Greetings Everyone,
I’ve been especially impressed with the quality and depth of the latest discussions being initiated by some of you.
You individuals have deep insight and important points to convey in your posts and I of course greatly appreciate all of the wisdom that you have to share collectively.
For example, these last few threads related to the disastrous consequences of competition within a marriage is quite valuable and I’m sure large numbers of our readers will benefit greatly from the various points made.
We are getting a growing number of comments posted and I may not be able to answer all of them in a timely manner since I’m trying to focus on providing as much quality content for you as possible.
Please do not think that I’m ignoring anything that’s said here because on the contrary I’m glued to my PC following every aspect of this blog just like many of you it seems.
Because of this I feel a special responsibility to move this site forward as much as possible and that simply means that like all of us I have a little prioritization to do.
In the meantime many of you are stepping up to the plate and taking up the slack with your own written inspirations which I enthusiastically encourage you to do.
This is because there is no doubt that your continued and impassioned participation serves as the key catalyst for the growth and evolution of this blog. And as I read what some of you have posted there are many moments when my intuition tells me that we are close to achieving a breakthrough in our ability to reach out to many others who are in real need of a different perspective in life.
We have yet to know exactly how these breakthroughs will materialize but we do know that it will only serve to generate more momentum and validation to help us honor what is in our hearts in order to start a realistic quest for true and lasting love.
We certainly have our work cut out for us because for now we are still in the minority and the forces of ignorance, apathy and scorn are always around the corner.
Most of us intimately understand these adversaries but we dare not bow our heads, retreat or express even the slightest apologies for what we know is right for our own identities as Men.
We will take our stand and make no excuses because we are addressing one of the most critical issues of our time and that is the stability and happiness that we wish to collectively create for ourselves and our future families.
The majority of us are Men who simply understand that for every ounce of hard work and dedication we put into building our lives up..
We must be equally vigilant with whom we choose to share our labors of love with.
Many of us once believed that finding a True Lady who could compliment and inspire us to a higher level of True Manhood was a fools dream.
But now with the existence of this worthy gathering we now have a budding sanctuary and training ground for like minded and free thinking individuals who refuse to accept the destructive status-quo of Western Society along with the anti-family direction that it has tragically taken.
We will continue to create a free market of ideas where the open exchange of two of the most valuable commodity in life are justifiably promoted..
And that would simply be…
- Hope & Optimism
Gentlemen, we have a real opportunity to strengthen our vision of the world by strengthening ourselves simply by defining our own path and actually walking it.
And I know from experience that real magic happens when you finally decide to walk a path that’s true.
Because only at this point will you finally see a beautiful woman walking besides you..
Who is true for you..
Now clearly we Men do not hold any monopoly on walking this line.
And this is why I want to make a special point to also welcome a significant number of you like minded Western and FSU Ladies who also wish to stand and deliver.
You Ladies are here for an equally important reason and it is my hope that what continues to come forth from this site will also be of much value with your own quest for real..
- Love
- Happiness
- Understanding
All of which are firmly rooted within the enduring Beauty, Allure and Mystery of a Woman’s Feminine Soul.
As a Man, I could never dream of teaching you these things.
But as a Man, I can hope to stir you to remember what they are.
Because after all..
You were born with them.
Just as much as everyone of us Men are intentionally encoded with a wide spectrum of impulses and desires which all lead us to you.
And this is a simple but profound beauty which all of us must protect..
Because in the final analysis..
It is the only thing which protects all of us.
- GL
March 28, 2008 at 7:14 pm
Your comments as the comments of many others in here are inspiring. Hopefully I am able to contribute as much as I am taking from all this.
In the end its all about sharing our lifes with someone with whom out of our realization as men we find never ending happiness.
Most things worth having are difficult to obtain. They take work and there are no free meals. A relationship should be hard but fun work for both parties envolved. Out of this hard work and dedication towards each other life acquires different colors.
Thank you GL for your insights, also thank you for all the posters here since even if I agree or disagree with your statements I always learn and grow towards a better future full of love and happiness.
T.
March 28, 2008 at 8:53 pm
Beautiful!
March 29, 2008 at 12:02 am
Though I came to know a mirror-opposite saying, - more known on this side of the globe is: “Men are born, women are made”. It implies not only transition from virginity, but constant effort at making oneself “a work of Art out of a work of Nature”. Men’s eyes are precious mirrors that Russian women are checking themselves by, and you GL are one of truest mirrors. )
Ladies and Gentlemen, may this post encourage us to observe our host’s and fellow guests’ effort and attention so as
- to refrain from off-topics (political flood, quarreling, etc.)
- and to help cross-link mutually relevant threads.
Forgive me, Father, if I’ve sinned.
Disciple Natalia
March 29, 2008 at 12:43 am
I have really enjoyed the content and caliber of the discussions here. It is truly reassuring to know that this site is growing the way it is. GL you’re input is always greatly valued and appreciated in any discussion that you can drop by in. Natalia thank you so much for your valued input as well, your perspective is very valuable to us here.
One of the things I see here and soak up as much as possible is the wisdom of the posts. They are very, very insightful and express an insight and vision that I wouldn’t have been able to see on my own. GL is right in conveying how valuable these posts really are to this site. I look foward to our future discussions.
Regards,
SiSD
March 29, 2008 at 12:44 am
Hear, hear GL.
I always await new posts, because they always hit me right between the eyes.
I said in another post: http://russianwomen.wordpress.com/2008/03/18/a-real-russian-woman-maschas-video-q-a-part-1/
that it was so much easier to go other places, but everybody already knows about those other places. How many easy, low stress jobs pay huge salaries? Risk/Reward. I also said in another post that we might not have this opportunity forever. One day the door might slam shut again. It should be hard. It should be, and is, noble.
I think Mascha and women like here (Maschaites?) are the future. They have persevered, and are starting to thrive as more opportunity comes their way. Everyone that posts here understand the Western Market, no point in lamenting that in repetition. I believe on day that the Maschaites will reign supreme as the world beats a past to their doorstep. I equally believe that their Western counterparts will no longer be lamented over as they will become part of the “Ash heap of history” if I may use that phrase in a reversal of fortune way.
March 29, 2008 at 3:20 am
Excellent post, GL.
I’ve been reading this post over and over to get the “osmosis” of it. The more I read that post, the more emotional I become. I was tearing a bit in the end. I really want to thank you for all of your wisdoms and thoughts including those comments by people.
Frankly, I know way deep down in my desires to have a real and beautiful lady with real traditional family values. I have my values that I always stand by, and I never, ever, ever give up my real values for lower standards. No matter how culture or people are trying to make me to settle down for less or pull me down to their own levels, I will never, ever, ever give up my own family values and standards for less. I have my own standards that feels right and is absolute truth for me.
While it’s nice to have all investment vehicles for financial freedom, they are not everything, and they don’t give us true happiness. They are just tools to allow us to enjoy high quality time with true and trusting relationships with people. To me, what I would really want to have deep down is to enjoy being with family like playing card games together, talking together as a family, working together as a family.
Someday in the future, I am going to build a nice dacha as a get-away place for us and the whole family to enjoy high quality time together like playing games together and doing some fun stuff together. Something like playing guitar and singing in all Russian song, and let all people dancing to the tune of music. All of the great time! It’s something to get away from the distractions of the electronics such as cell phones, PDAs, computers and so on and spend real quality time with people. A type of environment where family and kids would really love to be involved with.
Ladies, I really want to thank you all for your participation of this blog. I really appreciate all of your insights and comments. You provide hope and optimism for men to enjoy the dream of real and true love without politics or war involved. I think that real and true love and relationship is something that is so precious that we don’t want to let go of. It’s much more valuable than tangible goods like money in the bank account, businesses, cars and so on.
Thank you all for the posts and comments. I appreciate all of you!
March 29, 2008 at 2:43 pm
Looking over the past 40 years in the West, there have been two obstacles to women’s being able to develop themselves as Real Women: (a) feminism (the obvious one), and (b) the complaints made by men in the 1960s that belittled women for being women. I do believe that feminism began as a reaction to that “brainless broad” mentality, but it quickly got out of hand, to the point where women now do to men the very thing they themselves abhorred.
My point is that 40 years down the pike, now, it’s almost impossible for Western women to remember what it was like to be a woman, or even how to be a Real Woman. Speaking for myself, I’m just beginning to recover that awareness now — and I’ll never see 50 again — and it’s the Russian girls who are showing the way! But I *am* determined to recover my femininity, and hope that this blog will serve as encouragement to other Western women who are beginning to realize that relearning femininity is well worth it.
Thanks for having this blog here — I always enjoy reading it, and always learn from it.
March 30, 2008 at 6:15 am
I thank everyone deeply for your comments.
I am grateful if you are inspired by what I’ve written but it is only because I am completely inspired by the true womanhood which surrounds me.
I never fully understood the meaning of the phrase “my muse” until I came here.
I’m pretty sure I get it now..
And this is an understanding that I wish for all of you.
GL
April 26, 2008 at 5:35 am
Mrs Mutton is absolutely right,
The new wave of feminism doesn’t even realize what it truly is. Western women that are reaching adulthood now aren’t even being recognized as feminists. They are simply the product of a feminist culture and act as such. The Cultural Marxism movement is in full swing and the next generation or two is going to bear the brunt of it. The family unit will be destroyed and the next generation will bear its ugly face.
I HIGHLY recommend that everyone look at the links page and view the sites about cultural marxism. I was completely on the left until I started finding out about the cultural marxism that is affecting us today. My position has shifted drastically towards the right simply due to my newfound respect for the power of the traditional family unit.
SiSD