I wanted to take a moment to re-visit this whole idea of what makes up a “Genuine Russian Woman”. If you read my earlier post about Women and the Development of Society you would have understood that one of the most important ways to categorize women from a man’s perspective is to know if she is a “Supporter” or a “Competitor”.
When I describe things at this deeper level we can for now just completely ignore nationalities… Russian Girl, American Girl or Andromeda Galaxy Girl.. make no difference because the fundamentals are all the same.
Gentlemen, let me cut to the MOST IMPORTANT fundamental thing you need to know..
ALL WOMEN are walking Baby Making Machines…
(And if any woman you currently know wants to TRY to deny or de-emphasize this then they are completely full of big dog do do. Try to imagine a guy denying that he has a penis. It don’t work too well does it?)
“Supporter” Women are completely in touch with this “baby making machinery” reality.
They understand that to make the BEST Babies require the BEST Husbands with the BEST Loving Environment possible. When you read a common Internet agency profile on any number of Russian girls how often have you seen the phrase, “I want to make a happy family”. I’m willing to bet that you’ve seen this or a variation of it quite a few times. Now guys.. does it get any more obvious then this?
These women did NOT say..
“I want to be a liberated and sexually free woman who focuses on MY CAREER so that I can screw myself out of the most fertile years of my life and then go to an expensive pregnancy clinic covered by my health plan during my mid to late 30’s in order to try and get my older and deteriorating eggs artificially inseminated with some anonymous guy’s sperm de-thawed from a test tube.”
Do you need me to continue with this wonderful illustration? I didn’t think so..
Women who are in-touch with their inner “baby making machinery” don’t mess around my friends. They want what you want too.. Love, Stability, Understanding, Sex, Good Future and Family.. AND they are more honest about it as well.
Now this doesn’t mean that you are going to be able to come here and tell a girl like this right away that you love her “so let’s get hitched and make babies now!” No
Gentlemen you will still need to play the game of love… And it’s there for a very good reason too. She needs to know you respect her BUT at the same time she needs to know that you are not afraid to be a leader who will keep the family ship on course come hell or high water.
I’m not going to bullsh*t you cause most of the time this is a real challenge to pull off but with time and experience you will understand why and how you can hit the right triggers to spark the right magic. (I’m sure I’ll get more into this in a later post.. so stay cool..)
There are women all around the world that fit this qualification of understanding their “inner baby making machinery” but I am focusing primarily on Russian women because they not only deeply have these qualities but a big percentage of them are incredibly beautiful too!
So hopefully you get a sense for what a genuine Russian Woman is… It’s not so hard eh?
If you are around one and you feel that baby making machine peculating through her behavior towards you then that’s all you really need to know. She shows respect to herself because she honors the awesome power of that machine within her. The way she also behaves towards you as a man will also directly reflect this and it is the BEST way for you to discover what a Genuine Russian Woman is.. or isn’t..
Note: When you have a quiet moment I want you to seriously close your eyes and imagine what the woman I’m talking about looks, sounds, and feels like.. because this will help you answer this question in more ways then you can possibly imagine.
Now because we are spending lots of energy talking about motherhood and family this doesn’t mean that you or her are expected to create a kid production factory any time soon. It just means that when it does happen, having children along with her marriage to you will BE THE DEFINING moment of her life… as it should be for you guys too.
From marriage to conception to birth to raising children.. Her ability to be a woman, a mother and a wife is her “Prime Directive”. And if you as a Man truly wants to know what a Genuine Russian Woman is at her deepest level then you must ultimately walk this life long path with her since your answer will only grow more profound with time.
If you’ve ever seen the way Russian mothers take care of their kids you would completely understand what I mean. To me there is no comparision anywhere else in the world with the simple, loving and powerful motherly energy they project.. If any of you Men are a little like me.. and if you are fortunate to see and FEEL this yourself.. you will probably stand back in complete awe and realize that you are most likely witnessing one of the most beautiful and loving manifestations in all of creation.
And you will never forget it.
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July 30, 2006 at 10:34 am
I am seriously involved with a Russian woman. I just returned from St Petersburg where we spent four awesome days together. It is an easy trip for me. I am an American but living in Germany.
I intend to contribute to this site on a regular basis. For now I just want to say that everything you have in your entries is 100% dead on my friend. I especially enjoyed your bit on how Russian women treat their children. I have truly never seen anything like it. I was exposed to it in a big way on this last trip.
This is a badly needed blog/site, there is so much nonsense out there on the internet around Russian, Ukrainian, etc women. Those of us who have spent a lot of time there or live there like yourself can do others a great service.
If you are fortunate enough to win the heart of a genuine Russian (or Ukrainian, etc) woman you are a fortunate man indeed.
July 30, 2006 at 3:16 pm
Thanks for the awesome feedback! I decided to make your comment into a front page post so check it out..
September 16, 2006 at 11:49 pm
A trend well established where I live is the adoption of Russian children by childless American couples and single women. I perfectly understand why adoption of Russian children is so in-demand: they are for the most part white, attractive and intelligent, in other words far above and beyond what any US adoption agency or government branch would offer would-be parents. My question is: in light of what you say about Russian women’s maternal instincts — and I have no reason to doubt you — why are there so many Russian kids available for adoption by foreigners? P.S. Thanks for your report. The internet is a marvelous thing!
September 17, 2006 at 2:07 am
Hello Adman,
Good Question. If you’ve read some of my other posts like this one..
You will have gained an idea that most Russian mothers are pretty heroic in my mind with the struggles they need to deal with in order to raise their children.
Much of Russia is still quite poor and the average salary here is only between 150 to 300 dollars a month. Many of these divorced women who have children have their own mothers to help them out but many still do not and that’s when things get quite desperate.
However even if you see many children available for adoption or you may see many women on marriage agency websites.. both of these groups are still in the minority percentage wise.. I’d say much less then 1 percent.
However when you take the population of a city that has 1 million people with roughly 50% women if not greater.. and if you were to apply the 1 percent to this that would still mean that there are 5000 women who would be willing to join an agency and that number seems huge initially but percentage wise it’s not.
The same thing applies for the number of children who are up for adoption.
Starting to get the picture?
Anyways I’m glad you’ve brought this subject up because even with this small percentage population wise there are still many children here that are in need of a good home.
So please do what you can to encourage this. One of my friends over here specializes in helping American couples out and I would like to see more of these children given good homes cause it’s heartbreaking to see them out on the street and in the cold..
GL
September 17, 2006 at 1:29 pm
I know US families who are adopting their second or third Russian child so it appears to be a growing not a shrinking trend here. I suspected that — unlike here in America — the reason for kids being available was not because of Russian women’s irresponsibility or lack of concern for the family, but because of the devastation to the Russian economy by the old Soviet officials plus the oligarchs and gangsters that plundered the country after the fall of Communism.
September 17, 2006 at 1:49 pm
Hi Adman,
I wouldn’t blame the oligarchs or even the gangsters.. I would blame any system of big government that scares the heck out of any potential investors who want to invest their money into their own country.. which unfortunately get’s spun as “plunder” by the authorities.
The US had it’s own oligarchs except we called them Robber Barons.. yet these men like JP Morgan, Rockefeller, and Carnigie were responsible for a great deal of the industrial buildup of the US during the industrial revolution. Free markets and big ego’s have their place in creating a vibrant society and I would certainly like to see more of that leadership here.
Bill Gates made his fortune and we are all better because of it… And now he wants to give most of it away.. The Robber Barons did much of this as well. Give a guy like this enough freedom to operate and they will come around and come full circle.
A poor economic history combined with a bad understanding of what free markets are is one of the chief causes behind the demographic crisis that exists here inspite of the enormous natural resources that Russia has.
This country could really use a much higher degree of exposure to the modern world economically speaking. I believe that people like you and me will help to make that happen.. Whether it is through exposing more Westerners to Russia through adoption or by marriages..
It’s all a very positive thing that needs to be further developed.
GL
September 19, 2006 at 2:10 am
I certainly hope the new “glasnost” of the internet opens many Westerners’ eyes to Russia and clears away what’s left of the propaganda that made Russia the bogeyman for 50 years. But I wouldn’t say the oligarchs and gangsters who plundered Russia in the early 90’s are even faintly comparable to Rockefeller, Gates and Morgan. What Russia might have become after the Soviet Union disintegrated was wrecked by these criminals. An excellent book is “The Godfather of the Kremlin” by the late Paul Klebnikov. It tells the story of the bloody gang wars and looting of the state-owned industries before they could be privatized and give Russia a shot at becoming another free-enterprise society. Thugs like Boris Berezovsky can hardly be called Russian Rockefellers with a philanthropic streak. As a matter of fact, Klebnikov was murdered shortly after his book appeared, some think on Berezovsky’s orders. Journalist Anne Williamson lived and wrote from USSR during and after the fall of Gorbachev and the rise of Yeltsin and tells a heartbreaking tale of how the country was economically raped by these scurvy hoods.When Putin imprisoned the head of Yukos Oil and kicked the IMF out of Russia, the hostage-taking and massacre of schoolkids in Chechnya was done by the crime lords based in Russian and Israel as retaliation for Putin trying to throw off the yoke.
September 19, 2006 at 1:42 pm
Well I somehow came across your blog and the first thing I thought of when I read this was my mom.
This article describes my mom perfectly. She is an elegant Ukrainian woman that always put her family first. I only hope to be the woman that she is when I get married and have a family. She truly is my inspiration on so many levels.
A great and accurate blog! I’ll be keeping an eye on this site for sure!
September 20, 2006 at 8:36 am
Hi Adman..
Carnigie, Rockefeller, Vanderbilt and Morgan were also quite ruthless in their rise to power. No one is claiming that the oligarchs are saints which they are certainly not. But greed and ego does have a promininent role in building society.. But guess what.. these guys don’t live forever.. And what is left over is of great benefit for generations to come.
Capitalism and Freemarkets are very effective and work very well. Let these guys have their day in the sun.. as long as they keep building.. More people benefit from it then from those who don’t.
Also I am very aware of the whole Klebnikov story and the history of post USSR Russia.. Yes it is a real mess but mostly because of a lack of full implementation of property rights protections and a free market foundation. Without this they will repeat the same mistakes all over again which I hope they do not..
September 20, 2006 at 8:39 am
Hi Marie,
Great feedback so thank you. Please tell us more about your mother because that would really help all of us I feel to be more enlightened. Also here’s a key question.. Was your mother happy giving all she had to her children? This is the main concept that I think most Women in America do not understand..
Hope to see more of you soon.. Cheers.. GL
October 2, 2006 at 8:26 pm
Dear GL: some of your responses genuinely disturb me. If I hear you right, some of them fall in line with classic Soviet disinfo:
* capitalists and criminals are basically the same (Berezovsky = Gates, Khodorkovsky = Rockefeller, when the more accurate comparison is Berezovsky = Capone)
* bullet-riddled corpses piling up in the streets, mayhem, disorder and wholesale looting are just the “broken eggs” that eventually result in the “omelet” of a better society.
Your dismissal of Klebnikov’s execution-style murder is also worrisome. The Bolzhevik revolution, rather than being the wave of the future, set Russia back at least 100 years. The rape of Russia after the fall of Communism has turned the clock back once again.
The big difference in America and Russia is illustrated in the founder of McDonald’s: a selfmade success like Ray Kroc not only made million$ for himself, but enabled many others to become millionaires as well; even strangers whom Kroc never met in his lifetime continue to reap the rewards of his marketing ideas years after his death. Gates is doing the same thing for people he doesn’t even know.
In contrast, the spoils of the Soviet state-run economy were gobbled up by a few oldtime insiders at the Politburo and the oligarchs we both speak of in guarded phrases but who are by and large the mostly Jewish mafia in Russia.
Just as it was under Lenin, Stalin, etc., etc., the insiders, their offspring and cronies enjoy the spoils while the great mass of Russians remain exploited and living barely above subsistence level. It’s appears little has changed.
It’s been an interesting exchange, but I think American observers on the ground in post-Soviet Russia like Anne Williamson at the link I provided above have hit the problem squarely on the head.
Still, I applaud your rare insights into what is obviously the stunningly beautiful and underappreciated female population of Russia and the fatal defects of feminist groupthink elsewhere on your site.
October 5, 2006 at 1:40 pm
Another response to Adman about How come there’s so many orphans in Russia.
The communist regime tried to break up even the family – the last leftover of private property. The idea was that the state will take away children from their parents and educate them “properly” ideologically speaking. Children were also confiscated to political prisonners who were believed to raise their children in an undesired ideology. Thus, the family desintegrated. Eastern european families look a little bit like the afro-american here. The mother does everything and the father is quite non-existent. Boys don’t know how to be fathers because they didn’t have fathers themselves.
And than little technical detail, but you don’t have really any idea how it was to go to the doctor under communism. Laying on that table, while the door was wide open in the corridor and the electrician was runnig around to fix the light-bulb…many girls were shy to death to go and get birth controll because going to the doctor was simply so humiliating. And birth controll by itself wasn’t very propagated. After the velvet revolution in Czechoslovakia the rate of abortions dropped suddenly by 50% within one year or two, just thanks to a little bit more of education about it and a little better treatment coming from the medical personnel.
October 5, 2006 at 2:36 pm
Hi Vendula,
Thanks for sharing your deep insight into this dark history. I hope this is something that we never repeat. I see from first hand experience how much damage is done and I am deeply sadened by it.. Please enlighten all of us some more..
Regards, GL
October 5, 2006 at 5:15 pm
Thanks, Vendula, for additional insights. I see that the destruction of the family in eastern Europe was engineered the same way it is being done in my country (USA), and that is consciously, intentionally BY OUR OWN GOVERNMENTS. In the early 60’s illegitimacy was actually on the decline in the black population. Then the US president LBJ ushered in the “Great Society” assistance programs that encouraged black women to have kids out of wedlock because they were guaranteed a government check. Washington became the “father figure” and we see the devastation today. I’ve even heard blacks defiantly say “marriage is for white people”.
I’ve had enough of governments apologizing by saying “we did it with the best of intentions; things just got out of hand”. Bull! They set out to destroy the family for all the reasons Henry Makow continues to document and elucidate so compellingly.
October 5, 2006 at 7:21 pm
Fascists, Communists and others who want absolute power and at the same time, play God always target the family for destruction. Families, are more of a bullwark against tryanny than the populace armed with assault rifles and other weapons. When families break down, men and women are no longer to function as citizens in a free society, and chaos eventually reigns. They instead become subjects because they regard giving up their freedoms as a good deal when responsiblity for their welfare shifts from them to the government. That is why men in former communist countries are so apathetic and worse. It’s happening here too, only it’s not called communism, it’s called the lowest common denominator. There’s a growing tide of chaos, violence and depravity in western countries, and that is the result of the disintegration of the family unit and the collapse of the social hierachy as well. That is why some Russian women marry American men who can function as a husband and father, a role more and more men are finding themselves without here in the U.S.
Taras
October 9, 2006 at 4:05 pm
Thank you so much for your answers. I didn’t expect so much.
Let me tell you my personal experience. I wouldn’t say American women are not interested in the family. But they do it in the weirdest way.
When I got pregnant here in the USA, I was immediately offered a shower. This is the strangest thing for an eastern-european or a european generally. I hate to be the center of attention and the vision of an afternoon with these country club ladies, while recieving a million of pink kitsch teddy bears scared me. So I very politely refused, if somebody wants to give me presents, they can casually give them to me. On the top of that we’ve been flooded, I was helping my husband with construction work and full-time teaching and studying (I have a graduate assistanship). I was glad to grab an hour of sleep here and there. Well, wouldn’t you thnik they’ll leave me alone? No! They wanted to invite me for lunch and make me loose one Sunday, once again I politely refuse, so they need to “surprise me” with the presents. I was letteraly raped into a shower. They give me a car seat at least $100, I bought one in a thrift store for $3 and it was perfectly OK. They gave me a stroller probably $150. I could have had the same for $10 in a goodwill. And I don’t stroll anyway because in New Orleans it’s too hot for the child. They gave me a diaper-bag. I never use it, I like back-packs…
Phase #2: I go to the hospital and ask for a natural childbirth. Absolutely normal thing in Eastern Europe, not here. The ladies in the family whisper from ear to ear that absolutely incredible think. I didn’t want anybody in the hospital, especially not all that army of family matricarchs filming. Women here not only don’t give normal childbirth, they ask for unnecessary c-sections just to avoid even to sweat a little bit. And it wasn’t over, I was told, we must do a party for the family after the child was born. Again? I thought It will be all over. Well, what a horrible mistake.
Conclusion#1:Amercian women are interested in family, but in the most kitchiest, tidli pidli, sissiest, fuzziest, unnecessary ways that cost so much money and drive the world crazy.
Conclusion #2: The next time I do a child, I’ll move to the north pole and I’ll turn off my cell 😉
October 9, 2006 at 9:56 pm
LOL Vendula, I feel the same way you do. Once again, preceptive and true observations. Sometimes I too would like to catch the next flight to the North Pole, and while enroute, drop my cell phone into the Artic Ocean. The fish there can enjoy the ringtones……
Taras
October 10, 2006 at 8:15 am
LOL, Vendula, that was very interesting. You see in the western world, if you’re a beautiful woman (as you probaly are) you are forced to turn evil because of all the ugly woman hogging your attention and turning you against decent men. I feel sorry for you, those woman seem like maniacs.
October 10, 2006 at 7:24 pm
Aaron, thank you very much. I didn’t deserve so much compliments:-)
I don’t know if there is competition since I am 31 and they are in their 60s-70-s. They even have some good intentions, but the problem is they inforce their vision of happiness to everybody.
I was quite shocked that conservative southern ladies are interested in cars and football. Really, it’s been already three years they try to get me to see a football game and still don’t understand why I don’t want to do so. They even organize parties to watch games (women do!!!) I never saw something like that overseas. As well as one of them, the 1st rate furia of the family (65yo) permanently pushes my husband, how come he doesn’t buy me a car. (I don’t even have a licence and as far as I am concerned, cars are some iron boxes with four wheels on them:-))
But anyway, we don’t see them too often, so life is nice.
October 10, 2006 at 8:47 pm
People try to impose their vision of happiness on others here Vendula, but only you know what brings you happiness. It’s all about knowing thyself and what works and does not work for you. I sympathize with you about football, I couldn’t care less about it either. I feel for your husband, I can imagine how relieved he is to be away from them.
Taras
October 10, 2006 at 10:49 pm
I’ll bet I care even less about football than Taras and Vendula. Ditto for baseball and basketball.
October 11, 2006 at 2:20 pm
I feel for you guys and girls about sports. I just can’t believe how much we are being stalked or harrassed constantly from society and media about sports that kept going on and on every day… football in the fall, basketball and hockey in the winter, baseball in the spring. They are just for entertainment, but why get so crazy and follow their teams? Sports are nice to play for fun and keep in good physical shape, but why get crazy about a certain team and bash other teams?
I’d rather to live in a log house in the woods enjoying the nature, shooting with guns, growing natural and real food, create and build stuff, enjoy being with family…
October 11, 2006 at 3:23 pm
I’d rather be in a beautiful part of the world surrounded by good friends and the people I love with good food, drink, and music ENJOYING the you-know-what out of life.
And if the Astros just happen to win…
that’s great too.
😉
October 11, 2006 at 10:02 pm
Give me a home in the countryside away from what passes for civilization and my neighbors, and I’ll be happy as a clam. I’d be improving my woodworking, and enjoying looking at nebulae and galaxies with my telescopes. Why watch a ball game when I can check out a galaxy cluster. If I meet that special someone, so much the better….:-)
Taras
October 12, 2006 at 12:24 am
The only sport that really matters to me is Football. It’s a great microcosm of what it takes to succeed in life as a team and as an individual. It’s the most sophisticated and complex sport every created because it mirrors a battlefield. That is why I have a deep appreciation for it.
But now saying that.. If i had to choose my priorities between that and purusing a great life with a lovely woman.. well the choice is obvious..
October 12, 2006 at 2:46 pm
If you live in Russia, don’t you have to learn to love hockey?
November 13, 2006 at 11:26 pm
I would hope hockey is required. I’m originally from Canada and even at my age I love to play every chance I get. I’ve skated since four years old and think Russia has always been a wonderful place to test the ice.
🙂
Canajun
December 26, 2006 at 5:44 pm
dreamy words.
thank-you.
Good luck, and a 2007 beyond expectations.
Marco
January 10, 2007 at 10:10 am
Oh, Hero, who told you that? )
Russian Men’s National Sport Fetish #1 is Soccer. Many of them are addicted to watching it (note – now only when it is good level of professionalism).
Though Watching Football is a traditional way of their involvement with sports, very many do play it, – with friends, football palls at gamefields, or even with corporate colleagues or business partners.
Sinc., N.
January 10, 2007 at 10:11 am
But sure, many cities have skating rings and even small hockey clubs.
January 30, 2007 at 10:13 am
This is a great blog…very insightful. I need some advice from someone who understands Russian women. I paid a visit to a Russian escort recently. This was for all intents and purposes strictly for fun, but I’ve realized something: I’ve arrived at this unforeseen crossroads that I left with more than I expected. I’ve found myself enthralled with compassion and a desire to care for the well-being of this woman. And it makes sense to me. I’m still working on how the hell I’ve arrived at such a place as this. I’m no dummy, though. I have a bachelor’s degree in Physics, a master’s, and I am working on my second master’s while I’m in medical school (though I’m taking a sabbatical right now). I am fully aware of the differences between crushes, lust, love, and genuine caring and dedication. I accept her for who she is. I want to know what makes her happy, makes her sad, what kind of issues does she have/face, what can I do to help. I want to be the one good constant and dependable thing in her life.
Now a little about her. She admitted that she left Russia only a few years ago before moving to North America (hence living almost all of her life in Russia), saying that Russia was very depressing. I got the impression that she had a rough time there, but I didn’t pursue this avenue (like asking about her parents or if/when she ever visits home). And what strikes me as odd in this situation is your comment about how Russian women are into having a family and a successful and loving marriage, (which is how I believe we naturally develop and live), and how they never say “I want to focus on my career and forgo my opportunities at having a family.”
This latter point is exactly what she is all about, or what she claims is her motivation for doing this (not only this, but she is also a porn star who is into many varied…..situations). She says this is what she likes doing and that it helps finances her career and future.
What I want to ask is this: Because you know Russian women (and she tells me that she is Russian “to the bone”), what are your impressions and thoughts about someone who has chosen this type of life? Moving from Russia over to N. America and not working towards a family, but rather choosing to perform in front of the camera and be an escort. I am planning on making another appointment with her soon, and I want to tell her how I feel. How would someone in her position possibly react to this? Please let me know, and thank you for taking the time to read this.
February 5, 2007 at 9:19 pm
It’s interesting that on the Russian ESL teaching sites, any mention of the Russian women being more marriageable and better women in general brings a bunch of American wymen screaming and hollering and complaining that Russian women are whores looking for American money, or are green card seekers. Any mention of Russians being more beautiful, and the western wymen start saying that we men have to change our expectations, and that western wymen have much more to offer a man even if they are “curvy” (a.k.a. fat).
June 14, 2007 at 10:15 pm
The Smiths were unable to conceive children and decided to use a surrogate
father to start their family. On the day the surrogate father was to
arrive, Mr. Smith kissed his wife and said, “I’m off. The man should be
here soon” Half an hour later, just by chance a door-to-door baby
photographer rang the doorbell, hoping to make a sale.
“Good morning, madam. I’ve come to….”
“Oh, no need to explain. I’ve been expecting you,” Mrs. Smith cut in.
“Really?” the photographer asked. “Well, good. I’ve made a speciality of
babies”
“That’s what my husband and I had hoped. Please come in and have a seat”
After a moment, she asked, blushing, “Well, where do we start?”
“Leave everything to me. I usually try two in the bathtub, one on the
couch and perhaps a couple on the bed. Sometimes the living room floor is
fun too; you can really spread out!”
“Bathtub, living room floor? No wonder it didn’t work for Harry and me”
“Well, madam, none of us can guarantee a good one every time. But, if we
try several different positions and I shoot from six or seven different
angles, I’m sure you’ll be pleased with the results”
“My, that’s a lot of…..” gasped Mrs. Smith.
“Madam, in my line of work, a man must take his time. I’d love to be in
and out in five minutes, but you’d be disappointed with that, I’m sure”
“Don’t I know it,” Mrs. Smith said quietly.
The photographer opened his briefcase and pulled out a portfolio of his
baby pictures.
“This was done on the top of a bus in downtown London”
“Oh my God!” Mrs. Smith exclaimed, tugging at her handkerchief.
“And these twins turned out exceptionally well, when you consider their
mother was so difficult to work with”
“She was difficult?” asked Mrs. Smith.
“Yes, I’m afraid so. I finally had to take her to Hyde Park to get the job
done right. People were crowding around four and five deep, pushing to get
a good look”
“Four and five deep?” asked Mrs. Smith, eyes widened in amazement.
“Yes,” the photographer said, “And for more than three hours too. The
mother was constantly squealing and yelling. I could hardly concentrate.
Then darkness approached and I began to rush my shots. Finally, when the
squirrels began nibbling on my equipment, I just packed it all in.”
Mrs. Smith leaned forward. “You mean squirrels actually chewed on your,
um……equipment?”
“That’s right. Well, madam, if you’re ready, I’ll set up my tripod so we
can get to work.”
“Tripod?????”
“Oh yes, I have to use a tripod to rest my Canon on. It’s much too big for
me to hold for very long. Madam? Madam? ……. Good Lord, she’s
fainted!!”
June 15, 2007 at 11:34 pm
ROFLMAO AlphaJohnZeroCool!!! That was hilarious! 😆
But I’m sure that Wonderlander is NOT amused. 😦
A word to the wise: Russian women don’t like clowns.
June 16, 2007 at 2:47 pm
I haven’t laughed so hard since I last saw a size 22 Feminazi trying to fit into a size six pair of army fatigues.
God, that was priceless!
Hero … Who cares if they don’t like it? To paraphrase our Ukrainian princess, “Does an elephant have to care what a mouse wants?”
If I’m laughing and no-one is hurt; then, I’m laughing. In other words, life is short, so damn the torpedos.
That was the wildest story. And a little ironic too.
A segue into the social pressure for Russian girls to have a child…
I’m of the personal opinion that a man’s best interests are served when the one who carries his seed is his lifetime mate. However, the pressure for Russian girls to vault themselves to the socially acceptable position of being a mother is so strong in “some” Russian women that some innocent and slightly naive Western men become used for this purpose and a considerably better source of child support than a Russian sperm donor.
Then she has her child and gets the most important social requirement[read status] out of the way and when that relationship breaks down she then pursues love and a lifetime mate—children then an option according to several factors.
So, if a Western man is most interested in finding his lifetime mate; then, he is best advised to sniff the air for any indication that his purpose with “the love of ‘his life'” is not merely as a breeder and a wallet… “Now excuse me my dear, while I find a man I can “really” love with whom I can truly have marital bliss.”
Gotta think like them to know like them. I’m just sayin’.
Thanks again for the insane story. Wild sense of freaking humour.
June 16, 2007 at 5:01 pm
Canuck, I know exactly what you mean about those RW with “baby rabies”. I’ve been corresponding with two women from Elena’s Models, aged 30 and 33, and they just keep telling me over and over again how much they want to have kids and somebody to support them. In fact one of those ladies even wants me to support her parents as well!
Anyway, thanks for the heads-up. I was wondering whether I should cut off contact with those two and now I’m sure.
June 16, 2007 at 9:46 pm
Hero… A very, very complex question.
While it is true that many are first moved to have a child, it “can” be equally true that she may thank God that she has had this child with you. In other words you can in fact be her dream. Better than she had hoped. Perhaps much better depending on how has been her life.
How can you know? My God, very complex answer. I believe that you must be in person in order to have this answered to your liking. One of the truest signs that “you’re the man” is the degree to which she’s compelled that this should be you. If you don’t feel the passion and the joy from her; then, you can begin to accurately ask for the litmus test.
Please don’t be too hasty though. As it just may happen that they’re very aware that their time presses this very important question, and that they pray for a man like you. The question of are you just any man? will be obvious by the degree to which they lead you in matters of the heart and not the other way around. When it’s real for them, it can often be evident to them first. And they will make you aware of it at gut level when you look into their eyes and watch their face and their snuggle hunger “with you”.
About the supporting of the parents…
I personally cannot watch those close to me suffer. I just can’t do it. However, some people have no problem living a charmed life and not sharing. If your parents suffered most of their lives and tried in spite of this to give you all that they could, would you love them for their care of you and want to help them when you could?
Please keep in mind that if she could have a life of a common Feminazi then she would definitely send money to help her parents. She probably would worry about them constantly. So, when she is your traditional fully dependent girl, then those worries must speak through you, her strong and loving member of her family’s family. Also keep in mind that many of these people who have so little can be extremely generous with their family and friends. This generosity is very, very Russian.
In the West it tends to be much more of “every man for himself”.
I would personally force my girl’s parents to take it, and in a way which entirely respects their human dignity. Privately and without directly speaking about it.
I have also noticed that when a girl comes from a truly loving home, that her capacity to express her own love emotionally and physically is enormous.
The concensus among some elderly people is that you can generally have a fairly good idea as to the genuineness of their love or possibility of love, within a few days to a week.
And yes, and thank God, to be a wife and mother is the Russian woman’s Utopia.
I’m simply suggesting to look very, very carefully before you leap. And while you look to be fair and to understand context. Context being the Russian way of doing things and looking at the world.
God forbid that I would stop anyone’s chance for true happiness. Likewise, I would not like to see any man who is looking for the real thing to have his noble trust abused.
Again, and again I say … “Feel the love, bro’, feel the love.”
How can I explain the common Russian attitude of money based on my own longterm relationship? I would say that Russians can often express their love through their sharing of their money and their help with money matters. It’s a little like the willingness to give the shirt off their backs.
In the West, I have seen more of the willingness to show a love for money with absolutely no regard for the travails of other family members.
This particularly Russian philosophy truly made me fall in love with them as a people. They live as I wish my own family lived.
When I learned this, and when I “felt the love”, I entirely relaxed about the money and even began to enjoy my opportunity to share through tithing. Tithing is the giving away of ten percent of my gross income. In my case, my intention is to give it to “family”—hers and mine.
These people so often love so deeply, that when you are truly loved by her and you see that you can love them with your lifting of some the enormous weight of their daily problems, that you will know the first without doubt and thank God that you have this honour of helping to relieve the suffering of true family.
Please Hero, don’t be hasty. Simply I hope that you are careful.
June 16, 2007 at 9:59 pm
Looks like I have some tough decisions ahead of me. Thanks for the words of wisdom, Mountie-boy. 😆