Dedication
- This site is dedicated to the common Man who dreams for an un-common love..
- And to the un-common Woman who loves for a common dream.
Purpose
- To encourage my fellow Man to bring out the very best in themselves by finding a true lady who is the very best for them.
- To spread awareness and to encourage the advancement of one of the last bastions of true woman-hood and feminine beauty on this planet.
- To provide you Men with the information you need to empower yourselves to build your future families and in doing so to re-shape society one family at a time with your own image, strength and love.
Participation
- Your own thoughts and personal inspiration is the fuel that will take this ship to the stars.. Freely give them.. strap yourself in.. and come along for the ride.
Karma
- The greatest way to serve yourself in finding the love you wish for is to serve your fellow Man by sharing what you learn here.
- Provide your brothers with the knowledge on what it really means to have the “Heart of a Man”.. and become their teacher.
- Watch their soul grow wings and take this forward.. and become their student.
Support
- Your moral support is the emotional fuel that keeps my brain going.
- Your financial support is the physical fuel that keeps my life going.
- If you like what you read here and believe that I may be the “Best Man for the Job” in helping you to find your better half.. then feel free to drop me a note.
- Or if you simply believe in what I’m trying to advance.. Then any donation you contribute will be greatly appreciated and used for a good purpose. Simply go to paypal.com and send a donation of any amount to my PayPal email address ID of galacticlove at gmail.com
- Your financial support will simply allow me to devote more time to this endeavour and to accelerate among other things the composition and posting of hundreds of additional topics for this blog that I have already listed out for future development.
Gratitude
- In the computer world there is a famous principal known as Metcaff’s Law.
- It powerfully and elegantly states that the value of any network is equal to the number of members in that network.. Squared
- Each and every one of you exponentially increases the value of this subject.. and more importantly..
- The value to each other..
- I want to personally thank each and every one of you for your open minds and your open hearts.
- But most of all.. I want you to someday know the mutual and deep gratitude you will feel.. when you have a beautiful and loving woman by your side.
Contact
- galacticlove at gmail.com
September 19, 2006 at 4:01 am
Hi, first off I love your website, it give allot of insight into the Russian Women’s society. I myself am an asian american and I am wondering what is the typical rusian woman’s attitude toward interracial relationships? Thanks.
September 19, 2006 at 9:20 am
Real truthful blog about the kind of guy who goes for mail order brides.
September 19, 2006 at 1:42 pm
American Bitch,
The name says it all. Real truthful name.
September 19, 2006 at 1:50 pm
Chris,
I am also an Asian American and I did not enocunter any problems when I visited Russia. Oh, there were alot of curious looks but the Russian people in general love to meet new “exotic” looking people. And so the conversations that I have had with Russian men and women were very interesting and fun. I find that most Russian women are very open-minded. When I asked my wife if there was gong to be a problem with me being Asian and having a better tan than her (I am filipino), she asked why I would ask such a stupid question. That means “no”. It’s only a problem if you make it one.
I would definitely start up communications with several Russian women and see what happens. Better that than wading through the STD-infested American ho’s known as the American dating scene.
September 20, 2006 at 8:43 am
Hi Chris.. You got no worries man.. It’s what’s on the inside that counts more with these ladies.. Just make your plan and pull the trigger.
Cheers, GL
September 24, 2006 at 5:53 am
Hi, I happened upon this site while browsing for mercedes parts ???? Who are you? Your writing style is magnificent. While ultimitly invasive to the soul, you have a kind and guiding methodology with a descriptive clarity that embraces the minds eye. Reading your thoughts and experiances takes me back to when books were written for the intellectual romantic. Books I could not put down. Books so good that I would call in sick to work to continue reading.
I was a Marine guard at the Moscow embassy during the Reagan years. Talk about a crowd pleaser! You should have been there then. I,unfortunitly, did not have the opportunity to experiance that great land as you have. I have traveled extensivly and really do realize that America is really an extension of DISYNYLAND.
However, you and I hold many verified facts about the american woman in common. I was so beaten down by the state of this femnazisim (this phrase was coined by many of my divorce lawyers) That I litterly had to walk thru the forest alone and naked to come out the other side whole again.
Unlike you and many others, I went to the other side of the world. I have a fine retierment home in the Phillipines. As a nurse of many years I have had the privilage of knowing many euoropian and asian ladies that have allowed me to maintain that “family” is not a dead art.
Not in a significant relationship yet. (by design). I still work and play in the Seattle,Wa. and Vancouver,BC area. And I must say Vancouver,BC is a very Europian city. Femnazism dissolves as one travels north of the U.S. boarder.
How would I approach a woman of quality in Russia? Hmmm, silly me, the same way one would approach any human being. Acceptance and honesty.
Thank you for the very fine site and the magnificent writting style.
Regards Dennis
September 25, 2006 at 7:03 am
Hello Dennis and Welcome..
You are too kind sir.. I appreciate your words very much. I think you and I have both walked through a few forest in our lives… And it’s funny what you can accomplish as a Man when you go through Love..Loss.. to Love again..
We’ve all been there and I just wanted to make sure some of the guys who come after us can see the bigger picture..
Please keep participating and sharing your endorsement of this information with your friends. We’ve been banned in quite a few places so really the only way this can spread is through guys who understand this reality like you.
When I catch up with a few things I’ll chat with you some more.. some interesting things you have shared..
Cheers Man..
September 25, 2006 at 8:23 pm
Hey rw_man,
Just found your blog and I commend you greatly.
Have you heard of Sam Fryman by chance? You might be interested in some of his works:
A Men’s Liberation Guide to Women
&
A Women’s Liberation Guide to Men
They can be downloaded freely at
http://thepiratebay.org/tor/3527840/Respect_for_Age___Complete_works_Sept_2006_-_Sam_Fryman
Or if you’d like I can just e-mail them to you. Either way keep up the good blogging!
September 26, 2006 at 11:50 am
Hi vper1..
Afraid I don’t know who this Gentleman is. When I get some time I’ll check him out..
Thanks again for your personal endorsement vper1.. Please tell your friends..
GL
September 26, 2006 at 12:50 pm
Awseme website rw_man. Nothing beats it. This could be the new male gospel.
October 28, 2006 at 12:24 pm
Hello and thanks;
I also stumbled upon your site via the St.Petersburg City website. You subject matter and point of view seem to reflect my exact experience with the women of North America.
I have two divorces now behind me to prove the case you so eloquently make in your feminist observations. My anger, manipulations and outright hate shown is unfathomable.
I have been writing and talking to many ladies around the world and have found the most genuine from Russia. I am currently communicating with a wonderful woman and plan on visiting next spring, and any advise is appreciated.
I think I’ve run the gamut on scammers and desperate ones, but one never knows. Your blog is heartening and insirational.
Thank you.
October 28, 2006 at 2:00 pm
Hello Canajun and Welcome Aboard!
Thanks for validating the material in this blog with your own experiences. As difficult as two divorces were well at least your still not locked into something far worse by being married to them..
I’m very happy to hear that you have also travelled a bit and that you also find the Women of Russia to be in a league of their own.
They truly are.
The trick as always is to navigate these unpredictable and turbulent waters carefully in order to make you’re way to paradise island so to speak.
In anycase if you want to communicate with me offline just email me at galacticlove at gmail.com
Thanks again and please tell your friends!
GL
November 20, 2006 at 6:56 pm
The truth is out there…
thank you for sharing it !
November 28, 2006 at 2:51 pm
This blog posting was of great use in learning new information and also in exchanging our views. Thank you rw_man
November 30, 2006 at 4:56 am
Hello Trip and Cooper..
Thanks for your great comments.. I hope you are able to make use of the info here to propel your own relationships and lives forward.
Cheers! GL
December 7, 2006 at 5:55 pm
Hey GL, just another note from the site of the Crying Wolf that has targetted you. Another thought. She is living in Africa, seems to have unlimited resources to access and information on the internet, and she is asking for money. Does this theme sounds familiar?
Just a thought. Her theme is deffinately something worthwhile, but I sense alittle more to it than that.
Canajun
February 28, 2007 at 7:24 am
I am linking you. Could I ask for a link back?
March 1, 2007 at 9:11 am
Hi Dio.
Got you covered on my links page..
Thanks for linking to me too.
GL
March 19, 2007 at 12:45 pm
GL, that made me think of something. There are a lot of leftist millionaires and billionaires who like to pour a lot of money into leftist websites to promote the breakup of our culture.
But… what if people on our side started giving a whole chunk of money to websites like yours in order to help heal the culture.
And even though the leftist millionaires and billionaires have more money than we do, every dollar we give will go a lot longer than every dollar they give because most people are traditional in their hearts, and traditionalism is the true nature of the human being (a fact that you have eloquently laid out arguments for).
Now my parents are very charitable people, and every year, they give a lot of money to animal shelters, education for poor children, etc.
But as for me, instead of doing that, I am going to give a lot of money to people just like you (and you yourself) who are defending our culture and our freedoms against the corrosive forces of Feminism and Cultural Marxism.
Now I have almost no money right now to give away, but I do have about $9.50 left over in an old PayPal account that I used to use for buying sheet music and programming materials over the internet for college violin lessons and programming classes.
And I really can’t find anything interesting to buy over the internet with that money, so it is going to go straight to you so that it can be used to combat Feminism and Cultural Marxism.
I’ll send it over once I get done with classes and work today. It will be one of the best batches of $9.50 I ever spent.
–Luke Skywalker
March 19, 2007 at 1:02 pm
Bless you Luke.
I certainly do my best.
GL
March 29, 2007 at 9:30 pm
GL,
I am really thankful for your site. I have been exploring the world of Eastern European women online for a while now, as I’ve become disillusioned with the relationships I’ve had recently and knew I needed to expand my horizons (literally and figuratively). I have very much enjoyed your site and learned quite a bit from it. I am now on my own quest to find the love of my life, whereever I may find her. God bless and keep up the great work!
- G
June 19, 2007 at 4:20 am
Hi, Rw_man:
Thanks a lot for creating this amazing website. I’m a Chinese Canadian, but my dad grew up during the cold war, so he can speak Russian and was in USSR. I was trying to talk more with some international Russian students when I was doing my Master Degree in the university, we got more common sense about the country, the culture, the history, etc. I become an engineer because I like Kirkovski and Migeryoung, no real Canadian girls know USSR sent the 1st satellite and astronaut but a Canada grow-up Ukrainian girl. I do like Canadian girls, but my family background let the Russian Canadian to be my favorite. That’s why I’m here.
Just want to say :”Excellent jobs! Well done!” . At least I do appreciate your job, it’s a space for all of us who enjoy the amazing culture and the magnificent ladies!
Ray
June 19, 2007 at 7:14 pm
Hi Red Canadian,
Thanks for your great comments about my site.
The Russians are very proud of their Sputnik and Yuri Gragarian accomplishments as they should be. However I do wish that they would look more forward to their next great accomplishment and not be so tempted to rest on any laurels of the distant past.
Another space race would probably be a very good thing.. and so far the Russians have the lead as far as space tourism is concerned for example. I hope they keep that momentum up and I wish them all the best in this department.
GL
June 30, 2007 at 11:32 pm
Hello there,
I believe I should first apologise for interrupting a purely “boys only” blog. But it’s an interesting stuff to read!!! I’d even sign my name under some of the posts.
GL, my personal greetings to you!! If you go on promoting russian ladies with a same pace, we’re likely to have our demographic situation here in Russia fixed in some middle term perspective. Bring us some quality men here :-))
Good to know that some of you still fancy some good old fashioned courtship. And please do NOT mail us by order
Rgrds,
Anna
St. Petersburg
July 5, 2007 at 3:51 am
Hello Anna.
You, my dear, are so sweet. Real girls, real Russian girls especially, are always welcome. GL is a bit busy currently with his beloved. So, while I myself make arrangements to go to Russia to live, I’ll take the liberty to do what I know he’d do… which is to encourage you to visit and comment.
Feel the love, dear one, feel the love.
It’s wonderful to be truly appreciated isn’t it?
July 5, 2007 at 4:27 am
Hello Анья.
GL is a bit busy currently with his beloved. So, I’ll take the liberty to do what I know he’d do… which is to encourage you to visit and comment.
It’s wonderful to be truly appreciated isn’t it?
Feel the love, dear one, feel the love.
And by the way, there is a huge demographics problem in the West too. Very few Real girls.
Which is why I encourage Real men who want true happiness with a Real girl to relocate to Russia.
I love your city, by the way. My God, it is cultural heaven! I’ll be there later this year with my own beloved.
P.S.: Yes, GL is to be congratulated for his efforts. Most especially you and so many of your wonderful fellow Russian girls deserve your own fine Real man. So, I too continue to speak about “a little slice of heaven”… Russian girls.
July 6, 2007 at 2:46 am
GL… At times there seems to be a wordpress loading issue. Malware, or who knows. Anyway, #25 is redundant. Thanks.
July 9, 2007 at 10:03 am
Canuck,
thanks for a really warm welcome. Since girls are allowed, I think I’d post some more…
You know, some guys would surely not agree with you about “little slice of heaven” since some feel themselves pretty much well around american ladies. I guess they just know some special places for fishing
I am not the one to judge since I’ve never been to US, but what I see on TV or talking to my foreign colleagues and friends makes me believe that there’s a certain dual background for women power.
In your case its massive culture, FMCG market that is actually globally turning round female demand for over 30+ years, and feminist philosophy that with time from a good intention turned into some riduculous doctrine “who should pay and after how many dates its okay to get laid not harming your independant reputation”.
In our case its a bit different. Women here never gave up femenine way of thinking. We have become independant, we learnt how to make money when most man were struck by financial crisis, we were raising kids and making our succesfull cariers when noone was there for providing and protecting, but in every single women’s soul here lives an unshattered desire to love, to be loved and stand by her man.
We have our own Paris Hiltons here though
4 years ago when I was one step away from graduating the University I was doing a city guiding and translating as a part time job. Back then I witnessed loads of mediocre man comming from all over the world to fetch some marriage material in Russia.
In most cases all they saw was a pretty face, slim figure and puppy eyes…ladies were instantly marrying, packing bags and fleeing Russia…guys seemed to be satisfied with the hunt…a week in Russia and you get a loyal, intelligent, smart and cute lady in your bag. It was really like shopping… both sides the buyer and the seller finally met…should you ask me what was the outcome…I do not know…the statistics though does…95% of such marriages ended up either with divorce, broken hearts, or even worse…
Those of us who didnt take that extra quick path towards happines/self distraction (underline one,pls) still hope to find that special someone without entering this shamefull bargain. The paradox is that when russian women finally feel mature and strong enough to not fall for every single loser who comes here for sweet lovin’ they face a wall.
Thanks to those who created a certain image of scummer which is in most cases neccessarily originating from Eastern Europe we are not allowed to most international dating sites and communities.
Thanks to those who bargained quantity vs quality when leaving the country in 90’s russian women is percieved as loyal, beautiful and silent to abuse.
I am not saying that its an absolute truth. No! I know dozens of couples who’re happily married, raising kids and none of them gives a sh*** where they both come from. But I also know people, guys and girls, who were smashed with this experience…
The conclusion to this flood of thoughts would be: let no cultural or social prejudice guide you towards your way to find that special someone, let it be a pure feeling of incompleteness that will force you to go round the globe to find your other half…
Anna
July 9, 2007 at 12:37 pm
Hello Anna!
Very excellent to read your extremely thoughtful words. All of it is true.
So, fundamentally you desire a Real man who does not choose you without great care and thought, yes?
I include this link for you my dear…
http://www.russianwomenspeak.wordpress.com
Natalia, a Ukrainian, who we know and cherish here, is soon to begin possibly the finest meeting site on the web. I have called what I see coming the second generation of Internet meeting. Much more knowledge. Much more care in the choosing.
I’m sure she’ll be more than happy to let you know when she officially begins.
Through this here and her site and others like it, what was culural ignorance, is being replaced by cultural know-how or knowledge. And this knowledge will eliminate many of the misunderstandings and misperceptions about both Russian girls and Western men.
Included in the second generation of how to meet, should be much longer stays in Russia, in my opinion. A person is not shopping for a car. And real life demands more time and much more knowledge and respect for who is the true Russian girl.
And likewise, it can give more opportunity to better learn who is a Western man. Thanks to our Western Freemason controlled governments such longer stays in the West for a Russian girl are much more difficult, if not impossible.
I refer you to the archives of your Russian NTV for some previously broadcast information about the general topic.
http://news.ntv.ru/
You possibly have already seen this story?
Information about Litvinenko and Berezovskij.
http://news.ntv.ru/itogi/110436/
My point is that they wish to control more than Russian oil. And learning their character can help you to understand why there exists much of the obstruction in Russian girls’ entry to Western countries, for longer than a 2 week visitor’s Visa.
You already know that your man and you both will require much more time to learn about each other before you can confidently commit to a marriage, yes?
So, the obvious point is that it’s up to the man, to make these longer times in Russia. It is now the only way. And thanks to the Russian government, it is still possible.
The men on this site should never lose awareness of this, or take it for granted.
I have understood for a long time that Western men, Real men that is, and Russian girls can make each other truly happy.
It is a pity that some of the Russian men who are not so fine, could not be introduced to our Feminazi’s. They could both make very interesting couples, yes?
And yes, I fully appreciate and respect that there are many good men in Russia. Just not enough of them.
“silent to abuse” No Real man will ever abuse you Sweetie. He is human and can become upset. But abuse? Not if he is a Real man. This, in fact, is one of the biggest tests of true manhood… the inner strength to be stronger in our hearts than the anger which can come. I will repeat, Sweetie. No Real man will ever abuse you.
“not agree with you about “little slice of heaven” since some feel themselves pretty much well around american ladies”…
Yes, it’s true that some are truly happy. However, this is very uncommon. Why? Because of the current values and design of Western society.
Imagine that you were asked to take the role of a man. And the man take the role of the girl. How can this possibly create enduring happiness?
The evidence of its impossible success is all around us in our many, many divorces and broken lives.
In other words, Anna, this is a temporary illusion. Just as with men who think that true and enduring love is only a one week Russian tour away.
Did you notice these words on GL’s site above in the welcome to the men?
” the Thinking Man’s guide to these enigmatic ladies.”
In some philosophies, girls’ hearts are explained as water which must be slowly warmed. You may even be already aware of this. I know that I have heard about the Russian flower who must be slowly opened, from my Russian girl.
Much time and much thought, much care and much knowledge. Then, there can be much enduring happiness.
I really enjoy your sense of humour. The reference to the “fishing”.
“let it be a pure feeling of incompleteness that will force you to go round the globe to find your other half…”…
Yes, Anna, I could not agree more. Which is part of the special miracle of Russian girls. The beauty is both inside and out.
Please feel free to continue to give your opinion and comments. I’m sure that in time, you will “feel the love, my dear, feel the love.” We are all huge fans of Russian girls.
And now that I have found my own half, I wish similar happiness for my Russian sisters.
I soon arrive. And my intention is to remain for a lifetime. So, I don’t use the word “sisters” lightly. Such jewels should be cherished.
I can assure you Anna, that the love of a half is beyond your imagination. It is much more powerful than even the love of a Soulmate. However, it’s not so common though.
I had to wait for a long, long time to find mine. Perhaps in time I’ll share more of how special it can be.
Only to encourage you to remain true and patient enough to your own desire to find your man.
Россия, покажите мне мое счастье. Покажите мне мою половину.
This was my prayer. And now I have my answer.
Perhaps your man now prays this prayer too?
July 9, 2007 at 3:45 pm
I keep rambling on this blog all working day long! I even shirked a meeting I had scheduled last week…shame on me…
Few comments if you may let me…I gotta warn you its hard to read such mess of thoughts though…
““silent to abuse” No Real man will ever abuse you Sweetie. He is human and can become upset. But abuse? Not if he is a Real man. This, in fact, is one of the biggest tests of true manhood… the inner strength to be stronger in our hearts than the anger which can come. I will repeat, Sweetie. No Real man will ever abuse you.”
I might have chosen a not very good word to explain what I mean. Its kind of a mental abuse, not physical. Let alone I’ve never experienced one myself.
My point is that some guys perceive this traditionalism and loyalty to real “man-woman” relationship in a perverted way. They believe they do a world of good to woman by taking her out of this God’s foresaken country and therefore she should be grateful to him for the rest of her life by playing her traditional role despite his own unforgievable faults and behaviour. This is, of course, almost never the case if people are in love and do take time to know each other prior to any comitted relationship.
I guess all I wanted to say that a path to happiness is never a week long journey and cheap both emotionally and financially. You know how we russians say “barefooted, pregnant and cooking”. Its a typical descrition of a woman totally surendered to a world of men (not Real men, mind you)…
Well, if you’re up to this kind of gal you better look elsewhere, not Russia. But if you’re ready to slay dragons for the one who’ll be true to you for better and worse, who’ll stand by you and love you for who YOU are and how YOU make her feel then you must be ready to invest a lot of effort into this journey. Effort does not mean loads of cash, its rather sincerity and your primary wish to get to a promise land of true womanhood.
Those who seek for an easy getaway are most likely to end up being pretty much disappointed by Russian ladies (real russian ladies)…we’re to be tamed like wild horses by love and care and not to be bought on a bride mall
I guess this refers to any woman, not neccessarily Russian. Just that US girls seem to forget about it and care mostly for your assets not heart…
I am done…a good day spent at work actually doing no work at all
See ya, guys!
Anna
July 10, 2007 at 11:20 am
“I guess all I wanted to say that a path to happiness is never a week long journey and cheap both emotionally and financially”
Yes, Anna, very good. And thank you for concurring with my point of the need for much longer times in Russia… like a lifetime. lol
“Those who seek for an easy getaway are most likely to end up being pretty much disappointed by Russian ladies (real russian ladies)”
Thank you for verifying why we know we can much more trust Russian ladies than Feminazi’s who will do anything on a bed.
“You know how we russians say “barefooted, pregnant and cooking”.” Before the Cult we too had this same axiom. And my dear Anna, this is my girl’s, her pleading to me. And the last time I checked she is definitely a Real girl and definitely a Russian Real girl. Are there any other kinds? Did I misunderstand your comment, my dear? This is a good or bad picture, “barefoot, pregnant and cooking”? Again, it is she who pleads to me for this. I swear. She calls this same axiom, her liberation of her life to her life’s purpose.
“Effort does not mean loads of cash, its rather sincerity and your primary wish to get to a promise land of true womanhood.”
Heh, you guys, are you getting this? This is much too excellent! Anna, are you consciously aware of what these words do to a Western man? I’ll be your agent and only send to you the best 10%. lol
July 10, 2007 at 1:23 pm
what the heck?! My post disappeared when I havent finished it yet…
a liberation to her life’s purpose…well, you are maybe right here…dont misunderstand me, Canuck…
If she’s pregnant thats excellent, if she knows how to cook - even better, barefoot - well, that might look sexy as well…
My bottom line would be not to contradict to this axiom (hey, we are all grown, emotionally mature people here, and we do recognise a difference between absolute insane exaggeration and sharp metaphor, right?)…
I just wanted to underline that if you want a submissive, totally surrendered to your will companion when hopping on a plane in search for your Russian princess you’re probably going the wrong way. AND IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH FEMINISM!
I am as a member of this russian gene pool would just say that we are interested in you, but at the same time knowing how things go in western part of the world, it’s a real frustration seeing some guys comming here for a bitter revenge against their severely abused manhood…
Now I hope you get the point.
And remember Russian lady is a neck turning the head (which is YOU) towards any direction she scans to be right from somewhere deep down inside her soul deeply rooted to her nature and womanly instincts…you wont even notice how you end up doing what is good for the sake of family values and happiness…or just end up buying her yet another fur coat even if she has 10 of them already and living up in a South (you know how we are…we never have enough appropriate clothes to wear…
Again, there’s no right or wrong side when talking about dating, mating and loving. Its about two people uniquely completing and giving their best to each other. Just bring out the best in you when approaching a girl for good, because all mean and poorly hidden mischeavous intentions are easily scanned. And hey!!…we do know how to bite back, just that it hurts more, because a woman in rage often plays it low…
P.S. I’d give up my 10% share for GL
July 11, 2007 at 4:33 am
GL? You probably have a Russian axiom for this comment… “Birds of a feather flock together”, yes? Well, there’s such a thing as GL and his local “Buddies, including a newly arrived Canadian who decided to relocate… I know he reads. And … Hmm.
“I just wanted to underline that if you want a submissive, totally surrendered to your will companion when hopping on a plane in search for your Russian princess you’re probably going the wrong way. AND IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH FEMINISM!”
No, of course. We are not looking for somone to walk on, a doormat. But it does have very much to do with power, pure emotional strength. And yes, definitely Anna, this kind of emotion is not built in one simple week. Yes.
Such a one week relationship is more of a gamble than the following of hearts.
“And remember Russian lady is a neck turning the head (which is YOU) towards any direction she scans to be right from somewhere deep down inside her soul deeply rooted to her nature and womanly instincts…you wont even notice”
A man’s defence of negative manipulation is the cynicism of life experience and the passage later in life to being a Real man.
No Real man jumps or plays puppet. But, he will, with a smile on his face, do out of innocence and kind love, what no team of wild horses could force him to do. The honey and vinegar formula.
On the other hand you may also be referring to his girl’s ability to see with steely eyes what is innately best for him and his family both? And this is the issue of trust. Do I truly trust her enough to believe that her “suggestion” is what is truly best? Or is she taking me for a ride?
When his ego doesn’t get in the way of the truth; then, his answer becomes evident.
Case in point… A disingenuous Russian girl married an American man with no love in her heart. But a plan. She almost arranged the conditions. The marriage later had some very big difficulties. While on an estranged visit to her mother in Russia…”You are buying me a car or I will not return from Russia with our child”.
A boy, “What colour of car.”
A Real man, “Stop phoning me, I have a date.”
“Just bring out the best in you when approaching a girl for good, because all mean and poorly hidden mischeavous intentions are easily scanned.”
Aw, my dear, if only it were always so honourable. Early life is men’s raging hormones. 30-42, women’s raging hormones.
But I understand, you speak about necessary respect.
“or just end up buying her yet another fur coat even if she has 10″
So, a good Russian investment is a furrier business?
I have seen girls buy so many clothes. It has been many times explained. And still remains a mystery.
July 11, 2007 at 7:50 am
you know, Canuck, its really hard and at the same time interesting to comment your posts.
“On the other hand you may also be referring to his girl’s ability to see with steely eyes what is innately best for him and his family both? And this is the issue of trust. Do I truly trust her enough to believe that her “suggestion” is what is truly best? Or is she taking me for a ride?”
Yes, I refer exactly to it.
Should I quote you? Here goes: “”What’s the saying, “Get more with honey than vinegar?” Already my house design has been altered and I like it even better. My choice of auto has been altered and I like it even better. No really. ”
Neck and head come from a russian proverb, actually. Its not about manipulation at all. And what I read in between the lines of your post that “puppet role” would probably come first to your mind. The issue of unconditional trust will never arise untill you’ve checked her up to see if she’s truly validated and eligible to be trusted. I might be naive to certain point though…but…Do we all have become so much bitter cynical and eville?…
In your recent post I find some answers for me: http://russianwomen.wordpress.com/2006/08/25/why-american-and-western-women-are-turning-ugly/#comment-17408
July 11, 2007 at 2:10 pm
“Do we all have become so much bitter cynical and eville?”…
Bitter is usually the response to being disillusioned. In this case, the subject is Feminazi’s. You want an honest answer? Alright…
Bitterness is the stage that all Real men go through in their period of enlightment in the West when they learn that the Cult has stolen too much from their lives and leaves them with little hope of “ever” finding true and enduring happiness wirh such a creature.
A wise man evolves to the next stage which is cautious. Extremely. The more of the dark side of girls he has seen and experienced, the more he becomes cautious.
In my case so cautious, Elvis is leaving the building, the country. I’ve decided that the values and design of Western society creates too much negative dynamics on the happiness quotient. Almost impossible to find the kind of happiness I require within such a society.
This is the society of narcissism. Eurasia is the society of dire need. I refer to emotionally as well as to being their “strong and extremely reliable provider”. Her job is already, perhaps the most difficult… the successful raising of children. And yes, the father definitely also has his role. A child with no father at home, will always be different due to this absence.
However, I refer to Eurasian girls who really need men. Good ones. Are there narcissistic men here as well as the girls? Of course. At least until a Feminazi teaches him about life.
Am I bitter about having taken so long to come to this conclusion? This can only be when there are no alternates. And I understood more than 7 years ago, that I should think outside of the box, the country.
But, until a year ago, “the neck hadn’t yet turned my head” in this direction of seeking a permanent life in “The Motherland”. Is it better for me? God yes! So another example of the wisdom of a beautiful Eurasian neck.
Both my career and my business give me nearly complete freedom to live wherever I want, whenever I choose. Some unforeseen events happened before my “definitely going to be a Russian” stage.
There are always reasons. I’ve evolved in many ways during this time.
In some ways this can be explained as a man embracing being a Real man and learning to be his best possible self on his way to having everything. I am critical of many things as you’ve probably gathered, regarding social and civil issues. Of myself I am ruthlessly critical. No-one is as hard on me as me.
Cynicism is when a man is not enough of a Real man and he does not rise to the challenge of what has caused his disappointment. You refer to the “bitter, cynical, angry, complaining man” syndrome.
Some men simply rise to life’s challenges. And so to answer directly… No not bitter, not cynical. But entirely aware of the dark side of girls. And so part of my aura is the knowledge that a rose has thorns and to know how to prevent the cuts.
Eville? Yes. Entirely. Not evil in this sense. But eville in that I am more than capable of using my experiential knowledge to get what I want in life.
I can love an innocent child or a pet with great compassionate care.
A girl? With abandon until “the moment” that it’s clear that it’s over. Or until that “second” if it’s something she’s done.
Possibly I can say “next” faster than anybody I know. Most men and girls go through a “period” of much, much longer emotional withdrawal. With me, no longer than a day. When it’s done, it’s done. So… “next” immediately.
I truly believe that for a man especially, emotional dissociation is one of his greatest allies. Men are known to linger in depression very long after a failed relationship. And I know that next you may refer to rebounding. No. Completely dissociated. In lightning speed. Like an electic switch.
All or nothing. Now or nevermore.
To learn quickly and be more aware for what will come, makes a man more hopeful and optimistic. And this speed in moving on is the salvation of all men who are different than those who remain in the mourning or the loss of a relationship for much longer.
I used to linger. Not now. Not ever again.
When a Feminazi comes into my sphere, yes I become almost instantly guarded. A Feminazi will never touch my life again. Never.
Shelli, our most recent narcissist, holds the perception of we men here, that we are as the first generation of men who came to Russia after Perestroika. Slobs who were totally out of their league. The history of divorced, bitter and angry men happened here in the West, after they brought home the “tragedy waiting to happen”.
From time to time, I have seen some of them leave comments here. They quickly move on to another blog where the other men seek to commiserate that “it was all the girls fault” and to beware of the “bad” Russian girl.
Most men who are comfortable being here, are seeking knowledge. They are smart enough to “not” be this kind of man who I’m sure you’ve already seen too much of.
And this type of man holds his personal happiness so important in his life, that he will make whatever changes to himself, his life, or his knowledge so that he can have his true and enduring happiness.
GL refers to the “think James Bond”. In other words, a “Lady’s man”. In every sense of the word, he speaks about bringing only the best we can be to such girls as you.
My dear, a Real man can cut the head off a chicken and then moments later give his child a warm hug. He does not carry the chicken’s blood to his child.
I call this being strong to the world and always soft to one’s family. I have seen some of the most physically and emotionally strong men in my life, who are as a little boy with their tiny, “weak” girl. It is amazing to see this.
These are some of my impressions of the Real men here as well as what I saw as some concerns regarding the kind of men who are here. As well as what each of us would encourage in other men who consider seeking a truly feminine girl in Eurasia.
We don’t support disrespect, slobs or fools. We all know that you deserve much, much better.
So, now the question is how to bring “the best” of both worlds together? This is the challenge.
“its really hard and at the same time interesting to comment your posts.” Thank you for letting me know about the ‘hard’ to understand. I’ll try and make them more understandable.
By the way, why do you call yourself Anna and not Anya? And congratulations regarding your knowledge of English. Were that I knew Russian as well as you know English.
July 11, 2007 at 9:05 pm
Deep & well written. I kind of feel like dropping the subject since I have nothing more to say. You’ve made your point and its hard to add anything else especially since we’re blogging in quite inappropriate discussion category for such serious issues.
You truly are a very interesting guy to talk to!
Concrete, somitimes harsh in what you have to say and very energetic. Thanks, Canuck.
As for my English. Well, I am 26 and started learning it at the age of 5 I believe. Thanks to my parents, teachers, friends, job and environment I love this language and keep on learning it since I am way far to be fluent.
As for name - Anya/Anuta/Annushka - its sort of unofficial and more sound to a russian speaker. Anna (Анна) is more like east-west. At work I am even called by both first and patronymic…gets very official at times..Go figure…
July 11, 2007 at 11:33 pm
Thank you Annushka. Especially for helping me with the clarity issue in writing.
I hope two things for your sake. One, that you understand how deep is the desire of many Real men to be their best for Eurasian girls.
And two, I sincerely hope that you find such a good man! I’ll send to here whoever I understand is a fine enough man for a Russian girl. But this issue is a very large one. Millions of fine men should know about girls such as you. I’m confident that then there would be much more happyiness.
Perhaps we are developing a template for this larger solution? Who knows? I would love to see more happiness among Russian girls.
Certainly please do tell your friends that they are welcome if they would find it helpful.
And yes, it is always very, very interesting to communicate with a Russian. So much depth of intellect and general wisdom. Russia and its wisdom create a great people–generally speaking.
The sound of a Russian girl speaking Russian is amazing. A truly beautiful language and sound.
Your English is nearly flawless. Kudos. Modest too… Go figure…
September 10, 2007 at 10:21 pm
The reality of the situation for US Women is grim. With 12% of US Men marrying FW last year more and more American Men are saying no to AW. And with 22% of those who are single saying they will never Marry in the US. That removes one third from the pool. Add to that those who are incarcerated, disabled, unemployed,substance abusers, mentally impaired, and finally Married. The pickings are slim for our delusional Women.
Michael Noer’s article “Don’t Marry Career Women” created a fire storm of controversy. To reduce the demand for Foreign Wives, the FemNags introduced IMBRA. A feeble and stupid attempt to regulate market demand for pleasant, feminine, agreeable companionship for Men. Which American Women are no longer.
Now it has gotten so bad. The US Government is preventing US men from leaving who owe Back Child Support. Endentured Servitude has been restored in the US. It has become a Sex Prison for Men. Unfit to raise children in.
Keep up the good work. Life is about being happy. Who cares what the Feminists or Left thinks. Screw them.
September 11, 2007 at 12:31 am
“Guys: a word of advice. Marry pretty women or ugly ones. Short ones or tall ones. Blondes or brunettes. Just, whatever you do, don’t marry a woman with a career.”, Michael Noer…
Uh, Michael… no thanks. You marry the fat, ugly Western stay-at-home.
And I’ll marry my beautiful, lifelong slim, long blond, amazing Yana.
http://russianlove.wordpress.com/2007/09/04/russian-love/
“But a downright frightening story written by my colleague, Michael Noer, on our Web site today [do a forbes search]… OK, call me a cougar. I’ve been working since the day I graduated from college 20-odd years ago. I have two grade-school-aged children.[Too bad they didn't have a real mommie. Good thing about the income though. Give 'em some for the necessary therapy of emotionally neglected turn key/StrangeCare kids. I won't even bother to inquire about breast or bottle fed.]…. Note to guys: Start by going to the gym [Ya Babe, I'm all over it. Daily. What about your own Hagen Dass butt?]“, Elizabeth Corcoran…
Wow, if his comments are frightening; then, better get your whiskey and Valium out, Liz, for what you see here.
I swear, if I have to push the plane to the take off strip, I’ll do it.
P.S: We spoke today as usual. Before she slept she sent me this SMS: “______, I miss you very much.”
Any guesses what Lizzy sent to her man?
“No. I told you, I won’t shave my armpits anymore. And as for the rest of it, don’t even go there.”
Happy trails guys.
September 11, 2007 at 2:11 pm
Just to be clear about the Michael Noer article…
Yes, that he recommends stay-at-home wives. Wonderful.
However, it is who is at home that I dispute. Whether the cow is in the field or in the barn, it’s still a cow, albeit with less attitude… perhaps.
And it was excellent to see the grander picture of the impact of foreign girls to the West. Excellent.
Y’all have IMBRA. In Canada they revoked the 90 day fiance Visa. Neither of which will be more than an irritant in the grand scheme of things.
Rather than keeping my girl out, they succeeded in losing someone near the top of his field. Congratulations to “us” and to the lunatics who think they can play politics with the heart of a Real man.
Carry on…
October 20, 2007 at 8:40 pm
By the way, rw_man,
Have you seen I have given your blog two awards and also put you on my blogroll (at 1000petals): http://1000petals.wordpress.com/2007/10/08/i-love-your-blog-award-thinking-blogger-award/
Thanks for your wornderful work full of love and dedication - such a gem in a crazy modern world!
October 21, 2007 at 12:54 am
Axinia,
You are too gracious..
Thank you so much for your recognition. I regard it as a special honor and hope that many more real ladies like yourself will come forward and embrace the charms and feminine charisma that true womanhood gives you.
You ladies bring that slice of heaven we all desire down to earth.
Cheers! GL
November 30, 2007 at 7:57 pm
Hello i am so new to this and have been corresponding with yes a Russian woman. i have much to learn about them in general in all levels. is there solid info i can start with about if this is a good thing for an average guy to follow up on/ I could not afford travel to this beautiful country of ruusia so will this be a hinderance to the process etc..
Jim Costi
January 20, 2008 at 3:51 am
Hello, I was just wondering how you wound up, or came to be living in Russia? I’ve actually been considering moving from the U.S. to Moscow, and find myself at a total loss of how to go about it. I’ve asked around, and have been told that my best bet is to go down to Brighton Beach and marry a Russian man. I’m Russian by heritage, but have no family still living there; the last stragglers emigrated in the nineties. Any help or insights would be greatly appreciated (and no, I don’t plan to come to Russia and taint your wonderful women with MTV and American Feminism… I just want to leave the United States, and get back to my roots.)
January 22, 2008 at 6:28 am
Hello Krisjana,
If you are interested in going to Russia you could possibly start teaching English somewhere but you will need an outside source of income to support yourself since it will not be enough to live off of.
Keep in mind that you can also do this in other CIS countries like the Ukraine, Georgia, Kazakhstan, Belarus, and so forth. You will find many Russian Girls in those countries too so just choose what is the best option for you.
I appreciate the fact that you are looking for your roots and your identity as a woman and I deeply respect that.
You also might want to consider trying to find Russian Girl friends where you live and to start a social group to gain more insight into why and how there character and personality is so different from their Western counterparts.
I’m interested in learning why you wish to leave the US? I understand this from a Man’s perspective but from a lady like you I find this to be very interesting.
Thanks for your comment and good luck..
GL
March 12, 2008 at 7:19 pm
Hi
I was very interested in your site.
I am glad that I found it. I was hoping you could assist me with regards to finding reputable sites in which to search for dates only with the purpose of developing relationships.
I came across one particular site, but I am so wary of the fake scams etc. that I’m not sure if I can trust it.
Do you perhaps know of its reputation? It is called “Dating-world.net”.
Thanks
March 13, 2008 at 3:22 am
Hi Dave,
Thanks for the comment. I hope you are taking the time out to read through all of the posts here. You will find a lot of information that might be valuable to you like this post on meeting Russia girls on the internet.
http://russianwomen.wordpress.com/2006/07/26/the-smartest-way-to-meet-russian-girls-over-the-internet/
As far as your mentioned dating agency I’m sorry but I have no idea of it’s status since I don’t involve myself with those sites.
Anyone else who knows about it is welcome to chime in.. but my criticisms of this type of matchmaking model are well known..
http://russianwomen.wordpress.com/2008/02/16/dating-agency-pitfalls/
Good luck with your search and be careful.
GL
March 13, 2008 at 12:55 pm
Thanks - your comments and info. in this blog are very informative.
Problem is though, that the only web sites that seem to have ’substance’, are ones where a subscription is involved.
Is this something to look out for, or is it merely a way of making it a ‘premium’ site in your experience?
As for smart ways of meeting russian woman, I am actually presently in the country, but find it hard to meet woman due to the language barrier etc. Any suggestions for my circumstances?
Thanks again for this great service - much appreciated.
March 14, 2008 at 3:43 am
Dave go hire yourself a beautiful translator and go walking around with her.
I’m sure you will have a great time and meet tons of great ladies this way. You need a local guide and she will be it.
As far a subscription sites go I really don’t know anything about it.. I guess all of you can be glad that this blog is a big passionate hobby for myself at this point.
April 15, 2008 at 10:41 pm
Hi, thanks to the images on your site, I know something more about my origins. I’m adopted and look nothing like my family, altho I was told I look Russian. After looking at your photos, I feel like I’ve looked in a mirror. Thanks again,
Alana
April 16, 2008 at 8:31 pm
Hello Alana,
I’m very happy to know that you feel a connection to your original roots through this site.
I’m sure you have an interesting story to tell in relation to your search. And I for one would be happy to learn more about it.
Thanks again, GL
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April 27, 2008 at 4:54 am
Hi rw_man,
Well, I just came upon your blog, and am fascinated. It’s ironic that for the past three years I’ve been looking for someone from the US or the UK, living in Russia or one of the FSU countries, to get their perspective. And, now I find your blog. The irony is that I’m moving there (Sevastopol, Urkaine) myself… in two months from today in fact.
I’ve become hooked on Russian women after some “Agency” internet “dating”, two trips to Kazakhstan to visit a terrific lady, and another trip to Turkey to meet another. Of course I found the Russian women elegant in the truest sense of the word. The more I learn about them the more intriquing they become.
Through a series of connections with a language school in Sevastopol, I’ve been offered a job there. For nearly a year I’ve been conducting weekly English classes with my Ukranian students over Skype, and have established some wonderful friendships with them and others there. They seem almost as excited as I am for the date of my arrival.
I’m sure you won’t be surprized to hear that they have been sharing a video of me among their single lady friends, and are insisting on finding me the perfect Russian wife (oh darn!!)
Anyhow, you made a comment in one of your entries that a good way for a man to meet a Russian woman would be to come to a “Russian” country to learn the language. Of course you are right. Such an experience would do wonders for any man truly interested in meeting a Russian woman. First, any Russian woman will be both surprized and flattered that a man would take the trouble to learn her language. And, second, as an example, I can tell you that among the 1000 students at the school where I will be teaching (we offer Russian language training as well) there are hundreds of beautiful, intelligent, English speaking Russian girls who would be delighted to meet and help an English speaking man to learn their language.
June 17, 2008 at 12:11 am
Your Masha photo has been Hijacked. Go to rbrides.com. I guess this is a typical scam site.
sean
June 17, 2008 at 12:17 am
I dont see any other way to email you, so I had to leave message regarding hijacked photo in reply area. Erase this when you get message I guees.
sean
June 17, 2008 at 11:10 am
Hi Sean,
Thanks for letting me know. I went to that site but I couldn’t find Mascha’s photo on it. In anycase I don’t know if it’s a scammer who’s using her photo to pretend to be her or if this is something from that agency itself.
Keep being vigilant..
Thanks again..
GL
June 17, 2008 at 11:24 am
Hi Paul Schafer,
My apologies for not getting back to you for so long.
I think you pretty much nailed it..
Like I’ve said many times before..
Once you experience these women for real..
There is simply NO TURNING BACK.
You are “Screwed” in the sense that you will probably never be satisfied with what you see in your local neck of the woods.
But you are “Saved” when you realize that yes.. you do have a new direction now.. and a pretty decent chance at a bright future too.
Good luck to you in the Ukraine. I hope you don’t get too distracted while you are there and visit back with us and report on all of the lovely scenery you are experiencing there.
Take care,
GL
June 17, 2008 at 5:06 pm
I went over and looked for Mascha as well, there are just too many pictures on that site. I did see a girl I know from Louisiana and a model in Florida that does boat shows. I feel almost like I know Mascha and it I don’t like her being used like this. I will keep looking.
June 19, 2008 at 3:12 pm
GL,
I thought you would like to know that your video of Masha has been hijacked too.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J4OIYKdwzOE
http://www.chicasdeleste.com/
So much for that agency and its trustworthiness!! Hope it helps.
T.
June 19, 2008 at 3:29 pm
Hello T.
I think it’s hilarous in a way that someone would stoop that low to try to hijack Mascha’ image and video. Desperation on the side of the scammers reaches a new low.. Thanks for spotting them out and letting us know.
GL
June 20, 2008 at 12:56 am
Anytime
T.