If you read my earlier story about meeting Inessa and her lovely family..
You might recall that I was pretty stunned by the level of warmth and hospitality that I received from them when I came to Siberia.
In short I was incredibly moved..
I had a feeling that something special like this was going to happen so I decided to come prepared.
Earlier before my arrival I took it upon myself to take a collection of photos I had of Inessa and had combined them into a collage for her and her mother.
I created a nice 8 x 10 glossy.. framed it nicely.. and then embellished it with some decent wrapping paper.
After dinner the right moment presented itself and I pulled a blanketed glass picture frame out of a bag.
There is really no way I could have justifiably captured that singular moment when Inessa and her lovely mother unwrapped it..
But I can show you what they received…
And I think you can probably figure out if at this moment there was more then just a simple smile on both of their beautiful porcelain like faces.
June 24, 2008 at 1:19 pm
Class!
June 24, 2008 at 2:48 pm
exellent job!! lovely faces and photos…
you are so genuine in your intrest to RW, your love shines from every photos you take.
June 25, 2008 at 1:41 am
Good work, GL. Thanks for continuing to share your experiences. Good manners and fine gestures will never go out of style.
June 25, 2008 at 11:54 pm
Inessa is very beautiful and your pictures of her are fantastic. Her warmth and your love for her shows in your photos. It was very nice of you to take the time to make a collage for her and her family, and frame it. Handmade gifts are always a thoughtful gesture…..:-)
Taras
June 26, 2008 at 5:54 am
Thanks everyone,
It was alot of fun to make this gift. In fact it’s alot of fun to be capturing and displaying the beautiful images on this site period..
It didn’t require any money to do. But I know from experience that these types of gifts are the best.
Cheers..
GL
June 26, 2008 at 11:58 am
She is simply gorgeous.
June 26, 2008 at 1:39 pm
Hi Cody,
She sure is.. and that is not just with her appearance either I assure you..
GL
June 27, 2008 at 4:26 am
I really don’t want to shower her pictures with a bunch of compliments. I greatly appreciate how much she has been taking care of her appearance and her inner soul. I want to be able to see through her appearance to find out about her real heart and soul. When I looked much further than just her appearance in her pictures, her sparkle beauty and inner soul really caught my attention. Her soulful “energy” is way beyond the pixels of Inessa’s pictures. It’s hard to describe it in words. This attractive energy just got me to smile and feel like really want to get to know her as a person.
What made the pictures and this blog so beautiful is the display of honest and beautiful art of femininity. Femininity is a real art that cannot be described in words. It’s really come down to heart and soul of girls. I really want to explain it, but I am having a hard time to do it. I really don’t know how I can use words to describe the art of femininity… The pictures really tell the whole story of true soul of femininity. A perfect example of beautiful art of femininity is one of pictures from this blog where one of two ladies in a white dress is picking up and smelling a white flower. This scenario is really defines the beautiful art of femininity created by the “universe.” It’s a God-like display of femininity.
Unfortunately, this beautiful art is already lost here in the USA as most girls choose to reject femininity and embrace masculinity so they would think they can do it like a man and compete with men for jobs, career and trying to be in charge of relationships. In top of that mentality, they display themselves as men as they possess so short hair like typical man hair cut and wearing manly clothes. Just today, I came across a young lady in her late teen with a very short hair wearing a dress while she walked on the side walk. I’m wondering… where is the true art of femininity??? I really miss seeing this beautiful art.
In the meantime, I’ve been debating with myself about the idea of going to Russia to share my ideas and methods for my work with those Russian people as well as get to know those ladies as friends and possibily having one of them as my true best friend and life-time companion. If I’d like to raise a family with one of those ladies, I’ve been debating with myself about the reality of this kind of relationship. My issues with this kind of relationship is:
1. Cost – it costs a lot of money of having to travel back and forth between the US and Russia. If we want to go back and forth to meet with our family and friends every year, we’d have to budget more money for this traveling expenses. What would be the best way to make it work???
2. Communication/Language/Cultural Barrier – to meet someone as a potential best friend, this language barrier makes this kind of relationship much more challenging. The bottom line for any relationships that lasts is true and heartful communication and compatibility. How would I be able to get really to know her soul if we cannot be able to communicate in the same language? How would we be able to easily click with each other on a soul level? What about the similar values that we were raised in? Family Support System? Nuisances? Similar philosophy about life? Socioeconomics? I have not lived in Russia long enough to really understand her true background and how she developed her own beliefs and values. She may or may not understand my perspectives from my American background. So, how would we be able to understand each other since we were raised with different backgrounds?
In the meantime, I would rather to have a lot of intellectual discussions like science, spirituality, philosophy and thoughts about life. I can communicate it in English, but I am not at a level of fluency in Russian yet. I tend to get so bored if I can’t be able to have intellectual discussions. I’d have to study Russian textbooks concerning science, philosophy, spirituality and etc…
3. Family/Friends issues – I may be seen as a foreigner in her family. How would I be able to get along with her family if I cannot be able to communicate in their language? I would feel being left out in their interactions if I can’t speak our language. It also applies to our friends. What about our families being able to communicate to each other to bring our families together? We would have to act as translators to facilitate the communication between our families in order to bring them together as a whole family unit. It’d ensure that our families show each other the similar values so they can feel comfortable and trust each other. It may also apply to our friends.
4. Dealing with Government, Politics and Bureaucracy concerning the international relationships. It means more paperwork and dealing with legal and political issues. It’s no big deal, but I would be ruthless and do anything I can to the best of my ability to protect our “territory” if they are trying to harm or destroy our relationships and family.
In spite of these challenges and issues, the main question… Is it really worth the time and effort to pursue this endeavor? I don’t know. I will just travel to there for vacation to see for myself so I can be able to answer this question better.
For those of you who have been there, done that, is it really worth the time and effort???
June 27, 2008 at 6:47 am
I don’t think you will get many interesting responses to your question. All the men here will say something along the lines of, “My Anya is my light, my life, my soul, my whole world, and I am hers. She fills my every moment with Russian delight. She is the most beautiful, intelligent and selfless being to ever walk the face of the earth. Having her is priceless. I would walk barefoot over burning glass for her. Also, American girls are devil children.”
I think it’s more interesting your assumption that all women should act in a way that pleases you personally — that they should wear their hair long and allow you to have their job when they are better at it. That is pretty self-centred. You have no idea who that short-haired girl in a dress was, or why she chose to dress that way. (Unless you used your magical powers to assess her soul just by looking at her… Did you buy those online?) Perhaps she sees herself as edgy, or high fashion. Perhaps she is trying to attract an amusing hipster rather than an aging pseudo-intellectual. Perhaps she is a lesbian. Newsflash: most women who have other options don’t want you. By all means, choose a wife that suits you. But leave the rest of us alone!
Also, regarding women competing for your job: It’s a big world and there’s a lot of competition out there. Rather than trying to get rid of the opposition, I suggest you focus on getting better at your job.
June 27, 2008 at 8:58 pm
Dawn,
I’m disappointed in your response..
I’m going to point out something to you and your probably not going to like it..
If you want to try to ridicule or shame any man for having high emotions over a woman that he admires then you are in the wrong place..
And you are also in DENIAL because the majority of Women in this world would love to be on the receiving end of this level of adoration.
In fact the first thing that pops into my mind is your motive for doing it in the first place when you know darn well what the purpose of this site is.
The word JEALOUSY floats to the surface pretty prominently here.
In addition to that you’ve taken a very cheap and obvious SPIN against Men who simply admire traditional and feminine women by accusing us Men as thinking that
“all women should act in a way that pleases you personally”
Did I or any other man here ever say or let alone imply it?
The answer is NO..
And if the answer is No..
Then that means there’s a pretty good chance that you are feeling pretty threatened by all of this discussion and illustrations of normal Russian Women right now..
If you can’t stand the heat…
GL
PS you might want to re-visit and read this post..
http://russianwomen.wordpress.com/2006/08/06/how-the-feminist-will-stop-you-from-having-a-russian-wife/
June 27, 2008 at 11:23 pm
Adding to what RW_Man said, women threaten men’s jobs on a continual basis. All it takes is one comment, gesture or mannerism that a woman misinterprets as a “hostile work environment” and that guy’s toast. No man in his right mind approached a woman in the work place unless it’s absolutely necessary to do his job.
RW_Man’s correct, your come across as threatened by men expressing admiration for these ladies. Most women apparently do not understand men at all, let alone the dire situation most of us are in. We don’t have the options women do, and given that men are in a catch-22 created by evil men and the eager help of man-hating feminists, we’re fighting back by either withdrawing from and avoiding women, voting with our feet and going to where we can find a woman who would appreciate us as spouse and a father to their children or both. Here most otherwise good men are forced to be alone, and large numbers of men alone are why we have gangs, violent revolutions, religious extremism and terrorism. Women here want to be married without being married to men. They want all the benefits but none of the obligations that go with being married. Don’t blame us for seeing this situation for what it is, a raw deal and we at best become distant and cold towards women. Many western women bit the hand that fed them for decades, now men are walking away from them. Western women created this miserable situation for themselves, now they will die alone, unhappy and childless for it. If you’re that unhappy and still young, you’re better off fixing your own life so you can marry and form a family of your own instead of attacking men who just want to be happy and women happy to be their wives. When you live for others, it gives your life meaning and purpose that benefits your well being as well as others. No man or woman is an island, and no man or woman can survive alone without the other.
Taras
July 1, 2008 at 10:21 am
I’ve been reading this blog for a while now and thought it was time that I introduce myself. So hello everybody. I certainly agree that these women are very beautiful. But I can’t help but think that women everywhere are.
July 1, 2008 at 3:13 pm
To GL and Taras
Why would Western women be jealous of Russian women who can only aspire to attract one of the loser men we have rejected? Why would we be jealous of poverty, of drudgery and struggle, of spending hours each day making oneself attractive to bag a Russian man who will treat his wife like a slave? We can do anything we want, make any choice we like. We can be a dutiful wives, or we can have a wonderful career. We can have a large family, or travel alone until we die. We are free to create our own destiny.
Read what Yulia commented just a few days ago:
“Thank you very much, guys, for your high opinion of russian women. It’s so unusual. For most russian men we are just slaves who are supposed only to cook, clean everything up, bring up kids and take care of our husbands…they do not take us as individuals with our own wishes and needs.”
It sounds like a horrible existence. Slaves! Those poor women.
Jealousy is not the emotion I feel for them. I feel deep sadness and pity.
July 1, 2008 at 4:35 pm
GL, I just realised I might have implied you were a ‘loser man’… I’m so sorry, nothing is further from the truth! I think you are passionate, poetic, dynamic and entrepreneurial. I did not mean to insinuate that there were no exceptions!
July 1, 2008 at 5:27 pm
Hello Hazel,
Happy to know you’ve decided to make your entrance and introduce yourself so welcome.
Hazel yes you are right. Women around the world are beautiful there is no question about that.
But I do believe that a great deal of this can be entirely dependent on individual, cultural, historical, or regional perspectives.
Everyone has opinions on what they feel is beautiful.
I believe that Russian and FSU Women occupy a unique space in that they are nearly ubiquitously recognized as having a large percentage of women that are seen as “beautiful”.
And I need to look at the evidence behind this and attribute a large measure of the success and popularity of this site to this fact.
I have my opinions on this but I certainly look forward to you chiming into with your views as well.
GL
July 1, 2008 at 5:45 pm
Hello again
I’m not sure I have any fully formed views to be honest. My main reasons for being here are that I am studying Russian and as such am interested in all aspects concerning Russia and that beauty always fascinates me – be it male or female, people or nature.
I do agree that Russia has quite a large percentage of beauties. Certainly almost (with the exception of maybe one, but she was quite pretty on a good day as well) all of the Russian women I have met have been very beautiful. My dad happens to be in a relationship with one and I feel all the richer for knowing her (plus knowing her gives me an extra insight ito the country I’m studying so lucky me
)
Hazel
July 1, 2008 at 5:46 pm
Hi Dawn,
Again.. I’m a little perplexed by your last comment here.
To be honest with you your tone still sounds pretty defensive..
I say that because I’ve dealt with a ton of ticked off feminist on this site who aren’t able to present a logical argument and stick to the original point of debate.
They have an all too common tactic that I’ve literally seen with all of them..
And unfortunately you are starting to do the same..
Instead of taking their well deserved lumps on something insulting or ridiculous they said..
Their ego and denial prevents them from admitting that they made a mistake.. apologizing and moving on to a more productive discussion.
So what they do instead is this..
They always want to CHANGE the subject and try to take another shot at me or the Men here by spinning some other aspect of the site.
Basically it’s like arguing with a 6 year old.. or worse..
“well what about that!!”
“Oh yeah well remember the time you did THAT!”"
etc. etc. etc..
OK now that I’ve said that..
Please realize Dawn that I find it awfully strange that you say that you “Pity” Russian Women but you are quite a frequent visitor here.
Do you like to visit this site because you “Pity” these women?
Hmm… That sounds pretty strange to me Dawn..
I hate to say it but if that’s the case then it’s a little on the twisted side of things don’t you think?
Are you sure you like to visit this site because you “Pity” the Russian and FSU Women I talk about here?
Or…
Maybe you like to hang out with the “loser men” on this site that you as a western woman has rejected..
Hmm.. that’s even stranger if you really stop a moment to think about it Dawn..
Dawn we all have our moments irrationalities. That’s what makes us humans..
However I’ve learned a long time ago that ego would rather demand that we hold on to these irrationalities then to let humility in and let the mind correct itself.
I’m not trying to slam you because I honestly don’t think you are a lost cause like some of the other bitter western women who have come knocking in the past.
So I’d like to try to cut you some slack.. But it would sure help if you do the same for all of us too and be very honest as to why you like to spend your time here.
Take care of yourself.. GL
July 1, 2008 at 5:51 pm
I truly love your approach to life and learning Hazel..
Make sure you keep it up..
GL
July 1, 2008 at 6:00 pm
GL
Call it an anthropological interest. I’m interested in Scientologists, too, if that helps.
Dawn
July 1, 2008 at 6:05 pm
Laugh!!
I have to admit that’s the sly-est attempt at a cut down I’ve ever received..
Bravo Dawn..
You make me feel like a cave-man already
July 1, 2008 at 6:38 pm
Perhaps I should say more.
I find you (all) fascinating. My boyfriend cannot understand it. My friends cannot understand it. But the reason is this: I never run into people with your opinions in my daily life, and I want to understand why you feel the way you do. What has made Taras so angry? Does GL talk the way he writes? What ever happened to Luke S? What’s he like in real life? Is BK (the soul reader above) really that pretentious? Is this world that you see — this world of pain and disappointment I have never lived in — is this world really real where you live or is it a mass delusion in your heads? Are you helping each other or making it worse?
Face it guys, you’re an interesting bunch!
July 1, 2008 at 6:47 pm
I can’t imagine that aspect of me ever changing. But I’m sure we can find something to disagree on – I’m from feminist Scandinavia after all (at least partly)
July 1, 2008 at 7:02 pm
Dawn I would also find the TRUE things in life to be VERY Fascinating as well..
Especially if I was surrounded by a status quo that was too terrified to stand up and think for themselves or even to question the feminist cultural indoctrination which truly does exists in the US and abroad..
Just like what I believe is happening with you..
I’d have to say that it took a little while for me to adjust to the more obvious reality of the world vs. what our society tries to paint around us to believe.
So like I’ve implied before..
I know there’s a deeper reason why you’re here.. and it “ain’t” an anthropological fetish either.
You may not be ready to admit it to yourself or to the world yet and that’s ok..
But someday…
July 1, 2008 at 7:07 pm
Feminist Scandinavia eh?
Well Hazel..
I think you have a better thing going on being exposed to your father and his Russian Lady friend.
Trust me you’ll probably be much happier in the long run if you follow her lead.
Have a good one.. GL
July 1, 2008 at 7:20 pm
I’m not really “exposed” to them. They live in Vienna. To be honest I can see both points of view and am not at all certain I wouldn’t make a terrible mother. We’ll see, I guess. I’m still just trying to figure everything out so I guess that makes me no better than all those other Western women, right? Whatever the case I have great respect for Russian women (and for other women).
But whatever you think of me and my ways (or end up thinking), be assured that I do agree with you on some points (for instance that being well-groomed is a way to show your appreciation for each other as a couple). And, of course, it is everybody’s right to figure out what kind of life and family they want and then to go out and find a partner who wants the same things.
Hazel
July 1, 2008 at 9:28 pm
Dear Dawn,
I wrote only about what our men thought about us. it doesn’t mean that we ARE slaves in our own country. we’re also free to travel, to choose our destiny. I just meant that russian men did not appreciate what we were doing to them: our lust for having a strong and big family of our own, devoted husband, etc.
what poverty are you talking about? please, do not think in such a stereotyped, brainwashed way. Russia is not a poor country. I wonder, have you ever been here?
talking about ‘losers you rejected’. my fiance is a very wealthy french aristocrat, who is adored by a lot of french women. however, he loves me) he’s a smart, well-educated and attractive person. and I am sure that men in this group are not losers either.
why don’t you like us, russian women? what have we done to you so you ‘re trying to depreciate us?
ps: sorry for my language)
July 2, 2008 at 12:10 am
Dawn,
Every man I know that has a traditional wife, be it a Mexican, Brazilian, Philipina, asian, or Russian, is much happier than his counterpart with a westernized woman. These relationships are lasting testaments to successful, wonderful pairings and traditional strong values. The biggest smack in the face to the feminists is the women in these relationships are also way more satisified with their lives. They are all happy with their choices in terms of family vs. career and wouldn’t ever take their choices back. These relationships are solid, steady, and full of love and admiration for one another.
I’m not sure where the delusion is in this. I’m not sure why you think it’s wierd of us to want to pursue it. These couples are the truly the envy of their social circles. Even during parties and social outings they are the strongest, most affectionate, closest, most loving couples there. Is their love a delusion as well?
It’s rather ironic that the first feminists were looked upon in their time in the same way that you look at us now.
SiSD
July 2, 2008 at 12:13 am
Excellent point Hazel, that is exactly why some western men are interested in Russian women, despite the language and cultural differences.
Taras
July 2, 2008 at 1:08 am
Well put Sunny!
July 2, 2008 at 8:35 am
Sunny
It’s not weird to pursue happiness. Those couples sound lovely to me too.
Dawn
July 2, 2008 at 8:36 am
Yulia
Are you honestly saying there isn’t poverty in Russia (more than in the USA/Western Europe)?
I am not going to argue with you about your fiance. I hope you two are very happy and it sounds as if you will be.
By the way, your English is excellent — no need to apologise!
Dawn
July 2, 2008 at 2:58 pm
Dear Dawn,
Well, comparing with some European countries and the US, Russia is not so rich. however, we can afford everything you mentioned: “We can do anything we want, make any choice we like. We can be a dutiful wives, or we can have a wonderful career. We can have a large family, or travel alone until we die. We are free to create our own destiny”.
I told you about my fiance just to show that your remark that only losers are willing to have a russian wife is groundless.
and yes, thank you. we’re very happy) I hope you’re too.
best regards,
Yulia.
July 3, 2008 at 3:20 pm
I found a interesting article in nomarriage.com That I think all of us should read including the few women that comment on this blog. after reading this article i am sure everyone can agree why western women no longer makes suitable wives. I hope this shines some light on the subject. http://www.nomarriage.com/50s.html
Also, Yulia you sound very intelligent and it is a breath of fresh air to know that real women exist in this world.
July 3, 2008 at 10:47 pm
Thank you, RAB))) it’s great to know that there’re such men like yourself)))
I would like to correct what I wrote here before. Frankly, such notions as “career” “travelling” “family” are inseparable for our women.
Loads of women in russia have to combine both if not more. wthey’re devoted mothers and wives, they work as hard as they can, they always find time for their favourite passtime, travel a lot around Russia and the world. I have never seen a russian women complaining about her hard life, even if she has 2 or more works. it’s a must for them to follow the examples of their mothers and grannies. and probably here’s the difference: they do not choose only one possibility. and God forbid not to smile and be happy when your husband and kids are back home. it’s like a deadly sin.
probably western women are the same. I don’t know. but why on earth do men make complaints then?
July 4, 2008 at 6:31 am
That is a good point Yulia. Thank you for sharing some of your insight on the subject. I am amazed at how un-lady like the women here have became. From the way women dress, walk and talk, it is enough to make me sick. My father always told me since I was 16 not to marry an American girl but to marry a foreign women. I never understood what he meant but by the time my close friends all got divorces lost there homes/children to nagging ungrateful women who knew nothing about happiness just what they thought they should be entitled too.
July 4, 2008 at 4:56 pm
Hi everyone,
It just my opinion, I think we in the western world are more individual centered persons at least in average. And being so selfish becomes a problem when trying to build a long lasting relationship. Why? Its simple, its because we care more about ourselves than the relationship. This applies both to women and men alike.
I think Slavic women seem so appealing to us (western men) not just because they are beautiful, but also because they have grown in a culture were group (say family, friends, couple) is just as important as individual. So its easier to build a long lasting relationship. I mean its easier to grow up a project were not only is his/her career/desires/ideas is the important part.
I think I will be clearly stupid to go Eastern Europe trying to find a Slavic women to be a slave wife. Eastern women are intelligent, very well educated, sensible, sensitive and thinking people. I’m sure any of them will kick me out of their lives if I mistreat them.
And about money… it think Eastern Europe does not have a lot of money. I’m sure there is a lot of poor people. But they have faced a full cultural and economical change in the recent decades. As an example Czech Republic is becoming a free economy ranking 21/41 in their region and 37 worldwide, with is principal income taken from manufacture (meaning an industrialized country, not just tearing out their natural resources). They have a 9% unemployment rate. A rank of 41 in corruption, ahead of South Korea, Kuwait, Colombia and others which are USA close friends. And I think they are doing well, just because they have the human resources. They have a ~100% literacy rate, also they have good universities and are respected because of their science production. In fact the all the women I know from those countries have at least a bachelor degree, many of them in scientific areas (just opposed as western, where scientific areas are seen as men’s territory).
But to the other side, Eastern Europe has a far older culture than many modern American countries. They had the chance to take good things from socialist regimens, like giving importance to cultural, scientific and sport related activities as part of everyone’s life. At least the ones I know are used to read a lot, know how to appreciate art and think of money just as money not being the center of the universe.
So from a personal “anthropological” point of view there are a lot of things which make Eastern European women very appealing to western guys, not just the surface.
Best regards,
Sorry about my English but it is not my first language as you can guess.
July 4, 2008 at 7:23 pm
Hi Jim,
Thanks for your input on this. I think the countries like the Czech Republic and Poland are doing an outstanding job of moving ahead and lifting their people out of poverty.
And yes you are right.. Good cultural and personal values either taken from their families or from their society are a huge part of why these women are so valuable in the eyes of Men everywhere. Russian Women and Women from the FSU in general also have these positive traits in common.
I hope that you’ve had a chance to read through this site thoroughly. If you have then I think you’d understand that almost everyone who has participated on this blog admires both Russian and Eastern European Women far more then on looks alone.
So Jim I’d say you are in good company here and I hope that you will provide us with more useful insight.
Take care.. GL
July 6, 2008 at 1:13 am
Hey GL;
Keep up the style man. Dawn seems a self-serving idiot or at best a pretentious wench in her semi-thought of words. It’s hard for her to mask her own contempt with her life and that of the friends she claims.
Oh well, life goes on. It still doesn’t explain the simple yet supreme grasp the average FSU lady has in culture and attitude over Western women.
Spot on, eh?
July 6, 2008 at 8:00 am
Inessa looks spectacular, as always.
Dawn’s motives here have always been suspect to me, and now she exposes herself. She likes to read this blog and judge other people’s intentions. Nobody cares what you think Dawn. This blog is about moving toward something, about working for something, not about judging cultures. Trying to put down the men who are interested in the subject of this blog, or the women that hold their interest, shows where you are coming from. A good example is why you kept asking me why I was worthy of marriage. What kind of question is that? Who the hell are you? For all I know you are a 13 year old boy in the house next to me. Why to do you read this blog? Are you interested in Russian women? Are you worthy of marriage?
I am here because I am interested in attractive, healthy women who are less dangerous than their Western counterparts. I don’t know if I want to become involved with one of them, but I am investing in the chance. I travel, I meet lots of people, and I have noticed a marked difference in women from non Western cultures. It has become my preference. It is a growing movement, and every single man that I know is very, very interested in Eastern women.
Dawn is here to laugh at “losers”, look down on FSU women, and to create dissonance among the posters here.
July 8, 2008 at 10:59 pm
I have to agree with you Randall. I haven’t even made it over there yet and all my conversations with other guys about traveling over in Russia revolve around the women. The men here are very intrigued by the whole idea of these women and wonder what makes them so special. I’m hoping things go well on my trip and I can bring one back to show them in person
July 19, 2008 at 6:29 am
Randall, glad you are still thinking about my comment after so much time. When something strikes a nerve it is good to wonder why.
March 26, 2009 at 12:54 am
Hi,
I had a question from everything I have seen on the site. It seems like Russian women are only geared to meet and marry western men with a somewhat large amount of wealth, is this true.. should men of a mid level income stick with American women or those of their home country?
March 26, 2009 at 4:13 am
PK I don’t believe that is true at all.
Of course all women want the best husbands available and having financial stability to support a family with is important.
But to say that they are only geared towards rich men is not at all accurate. In terms of value to you as a Man and for the time and resources you commit to a relationship I see no greater options then to look towards this part of the world.
Now saying that.. keep in mind that all healthy relationships require adjustments and growth on BOTH sides. So if you are assuming that a woman from the FSU will accept you 100 percent as you are without any effort on your part to understand her needs.. Then you are unfortunately buying into one of the most outrageous myths out there concerning these women.
Spend the time to read through this blog and I’m sure you will get a different perspective. Good Luck.. GL
March 26, 2009 at 12:56 pm
Ahhh I appreciate that. I wanted to believe that I was mistaken.