The Brits are Getting It

I was totally grinning when I read this article today.

I hope you will too..

To Russia for Love

War and alcoholism have taken their toll on Russia’s male population, and women are turning their gaze to the eligible bachelors of the UK, finds Richard Spillett

Tuesday April 8th 2008

Are British men on the run from Britain’s pint-downing, liberated women?

While in the realm of political rhetoric Britain and Russia seem to be renewing old rivalries, relations on the ground have never been better. The global market is finally coming to Moscow, and when it comes to husbands, Russian women have started buying British.

 

Stand and Deliver

Greetings Everyone,

I’ve been especially impressed with the quality and depth of the latest discussions being initiated by some of you.

You individuals have deep insight and important points to convey in your posts and I of course greatly appreciate all of the wisdom that you have to share collectively.

For example, these last few threads related to the disastrous consequences of competition within a marriage is quite valuable and I’m sure large numbers of our readers will benefit greatly from the various points made.

We are getting a growing number of comments posted and I may not be able to answer all of them in a timely manner since I’m trying to focus on providing as much quality content for you as possible.

Please do not think that I’m ignoring anything that’s said here because on the contrary I’m glued to my PC following every aspect of this blog just like many of you it seems.

Because of this I feel a special responsibility to move this site forward as much as possible and that simply means that like all of us I have a little prioritization to do.

In the meantime many of you are stepping up to the plate and taking up the slack with your own written inspirations which I enthusiastically encourage you to do.

 

Please Boycott the following “Mail Order Bride” Companies

Gentlemen,

As you should know by now there is nothing more vile or disgusting to me then to see the term “Mail Order Brides” being propagated on the Internet and within our own Culture.

NO WOMAN by virtue of her country of origin deserves to be labeled as a cheap commodity to be traded or sold.

This is ESPECIALLY the case for the Russian and FSU Ladies that I have come to adore and respect with all of my heart.

In my mind this term is far worse then any racist slur that can be directed towards any group or nationality.

It should be completely obvious that ANY COMPANY that wishes to market itself by using the “Mail Order Bride” Term is trying to paint a fraudulent and deceitful picture as to what is required to create a successful marriage and family.

Worse yet..

I firmly believe that any Company that uses the “Mail Order Bride” term is trying to attract the worst possible candidates for marriage on both sides of the ocean.

They are doing this for the sole purpose of maximizing their subscription fee sales by giving false hopes to the widest number of Men possible.

This is a very destructive business model that will only lead to more broken hearts, cynicism, and soul killing loneliness for countless numbers of people.

Any company that uses “Mail Order Brides” in their marketing is giving you the biggest RED FLAG possible to avoid doing business with them.

So on that note here is a simple top 10 list from Google of companies that promote themselves in this manner. There are numerous more as you can see from the total site count and you can easily do your own research to find the rest.

I kindly urge you to respect these ladies and most importantly to respect yourself as a Man by refusing to play this game and not falling for this degrading trap.

Thank You..

GL

 

Is this what American Women are turning into?

Now normally I try to keep things on a tame level when I feel like I need to hand out a healthy dose of criticism towards American Women.

But when I received a viewer comment yesterday about Western Women it just really clicked and the reality of it refused to lie still.

Now if you remember in our previous post “NEWS FLASH! Beautiful Russian Girls in the Mainstream Press” I took offense with Anne Applebaum’s contention that most Russian Women only became beautiful when they acquired enough money and free access to fashionable products to transform themselves from

“Unglamorous Assembly Line Workers”…

into the

“extraordinarily, unbelievably, stunningly, and gorgeous”…

…Russian women that she saw from the mid 90’s on.

One of our readers graciously wrote in the following comment about this state of affairs from his vantage point.

Women in the West are NEVER going to want to see these (Russian) women coming their way.

They will marginalize them any way they can. If it weren’t for the Sharapova’s a Western man might believe them, but you can’t deny the picture you posted (of her beauty) and noted the (lack of) clothing and make up.

Western women WANT to make this about materialism, it is the only value they appreciate.

They WANT to believe that clothing and make up can cover the distance between what they have become and the obvious stunning beauty that is available in the FSU.

I am around single women’s groups a lot, and they detonate if the subject of women from anywhere comes up.

-Randall

Now when I read this it was easy to be reminded of the American Women back in my own life who had demonstrated these unfortunate characteristics all too well.

I was even thinking about sharing some personal examples of this when I realized that there was a much more simpler and vivid example I could use that everyone should instantly recognize and still drive home the point.

An example of a Woman that we all know who also possessed a toxic brew of VANITY and ENVY directed towards other women.

So does anyone know who this lady is?

 

Russian Women Want Real Men - Part 2 - Impressing the Younger Ladies

OK let’s be completely honest here.

We Men are physically attracted to Younger Ladies..

Always have been and always will be..

And this is something that none of us need to make the slightest justification or excuse for because of a very simple reason.

This attraction is completely Hard Wired into our brains.

And there is simply NOTHING that any jaded feminist can say or do to alter this unless of course you actually decide to go into hiding like some poor wimp over some stupid name calling on their part.

Now the evolutionary biologists out there will state that we Men are attracted to Younger Women because we realize that they are still fertile and can bear healthy children etc..

Well I think that’s all nice and good but in reality the things I’m sure we notice most are the way Beautiful Younger Women LOOK, SOUND and make us FEEL.

 

Russian Women Want Real Men - Part 1 - Walking Away from the Feminist Re-Education Camps

One of the hardest things for most men to grasp is that the feminist cultural norms they were indoctrinated into are absolutely destructive towards their dream of having a happy marriage with a beautiful and traditional lady.

And the core factor which determines success or failure for them depends on which of the following paths they choose:

Bold & Active

OR

Defensive & Passive

Now Imagine what would happen if you yourself acted in a DEFENSIVE or APOLOGETIC stance everyday.

It shouldn’t be too hard to see that this would lead to a whole host of problems that would make your life pretty miserable.

Now let’s take this one step further.

Imagine a life where everything you say as a Man is followed by some disclaimer or apology because you are constantly expecting to be attacked or labeled as one of the following:

• Abuser
• Chauvinist
• Stupid
• Rapist
• Sexist
• Violent
• Lazy
• Irresponsible

… and the list goes on and on.

Tragically Gentlemen this is the “Feminist Re-education Camp” culture that many of us were born into.

 

Russian Women - Less Talk and More Meaning - Part 2

There are 2 characteristics that I adore about the communication style that Russian Ladies have.

• Their Bluntness
• Their Diplomacy

Ok now before you start thinking that these two characteristics are contradictory and mutually exclusive let me do my best to explain how these ladies seem to balance both sides with ease.

Russian Women can be extremely blunt..

They will simply tell you the truth on something either good..

Or bad..

Now if you are on the receiving end of some this critical commentary..

You may be surprised if you don’t feel the slightest inclination to take it personally or to be offended..

And there is an important reason behind this.

If a Russian Woman tells you something truthful that is less then flattering.. she will HARDLY imply that you are any less of a Man.

Her feedback to you is simply treated like a neutral academic observation and the farthest thing away from a school yard taunt that any number of American Women would enjoy throwing at you for sport or for cheap ego gains.

Now if you think that’s hard to believe then keep reading..

 

Russian Women - Less Talk and More Meaning - Part 1

Growing up in the US I have vivid memories of being brought up in a culture just filled with serious talkers.

At times it just seemed like everyone was trying very hard.. often too hard..  to be their own Marketing or PR agent.

Now of course I know that in our freemarket system of living and doing business it’s often imperative to represent these titles in order to get ahead. But I believe that something important got lost in translation especially when it came to how American Men and Women communicate to each other.

No where does this deficit seem to be so obvious as to when I listen to the general population of American Women talking.

Part of me wants to be just outright cynical and characterize it as  just a bunch of blah blah blah..

But this post deserves a better explanation so I will state that the biggest problem I have is with the actual VOLUME (both in word count and decibel level) and the often unpleasant egotistical ATTITIDE that many of these women “try” to “express” themselves with.

Now if you are from the US and you’ve never been to Russia or the FSU it would be easy to think that this style of “womanly” banter is just the natural state of affairs for the female species.  However once you arrive here you will begin to notice that the local beauties walking around here have a COMPLETELY DIFFERENT way of carrying themselves both appearance and conversation wise.

 

I think DIGG is Burying Real Russian Women - Please Help

I’ve come to the unfortunate conclusion that the important news site DIGG is either suppressing or burying any attempts to suggest any of my post to their readers.

Several of my post that have been previously submitted by our readers to DIGG have quickly been “buried”.

I’ve had this done several times before and I question why there is any controversy associated with this blog when other Men’s sites which merely promote sexy images of women get heavily promoted. Even more disturbing is the fact that various Marriage Agencies which promote themselves as “Mail Order Bride” vendors are also allowed to have their pages listed.

I have to openly wonder if the key contributing members of DIGG or maybe even their own staff have any agenda in wanting to supress information which promotes Traditionally Beautiful and Feminine Women? Do they only feel comfortable promoting Women as 2 dimensional objects for viewing pleasure only?

I honestly hope that someone proves me wrong on this but if any of you have any suggestions or contacts that you know of to try to remedy this..

I would greatly appreciate it.

Thanks..

 

Russian Women Dressing Up

Sometimes I feel like I’ve gone back in a time machine about 50 years.

One day you’re in your home town, and gore-tex, raggedy jeans, army pants, and thong revealing low riders are the norm.

A few days later and ones over here observing the billowing skirts and slinky dresses abounding in copious quantities.

From a mans perspective, where would you rather be?

It’s like in the west the attitude is to choke off as much femininity as possible, excepting exceptional events like weddings or formal occasions.

In the attempt to be individualistic, the women in the west seem to have ironically developed a style that for all the world mimics the stagnant shapeless clothing of something from an older Communist China!

Or they go overboard with revealing clothing to attract attention .. except it had better be the right guy giving her the attention buddy or else.