That’s right..
And I’m pointing my finger right through the computer screen at YOU..
So let me say it again..
(cause it make Dr. Evil Feel good)
ALL YOU WOMEN.. AND ALL YOU MEN ARE COMMODITIES!
Oh.. Yeah.. and maybe me too..
So let me cut to the chase here..
Understanding Basic Economics is all you really need to know about life..
EVERYTHING and EVERYONE has value based along 3 primary variables..
- Location
- Characteristics
- Time
For Example:
If I sell a can of coke in a market stall filled with other sellers then the perceived and therefore actual value of that Coke is very low.. Because you can find that Coke EVERYWHERE!
Now if I take that same can of Coke put it in an ice cooler and sell it at a golf course at mid-day in the hot summer sun at hole number 12…. Well you get the idea..
When an average looking Russian Girls goes to the US she is treated as a treasure because what is average here in Russia is actually considered to be extraordinary there.
Sooo.. when an average American or Western Man comes to Russia it’s the EXACT SAME DEAL because of his novelty as a foreigner..
These types of personal exchanges are one of those very good things in life which guarantees that the world will keep turning and that the sun will rise in the morning.
So in BOTH of these examples with the Russian Woman and the Western Man..
The “Variables” of CHARACTERISTICS and TIME have not significantly changed..
BUT.. the Variable of LOCATION sure as heck has..
And changing that LOCATION turned what once may have been considered a cheap commodity.. into PURE GOLD..
So to all of you Men and Women reading this.. If you didn’t already know this.. I just gave you the KEYS to the Universe and I hope you use them to improve your standings and opportunities in life..
I know that many of you will read this and go.. “Yeah yeah yeah.. I know all of this already.. so why are we talking about it again..”
It’s because interesting things start to happen when you extend this understanding further.
Because you can actually start to understand different types of behavior with it..
Take the issue of “Buyer’s Remorse”.
This is simply when a person makes a major commitment like buying a car and is initially happy with it.. until they see the what their neighbors have..
Let’s further illustrate “Buyer’s Remorse” by telling the story of an “Average” Russian Girl who’s never been to America or the West.
To start with let’s pretend that her perceived self-value is either average or low in comparison because of the many other beautiful girls that surround her.
Let’s further assume that because of this.. she hooks up with the first Foreigner that shows any interest in her.. but unfortunately this guy may not be such a stunning example of stable manhood or emotional security.
Typically she may not even realize this at the time due to her lack of experience with Men. So although he can be compared to a used Ford Escort with a few hundred thousand miles on it.. In her eyes and in the eyes of her friends and family who don’t even own a car… well he’s a pretty damn good car..
So both she and him are off and running.. heading up to the Cheeseburger Paradise drive-thru together..
And this works out at least initially… Until the inevitable happens.
Because while they are out cruising for cheeseburgers she starts to notice the various problems with the “automobile” that she’s riding in and on top of that she sees many other new and shiny cars outside of her passenger window. Soon what she once thought was a fine automobile is now a complete lemon to her.. And now she’s unhappy as hell because she wants to ride in that new Lexus she sees across the street.
So how do you avoid a “Buyer’s Remorse” kind of Girl?
First
Well to be brutally honest.. the very first thing you need to do is to evaluate if you yourself are a “Buyer’s Remorse” kind of guy.
In other words.. are there things in your own character or circumstances that would cause even the most perfect woman in the world to look at you down the road wishing they had a Toyota Camry instead of the 10 year old dirty and dented Pickup Truck that they may see you as? Is it time to retool your life? Or even time to transform it completely? I know this may be a tough question but we do make an effort to dish it out fairly for both sides of the aisle don’t we?
False advertising from either side is never good and I would like to urge that this is something both Men and Women should avoid at all costs.. One of the key ideas behind this site is to attract Men and Women with good characters and credentials to find each other. And if we start doing this.. then we can start to transform the whole derogatory Mail Order Bride concept (which scares the hell out of decent people) into a real chance for people to find real love and happiness.
Second
Finding the Right Girl..
We’ve already had a few post where we’ve brushed on the whole concept of finding someone with a good identity. The reason is simple and obvious.. Women with stable identities have more stable lives and are less influenced by what other’s think of them or by new environmental pressures.
They are less seduced by the allure of trying to feed their Ego by surrounding themselves with material trappings.. or with the Men who can give deliver it to them. Nurturing healthy relationships takes a much higher priority for them and if you watch and listen to these ladies carefully you should be able to evaluate this from the very beginning..
So if this is truly a priority for you.. then you have a better chance of finding a Woman who makes this a priority for herself as well.
(If you haven’t already done so start diving into some of the more recent posts on this site to get more information. Good Identity is such a central theme that we will be diving into it much more in the future.. so please visit frequently or subscribe to my RSS Feed to get the latest updates.)
Third
Buyer’s Remorse can happen in any relationship regardless if it is from Russia or the US. They key thing that is lacking in many of these situations is a usual lack of self accountability.
Or in other words.. “Let’s blame someone or something else for the bad choices I’ve made.”
I’ve seen some shocking transitions in some women who seem happily supportive one day about promoting more unions between Russian Women and Western Men.. and then just a short time later want to completely slam the door on it and burn the house down.
How can a small percentage of Russian Women who are initially eager to have a new life and family so quickly turn around and want to burn it all down without even first suggesting the most basic touch-ups is a little beyond me… Well actually it’s not.. because there is clearly a big “shame” component involved since all women naturally want to believe that their Man is the best.. and when the realization hits that maybe this isn’t the case then they either face the truth and deal with it.. or they start pointing fingers and pouring the gas on the floor..
But in any-case this DOES HAPPEN sometimes.. and it is something you need to be aware of because obviously some people will take any feelings of “Buyer’s Remorse” sensibly and some won’t.
So what’s the flip side to all of this?
What about the good stuff?
Well let’s get back to everyone being a commodity again.. This time let’s look at how a Marriage affects perceived personal value for a Man and his Wife..
Marriage is one of those very funny things in life.. It’s kind of like Quantum Physics.. because normal rules don’t seem to apply when it comes to math and logic..
So if we look at the math of marriage..
- 1 + 1 is supposed to equal 2 right?
Wrong.. because in a marriage..
- 1 + 1 can equal -3
- 1 + 1 can equal 0
or
- 1 + 1 can equal 3
So are you confused yet or are you starting to get the big picture?
The perceived value of YOU as a Man or Woman goes up or down depending on who you choose as your partner.
For example if you are a great guy who get’s hooked up with some psycho girl.. try to guess how many cocktail parties both of you WON’T get invited to.
Or let’s take a look at it this way..
Either both of you are Rocket Engines who can help to take each other higher then you could alone..
Or one of you is a Rocket while the other is a Big Ship Anchor..
Or maybe even both of you are heavy black iron hooks with barnacles and seaweed growing on them while being precariously latched to the bottom of the ocean floor together.
Depending on which combination of these 3 you are goes a long way towards determining the “Value Variable” of CHARACTERISTICS that you have.
Let me give you one more way to look at this..
Put an average looking woman alone in a photo and she looks like an average looking woman..
Put her next to a beautiful woman and she tends to also look more attractive as well.
Now obviously although I’m using physical beauty as an example I’m actually talking about much more then just beauty when it comes to the Value of Characteristics..
With a Husband and Wife it’s the same deal.. and if it’s a good deal.. then it works both ways as both of them become dependent on each other in healthy ways to promote and boost the other up.
The Last “Value Variable” is TIME..
(pink floyd intro please..)
An obvious example of the relationship between Time and Perceived Value is the issue of Younger vs. Older Women.
Russian culture and the demographic situation puts lots of TIME pressure on Women to get married in their early 20’s.
If she goes much beyond this then there is an implicit understanding that her remaining options will start to quickly thin out. The biological, social and cultural truth behind Male sexual preferences mostly gives Younger Women a higher perceived Value as potential mates then with Older Women..
TIME’s effect on the value of Men in a Russian Woman’s eyes is generally different. Because the older a Man is (within reason) the more stable he can be as a provider, husband and father.
There are many other pressures that the Variables of PLACE, CHARACTERISTICS, and TIME place on Perceived Value and a book could probably be dedicated to this subject by itself…. but for now I only wanted to give an overview in-order to get you Guys to start thinking along these lines.
Now at first glance this subject may seem like a pretty cold and sterile way to think about Love and Marriage.. And on some level I’d have to agree with you..
However the most important point I want to get across to you is this..
Given the right “combination of variables” on both sides really does give rise to the magic of Love and Affection..
After all if 4 simple Amino Acids can be combined to create you.. then I’d say something along those lines is certainly possible with 3 “Value Variables” mixed in the right way and given to a Man and Woman starting out as “Commodities” to create Lasting Love.. and REAL VALUE between each other..
Also keep in mind that I’m writing this because I don’t want any of you Guys to put the cart before the horse. Any of us can get into REAL long term trouble if we ignore the “Economics” surrounding any potential union and instead focus solely on our “Love being Blind” emotions..
No it’s a much safer bet if we understand these issues fully before we go stepping off into the great unknown..
So now that you have some pretty good keys to the Universe..
Make sure you don’t forget them when you leave the door..
September 28, 2006 at 9:03 pm
Speaking of economics, has anybody else noticed that right now on the 10-year, 5-year, 1-year, and year-to-date time scales, the best performing international mutual fund is the ING Russia Fund/A? Russia if full of opportunities for investors, and has been for at least the past 10 years – but even more so recently.
See:
https://us.etrade.com/e/t/gmc/gmcsnp
September 29, 2006 at 1:32 am
In a high speaky voice but james Russia is an emerging economy with high risks, uncertainty, curruption and instability its dangerous, just look at the russian bond crisis of 1997
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The reason for the success of the ING Russia Fund/A is because these are smart people, navigating a “wild west” investment environment, where informational asymetries can be exploited such that good decisions have massive payoffs and bad decisions cost big time.
People who dont want us to be smart risk takers , good life nativagators, resourceful decision makers (Inherent traits of virile men?) will Always tell us the “mail order bride” horror stories, in short they assume we are dumb…
and thats why this blog is gold!!
September 29, 2006 at 2:13 am
Hello James and Max..
Yes you are right about that.. the reason is because this place lacks so many basic things that you and I take for granted the only place to go is up..
The big if is how supportive the government will be in protecting those investments at the bigger levels. On the private and personal investment side there are certainly opportunities provided that you have the right partners to work with.
This is a good route to possibly go if you guys are thinking about maybe relocating and coming to the land of milk and honey when it comes to women..
I’ve worked with a few guys who are interested in doing this and they are seriously considering their next steps to get over here.
If you guys want to look at it from this vantage point I would highly recommend it..
Max thanks for your great endorsement by the way..
Cheers..
GL
September 29, 2006 at 4:11 am
This is why you hear about American men going to Russia and marrying a girl, everything is great, then he brings her back to the US and all the sudden she realizes she has REALLY high value in the US and so she divorces her hubby and upgrades.
We American men have high value in Russia but it works the other way to. Even average Russian girls get a lot of attention here.
So that is the problem. If you are an average American guy and marry a Russian woman and bring her back here she will have to resist a lot of temptations.
June 8, 2009 at 10:52 am
yes..thats part of the problem with
‘trade -exchange-barter’ ->
NOT ALL – excahnges are like that..
however IF – its based on :
“i am a western man – a novelty in YOUR russia + west = better roards + better infrastructure -> so ignore my age differential and looks.. + previous moarraiges and kids”
with
” ok.. in YOUR nation – i am a lexus – and in my nation i am a buick et all.”
then here is what happens ->
[a] the conditions on which trade and exchange happened – i.e. geogpahy and the scenery -> have changed for at least one party..
[b] different conditions imply a differential negotiation -
hence any coupling based on such ‘geolocational economic drivers and parameters” -> will fail – the moment the parametrs – ie geography – changes..
why is this not common-sense?
September 29, 2006 at 5:59 am
If you bring her to the USA, try to make the transition as easy as possible. First, she will be your literal shadow for the first year. Second, fulfill most of the promises you made. Match her former salary through a bank card for the first 6 months. She can spend whatever she wants and no questions asked. Money for monthly visits to a beauty salon and health club membership. Trust me, you do not want her going from slimming dresses and high heels to a T-shirt and sweat pants. Try to find local Russian-Ukrainian communities in your area. Let her talk to her family and friends online or the telephone. Do not constantly supervise her every move or behavior. She will have a period of sadness and depression while living in a different country. It will pass. Over the months watch her slowly become independent, but watch her love for you become deeper and unquestioned.
The best thing for my fiancee was her stay in the US for a year. She witnessed everything from the best to the worse of America. All the excess and the decency of the average Americans. It immediately shattered many stereotypes and illusions about the USA.
The reason why she was not seduced by the excess, because of her upbringing and the values she was taught by her parents and grandparents.
Doom and gloom are not attractive qualities in any person. How about insecure guys??? When they say they want a real man. Trust me guys, they do. They want that strength, old school gentleman qualities and leadership in family life.
September 29, 2006 at 8:10 am
I have given this a lot of thought, to say the least. I am about to marry a Russian woman and I have no doubt that our love for each other is very real. She has travelled Europe, but not the US.
I harbor fears that 10 epsiodes of Oprah and I’ll have a standard american female demon on my hands.
We’ve talked a lot about it. Part of the reason I am not overly concerned is I did do an honest self survey of myself as RW suggests. We are compatible, and would be if she were currently living in the US.
We’ll be living in Europe for the first few years, and then eventually heading back to the States at least for a time.
Just last night I had a friend warn me about three guys who married Russian women. In every case, after I dug a little into the details, the guy was out of line or had such high expectations that the woman could not possibly meet them. Or, there was clearly a misunderstanding and the guy jumped to “oh no, she’s a gold digger and just wants a green card”.
This is a two way street, the ‘mail order bride’ thing cuts both ways. If you really are looking for a submissive woman that will obey your every command and whim, stay out of Russia. You won’t find them there.
September 29, 2006 at 10:08 am
Thanks for the thoughtful input guys.. It is a potential issue to deal with depending on a number of factors so the more it’s tossed around the better..
September 29, 2006 at 7:39 pm
Hello gents and congratulations to the man who set up this blog.
Not being American, I would like to add my view on Russian women based on first hand experience.
In my country – Greece – history is divided in 2 parts: Before 1993 and after 1993. 1993 is where Russian women enter the scene. There where Russian women in Greece coming as immigrants even as early as 1989 but it is not until 1993 that their presence is felt: good looking, available, feminine women turning the tide in favour of a – basically impoverished – male population.
Greek women are more or less like American women but with a much lower income, so you can imagine the situation…
So for about 12 years now we have been blessed by God’s favour and I and my friends being in our mid – 20s then, can look back to some unforgettable moments.
However, with the benefit of experience (and of contact with women of other nationalities) I wouldn’t entirely agree with the glorification of the Russian female presented here. True, Russian women are the most beautiful in the world, period. They can be quite cold and harsh at times though. Also their culture is one of violence and disregard for human life and this clearly had an impact on the mentality of all Russians – men and women alike.
Besides we are witnessing Russia’s return to totalitarianism – with the approval of a large part, if not the majority, of the population. A Russian government man based in the European Union headquarters described the political situation in his country as “managed democracy”. This was no joke – at least not to him.
You American guys have the benefit of proximity to the ultimate females – the latinas of European descent. You can pursue this path. I know most of the actual men in your country do so.
Brgds
September 30, 2006 at 4:22 am
Sad to say, American women act the same way, only much more often. The culture of America is also becomming more and more a culture of violence, death and destruction also. We’re becomming more fascist everyday, all in the name of “fighting the war on terror,” when in fact governments are the REAL terrorists. That said, being an American of Russian and Ukrainian descent myself, I’m well aware of how some women from that region of the world can be. However, I think the proportion of them that could be confused for the wicked witch of the north pales in comparison to the proportion of American women who are brun hildas from Hell. That of course as you correctly pointed out can change given the current political situation in Russia. By the way, democracy is an delusion here in the United states, not when less than one percent of the population controls more than half of the nation’s wealth, and more than 90 percent of the wealth is in the hands of fewer than 10 percent of the people. The land of the free and home of the brave I’m afraid is going to die with my generation, if not much sooner.
Taras
September 30, 2006 at 5:34 am
Hi Themis,
Great Information Sir!
It’s amazing what kind of “Ripple Effect” gets created when you put these kinds of women into an environment where they didn’t exist before.
All sorts of very “interesting” things happen and the shockwave this creates among both men and women is always fun to watch.
I’ve had Men tell me the same thing when all of a sudden their community get’s a few beautiful Russian girls. According to them.. all hell breaks loose!
Thanks for the info.. Please keep participating and tell your friends too!
Cheers GL
November 2, 2006 at 1:21 pm
Mating shares many market characteristics, most expressly supply and demand. We are all trying to cut the best possible deal for our genes. We’ll call Eggs the supply and Sperm the demand. Demand outstrips supply at this level: a man could physically impregnate 10,000 women, but a woman can only have 10-15 children. Supply has 2 components: physical
availability and the willingness to barter. Demand has 2 components: desire and the ability to meet the demands of the provider. In most of the developed world, women’s economic power has removed the need to seek men for financial reasons, which has been a key factor in the mating market for many thousands of years (feel free to argue this point with me).
Whenever demand exceeds supply, the price goes up, availability becomes spotty, and the quality varies widely. In economically depressed areas of the world, supply tends to outstrip demand because men cannot afford to meet the demands of the providers and are easily outbid by someone with 1st world resources. Availability is abundant, price is realtively low, and quality is good. There is no need for coercion. If this seems crass, then both sides are equally crass.
I will put 100-some years of western feminist ideology and throw in an additional 4000+ years of judeo-christian morality up against 100 million years of mammalian evolutionary biology anytime.
June 11, 2007 at 9:20 pm
I liked the obvious truth of the posting.
The charm of the concept from a man’s point of view is “What if his marketability is extremely high in the West and he takes that to Eurasia within the market of “edging on Eurasian older than early twenties and no husband and no child.”?
Now either he will find a diamond in the rough of life circumstance or he will find out why no-one else wanted her either. But he will surely never lack a date, either way.
And until he does find his slice of heaven, he is dealing with his own extremely high market value.
The real fun is watching those who push their marketability to the limit within either gender.
A typical example is the High Roller with the Super Model. Another is the plain vixen with the real man exposed to his true value for the first time due to lack of previous good “placement”.
In either case, when push comes to shove, during any major upset of the settling of power placement, the one with significantly higher value sees no real need to endure the travails when so easily they can shift to their preferred option, ready-made.
In other words, at the top end, the other has so many options, that to stand and develop the relationship is an unnecessary inconvenience.
Which leads to the Russian(and perhaps universal) philosophy of dating high and marrying lower. For those who don’t have to duke it out and develop; they will quickly show this to you.
And drawing on the analogy of cars, the bumps on the road of relationship development test the springs, the suspension. The more the suspension is tightly wound, the more easily it snaps.
The saving grace of real men is that what is both ordinary and feminine in Russia is extraordinary and dreamlike from Western perspective and best served in Eurasia.
Why in the world someone would not consider, when they are able or determined to resolve, relocation as a personal life “move”, is beyond me.
My allegiance to my own life comes far in front of country of birth. God goes with me wherever I am. Country of love interest and keeping it that way is therefore much more important than adding my name to someone’s role call.
So good that the least obnoxious Western girls want you. But so wise as to only accept “Russian Express”. A pritty good card to carry. “Leave home to get it.”
And the dynamics of age means that the card has an expiry date for either gender. For the girls, much more quickly–generally speaking.
Although after an arduous bout with a high maintence model, a more classic, well-maintained model can seem like a real trade up.
What’s the saying? “A lady in public and a bitch in bed”?
Of course, the real fun is when it’s inversed. I take liberties with definition in order to make the point about maintenance and its finer benefits when the saying is the preferred of the two.
Curiously yesterday I asked a master mechanic what is his greatest motor recommendation. His answer: Maintenance. But not too high. The first germane to the guys in the band. The second to the hunted.
After all what do a bunch of good ol’ boys need in oder to go hunting, if not a strong, reliable “pick up” truck.
Sometimes, I just crack myself up.
June 11, 2007 at 9:40 pm
And very often I misspell… in “order” to go hunting.
There once was a man
In a van without plan.
So he sacked the stack
In the back.
Discarded his clothes
In order to transpose.
Adopted his finer
In keeping of minimal decliners.
And inherited his genes
In designer model
Remade his days
In the happiest of ways.
And now his deliner is finer.
In the malaise of whiner.
When his truest praise
In his love made him says
Oh my dear
In my fate I decline
Oh my fine
In my mate I resign.
The tale of a man
In his primer.
WTF?
June 12, 2007 at 3:15 pm
Ok. So this is one of my favourite postings on this blog. I don’t think that I’ve fully explained what I wanted to say. So here goes…
Imagine for a moment that you are a guy who has it all. And I speak about everything except your special love of your life.
When you are your best possible self this puts you into a unique position of being able to call the shots under any circumstances. Regardless of your environment, you will be highly sought after. And when you are “in contact mode” whoever is with you will never forget you.
Why? Because you will have outclassed the competition.
Today, rate yourself on every conceiveable category of personal life concern, from your career success to your body mojo. Everything pals. Possibly there are dozens of categories. But most of the top 15 will be fairly universal in the world of girls and lovin’.
When you begin to work on all of them, slowly but surely, your life will become transformed. The girls you had to previously put up with who were “difficult” but all that your marketability could deliver to you, you will simply slough off like a Hollywood movie star. You will not have to take their crap.
Imagine for a moment the life of, for example, Bad Brad Pitt. The guy is Mr. Insanely Fine. He has seriously outclassed his competition. Money, fame, talent, bod, attractiveness, manliness, sense of humour, honesty, decency, beautiful home, worldliness, devotion to family, social skills up the wazoogo, ambition, compasssion, sense of style and sartorial know-how. And the list goes on and on. I have no idea of how he is in his most private part of his life. But this too is a primary category to amp.
Now, the wonderful thing about being exposed to the fairer sex who embrace their love of the art of femininity is that it rubs off on you. And once you discover the love of being your bad ass masculine self, you will really find your pace. And once your personal life rythm begins you will seriously and permanently love it in the same way, different legers, than these adoreable creatures.
Why is this especially good? You will learn from your overall universal appeal in all and any part of the world, that the more you feel your appeal the more that your confidence will snowball your appeal with your intended beloved within the finest group in the world–your target market.
Regardless of which category I speak about, and regardless as to your level or satisfaction or dissatisfaction there is generally much more which can be done about it than you might now think. And if you don’t know; then, chances are excellent that someone who does know or who can help can lift “that” particular category within your life.
You will then develop an entirely relaxed attitude about women’s reaction to you in the same way that a girl who seems to have everything attracts the equivalent appeal in men.
Let’s take a look at a common category… Money. Just one year ago and after many years of substandard performance I was in a position to go to the Motherland with only about 40,000 after landing to make it all happen. New business, living and travelling expenses. The whole deal. Not enough. Plan B.
As if pennies from heaven, information and ideas began to come to me. It was not like falling off of a log. It required real energy and time and effort. Plan B kind of evolved. And it evolved because I was flexible enough in the plan to allow what had to open up to open up.
My current projections are that I will hit a million within 10-12 months of liftoff. I am entirely accurate in this figure. Then I will chose and build my dream home whenever the hell in Russia I want it and will proceed along in my search wherever and whenever the hell I want.
I’ll create an annual investment income and the other biz stuff will go as it goes.
I don’t seek to brag here, although I am personally very happy to share my sense of relief. I merely cite this as an example of just how much a personal life can be transformed–in any category. Even the ones you might today think is impossible.
In fact, I now consider this remaking of my life my current full time job. I give it about 18 months until I will settle into the groove of transformer man.
“But I can do nothing about my life in such a way.” Yes, perhaps if this is your level of flexibility or just your current chosen path. But I simply remind you that life is sometimes a very strange animal. And sometimes it can do things to your life that are just plain wonderful.
Like the day your discovered the wonder of girls who simply love being real girls. Quite a day, yes?
Well, same thing in your own transformer life. Remember that a major part of the downside of being a man within the societies of the Cult of Feminazi, is that this manly celebration of becoming and being your personal best has been seriously dulled by your socially separated attachment to this celebration.
Feminazi’s and their world are serious unmotivators to your path of becoming your best possible self.
“But I want to be loved for being myself.” Yes, and I would love her for herself even if she was 250 kilos, never bathed, dressed like an army sargeant, spoke like a long shoreman on leave from his mining job, was allergic to sex and had not a maternal bone in her body.
Get my drift?
I will not lie to you. Some of your journey will take several years to begin to fully bear excellent results. And it possible to often find a more and more expedient route. But not always. And you simply must lose this speed–or-else-nothing attitude. This cannot always be.
But little steps become bigger, and bigger steps lead to your best possible self.
Along the way you will learn that it is not a good idea to speak that you do a gazillion things for your main squeeze, unless she is really, really fine. But many, not all, can interpret this as you are desperate. And uncool and overly fawning is not so good.
I’ve mentioned before about “options and ambitions.” And I promise you, the more that you have options, the more that whoever is with you will know it. I promise you. So, that even the ones who are normally someone’s bad attitude girl, will not push her luck around you for the time she is lucky enough to have with you.
So, even the problem girls along your path to your special beloved will not be able to backslide your mojo, your sense of personal worth. You will become in reality… unphased. Your options will be too strong.
I have said here somewhere, that “the best girls in the world deserve the best”. But somewhere along this journey, should you actually go for it, this idea will one day change to include, if not supercede, “my best possible self deserves the best possible girl.”
Many, many people have given to me an enormous amount of help. So many. So, I did none of this alone. I have had some major help along what is still my own personal transformation. And although there are few guarantees in life; to not know this end feeling would not be acceptable to me now that I know that I can truly have it.
And if I can have it all; then brothers so too can you all.
But Canuck dude, I have this, this, and this in life and I can’t possibly. Tell it to your momma, pal, because I’m not believing it.
Kudos to GL, for this excellent post.
June 13, 2007 at 12:47 pm
Good post Canuck. These words ring true and I really enjoy reading what you and GL have to tell. As for myself, I can say that I have been going through such transformation.
I have a thought I’ve been kicking around in my head. Here it is: a book. Yes, a book.
I think it grand if you and GL would collaborate on a book – exposing the truths of feminism, its vile effects on society, truth of RW and how their culture of chivalry, love, strong family bonds, is one that is ideal, and exemplary. As I read these posts, I understand this book is already 3/4 written, one simply needs organization, a table of contents, index, references… and there you have it, a book. A book that would enlighten, give guidance, encouragement along the road of life, of truths, of love, of feminists to avoid, of seeking beautiful feminine woman who can love and receive love, of tests of love, of characteristics to avoid or seek, etc..
How about it, a stab at the cores of feminism, and a source of royalty income for your efforts and of course, a way out of this mess, a huge gargantuan mess, a path to a more sensible society.
There is one great book that was recently released. It is called “Women Who Make the World Worse: and How Their Radical Feminist Assault Is Ruining Our Schools, Families, Military, and Sports.” by Kate O’Beirne.
In addition to this blog, a book would do a great service to society.
Just a thought.
-M
June 13, 2007 at 2:24 pm
Manoah… Thanks very much for your kind words.
About the book. Interesting.
It could be hot–your idea. But first I’d have to learn how to spell and clean up my vocabulary which now and again lands me in delete.
I like the idea when it expresses a primary focus on resolutions of problems and an unwavering dedication to true and enduring happiness.
Then there’s credibility. And when authors would advocate an answer to The Cult, their response would be highly scrutinized according to their own personal lives. GL has both location and fiance. Whereas I’m on the cusp of relocation and possibly also a fancy day of my own. Regardless, I won’t be settling for a Feminazi ever. Not in this lifetime. Or any other.
Then there’s author compatability and whether my version of happiness Utopia is his and are they close enough to be supporting parts of the whole? Perhaps my own views on intimate matters might not find favour with Mr. G.
Then there’s the title. I can already think of a few. Access via e-site for e-book and so on. If there’s no particular rush then the finances for the nuts and bolts wouldn’t be a problem.
Then there’s purpose.
Again with Fitzgerald, “In these troubled times, the finest protest is happiness.”
Then there’s the matter of copyright aligned to price or upon condition of membership registration.
My primary motive would be to help free my beleaguered brothers from the Cult and expose them to their finest hour. All the rest is up to the G man.
Either way, I’ll certainly very much continue to help in such ways as this as well as my own public pronouncements in future. In other words, whatever helps, I’m all for it, e-book or no e-book.
There are two ways to tear down a country. One with armies. The other from the inside. And at this time, there are some quite potent forces which seek to dissolve our source of happiness—the traditional art of femininity. These people very often have no children and much more free time to work on the social attack.
They are very coy and artful, these people. And they’re certainly not shy about their purpose. It’s happening with such force now that I am inclined to more and more to want to rally the troops and to do the Paul Revere thing from within.
Lastly on the topic, at least for the time being, whether in e-books or blogs I continue typing.
Now get back to the your exercises and the photo album or I’ll post another link to some very angry Feminazi’s!
All the best.