of these ladies have successful relationships with guys from around the world then it will start to open up the hidden majority of remaining women who would be interested in exploring the same deal.
You starting to get this?
For example.. In my rough estimate way less then 1% of the general population of Russian Women would actually join an introduction agency. For you guys.. if this is all you “conventionally” can have access to with a standard trip over here then what is there to be selfish about if the remaining 99% is still waiting out there in the wings?
Bottom line.. You will do FAR more to help yourself to find happiness and love if you help your friends and other men to do the same. The absolute most important thing I want all of you to try to develop is your social network in the FSU and within your own country. Cause after all you’d be completely foolish to believe that you could do all of this on your own..
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July 29, 2006 at 6:32 pm
you are correct, most of the “succesfull” men do not want to share there info. i fact i got a nasty e-mail from one guy wanting to know why i post specific questions on this site. he said in doing so i will “alert” the availible women to “our” tactics. the feeling i got from his e-mail that if it was legal he would have 10 russian wives. attitudes like that are what set us back here in the US.
July 29, 2006 at 8:00 pm
It’s a damn shame that some guys act like this isn’t it? I’m laughing my ass off that the man who emailed you felt like we are using some type of secret tactic that needs to be kept quiet!
Yes.. Like using the Internet to meet girls should be kept quiet! Or acting like a respectful and strong gentleman should be kept quiet! I wonder if this guy has ever been to Russia before. Probably not.. Because if he’s seen what I’ve seen he would never worry about a “shortage” of available women.
Guys like this usually spend a bunch of money to get here and then typically end up empty handed and bitter.
Worse yet.. guys like this more often then not actually SCARE away the girls with their attitude. Anyways I recommend that he take a chill pill and realize that his destiny is in his own hands with how he can use this information to his benefit and hopefully to the benefit of his friends.. If he has any..;) Anyways Dave keep up the research and good work!
Cheers
GL
July 30, 2006 at 4:39 pm
I just had an interesting thought so I wanted to put another comment down regarding this sharing of information deal. Here’s a cool analogy for you.
Who would you rather be?
Craig’s List
Or
The Old Guard Newspapers
I believe it’s the same deal with this. Craig’s List is a blessing for FAR more people then it is a curse to.. My advice for any man who is not so generous with his experience is to reconsider which side he’s on and what will ultimately happen to his position if he’s on the wrong side.
There is real value in sharing and collaboration. This is a HUGE reason why the US is such a powerful country and economy.
It’s primarily because of our historical belief in merit, openess and freedom. I know what I’m talking about because Russia has a long history of being just the opposite and has a culture blanketed with secrecy and mistrust.
Obviously we see what the results are and it ain’t pretty. Number 1 economy vs. number 12. It’s that simple.
August 14, 2006 at 7:01 am
A guy in our “circle of single guys”..started emailing a woman from the Ukraine,,about a year ago..got on the plane and met her. He
then arranged to bring her to the U.S. for a visit,and shortly thereafter married. He is a happy camper. They show up at a nightclub on occassion where we hang out. She is lovely, warm, friendly, stunning/sexy, smart and endearing. She likes us, smiles and will talk to us.
I interogate her from time to time, just to find out more information. Our buddy is the envy of our group and guess what…none of the rest of us have dates or girlfriends, though we try in desperation to deal with these American women. Her greatest comment…apparently when she arrived in the U.S. and got off the plane,,,she said…”where are all the beautiful women?”…we laughed and then looked at each other, thinking..”yea, where are the beautiful women”. She tells us that Ukraine/Russian women love American men,,we are courteous, loving, hard working, manly. Personally, I do not keep it a secret and have told some of my “old dates”…”have a good life”..I’m going overseas-younger, prettier, still desire a man and a relationship. The 45-50 plus year old American females….cringe when they hear this. Pass the word along. PWD
August 14, 2006 at 10:51 am
Hmm.. Let’s See..
Lovely, warm, friendly, stunning/sexy, smart, enduring, likes you guys, smiles, and will talk to you..
So how come none of you guys jumped on the next plane to the Ukraine or Russia?!
Don’t tell me you were still trying to find a girl like this in the US??
Ok I still give you an “A” for sharing this valuable story. And I give your buddy with the hot Ukrainian wife an “F” for not coming on to my site to share his story with the others who need to hear how happy he is.
You don’t think that me he want’s to be the only guy in town with a hot wife do you? God I hope not.. If he did that I’d make him pay for all the rounds from here to forever.
In anycase he deserves credit for having the guts to actually do this.
Read here to learn more about why.. “Who Dares Wins”.
https://russianwomen.wordpress.com/2006/07/13/the-future-belongs-to-the-bold/
Believe it or not because of our movies and TV that are everywhere in the world most Russian Girls think that the US is just filled with beautiful women.. They go into complete shock when I tell them that unfortunately that’s nothing but a bunch of SERIOUS HOLLYWOOD PROPAGANDA.
The sad thing is this. I think on some deep level most guys in the US STILL actually believe that there are beautiful girls everwhere in America because we watch the same TV shows and movies.
We are convinced that if we just had that killer job or the hot car and big house that also could score some hot babe with all of the above characteristics.. NOT!
In anycase this is one reason why I believe many guys still HANG ON to what’s only available to them in the States. It’s because they are still “in the Matrix” and don’t want to step outside of it. The reality that’s been painted by our media is nice and cozy and convinces us to accept what surrounds them as “normal” and “good”.
Anyways.. Do me a favor.. Please tell your buddy to join us and to have his wife stop in and to say hello too! I’m sure she has nice friends back in the Ukraine that are looking for good husbands too!
Cheers!
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> If you’ve ever seen a bucket full of crabs
> then you know that once one crab tries to
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In Australia this same thing is sometimes called the “tall poppy syndrome”. The one that sticks up a little above the others is the first to get snipped off.
The basic idea is that anyone who excels in any way needs to be taken down a notch rather than admired and perhaps emulated as a good example. It’s the paradoxical notion inequality is so noxious that ‘equality’ must be enforce.
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