I would like to wish everyone of you Ladies and Gentlemen an Incredibly Happy New Years.
I’ve had a little bit of time to reflect just how much my life has advanced since I’ve been out here dealing with these incredible women.
I think the most important thing to contemplate for all of us Men is how much you yourself can grow from the experience of having a special woman like this in your life.
It’s easy to think about what will “she” do and how can “she” adjust if and when you finally match up and start a new life together. However to focus primarily on this I believe would be a mistake.
I truly believe it really comes down to how much you as a Man can change for her. Because trust me on this guys. If you find the right one then this is what you will need to do.
And yes she will benefit from it.. but I believe that you will even more.
A final 2007 note..
Gentlemen make sure you wish any Russian Lady that you are communicating with an enthusiastic Happy New Years too. This should go without saying but remember that this is the biggest holiday in the year for them and gifts are traditionally given at this time and not so much on Christmas.
Take care everyone.. May your dreams of love, health and success all come true..
GL
January 2, 2008 at 5:24 am
I wish you Health…
So you may enjoy each day in comfort.
I wish you the Love of friends and family…
And Peace within your heart.
I wish you the Beauty of nature…
That you may enjoy the work of God.
I wish you Wisdom to choose priorities…
For those things that really matter in life.
I wish you Generousity so you may share…
All good things that come to you.
I wish you Happiness and Joy…
And Blessings for the New Year.
I wish you the best of everything…
That you so well deserve.
January 3, 2008 at 6:27 am
GL, great site. I think you are correct, adjustments go both ways between the woman and the man. So many men think that an FSU woman has to become “westernized”.
Unfortunately they forget that she has a life and a culture that existed before they met.
Unless they realize that they must grow together, they will have rocky paths ahead.
Happy New Year!
Alyona
January 4, 2008 at 7:11 am
Hello Alyona!
Thanks for the great compliment. I truly believe that I’m a better man for adopting many tradtional values and customs that Ladies like you cherish in your Men. American or Western culture can be pretty face paced and fad oriented at times and this can create it’s own problems. Nice to know that somethings should never change.
Cheers, GL
January 5, 2008 at 1:13 pm
General Comment:
This is my first post on the site although I have been a long-time reader.
I live in New York City and have recently met a Russian woman. I have known her for about two months and we have been on officially 3 dates over the past month but we communicate everyday and I speak to her on the phone a few times a week. I wanted to report that I think that she is the most amazing woman I have ever met.
She likes it when I hold the door open for her or when I help her put on her jacket. In fact, before our first date she asked if I would pick her up. (This is unique because in my 8 years of dating in New York City most of the time women want to “meet you there”.) She is one of the most determined people I know. Academics is very important to her and she works harder than she should but yet remains very feminine.
In contrast, before meeting this woman, over the past 2 years I have gone out on literally 40 first dates. Only twice did I go on 2nd dates. Until now, I finally met someone that I want to spend time with.
January 5, 2008 at 1:23 pm
Hello thk103,
Sounds like a great blooming romance.. Please keep us posted on your progress and your insights into this fine Russian Lady.
Pretty amazing dating statistics too.. 40 times out with various American Girls.. and out of the blue the first Russian Girl you date you have good initial compatibility and chemistry it seems..
Congrats..
GL
January 5, 2008 at 1:42 pm
One more thing thk103..
You mentioned that you were a long time reader of this site and I assume that this is the first Russian Woman you’ve gotten a chance to know in detail.
So how much on target are we with the material you’ve read in this blog?
Thanks again,
GL
January 6, 2008 at 12:46 am
“I truly believe it really comes down to how much you as a Man can change for her.”
I was at the Laundromat and I noticed a couple that was there with their newborn baby. I don’t know if they were married but if they were they obviously tied the knot on a shoe string. They smoked, had on rag tag clothes and everywhere their skin shown was covered with tattoos. Both of them had numerous piercings, including her tongue she would stick out at the baby. Cute.
I asked myself, “What does he see in her and what does she see in him?” The answer is… he puts up with her because she puts up with him. What they have might be helter-skelter but they are apparently doing something right because they have each other. The world is full of codependent relationships and I continue to stand alone on my principles. I need to change something… there is so much I have to learn. My whole approach toward women is not working. Maybe I can start by developing some bad habits.
Cigarette anyone,
Mick
January 12, 2008 at 2:08 am
Hello all. I am new here. I have been corresponding by e-mail with a lady who lives in the Ukraine for about 1 month. This has been an eye-opening experience for me. Typically I write her much longer letters to her than her response is to me. That is ok. I have read here that can be expected.
My question is this: With valentine’s day approaching I am wondering if it would be acceptable or considered inappropriate for me to send this young lady roses for valentine’s day? she is 25 I am 39.
thank you in advance for your response(s).
January 12, 2008 at 11:22 pm
Hi Brad,
I think it’s an EXTREMELY GOOD Idea to send your lady flowers on Valentines day.. She probably secretly would love to get them from you but might not think it’s possible or easy to do.
Remember Odd Numbered count of flowers/roses and don’t use yellow ones..
GL
January 17, 2008 at 12:45 am
rw_man,
I have a few questions i would like to ask you. I have seen the services you offer. whatever i need to do is fine. You (hopefully) have my e-mail address. please contact me.
thanks,
brad