Now I admit the following article might be a little biased since it came from the english edition of the Moscow Times..
But Hey..
I don’t think I could have done a better job writing such an inspired article about our favorite Russian Women myself.
But in anycase..
I can CERTAINLY relate to this guy.
And at the same time..
I’m sure many of you can too.
The Essence of Russia: Devushki, Zhenshchiny, Babushki
12 May 2009
(By Eastern Europe, Paolo Casciato, Dow Public Affairs Leader for Russia, Greece, Turkey)
I believe Russia is a country of women. Without questioning the value of Russian men — nor considering the immense Russian cultural, artistic and religious treasures and relics, what definitively impresses most visitors (obviously including me) during a trip to Russia are the Russian women.
Russian women impress more than Russian men. Yes, regardless of whether you are a man or a woman, in Russia for a long business trip, an expat, a tourist for just a few days, or if you are a student or a pensioner: what you’ll remember about your Russian experience are first of all its women, then comes the rest.
In fact, although Russian men are — like Russian women — warm in their nature, they generally tend not to take too much care about their appearance, which makes them less remarkable than women when you just look at them.
This doesn’t mean they are not smart, educated, kind and sensitive to their women’s needs and desires. For example, compared with foreign men in this aspect, even in their own country they seem very closed and change-resistant – this is particularly true for the current middle-aged male generation.
The younger generation definitively has greater access to international standards and trends, and perhaps also driven by a stronger curiosity they are learning how to care more about their appearance.
Should I specify right now that by talking about Russian women I’m not only referring to their indisputable beauty? Maybe I should: well, I’m not just directing my thoughts towards one of the most common international stereotypes (and a reality): the astonishing beauty of Russian women. But I cannot ignore it either.
While the reality is evident going around the big cities such as Moscow or St. Petersburg as well as in rural villages, in winter or in summer, there is a second dimension surprisingly able to shadow the glamour of the Russian beauty.
This is probably the main reason why Russian women seem so interesting, attractive and memorable — their strong character which surely enables them to fight to “survive”, advance and succeed in the extremely competitive environment of today’s Russia without impacting their exquisite natural gentleness.
They tend to have a high level of education as well as possess open-mindedness, intelligence and pragmatism, and this combined with their strong ethics at work, where they prove to be reliable and hardworking, can make them exemplary employees.
Their attributes include clarity in setting personal objectives and the consistency in achieving them, an ability to always guide and support their partners, in good times and in bad, and the proven ability to overcome any difficulties while still remaining feminine regardless of the socio-economic context in which they find themselves. Does it seem too much? It is not.
And we are back to the beauty of Russian women. In a convergence with their natural beauty, Russian women — it appears crystal clear — are nowadays extremely determined to affirm their femininity, to be and appear like women regardless of their income and personal situation.
Russian women seem to make something of a mission of valuing their femininity with a dress code, careful makeup, and high heels they apparently never abandon: in the office, visiting shopping centers, going around with their friends, walking with their kids, in supermarkets, in a park or at a museum, with no difference whether they are going to drive a car or take the underground, and even ignoring the sometimes challenging Russian weather or the road and sidewalk conditions.
Why, you might ask? Simply, Russian women desire to be beautiful and attractive. And they succeed because they know well how to do it without offending their intelligence, their dignity as a woman, and surely without merchandising their body. It has nothing to do with feminism in Russia. It is about culture, education and desire.
As a visitor, it is of paramount importance not to confuse a dress code, which sometimes might leave little to the imagination, with an invitation to approach a woman believing she might be somehow “easy”. You can instead easily avoid making a poor impression by just not thinking that whatever you see is obvious.
The era of Russian women looking for foreigners to escape Russia and improve their living conditions is definitively over. The opposite might be true now.
Surely these are not unique differentiating factors of Russian women, but I believe this combination explains why many non-Russian men fall in love with Russian women although they might keep struggling forever with the cultural differences. But that’s definitively a different story.
What I believe is important to consider, when striving to understand today’s Russian women, is the historical context that has contributed to the conditions and common elements you can notice in their personality.
Simply learning the recent history of Russia has personally helped me a lot; along with progressively understanding and appreciating the positive aspects of my now years-long experience in the country, while also clarifying many of the more or less apparent and strong paradoxes and contradictions that characterize daily life in today’s Russia.
In fact, although the situation is gradually changing for the better with benefits spreading from the wealth Russia has been generating in the recent years, I’m pretty sure that together with the impression of Russian women what you’ll bring back from your Russian experience are the extremes you will notice simply going around the country, and — if you stay long enough — you may also come to struggle with. Anyhow, Russian citizens are fighting against them almost daily, and be sure they will progressively solve them; at least the most pressing ones.
(read the original article here)

May 13, 2009 at 7:40 pm
Certainly something for everyone else to learn, to love yourself, respect yourself and dignify yourself. Cant expect anyone to treat you with love, respect or dignity if you dont start with yourself.
I think that culturally they are very different and from the few russian women I have met, they are amazing people. You can even see it in most if not all the pictures that you have shared here the truth of the statements of the author. Just look at the picture that comes with this post, a small detail like the bow on her hair, heart buttons and heart watch, a sweet smile and femeninity that spills out of the picture.
I am certain that these women also want a dignified man, able to love and respect himself. Just like you want a woman to take care of herself in every way possible, they want the same from you.
Thanks again
May 13, 2009 at 7:54 pm
By the way RW, love the picture.
T.
May 13, 2009 at 8:00 pm
Hi T,
Thanks for the compliment. It’s a nice little impromptu shot. If you were to meet Masha at her most “ordinary” then this is what you would see.
May 13, 2009 at 11:23 pm
I have come to realize that!!! And its just amazing. I can picture going to visit a supermarket there in contrast to here. Here you see a lot of people in pants and flip flops going out. You know for a fact that they just slapped on whatever was handy.
.
You are in paradise my friend
T.
May 13, 2009 at 11:30 pm
Though my exposure to Russian (and F.S.U.) women has only ever been via the internet (chat rooms, ICQ, SKYPE, STICKAM, etc) I have always been stunned by the intelligence, wit, humor, charm, grace and femininity they all seem to have in great abundance. Though I doubt all russian and fsu girls are “perfect” – who is? – I must say the ladies from Russia and the F.S.U. are very close to it… Not only for their obvious charms either.
Russian women, to me, are like the best Christmas present one could get: Beautiful wrapping (exquisite physical appearance), but the real gift is on the inside. And what an unforgettable gift it is!
And Masha is one of those rare Christmas presents that one never tires from or forgets. (Thank you RW and Masha for the lovely photo). Masha, I dream of one day chatting with you over coffee… now that would be a great gift indeed!
May 13, 2009 at 11:37 pm
P.S. By the way, in regards to “Masha answers our questions video”… how about Masha, and perhaps her friends, talk about how they feel about age difference – as so many “Acquaintance/Marriage sites” seem to promote older men can marry 18-20 year old girls.
Perhaps Masha could talk about how she feels about it, then she could interview her friends about it (and translate if necessary)
What do you think, RW?
May 14, 2009 at 2:05 am
Good to see the writer, Mr. Paolo Casciato, giving credit and praise where it’s due.
I am ashamed to say that I did not recognize our resident sweetheart, Masha, in the photo that accompanied the article GL submitted, but I did say something like, “Wow, what a beautiful, smiling woman.” Try as she might, I don’t think Masha could possibly look ordinary. She looks particularly attractive in green, though I might be biased about the color and the girl.
May 14, 2009 at 2:30 am
At first, I thought the picture was just another Russian girl until GL said that she’s Masha. I was like “No way!” I wouldn’t recognize her as Masha. Her face doesn’t even look the same as in her other pictures.
Oh well, we are dealing with one of traits about Russian girls… the same person with so many different faces in different pictures… How playful that is!
May 15, 2009 at 1:08 am
Wow, thanks for posting another lovely picture of Masha. Her radiant smile is like the Sun, lighting up everyone’s day, mine included.
Taras
May 15, 2009 at 8:36 am
Your welcome everyone. Always happy to put up a another lovely image on this site.
Andre, in my opinion most girls here in Russia are not ready to get married until they are at least 22 but 24 I think is the best age for them to begin at for something really solid.
In terms of marrying older men it’s not as simple as most men have been led to believe on these agency sites. It comes down to a whole host of qualities he has including his health, energy, leadership, stability, character, fitness and much more.
Any combination of these qualities can make an older man young or a younger man old. So yes it’s certainly possible to marry a younger woman here but as always the story is more involved and complex then just that fact alone.
May 15, 2009 at 7:15 pm
I agree with GL that 24 yrs old is the best age to begin with when it comes down to marriage. But it’s better to be realistic with the age gap.
In most cases, Russian girls prefer a man up to 5 years older… almost like here in the US. However, up to 10 years older is usually no issue for Russian girls. Ten to fifteen years is okay if you are in decent physical shape and can pay the bills every month. Twenty years is rather to be a very tricky area. It depends pretty much on girl and her personal philosophy…
The key in this area is… women want to be with a man who looks credible with her and whom she finds attractive. Visual credibility is something that must be considered by men at the outset with any particular woman.
Just in my opinion, If a man and a woman are mostly compatible, look credible together and he is a good man, he is marriage material in Russian girls’ eyes.
May 15, 2009 at 8:30 pm
Of course, I know this, and completely agree with you.
But, I was just interested in hearing actual russian girls’ thoughts on the matter as most info about age difference in regards to older western men and younger russian (and FSU) women, as opposed to hearing opinions about it from guys or agencies.
Thanks tons though.
May 15, 2009 at 10:23 am
Wow, is that Masha? Its crazy but I didn’t recognize her as such. Every photo seems to show someone different.
And how did she mange to find buttons in shape of hearts to match her watch?
Class, Masha.
-M
May 15, 2009 at 1:41 pm
How pretty Masha is in this picture!
May 15, 2009 at 4:57 pm
Yeah, Masha would be stunningly beautiful no matter what she were dressed in. That’s not to say that her outfit is anything short of flattering, well thought out, and very classy.
Masha, not only are you very beautiful and feminine, but you have that certain quality I can’t quite describe — one that’s rare not only in America but in the world. You’re most beautiful on your most average day, and this is my favorite picture of you.
It has to be magnetic eyes, poise, and inner peace and warmth.
May 20, 2009 at 1:10 pm
Isn’t it amazing how russian women manage to stay beautiful and want to stay beautiful despite of the hardships their country generously offers? You wouldn’t see it in any other country for sure
May 22, 2009 at 4:45 pm
Interesting observation…. i must say..
you must have traveled a lot
cheers
olga shulman lednichenko
August 16, 2009 at 12:13 pm
I’m a russian women admirerer myself. They are the most beautyfull creatures in the whole world.