Well the snow is thawing and Spring is here.
And although I wish I could tell you that Russia is lovely in the Spring..
For the beginning of this season it’s just the opposite.
Because right now it’s actually a dirty, muddy and mucky affair.
Walking around town is like trying to navigate a maze filled with mud traps, oil slicks and slushy pools of black water.
For example you need to be constantly vigilant of the cars which pass by you on the streets.. Get to close to them and in an instant you will badly need a trip to the car wash like they do.
To make matters worse there are no run-off gutters or drainage systems so the black and oily water just sloshes back and forth in the streets as the traffic moves and the cold breeze blows.
Now if this wasn’t treacherous enough there are still plenty of places where the solid sheets of ice haven’t completely melted so you are forced to walk on extremely slippery patches that could easily put you on your posterior in a second. This is often the time when the most accidents happen and unfortunately it’s usually the older folks who suffer the most from this.
So just when you are about to think that any sane human being would wear serious water proof hiking boots in these conditions..
You look around and see legions of Russian Women somehow managing to traverse all of this with their delicate walks in fashionable high heel boots.
While it’s a total given that my own shoes will always get dirty in such conditions for some strange reason the footwear on these ladies always appear to be spotless.
As you watch the weather changing you will also see the beautiful fashions change too.
So along with the new colors schemes that these Ladies start to wear also comes newly bright and optimistic expressions on their faces.
The changes you see with these Women in the Spring Time are nothing short of dramatic.
Because I’m sure that you will never witness a more positive shift in feminine energy if you ever get the pleasure of seeing this phenomena for yourself.
When I see these emotions at work the first words that come to my mind are…
Playful & Cheerful.
And because of this I have often asked myself just how a seasonal warming trend in the Earth’s atmosphere could possibly bring about such big changes in the attitude of these Ladies.
So many times I have seen them glancing skyward with a wispy smile and a dreamy expression and just wondered at it all.
So when I’ve asked some of my female acquaintances to tell me what their thoughts about the Spring are…
Their discussion always seems to revolve around finding a crazy little thing called..
L O V E
There is a glimmer in their eyes and a noticeable sigh in their breath as they think and ponder this..
And then they verbally confess about their hopes for a “Real Man” who will soon approach them..
Or in the more subdued but nevertheless impactful way that these Ladies say it..
Spring is the time when a Man should want to make an acquaintance with us and openly show his intentions.
Now does it need to get any clearer then that???
Because I imagine that if these girls ever got around to posting a personal ad in the newspaper I’m sure that the most important condition listed would be..
Shy Guys Need Not Apply.
So to me what all of this means is quite simple and clear.
Mating Season Gentlemen.. is here.
And there are countless Girls jockeying for a chance to be at the Starting Gate of Love.
So when I think about these many Incredible Ladies that are in waiting..
I can’t help but want to ask a personal question to all of you Men out there..
What are you going to do about it?
Because as the days grow..
Their wish for romance grows too.
And as the temperature rises..
So to does their dreams for passion.
March 22, 2007 at 9:28 pm
You are a joy and pleasure to read GL.
I am always marvelling at your wit.
Sensitive like crystal,
Subtle like sledgehammer, yes?
March 22, 2007 at 10:58 pm
Perhaps RW are much more intouch with their mothering instincts than other women are.
March 23, 2007 at 12:39 am
So spring is the time to plant seed to have soft squeezable peaches in the summer. (Georgia does have nice peaches
I agree with canajun, GL you are the Hemingway of Siberia, only you are not writing about big fish but something more desirable.
Thank you again for your vision and interpretation of a woman’s desire.
March 23, 2007 at 4:04 am
Canajun & Ceiver,
Thanks you so much for your appreciation and encouragement.
This blog was actually my first serious attempt at writing and I never realized that my observations and thoughts could be expressed in this manner. However it’s certainly something that I’m very happy about because of the impact it has on people like you.
BTW I’m completely flattered to be compared to Hemmingway.
He had a colorful life and I think his writings were also inspired by his adventures and travels.
Cheers, GL
March 23, 2007 at 4:06 am
Wolverine,
I would say that your assumption is an accurate one.
Motherhood seems to be a much more natural deal here for some reason. And I’ve seen it so many times.
GL
March 23, 2007 at 5:13 am
Not to call RW cows, but in the early spring, female cows start looking for a suitable bull, and the bulls fight among themselves to see who is the most fit.
Horses start getting restless, and stalions get rambunctious and will fight with each other.
It’s the time of year for mating, which is what I meant by mothering instincts.
March 23, 2007 at 6:47 am
GL,
Your writing about Springtime in Siberia is making me so HOMESICK for that place…
Well I’m currently searching for possible flights on the internet right now because of your words!
(Guess my work projects here in the States will have to wait for a few more months until I return to finish them)
I really do enjoy reading your words - your observations are impeccable.
Thanks for your work!
TB
March 23, 2007 at 6:50 am
Thank you TB..
Sorry to make you so Homesick
But if I was away from this place to I’m sure I would feel the same way. GL
March 23, 2007 at 8:57 pm
Hi GL,
Got to say (at risk of sounding like I’m repeating a lot of what everyone else seems to be saying), that I truly find your site interesting and informative.
After reading several long pages of comments and views, from yourself and others, I can understand whole heartedly where most of your comments are coming from.
I too have has the great fortune of having met, and am currently involved in a relationship with a Russian woman, in her early 20’s, I am 29 myself. We met in the romantic city of Prague where I have since returned to visit her twice since and am planning another visit soon (We are in contact regularly by phone text etc).
I can definately say that you are also spot-on with the comments about Russian women’s personality and that they have a more appealing persona and attitude towards family life than perhaps many more career orientated women of USA or western Euorope. I myself am from England, but the principle is the same.
As for the comments on Russia in the springtime - well honestly I can not comment, as I have never been to Russia. But my Russian girlfriend and I plan to travel throughout: Eastern Europe, Asia and Russia together soon, I will see for myself. I can only assume that it will be a similar picture to the one you so romantically paint above.
Anyway it is interesting to read and I will keep returning regularly to keep abreast with new disscussions.
Thanks again, it is very refeshing to stumble upon such a well thought out and interesting site.
Ps. Hope I put this comment in the correct part of your site, as I am new to this.
Thanks
March 23, 2007 at 10:06 pm
Are those women starting to wear less clothing yet?
March 24, 2007 at 4:25 am
Yeah, and can we expect some visuals?
March 24, 2007 at 12:10 pm
Hi Tom Thumb,
Thanks for joining us and I’m glad you like the site and can see for yourself some of the things I am talking about.
It certainly sounds like you have a wonderful woman in your life right now. And I’m very happy to see how much you treasure here since a woman like this is exceptionally rare where you are from in the UK and the rest of the Western Countries.
I hope by now you are excited enough to share the great news about these women to your other friends who could also benefit from this kind of relationship.
In the meantime please continue to write and contribute to this blog.
Thanks Again Tom..
Cheers, GL
March 24, 2007 at 12:13 pm
Hero and Craig,
I’ve noticed a few brave ladies wearing skirts with cold weather leg warmers. There is also the fact that people are starting to put away their winter caps and the long flowing hair styles are starting to come out again.
GL
March 24, 2007 at 1:50 pm
Wow, it must be like having front-row tickets for the Miss Universe pageant every day!
March 24, 2007 at 4:41 pm
Yes.. except.. that many of the girls here could honestly wipe-out most of what I see on any of those pageants either with Miss America or Miss Universe.
March 24, 2007 at 5:21 pm
Speaking of that, I just found out that a Russian lady I work with is the mother of Natalia Glebova, Miss Universe 2005.
March 24, 2007 at 6:33 pm
Ha ha, GL, that’s exactly what I was thinking, especially after I saw the Miss USA pageant last night.
March 24, 2007 at 6:51 pm
Yeah, especially Mascha and Alona.
March 24, 2007 at 7:32 pm
You have a great site about Russian Women. I’ve been to this blog many times in the past, read many of your great articles but this is the first time I ever posted.
I wish I could be in Russia in spring but I’ll goto St. Petersburg Russia in the last two weeks of September which would be the start of autumn season.
I just bought an independent movie from Amazon called A Foreign Affair (aka 2 Brothers and A Bride )http://www.aforeignaffair.net and it shows lots of great looking St. Petersburg women and the St. Petersburg city itself with great historical buildings and sites. Of course I’m against anything that deals with ‘Romance Tours’ as I believe in traveling by yourself or with friends and not with any kind of organized tours.
Anybody ever been to St. Petersburg? How its people and its women are like there? I’ve heard lots of men from Finland go to St. Petersburg. I also heard its the 2nd largest city in Russia and its the largest northernmost city with a population over 1 million.
Keep up with the great blog about Russian Women and their culture.
March 24, 2007 at 8:26 pm
Hi Evergreen,
Wow you’ve been reading this blog all this time and never stopped in to say hi??
What took you so long partner
Anyways glad to have you aboard.
I’m sure someone who has been to St. Pete will answer your questions soon.
Thanks for your compliment and please tell your friends.
Cheers GL
March 26, 2007 at 3:42 pm
All Hails!
Aunt Natalia has something to say about high heel boots.
http://russianwomenspeak.wordpress.com/2007/03/26/high-heels-fashion-and-morals-of-russian-women-good-or-not/
…as well as on the issues of recent discussions, plus some frequent searches I trace in my blog stats. You think we don’t know what the guys are googling for? ;b
First coats are off here in Kiev. Good Spring, Gentlemen!
March 28, 2007 at 12:12 am
Evergreen,
You ask about St Petersburg women. You have probably heard that both Moscow and St Petersburg are very much ‘European’ cities, whereas the rest of Russia is…well more ‘Russian’ ie. the real Russia. Where the people and the culture etc. are more typical. Not to say that St Petersburg isn’t very pretty. Which of course it is. And not to say that you will not meet beautiful women. Which again I’m sure you will. It’s just that, well, maybe if you want a taste of real Russian life maybe you should look beyond these two major cities. If you’re not sure ask the other guys - maybe I’m wrong. Anyway I’m sure you’ll have a great trip. But if you want to meet a women of the kind mentioned here, I personally would suggest another town / city where they’ve haven’t neccessarily seen it all before.
Regards,
Tom Thumb
March 28, 2007 at 3:43 pm
Evergreen,
The above comment I left may not have been much use to you. Anyway, in case you want a general overview of St Petersburg you may want to take a look at the site:
http://www.saint-petersburg.com It’s quite an in depth guide and professionally presented.
Maybe the other guys will be able to point you in the right direction with regards to what the women in st Petersburg are like.
Tom Thumb
April 30, 2007 at 3:56 am
Who is more correct?
The Russians who say that no Russian guys or girls can be trusted to be loyal when they already have someone? Or,
The Russians who say that when she has a guy, what’s the advantage to changing to another Dick?
I think about your story of Matt’s Moscow cab ride with the BJ business girl and then this story about the female psych of “come hither boys and show me you’re interested”.
Human nature being what it is, what percentage in which 5 year sets say yes and no?
Now I’m thinking about all the men who haven’t met “her” yet and whose prospective sweetie is out and about getting hit on more and more as everything “warms up”. The ol’ question of long distance fidelity? And the other one of fidelity before in person meeting.
One of my Russian friends says that most will grab some extra and lie about the fidelity at a distance. She was one of them. She got caught thanks to technology.
Another special someone in my life told me that most Russian women will tell a guy one thing at a distance and do another—proclaiming undying love in between the horizontal mambo with the locals.
Many Russian women even feel that it is bad for their health if they go too long without it.
Well, maestro? What’s the word on this whole fidelity question while at a distance? And what does your beloved have to say about it?
Come on, fess up.
April 30, 2007 at 9:20 am
Let me address this most sensitive subject…
There is a Russian equivalent to the proverb, “Out of sight, out of mind”. Distance is always felt to make relationships less realistic. One has higher levels of loss expectations. It can result in suspicion, or “safety networking”. On the other hand, in the time of great choice you’re always on the watch, until you feel, no, really, totally absorbed and determinate. (The more time you spend together, the easier this feeling develops.)
When two are a couple which has to spend some time apart, fidelity entirely depends on their personal degrees of intimacy vs. privacy need. If there are high (and equal) needs for privacy, parting to meet again is invigorating. Anyway, it’s essential that both have interests in life to fill the times apart, so they have no need to seek someone to replenish their inner emptinesses.
But there is no such thing as “fidelity before meeting”. Bee Ass. There is no union to break yet!
Comments after a quotation…
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It is harmful to be jealous of the woman’s past (which is history), and to be suspicious about her present (until you are an established couple, - meaning you have been together long enough, and declared your mutual commitments through serious explicit words and deeds.)
Long correspondence, regular phone calls, even visits and visas are important landmarks to distinguish “more serious intentions” from “games” and “slow mess-about”, but they are no obligations yet, - in fact, being just organizational prerequisites that physically enable two people to try each other as possible partners and try on the couple roles together. Guarantees are given in the Church and / or Registry…
(From my http://russianwomenspeak.wordpress.com/2006/12/18/faithful-without-chastity-belt-why-need-not-be-jealous-for-a-russian-wife-or-bride/)
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Still, for the sake of people’s proprietory instincts and personal vulnerability, it is deemed bad manner to speak about other candidates. Telling there is someone else is either a manipulation, or a discouragement.
There are women seeking for a good man no matter where, so locals are competitors to foreigners for them. There are women convinced that Russian men as such are no marriage material, but may be only good for “maintaining shape” in order not to unlearn dealing with menkind (in communications other than sexual, as well). And there are women in the process of international search. Pressed for time in learning each other, some resort or agree to the express methods of exploration…
Let me not pass judgements, but there are roughly two types of women who are serious about meeting Real Love (sometimes they slide between these ideologies). The first ones neglect any man who’s not going to be The One (”why waste even seconds?”). Others keep their wooers near (with or without sex), never considering them a compromise on their dream to Settle Down (which dream is urgent or delayed, but essential). These wooers, not too serious themselves, aren’t even worth mentioning when it comes to Only You.
(Oh, English-speaking manner and Russian language have some devaluing effect on the word “love”. This is why many people prefer to censor it out of their speech until they mean Commitment, and get irritated hearing premature oaths.)
Many people, men and women as well, need to “fill their impression album” before belonging to one person, to be sure that he/she’s the match. They even tend to be more faithful than those who realize “oh, there IS difference, how could I have condemned myself to this one, and how scanty my previous lifetime was”.
So, the bottom line is - “relaxed awareness…”
More on modern rivalry in One in a Million: “Beauties.Ru / Jealousy.net / Surfeit.com”
http://russianwomenspeak.wordpress.com/2006/10/06/million-russian-brides-and-men-online-jealousy-surfeit/
Sincerely, Comrade Natalia
August 4, 2007 at 3:45 am
You’re blog sounds suspiciously like it was planted by a Russian Bridal agency.
August 9, 2007 at 5:26 am
Hi Nathan..
Sorry but your wrong dude.. It’s a blog first and foremost and stands on it’s own..
GL