Sometimes I honestly can’t get over the fact that I’m living here.
When I first arrived in Russia several years ago everything was one BIG Culture Shock after another.
Of course the Biggest Culture Shock of all were the Women..
Because what I encountered truly went well beyond anything that I had originally imagined or anticipated.
Not only did these Girls Obviously “Look” different..
But they sure as heck “Acted” differently too..
So as silly as this may sound..
It really did feel like I was surrounded by Alien Princesses that you could only see on celluloid.
From Princess Leia in Star Wars to the nameless native girl in the original Star Gate film..
I’m sure there are tons of others you can name but quite frankly now that I live here.. I really can’t remember who they are anymore..
Anyways..
Take a look at these latest photos and let me know if you also start to forget..
Russian Women - The Real Truth 
January 8, 2007 at 12:12 pm
HELLLOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO ladies! 🙂
January 8, 2007 at 2:02 pm
A very nice change from the usual earthy crunchy types we have here in western Massachusetts, even with five colleges (including one all womens college) tucked away in our little valley.
January 8, 2007 at 4:23 pm
It sure is David..
Best of all any of these ladies are not only “easy on the eyes” but also easy in terms of having a conversation with too.
Friendly and curious is the word of the day here.. just like those Alien Princesses in all those SciFi Movies. 🙂 GL
January 8, 2007 at 7:01 pm
David, I’m a little closer in towards Boston, so I’m straddling “earthy cruchy” land and “nose in the air” land. Talk about a rock and a hard place!
GL – the girl in Stargate was called Sha’uri. She was in some episodes of the series too. She ended up with a snake inside her. (NOT like that, you guys have such dirty minds! 🙂 )
January 8, 2007 at 7:04 pm
Holy smokes. Just when you think they can’t get any more beautiful… wow! Every one, simply amazing. The third lady in this series is frankly stunning, making the breath and heart drop a cycle or two each.
January 8, 2007 at 7:15 pm
The reason I remembered that Star Gate girl was because of how her demeanor was portrayed as the hero develops a bond and then a relationship with her.
The way they portrayed her in that first film honestly reminds me of many of the girls that I’ve met here.
Including all 3 of these incredible ladies.. 😉
January 8, 2007 at 7:30 pm
Yeah, me too. She was SO soft, sweet and beautiful, it made me melt. All she wanted was to make Daniel Jackson happy.
Something occurred to me the other day – how often Hollywood still protrays women this way to one degree or another. They KNOW that both men and women STILL respond to that. But it can’t be acknowledged openly. So they also have to give us a parade of kick-ass bi*ches to pander to the conscious feminist mind.
January 8, 2007 at 10:45 pm
This is the gutsiest blog I’ve ever seen. The unadulterated truth isn’t always pretty, but being in its presence is beautiful.
January 8, 2007 at 11:40 pm
The alien girl’s name was actually Sha’re and yes she was a completely feminine lady until the Ga’ould stuck a snake in her head. No surprise Dr. Jackson responded to her, in the movie I thought it was funny how he at first didn’t quite know what to say to her. How she acted before and after being take over by the snake is a pretty good way of describing what feminism has done to three generations of women here in the U.S. But there’s more, in real life, the actress who portrayed Sha’re (Vaitare Bandera), was involved with Michael Shanks, ( Dr. Daniel Jackson) believe it or not. They have a daughter now. As for the lovely ladies pictured, all three of them look marvelous…..though I have to admit the one in the first photo is especially attractive. Siberian alien princesses is right, but I have to agree that would only be in contrast to what I encounter here.
Taras
January 9, 2007 at 12:21 am
> The alien girl’s name was actually Sha’re..
Oh, I was using the original Abydos spelling 😉
I didn’t know Michael Shanks went out with her. He’s the MAN! They made a nice onscreen couple, though. I bet if I was on an alien planet and a beautiful girl came into my tent and took her clothes off, I’d be momentarily speechless too. Especially after I passed out.
January 9, 2007 at 12:47 am
My mistake Craig……..you have to admit Mrs. Bandera is one smokin’ hot lady too. Must be because she’s of Polynesian and European ancestry…..:-) She wasn’t in the original movie, she appeared in the Sci Fi Channel series.
Taras
January 9, 2007 at 1:06 am
No argument there. I’ve always had a crush on Samantha, and Amanda Tapping is even hotter in real life. I like brainy blondes. (Guess that puts me in the same league as Rodney McKay. Hmmm..) I even forgave her for the “Just because my reproductive organs are on the inside..” potshot.
And then there’s the Tokra babe in the tight gray leather top…..
January 9, 2007 at 1:17 am
I’d say these look like _normal_ Russian girls. I say normal, meaning most girls there make a big thing about looking good. Combined with being naturally pretty, many of them are just a wonder to behold.
In my country (at a guess), only the top 3% of girls are this attractive. Many people (men and women) are obese and some just alarmingly so. In Russia, something like 30% of the girls are very good looking or better, and less than 3% are even slightly overweight (as a westerner you really would NOT consider them overweight).
On my second visit there, I decide to take some photos while I was wandering around. I wanted to show the difference in the appearance of women there. A few random shots in the street, as a representative idea. My wife (who is Russian) even helped me out 🙂
The first pic looks a bit ‘arranged’ but wasn’t at all. She was just the conductress from our train carriage. So if you take what you see here and repeat indefinitely, thats what young women look like in Russia. I was not being at all selective.
What isn’t so obvious is that Russian women are relaxed, positive, thoughtful and friendly in the company of men. They do not have a ‘reflexivly compettitive’ attitude towards men. Its a pleasure to spend time in their company – no awkward pressure.
Anyway I’ll stop spouting opinions and just recommend Russia as a life experience even if you are not looking for a partner. It is a crazy place and has its problems (I got a criminal case after 3 days for not properly registering my visa on arrival, but it was fixed at a fee of $20 and a nice ‘sorry’ haha :-), but it is wild, _lots_ of fun and it may change you.
January 9, 2007 at 4:04 am
I was thinking US women would also be attractive if they weren’t so doggoned fat. But, that is not true. One of the first things I used to notice when I returned from Mexico was the nasty, ugly, angry look on the women’s faces.
The good news is, what you see is what you get. Nasty, ugly, angry women who look nasty, ugly, and angry.
January 9, 2007 at 4:23 am
GL,
The Russian women on yours and Visitors’ pictures are so so so beautiful. They truly are alien princesses, and I don’t say that lightly at all.
By the way, I really hate it when women throw hissy fits. I think that you probably discussed this before, but I can’t remember where, so I am going to ask this question here: Do Russian women throw less hissy fits than American women? What do you think is the percent difference between the number of hissy fits that Russian women throw and the number of hissy fits that American women throw in a given period of time?
–Luke Skywalker
January 9, 2007 at 4:38 am
I had 2 experiences at work just today that bear this out. Not so much nasty and angry, just ugly and dead.
I saw a girl in the cafeteria whom I hadn’t seen before. We rode up in the elevator with our lunches in our hand. She got in before me and lamely indicated whether I was going to the same floor as her, which I was. When we got there, I saw her reach for the phone to get let in (she must be a temporary contractor.) I said, “Here, let me” and swiped her in (though I wasn’t supposed to.) She said flatly, “Thanks” and went in. No smile, she didn’t look at me or acknowledge me, or the small favor I had done her, in any way.
A little later I was going out and saw another girl, who I recognized but had never spoken to, headed in. I held the door for her and she went through, barely saying thanks under her breath.
This goes beyond simple rudeness. It’s as if these women have been taught that every man is a potential rapist, bent on destroying her life if given the slightest encouragement.
To all the feminists who lurk on this blog until you can’t contain your bile anymore: Shame on you, for turning young women into this. Shame on you!
January 9, 2007 at 4:38 am
I had 2 experiences at work just today that bear this out. Not so much nasty and angry, just ugly and dead.
I saw a girl in the cafeteria whom I hadn’t seen before. We rode up in the elevator with our lunches in our hand. She got in before me and lamely indicated whether I was going to the same floor as her, which I was. When we got there, I saw her reach for the phone to get let in (she must be a temporary contractor.) I said, “Here, let me” and swiped her in (though I wasn’t supposed to.) She said flatly, “Thanks” and went in. No smile, she didn’t look at me or acknowledge me, or the small favor I had done her, in any way.
(continued…)
January 9, 2007 at 4:45 am
GL – how come sometimes after I hit “Submit Comment”, I get returned to the same page but my comment doesn’t appear? If I try submitting it again, I get “Duplicate comment detected. It looks like you’ve already said that”, even though it’s still not posted.
WordPress bug?
January 9, 2007 at 4:49 am
I swear to god there’s some kind of word/phrase filtering going on with WordPress. I was able to post this comment and the last, but I can’t post the rest of my previous one.
Not that I’m a conspiracy theorist or anything!
January 9, 2007 at 4:54 am
To all the non-FEMInine NIhiliSTS (read between the lines) who lurk on this blog until you can’t contain your bile anymore: Shame on you, for turning young women into this. Shame on you!
January 9, 2007 at 4:55 am
Interesting. When I removed the word “f e m i n i s t s” from the comment, it went through.
I’m just saying…
January 9, 2007 at 5:03 am
This is the gist of what I’ve been trying it say-
This goes beyond simple rudeness. These women have been taught that every man is a devil, bent on destroying her life if given the slightest encouragement.
January 9, 2007 at 5:37 am
Hi Craig,
Please be patient.. the spam filter that WordPress uses is overactive and I made a post about this earlier. I check my spam cache frequently so your comments will get posted like they have now.
Hang in there and please keep commenting.. 🙂
GL
January 9, 2007 at 5:55 am
OK, GL. I’m nothing of not persistent, when I have something to say!
Do you know what triggers the spam filter? I can’t figure out what I tried to say that it didn’t like.
I’m a programmer, so I obsess about these user interface types of things. And my pet peeve is when the application doesn’t tell you what you did wrong so you can fix it!!
And I’m still not convinced it’s not a conspiracy. Like the Kennedy assassination, and the Roswell coverup, and the lizard people, and the …
January 9, 2007 at 7:41 am
Good day and Hi to everyone. Am so glad to find so much brain cells floating around and yes it is true that sometimes we hesitate gentlemanly gestures because they are not responded accordingly.
Craig probably the male-female species in the workplace no longer exists. They now called them workers, and gentlemanly behaviors such as yours and mine are viewed as too much testosterone in the air. A gentleman will always be a gentleman and ladies aknowledge that, but a b#*tch will always feel entitlement to our gestures. Sad but true.
Amorcito
January 9, 2007 at 7:45 am
Sorry and I did not forget
You ladies should thank the heavens. You are just amazingly beautiful.
Amorcito
January 9, 2007 at 8:19 am
Luke,
Honestly I’ve almost forgotten what a “Hissy Fit” is since I’ve been here. But now that you’ve brought it up I can unfortunately recall from a long time ago in a galaxy far far away… 🙂
January 9, 2007 at 8:28 am
Craig,
As grateful as I am to WordPress.com I’m sure they are under too much P.C. pressure to give this site the recognition it deserves.
At one point we were consistently listed in the hot blog or blog of the day section but now we have been “removed” eventhough we have a lot more traffic and incoming links now as opposed to then. If any of you guys reading this have any contacts with the wordpress boys I’d try to have a chat with them to see what’s up or if this situation can be changed.
Is this a Conspiracy? Maybe..
Probably more like certain Guys not being able to take the heat from the various Feminist Trolls and Lurkers that complain about us to them.
I used to worry about this.. now I don’t.. I feel confident in knowing that we are starting to reach a certain level of critical mass as far as our readership goes and the word of mouth that comes along with it to be so easily disgarded.
I’m not taking anything for granted here because constant vigilence is critical. However I just understand that we Men are “On the Right Side of History” as far as our principals and beliefs are concerned. And clearly this wave is going to continue to grow..
You just can’t kill an idea who’s time has come..
January 9, 2007 at 8:35 am
Amorcito,
Many of these Ladies actually have a hard time believing that WE Men would want to devote the time that we do towards understanding them.
This is something that they do not normally encounter here.
When I tell them about this blog they simply ask “WHY?”. Because they believe that Western Women are just the same as they are in most respects so why should any more special attention be brought on to them?
One of my fellow collegues who has been reading this site is a drop dead gorgeous lady who is starting to gain this understanding as well.
She said something very cool to me today..
She said.. “You are promoting our Women and helping to raise their self-esteem in relation to the rest of the World.”
Well I guess I can chalk up another smile on my face.. 🙂
January 9, 2007 at 11:17 am
Such a wonder to behold GL. I am excersizing all my patience. All the comments and pictures cannot sate my appetite. I most make the journey, for that my destiny is assured. Keep up the good work and the posts are only making me more anxious.
😉
Canajun
January 10, 2007 at 7:11 am
Wait a minute. I know you got banned from Bestblog, but not only that, they are keeping you off of Hotblog and Blog of the Day, too?
January 10, 2007 at 4:50 pm
Looks like it.. We used to be a daily fixture on their Blog of their Hotblog list and if you check out some of the other sites they have listed there I don’t “understand” why we aren’t included in that given how active this site is.. Go figure..
GL
January 11, 2007 at 6:16 am
Amazing, beautiful pictures. Just a quik question for RW man. Are feminists trying to break into the Russian and Eastern European markets now that they have conquered western Europe?
January 11, 2007 at 6:38 am
GL, I just told a whole bunch of people at my school about my blog and your blog, and told them to spread the word. There was a trade off to doing this. Like that one Russian politician, I am one of the “popular but controversial” people at my school. The good side of this deal is that more supporters will be coming our way. The bad side is that not everyone likes me, and feminist indoctrination is ever-present at colleges nowadays, so there are also some bombthrowers that will undoubtably be coming our way. However, because I have established my reputation very well at my school, more supporters will be coming than bombthrowers, so I thought it was a good trade.
–Luke Skywalker
January 11, 2007 at 9:58 am
About how many views per day do you have to have to get onto the Hotblog list?
January 11, 2007 at 1:18 pm
Hi Brilliant Site..
Welcome aboard and thank you for your warm words. I think the feminist will obviously try to break in but I honestly don’t think their impact will be felt on a general basis due to the seriously patriarchal nature of this country along with the demographic imbalance of eligible women to qualified men.
Feminism in Russia will NOT help a woman to find a husband or to start a family. It will do just the exact opposite. So there is a pretty strong incentive internally to disregard feminist dogma. And for this we can all be thankful.
BTW please tell your friends.. Cheers GL
January 11, 2007 at 1:24 pm
Hi Luke,
Much grattitude for spreading the word.
But Young Padawan..
Always remember to..
NEVER WORRY ABOUT THE CRITICS..
Because no matter what you do they will always be there unless they realize that you are completely beyond their control.
Do what you know in your heart and soul is right and you will be a much Happier Man because of it..
This is one of the deepest principals in life that exists. When you do what you want to do you have something special that those who cannot follow their dreams do not have..
It’s called an IDENTITY.
And it’s FAR more valuable then Gold, Guns or even your Dream Girls.
Understand this.. and you will indeed become a leader Luke.. I sense it is already starting with you.. MTFBWY
GL
January 11, 2007 at 1:28 pm
Siberianow..
wordpress like google has a secret voodoo ranking algorithm that they use that is not necessarily weighted mostly towards number of visitors. I’d recommend that you build up your content and network with as many other quality bloggers as you can and trade links and you will start to see progress..
As with all good things in life including finding the right Russian girl.. it’s just lots of work but it’s also the kind of work that just continues to build towards your future success.. good luck.. GL
January 11, 2007 at 1:28 pm
Because I have an idea. If my blog becomes really popular like your blog is, and gets on hotblog, then the feminists will have TWO blogs that they will have to worry about and cover up and censor. And this may be harder for them to do without people knowing about it.
–Luke Skywalker
January 11, 2007 at 7:32 pm
siberianow..
Don’t do it for the feminist..
Do it for yourself and the audience you wish to reach..
If you do it for the feminist even if you hate them you will attract them.. get it?
January 12, 2007 at 1:16 am
Luke, don’t worry about people who don’t like you. It doesn’t do anything but create sterss for you. I’ve never been a popular sort, but I never gave a damn about what others thought anyway, especially when it came to what I knew to be best for me. Just remember, life is not a popularity contest. I’m not advocating going out of your way to rub people’s fur the wrong way, but if someone doesn’t like you because you’re anti-feminist, it’s just a question of mind over matter. In your mind, they don’t matter.
Taras
January 12, 2007 at 1:43 am
And in the words of the master (I forget which one) – the harder you resist something, the more you become it.
On the other hand, when you stand up and speak for what you believe in, no matter how unpopular it seems, it’s amazing how many people come out of the woodwork, who were afraid to speak up themselves, to support you. They may not always be ready to take the public stand that you do, but at least you can take some encouragement from their presence.
On another page here, I mentioned the Take Back the Penis rally I held with a friend years ago in Harvard Square, a bastion of liberalism. I was AMAZED that more women than men came up to us and said “It’s about time!”
January 12, 2007 at 2:22 am
Don’t be so silly. Women are the same, everywhere in the world. They kill you, bit by bit.
January 12, 2007 at 2:28 am
Hi Al,
To some degree I agree with you.. but it all depends on if you are enjoying the ride or not.. 😉
January 12, 2007 at 3:05 am
Well I don’t agree with him, because as GL has said, Russian Women have done so many things to set themselves apart from the crowd that Western Women just don’t do. Thus they are truly different, and it is in a very good way.
–Luke Skywalker
January 12, 2007 at 3:08 am
Taras I’m not worried about people who don’t like me. I was just trying to give GL a heads up that because I told a lot of people at my school about his and my blogs, a lot of supporters, but also some bombthrowers, will be coming our way.
–Luke Skywalker
January 12, 2007 at 3:39 am
Al – have fun growing old alone.
(call me a hopeless romantic)
January 12, 2007 at 7:34 am
Al reminds me of men at my college. They all say “women are all crazy”, or “women are all evil”, but they don’t realize that this is only true in the US and the West.
–Luke Skywalker
January 12, 2007 at 9:29 am
Good day everyone
Let me get GL’s feedback on this and let me qoute Luke
“Russian Women have done so many things to set themselves apart from the crowd that Western Women just don’t do. Thus they are truly different, and it is in a very good way.”
Don’t you think
-some thirty years or so ago American Women such as our mothers are but mirror images of today’s Eastern European women-Russian in particular
-that AW have evolved from femenine to another fem???????
-that Russian Women have viewed some role reversals in America that we American Men are now more like mothers in contrast to RW.
Just a thought.
January 12, 2007 at 9:50 am
Hi Amorcito,
You’d have to go much farther back then 30 years. American Women 30 years ago were in the throes of calling us MCP’s or Male Chauvinist Pigs, Burning Bra’s, and pushing for the completely Communist inspired ERA or Equal Rights Amendment.
No if you wanted to see these traditional types Russian Women in the US you’d have to go back AT LEAST 60 years or more in my opinion.
With some of the girls I’ve meet here you’d have to go back over a hundred years or so based on the level of traditions and customs they carry within.
This is one of the biggest reasons why these women are so incredibly special and need to be treasured as such by all of you.
GL
January 12, 2007 at 3:02 pm
Can Anyone Ever Explain To This Ukrainian Antic, Why In The World Should Women Burn Bras?????
January 12, 2007 at 4:54 pm
The bra burning you’ve hear about was for lack of a better word, REBELLION. It was one of many stunts the feminists here have done to either gain recruits or just get attention like a spoiled brat. Unfortunately, the radical feminists no longer need to burn bras anymore Natalia.
Taras
January 12, 2007 at 5:36 pm
Besides, the bra is a symbol of male oppression, don’t you know.
January 12, 2007 at 6:55 pm
because we all know that saggy boobs = femminism, somehow…
(sorry for disappearing for so long! College breaks :D)
January 12, 2007 at 7:34 pm
NO PASARAN!!!
When they are small, you long to underscore you have them… and to wear Beautiful Adult Lingerie…
When they are bulging, you convince yourself into the bra to spare them…
When they are flopping, it’s disgusting uncomfortable even to imagine. Something like having a ring in your tongue… Protest at the cost of convenience? Idiocy. Russians call it “Gonna stick away my eye, let my mother-in-law has a one-eyed son-in-law.”
They never knew what it is like choosing between a dirty-blue tank cover or faded-carrot melon bag, if ever present at the store.
Heartfully, N.
January 13, 2007 at 12:50 am
I’m glad I found this blog — great discussions. I am taking that the purpose of this blog is to understand Russian women? It seems there is the group on this blog who thinks “Russian women are the answer to all my problems.” Ok, well I would say sort of — but it’s complicated. Why aren’t Russian men and Russian women happy together (divorce rate is above 50%)? (although I would also note it’s above 50% here in the US).
My stab at the question (as I’m just about to go live with my girlfriend in Moscow for a few weeks) In order to understand Russian women, you have to “step into their shoes.” I would argue the essence of a RW is contradictory: 1) RW’s goal is to look nice, be perfect and recieve love 2) want someone as nice as them 3) need someone now. (2) is in contradition with (3) because there is almost no one who lives up to the RW’s high standards in (2).
You are going to find yourself “put on the shelf” since a RW wants (3) if you don’t measure up to her high standards. Which is almost impossible, measuring up to her standards in (2).
If you think you can be a slob and the RW will love you, you are sorely mistaken!
If you are going to have a successful relationship with a Russian women you are going to have game plan for when she doesn’t think you are great. Anyone who is in a relationship with a RW knows it is like a wave. When she’s not happy, she’s going to pull what I call “power moves” — not answer the phone, not show up to dates on time, break dates with you, etc. In my experience, it happens to almost everyone, Russian men and non-Russian men, because RW have two ideals: perfection and the need to get married right away.
What I suggest is use humor, and be a bit depreciating towards her when she pulls power moves — and in general. Just slightly. Has to be funny but also slightly insulting so it is a bit of an artform. So for example, my girlfriend and I played badmitton, I just crushed her — didn’t even let her win a point — and then said “You are very good are you” and kep saying I am the best, in a funny way. Then laughed — she didn’t like it for the first few minutes then thought it was alright, and admitted I was a much better player than her (and athlete). Another example — she was going to an interview and I said “Ok, let’s role play, I’ll be the boss” Then I was asking her some really tough questions, such as “How GOOD are you?” Just playing with her. She sort of objects at first but by now I’m playing with her all the time and our relationship is quite good — she pulls some stuff but knows she can’t really do it because I’ll just joke and that will be that.
Again, I warn all men who think they are going to waltz into Russia and “be themselves” and the Russian woman is going to “fall in love” with them because they are a foreigner, rich etc — you are going to be made into MINCE MEAT.
January 13, 2007 at 1:35 am
Hey guys great news!!! I am on Blog Of The Day #95 for fastest growing blogs!!! This is the second day in a row that I have been on fastest growing blogs. I had 130 views today and my blog is only 6 days old!
“rw_man Says:
January 11th, 2007 at 7:32 pm
siberianow..
Don’t do it for the feminist..
Do it for yourself and the audience you wish to reach..
If you do it for the feminist even if you hate them you will attract them.. get it?”
But don’t you see, Rw_man? I have been getting on Blog Of The Day, which is something that they banned us from. And my blog talks about Siberia just like your blog does, and even has a link to your blog and posts about your blog. Therefore we are circumventing the feminists’ plans to ban us from Blog of the Day!
–Luke Skywalker
January 13, 2007 at 1:39 am
The Equal Rights Amendment would have killed this nation had it passed. And most states were ready to vote it right in. It was only the most conservative and traditional states that held on. And there were barely enough of them in order to hold on.
–Luke Skywalker
January 13, 2007 at 2:12 am
Hello Kirk and welcome aboard.
Thanks for your excellent comments and great advice. I agree with everything you’ve put out completely.
Most guys don’t understand this simple fact that no matter how stacked you think the odds are against the Women here demographically if you show them the slightest bit of disrespect or inattention to them..
You will know it. DO NOT EXPECT to land here and have a line of girls waiting for you..
Please keep on commenting.. good luck with your trip to Russia and please tell your buddies..
GL
January 13, 2007 at 2:13 am
Congratulations Luke 🙂
Keep it up..
January 13, 2007 at 4:00 am
Hey Kirk – Great points but I think if you go back and reread all the articles and comments here, the simplistic mindset you’re talking about just isn’t there. If it is, it’s a tiny minority. GL does a great job of explaining all the complicated facets you’re talking about.
And then there’s Natalia..
http://russianwomenspeak.wordpress.com/
January 13, 2007 at 8:28 am
RW – Happy ‘Old New Year’! This is the traditional New Year for Russia, based on the old calendar.
I want to comment on the hissy fits as one who is married to a Russian woman.
Total hissy fits in the last two years of our relationship – that would be zero. Yes, zero.
Number of calm, rational discussions when there is an issue or friction in our marriage – some, but who cares. That is called a healthy relationship.
I love the one picture visitor posted, I am always amazed by the stunning women wearing frumpy uniforms in Russia. That one pic by the train – I see that a lot!
I just returned from St Petersburg, men the women are as RW says. RW your pictures are very typical. But better are their personalities.
They WANT THEIR HUSBANDS TO BE HAPPY!!!! What a concept.
January 13, 2007 at 12:10 pm
That’s awesome Rule62! By the way, I have a post about this on my blog, and I really need more testimonials from people like you about how they have seen Russian and/or Siberian women throw none or very few hissy fits.
–Luke Skywalker
January 13, 2007 at 12:16 pm
Also GL, because I invited a lot of people from college onto my blog, and a lot of them major in Math and the Natural Sciences and are very numerical people. Thus it would be really nice if I could have even a ballpark guesstimation as to the number of hissy fits you have seen total in your experiences in Siberia.
–Luke Skywalker
January 13, 2007 at 1:44 pm
…And this is what Natalia says about “power pulls” and “negs”:
“The difference between poison and cure is in dosage, recipe and application.”
They may be “spice” and “acupuncture” to daily relations, and such they are as an important part of Russian women’s charms.
They may be total bad taste and race of climbing over each other’s egos.
They may be deal-breakers. Got a draft about how “negs” can cancel your Russian relationship.
Humor is vital. But there is always a fine line between pricking blisters of vanity (“now prove me how good you are”), and trampling over the neighbor’s failure. I am sure that Kirk’s girl was sent to school sufficiently on the badminton playground, that she would naturally have expressed her admiration for the winner by her own initiative, and would have fun watching him enjoying herself. But I disapprove the general message of “intentional disciplinary insulting”. Hate-love-hate game is dangerous. A breakup may become the mildest consequence.
A duet of self-ironists is a golden mean here.
Sincerely,
Comrade Natalia
January 13, 2007 at 1:45 pm
…enjoying HIMself, sorry. ))
January 13, 2007 at 9:54 pm
Yes they look beautiful.
But do not breathe too much life into a picture.
I have said in another post that:
Apicture is worth only a few words, not 1000 words! As the metaphor suggests.
From C.
January 13, 2007 at 10:01 pm
Oh yeah and the metaphorical meta-messages in Stargate movie, where “Ra” or “Re” is actually a symbol of The Devil or the evil empire enslaving a more simple kind of people.
I am unsure of egyptian translation of
“Sha’ Re” but i am sure that the “Re” means
“of the Sun” but what does “Sha'” mean “She” perhaps? “She’s of the Sun” perhaps?
But what makes the story more ineraesting is the “adam and eve symbolism in that movie”
And why does “sha’ Re” have a metaphorical “Snake” inside her?
Well I will say that “eve” was tempted by a “Snake” in the garden and as most who know a bit about biblical parables the “Snake” represents: The Devil/The opposer of good.
See what you can get out of a great movie that actually has a plot and meta-messages?
Pretty Awesome, Huh?
From C. The Analyzer.
January 14, 2007 at 12:42 am
Hmm, what about “Ru”-ssia? ))
One of our popular authors (a patriot of Russian mind / soul / spirit and a castigator of American materialism and other -isms) traces it back exactly to “Ra” the Sun. The Land of Sunshine Sown Around.
Sinc., N.
January 14, 2007 at 4:09 am
Curious, What author is that then?
January 14, 2007 at 10:34 am
I’ll write an article on him. A very important part of modern Russian culture (humor) he is. There’s more about him than the fact of being denied a visa to the USA, for mopping the floor with GWB. (Also to Egypt, for exposing their bargainer descendents of Faraons and Astronomers, for a short time to Ukraine, for riding on its then-President, and wondering how is he still left living in Russia with his jokes all over the Government, bureaucracy and Putin cult.)
January 15, 2007 at 10:13 am
A lot of great comments here.
I couldn’t help having tears of laughter in my eyes re Craig’s “Take back the Penis” rally! Did anyone take photos? Tell me you didn’t have a mascot! LOL
January 17, 2007 at 9:23 pm
Good day to everyone,
wonderlander Says:
January 12th, 2007 at 3:02 pm
Can Anyone Ever Explain To This Ukrainian Antic, Why In The World Should Women Burn Bras?????
Like any advertising campaign here in the west: IMPACT, AIR TIME, and UNIQUENESS are crucial in getting the message across.
I percieved this BRA BURNING as the following:
-Women’s Bras are like labels and wrappers which oftentimes gives better picture of what it insulates.
-It insulates the breast which gives life or pleasure and to both the young and the old.
-It gives me a message that our life source at one point or another, comes in a very attractive container and gives freshness to its content.
-Should it ever runs dry, I am sure it is ready to make any man happy and so the cycle goes on.
It was pivotal at that time to send a message (BRA BURNING), that our western women were tired (still is) and wanted out of the traditional gender roles.
My best to all.
Amorcito
February 1, 2007 at 9:25 am
Thank you for an insightful explanation, Amorcito!
But, if we speculate along this logic, burning bras should have stood for defending more “sexual” than “social” rights against the moral standards that made the common practices of the preceding ages. Like,
– the right to be pleased and allowed to enjoy sex without feeling “an indecent woman”, not only to be used as a source of pleasure
(“Everyone has a natural right to orgasm regardless of age, sex, race, height – let the Market, not Regulation decide on the enforcement of this right))”;
– the right to decline claims from men you dislike, or to postpone sex with your partner when you feel bad (I don’t mean the proverbial lame excuses “now go tell Tarzan about your headache, darling”);
…In Former Soviet Union, I happened to run across a crazy male stereotype “You are a beautiful woman – so YOU owe favors to Men [not men to you!]; female beauty is, like, Public Domain [it’s unjust that you belong to your partner only!] Wrapped myself into business jacket+trousers suits, couldn’t allow doing without trim-tailored waist, feminine shoes, shape, grooming & makeup, – and the results didn’t change…
– and, as the extreme conflict, the right to multiple partners. Not going further into this topic, because it would lead away from my initial message…
However tempting it is to mention a Russian Revolutionary Alexandra Kollontai (with her complex agenda on communism, feminism, and nuptial contracts…)
I’d say that if the general Russian womenfolk went on such demonstrations, they would go out burning mops and ugly clothes of poor quality, to win the right of being cherished as a Source of Life, Pleasure, Freshness, Youth, Attraction etc. … a WOMAN.
Sincerely,
Comrade N.
February 8, 2007 at 12:51 pm
what older women say is true………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………..
all men are pigs!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
THAT’S FROM EXPERIENCE!!!!!!!!!!!!!
IT’S JUST THE WAY MEN R!! WHY CAN’T MEN EVER JUDGE A WOMAN BY HER PERSONALITY, INSTEAD OF HOW BIG HER TITS ARE OR HOW SKINNY SHE IS?????
And if u don’t post my comment then u men really are sexists (anti – woman comments!!)
February 8, 2007 at 1:02 pm
How would u men feel if u asked a woman out and she turned around and said, “Sorry ur whatsit isn’t big enough!” ?It’s practically the same as saying a woman is fat or over weight! u should learn that u never judge a book by its cover!!!! So don’t judge women by the way they look. u could meet the most sexiest woman in the world and she could turn out to be the biggest bitch on earth!!!!! so be carefull what u wish for!!!!!
February 8, 2007 at 3:42 pm
Wow Anon,
So can you tell us how you REALLY Feel?
It’s funny when I get challenged to post comments like yours.
Your “comments” (or should I say outbursts) are VERY useful to us..
Let’s see if you can figure out why..
Because of your obvious JEALOUSY towards physically beautiful women I can likely assume that you probably don’t belong to that category.
I understand that this might be a real bummer for you especially if you are the kind of girl who doesn’t want to take care of your own appearance. But it’s interesting because if that wasn’t enough to deter any civilized person from being around you.. You decide to add one huge overshadowing characteristic to make this a permanent feature.
Can you say.. SPITE or VENOM?
Anon here’s the deal..
I actually feel sorry for you because I can honestly tell you (with no malice or spite intended) that your life is seriously screwed unless you decide to make some big attitude changes in your life.
You carry around a nasty bag of emotions like that at such a young age (which I presume you to be) and you will have a VERY HARD Time finding the following.
Good Friends (this is obvious by the “older women” you are hanging out with btw)
Good Boyfriend or Husband
Good Job
Healthy Relationship with yourself
Normally I would jump all over comments like yours and pull out the knives but in this case..
Your comments are so out of whack emotionally that I think I need to show some tough but honest compassion towards you..
Because words like yours could only come from someone who is having a pretty tough time in life..
So there you have it.. Here’s my flower to your gun.. (and by the way i know you don’t have any bullets in it..)
One last piece of unsolicited but valuable advice.. don’t try to fight something you don’t have any control over Anon.. you will only get more frustrated and depressed.
Try to understand that there is a HUGE difference in life between things that you wish for (like Men being attracted to unattractive women) and the reality of how nature and biology actually works.
Yes life is “unfair”.. It’s always has been and always will be quite frankly.. And yes some people in life seem to get a more raw deal then others.. So if that’s the case then really the only thing anyone has to deal with this and to win in the end is their attitude..
And believe me Anon.. Attitude is honestly more important then anything else in this world.. including beauty. Because you are right I certainly would not go for any beautiful women who had a bad attitude.. and neither would any of the men here. But in the process of making your point.. could it be possible that you have a bad attitude too?
Especially if you want to call all of us men “Pigs”?
Be careful what you say anon.. because it really truly reflects on who you are..
Good Luck
GL
February 9, 2007 at 6:19 am
First of all there is nothing wrong with my life!!! It’s not, as u put it, “seriously screwed”!! And the reason i don’t have friends my age is because i don’t like back stabbing, bitchiness and females who accuse others of suppoesdly trying to take their boyfriends!!!!
I prefer to stick to myself that way i don’t have any s#@t with “friends”!!! Or get stuck in the middle of their fights!!!
And for ur information i do have a very good boyfriend and i have one of the best jobs anyone can get in my country!!!
Yes, i agree with u, life is unfair, but one thing i have learnt is that life is what u make of it!! people control their own lives, their is no such thing as destiny or fate, if u want something in life or if u want to get somewhere in life, then u have to push urself to get it!!!
Yes, i am young, but that has nothing to do with my emotions or feelings towards men and the way they judge women!!!
And another thing i am not unattractive, my only problem is that i am big bonned. In other words i don’t have a small bone structure like most women. But i don’t let it bring me down!! If people don’t like the way i look, then that’s just tough!!!
Fine, so maybe not all men are pigs! But some men are, whether u want to admit it or not!!
Let me tell u something else, u don’t know me or my personality, so don’t say that this “reflects on who i am”!!!
I am NOT jealous of physically beautiful women, jealousy gets people no where!!!
Don’t think that u know me!!!
February 9, 2007 at 7:33 am
GL,
Don’t think that i’m trying to say that i’m sorry for what i said yesterday, because i’m not!
But maybe i did go a little bit over board.
But like i said in my last comment, don’t think that you know me!!!!
February 9, 2007 at 8:22 am
Oh girl, what you – are – making of your life… (
February 9, 2007 at 8:58 am
Let me tell you something. I make the most of my life, i enjoy every minute of my life!! I live my life to the fullest!!!
At least in my country us women don’t have to put with men who think they are “God’s gift to women”!!!
What really pi#@es me off is, people who think they know everything about everyone!!!
February 9, 2007 at 11:53 am
“Speak so I could see you”, – said the same man who coined the saying “I know that I know nothing”…
Dear, your use of the exclamation mark alone tells more than a biodocumentary videoseries.
February 9, 2007 at 12:08 pm
do me a favour and find some one else to pick on and stop speaking in riddles
and who do think you are calling “dear”?
i’m not your “dear”.
i only use exclamation marks in excess when some one has crossed the line!
February 9, 2007 at 1:08 pm
This is my first time on this site and when i read through all the comments on this page i couldn’t beleive what i saw. Sure those russian women are beautiful, but what’s wrong with the women you can find in your home town?
And why do you have to pick on Anon?
All she’s doing is voicing her opinion, what’s wrong with that?
If us men are allowed to say what we feel, then it should be the same for women.
February 9, 2007 at 1:11 pm
Well, honey, the fact that you have a compulsive need to come here and vent your rage at strangers also speaks volumes about you. We may not know you, but you’re putting your true personality under an electron microscope for us here.
February 9, 2007 at 1:22 pm
I’m not venting rage, do you honestly think that i’m the only woman who gets angry when i see the way men talk about women?
maybe if u men would stop picking on me now,(or is that too much to ask?) maybe u’ll be able to see my real personality.
February 9, 2007 at 1:30 pm
Anon,
I’ve given my best shot to be civilized with you and so have others.
Here is an honest question I have for you..
Are you capable of communicating to us in a civil way?
Or are you just waiting for some easy excuse to be “pissed off” all the time as you say?
Petrus.. I assume you are friends with Anon and she got you on board here.
There is BIG difference between “voicing one’s opinion” as you say and “screaming” with rage. It is not possible to voice a decent opinion under those circumstances.
If you care about Anon I’d truly recommend that you ask her to take a step back and a breather.
She is welcome to voice a semi-civilized opinion and to back up her assertions but if she just wants to scream and be incredibly defensive with any more “men are pigs” type posturing then I’ll remove her from this blog.
Sound reasonable? I think it is.. and if you two had your own blog I’m sure you would do the same.
GL
February 9, 2007 at 1:30 pm
Petrus:
So when Anon screams, she’s just expressing her opinion. And when anyone responds to her, they’re picking on her. Hmmm.. interesting. Better lay off the koolaid!
Anon:
Are you kidding?? We’re just warming up! I see the patented GL “Anon profile” in your future.
February 9, 2007 at 1:56 pm
GL,
ok fine u guys win! i’ll back off.
Happy now?
by the way i have no idea who petrus is.
and yes, i am capable of communicating in a civil way.
Craig,
ur a real joker aren’t u? (and i mean that in a good way!)
ok, from now on i’ll keep my cool, but i have to let u guys know that i don’t have a sense of humour like other women, i grew up in a very mischievous family.
Truce?
February 9, 2007 at 2:53 pm
Petrus- interesting “handle” choice. If you rearrange the letters and substitute a “U” for the “P”, you get UTERUS.
Anon-“big boned” usually describes fat girls. But it’s the inside that counts right?
Sorry, I had to get that one in before starting my day. I don’t have alot of time to read my favorite blog. I’ll go back to my corner now 😉
February 9, 2007 at 4:55 pm
Ok Anon,
I appreciate your common sense and calm in this matter. Don’t worry about the other comments that’s from the old momentum of your earlier comments but if you want to set a new course right at this moment that’s great with me..
GL
February 9, 2007 at 9:14 pm
There is nothing wrong with the women in my home town, the women in my church, the woman next door (except she’s married…off limits), nothing wrong with the school teacher. I just don’t like the way they squeeze the toothpaste, but I am sure there is a perfect match for them.
and I’m not a pig, actually I’m a pretty good guy and most people, men and women, respect me. Some women even think I’m the neighborhood DrPhillip and ask me if they should cheat on their husbands with other married men.
At this stage in my life I am attracted to a certain type of woman, and it has a lot to do with personality truely more so than looks. It just so happens that the looks are there and reflect years of her taking care of herself, and she happens to be Russian.
February 12, 2007 at 6:00 am
kzarz,
if a woman has a big bone structure it does not mean that she is fat. being fat is someone who has a bulging stomach and flab under the arms. and i am certaintly not like that.
GL,
I know i started off in a bad way and i’m sorry, it wont happen again. but please do me a favour and ask the men on this blog to lay off with the fat thing.
Ceiver,
at least there are some men out there who don’t go by looks. not everything counts on looks. the best part of a person is their sense of humour and personality.
February 12, 2007 at 7:23 am
kzarz
well if you had ever been to South Africa to a town called Komatipoort, then you would know that the name Petrus is sort of common here.
And that it has nothing to do with a “UTERUS”
February 12, 2007 at 7:33 am
rw_man
Look i didn’t mean to intrude on your disagreement with Anon, but just because i did doesn’t mean i know her.
And i was looking up alien sites when i came across your site.
February 12, 2007 at 2:41 pm
Well it seems like no is sociable on a Monday.
It seems like it’s the worst time of the week for almost everyone.
Anyway,don’t work to hard.
good-bye till tomorrow.
February 14, 2007 at 5:25 pm
Anon,
I’m still confused about the fat and big-boned thing. Can you send us an unretouched photo so I can actually see what big-boned is? All the women that I know that are big-boned are fat, flabby with “arm baggage”.
February 15, 2007 at 5:05 am
kzarz,
There are women who are big boned that do have “arm baggage” as you call it, but there are women who are big boned that don’t have it.
Most women who are big boned don’t have any shape to their bodies except being round, then you get big boned women who do have shape.
There is such a thing as a big boned woman with no “arm baggage” and no bulging stomach.
And that’s what i am. I have shape, no “arm baggage” and no bulging stomach. So in other words i’m not fat. My bone structure is a bit bigger than most women. Where you would be able to wrap two fingers around a woman’s wrist, if someone did that to me, there would be a bit of a gap between their fingers.
Unfortunately i’m unable to send a picture because this computer that i use belongs to my work.
February 16, 2007 at 6:31 pm
Munching my salad and reading Anon’s comments–well fellers, kind of makes you appreciate the Mongoose a liitle more, eh?
Marie
February 16, 2007 at 10:44 pm
Anon,
It would be better if you could send us a pic. Really, I see big boned women who are fat with or without arm baggage. I have yet to see a big boned woman without a some belly flaps and arm baggage. Please prove me wrong.
mongoose, where’s your picture?
February 17, 2007 at 3:22 pm
“Munching my salad and reading Anon’s comments–well fellers, kind of makes you appreciate the Mongoose a liitle more, eh?”
Probably one of those 10,000 calorie taco salads. What did you do, throw a few shreds of lettuce onto 3 pounds of ground beef and refried beans?
February 19, 2007 at 6:07 am
Mongoose,
Well it’s good to know that there are other women who comment on this blog.
Don’t you thinks it’s amazing how men judge women by the way they describe themselves?
kzarz,
Big boned women in your city might be the way you describe them, but in my country not all big boned women are like that!
If i had the right set up on my computer i would send you a picture to prove you wrong.
Hero,
Not every woman eats like that. Just because a woman is big boned doesn’t mean that she eats fatty meals. At least if a woman puts on weight she does something to lose it. Most men who put on weight don’t even bother.
You guys seem to like picking on women who think differently to you.At least the men in my country don’t judge women by the way they look, they judge women by their personalities.
February 19, 2007 at 1:48 pm
I think I’ve heard of that country, Anon. Is it Erewhon, or Utopia?
February 19, 2007 at 2:04 pm
anon,
Maybe you should get a man to help you with your computer problems. We’re better at those things.
“At least the men in my country don’t judge women by the way they look, they judge women by their personalities”
HAHAHAHHA. Man, that’ so old. You obviously do not understand men and you never will. What is your country anyway? Seriously, men will always look at women’s appearances. We judge by what comes out of your mouth from your brain. And since I can’t see you, then I will judge you as a bitter, deluded and possibly dried up fat,old woman who has nothing better to do than scream at men trying to find themselves a true woman. I’m just saying.
February 19, 2007 at 2:18 pm
Craig,
No actually i’m from durban in South Africa.
kzarz,
For one thing i am not old, i just turned 21.
You know, if it wasn’t for GL, i would really give you something to think about! But at least when i asked for a truce, he stopped picking on me. Unlike you. You are so lucky that this is on a blog and not in person because what you just said to me would have earned you a one way ticket to hospital.
Slap Duis!!
February 19, 2007 at 2:32 pm
I doubt that you are woman enough to hurt me. Besides, I would place you in a figure-four-leg-lock ala Ric Flair. Enough to make you scream “unlce”.
GL is a true gentleman, I’m more selective in my gentlemanly manners. Just change my description to “fat, young woman” and I still stand by my comments on your big-boniness and arm baggage until you prove me wrong.
But you’re right, I’ll truce.
poka,poka
February 19, 2007 at 2:35 pm
Craig,
No actually i’m from durban in South Africa.
kzarz,
For one thing i am not old, i just turned 21.
You know, if it wasn’t for GL, i would really give you something to think about! But at least when i asked for a truce, he stopped picking on me. Unlike you. You are so lucky that this is on a blog and not in person because what you just said to me would have earned you a one way ticket to hospital.
Moenie cuck prat nie.
Slaap Duis.
February 19, 2007 at 3:02 pm
Anon says:
“At least if a woman puts on weight she does something to lose it. Most men who put on weight don’t even bother. ”
Just curious, did you break your computer screen when your nose grew longer?
Men in the USA take MUCH better care of themselves than the women. Everywhere you look, there’s some guy who looks like a Baywatch lifeguard paired with a 300-lb landwhale! I can’t believe it when I meet some guy who gets up at 5:00 AM every morning to run 6 miles, while the wife can’t even go up a flight of stairs without help!
February 19, 2007 at 3:16 pm
I have to agree with Hero. I see men who are in much better shape because they are so busy running away from the landwhales. If I had a body like a lifeguard, I wouldn’t be running around with the local Shamu. I’d be practicng my figure-four-leg-lock on anon (just kidding) 😉
February 19, 2007 at 4:04 pm
I hate taco salads. My favorite is raspberry vinagrette with chicken and lots of berries. I must live in an out of the way place, because I see more fat men here than fat women. However, if a guy treated me right and has a sense of humor, a few extra pounds wouldn’t bother me. I’d shag it off him very quickly!!!
Marie
Hi anon–you should pick a name sweetie.
February 19, 2007 at 4:09 pm
“No actually i’m from durban in South Africa.”
Q: How many feminists does it take to change a light bulb?
A: THAT’S NOT FUNNY!!
“would have earned you a one way ticket to hospital.”
VIOLENCE AGAINST MEN!! VIOLENCE AGAINST MEN!! WHERE’S DADDY?? WHERE’S THE GOVERNMENT!!
“i just turned 21.”
Ah. That explains how you can live in a little bubble insulated from reality. Do you actually believe men in S. Africa don’t care what a woman looks like? That is possibly the dumbest thing I’ve ever heard.
February 19, 2007 at 4:16 pm
And why are girls who insist that looks don’t matter so defensive about what they look like?
Could it be … DENIAL ??
(btw, a computer doesn’t have to be “set up” any special way to upload a photo. That’s a pretty bogus excuse.)
February 19, 2007 at 7:01 pm
Most people men and women want an attrative partner. But I belive men fall in love first with their eyes and women fall in love with their ears. (anon–you need to be less abrasive or the guys here will pick on you until you leave.
Marie
February 20, 2007 at 4:41 am
Anon, with the way you rant, scream, and threaten to send people to the hospital, you are incredibly immature for 21.
February 20, 2007 at 6:14 am
Mongoose,
Well maybe if the guys would stop going on about this weight,fat and big boned thing i might stop picking on them.But that’s the thing with some men,they like to pick a fight with women.
The reason i didn’t put my own name is because a lot of my male frinds enjoy reading these sort of blogs and i’m not going to make them angry.
Craig,
My computer at work is an old model,it’s windows ’97. For the work we do here my computer is too far back dated.Because we deal with Linux and Open Source.
To tell you the truth, i’m not even bothered to give a response to the other comments, because i’m not even going to get riled up about it.
February 20, 2007 at 7:17 am
Anon,
I am willing to say that some men here made the mistake of continuing to engage you on the point of your own personal bodily traits.
For example,
“what exactly do you mean by you are ‘big boned'”,
“what exactly do you mean by you are ‘big boned'”,
“what exactly do you mean by you are ‘big boned'”
seems to have been repeated over and over again in one form or another, and it really shouldn’t have been because it is a point that is at best tangential and at worst completely irrelevant to this blog.
With this, I must say to all men on this blog that we have more pressing and relevant matters at hand than to question Anon on her weight and bone structure, so the subject needs to be dropped.
However, Anon, I must say that your weight or bone structure would never have been discussed at all had you not brought it up on your own first, and then continued to go on and on about it. Why you did this, I really don’t know. In other words, your continued and involved engagement in the debate of the difference between “fat” and “big boned” seems quite inconsistant with your request of
“Well maybe if the guys would stop going on about this weight,fat and big boned thing i might stop picking on them.”
Also Anon, I am in the scientific computing program at my college, and have worked with all sorts of computers and operating systems throughout my life. A Windows 97 operating system, although dated from our point of view, is still capable of uploading photo.
Nonetheless, we are dropping the subject of your weight and bone structure. As a consequence of that, this should be the end of all requests that Anon to send us a photo of herself; Anon’s photo is not relevant.
With that being said Anon, as I have said before, you need to have a more mature attitude when posting comments on this blog.
Statements about sending someone to the hospital are totally inappropriate. Also in the future, if you don’t want something about yourself to be discussed:
a.) Don’t bring it up in the first place.
b.) Don’t continue to vehemently engage people on a subject if you want them to drop it, as it will prompt them to continue to make replies about it.
–Luke Skywalker
February 20, 2007 at 10:14 am
Luke, I thought it was GL-sensei speaking ))This time you’ve sent all kids to school )) – respect!
“…and when I was a man, I spoke as a man…” ))
To calm the boys and defend Anon’s frame, I testify that I’ve seen enough miniature women all puffy-wrapped in cellulitis. On the other hand, I’ve got several girl pals as big-boned as to have hands 1.5 the size of mine (I wear smallest gloves) – and some of these girls are as handsome as Lara Kroft, 170 cm tall, some are stone-fleshed Venuses like no less stout woman can be, and some are skinnier than myself.
Sincerely,
Comrade Natalia
February 20, 2007 at 1:59 pm
Siberianow,
If you remember,when i apologized to GL for my first comments,I asked that the subject of my weight and bone structure be left out.But kzarz is the one who insisted about going on about it.So now that subject can be dropped and forgotten.
Wonderlander,
At least someone out there knows what i’m talking about.
Taznay.
February 20, 2007 at 4:34 pm
I live in a state with a lot of Scandinavian and German Americans. They are big-boned–ei–tall and strong looking, not fat.
Marie
February 20, 2007 at 6:25 pm
This could be in the wrong category, but I think it fits. I arrived in Odessa yesterday, and about 98% of the women aren’t worth looking at twice. Oh, sorry, not the Odessa you’re probably thinking about. Odessa, TX. I was in Walmart last night, and almost wanted to tear my eyes out. Most of the guys there were within a reasonable weight. Quite a few looked like they threw calves for a living. But the women????????? Overweight, with rolls of fat hanging off of them. During my 2 hours in there, I counted a total of 3 that looked like they were a decent weight. I only found 1 of them attractive. Sad. Many of those women could stand to lose 50+ pounds. I bet if you asked any one of them if they should lost weight, they’d say something like, “Well, if you don’t like the way I look, you won’t get a real woman. Real women have big bones and have curves. You’re just a (insert explicative here) and a male chulvanist that thinks that women should be thin and look like supermodels. Get out of my face.”
I had a similar conversation with a girl once. Later she had a heart attack at 24 from cloged arteries. Obesity isn’t just a looks problem, it’s a health problem. If wating the best for my future wife and myself is male chulvanism, I’m exctly that to the hilt, and proud of it.
February 20, 2007 at 7:20 pm
What did you expect to see at a Walmart? Go to a real department store or boutique, and you will see American beauties. You were at the trough, so don’t be surprised that you saw pigs.
Marie
February 20, 2007 at 9:00 pm
I think the only difference at a real department store or boutique is that the pigs will have gold rings in their snouts.
February 20, 2007 at 9:19 pm
Besides, Wal Mart is the “real” America. Right?
February 20, 2007 at 9:28 pm
Anon, you better hold onto that copy of “Windows 97”, because you have the only one in existence! 🙂 But attaching a file to an email, or uploading one via your browser, works the same regardless of operating system.
And you’re just like every other womyn who’s charged in here full of anger and then cried “Stop picking on me! You guys like picking on women! YOU HATE WOMEN!!” I bet every problem you have in your life is because you’re a woman and someone is oppressing you. Boo friggety hoo.
You’re the poster girlll for Jack Nicholson’s comment “think of a man, then take away reason and accountability.”
(Luke – what do you mean we, kimosabe? 🙂 )
February 20, 2007 at 9:42 pm
Walmart–to quote my grandmother “I no lika da cheap stuff”. You guys are looking in all the wrong places. Everyday I see chic well-dressed women going to work or other places. The ladies who work in my building are all slim and classy looking. And I see just as many, if not more beer guzzling fat-assed men as women.
Slim Marie
February 20, 2007 at 9:52 pm
OK, Marie, so where’s the picture of you in the white fur coat and stiletto heels? (And nothing else but a smile.. 😯 )
February 20, 2007 at 10:10 pm
Yeah, Marie, put your money where your mouth is.
February 20, 2007 at 10:12 pm
Marie, so far you’ve revealed that
(1)You’re a superficial human being who needs to own lots of expensive stuff so she can feel superior to everyone else. “Wal-Mart? Eww!!”
(2) You hang around in the same places as “beer-guzzling, fat-assed men”.
(3) You work in a building with lots of slim, classy looking women.
I figured it out: You’re a high-priced call girl! 😆
February 20, 2007 at 10:20 pm
And you are all Jedi knights with the force strong in you–Alien Princesses half your age supporting your delusion–or at least some nice pictures to look at and fantasize over since society has not evloved to suit you. Very interesting that you take spiritual inspiration from movies for teen-aged boys–oh yeah–I guess I just don’t get it–I get it all right–I just don’t buy it. Let’s see some pictures of you guys in jock straps–now that would be something.
May the force be with you LOLOLOLOL
February 20, 2007 at 11:30 pm
Aww, c’mon, don’t be that way. (Them little mongoose teeth are still prety sharp!)
Ruffle your fur and you go back to painting with a broad brush.
February 20, 2007 at 11:32 pm
And since I don’t have a jockstrap, I’d have to go commando. Unfortunately I’m using Windows 2007, so I can’t upload the picture.
February 20, 2007 at 11:34 pm
So Marie, if what Hero says is true, are you trolling for clients? I mean, what other reason is there for sticking around this site? If you really think we are all delusional, then why stick around unless business has been real slow lately. Maybe you should troll for men in other areas. STD bars would be one suggestion.
February 21, 2007 at 9:17 am
Well, I wasn’t trolling for women in walmart. The truck stop was out of headlights, and I needed one as I had just been ticketed for driving a comercial vehicle with a non functioning headlamp. So, I wandered around wally world for a while looking at food, etc., looking for a snipe bar as someone lifted mine out of my headache rack, cause I had nothing else to do for the next few hours as insulting mongoose really wasn’t high on my list of priorities at the time. I will however ask her where she works, and if the gorgeous, classy women that work in her building are feminasties. From my experience, a nice looking classy lady wouldn’t look twice at a nice looking guy that has ‘truck driver’ or “transportation facilitator” as a job description. Kind of amusing to me that womyn that think they want to travel and yet long haul truck driver doesn’t even register as a good possibility. I get paid to see the world. 😀 Womyn hear the occupation of truck driver and automatically want to deduct 175 IQ points from my intelligence, which I personally find very insulting. My facination has less to do with some imagined “miracle Russian cure all ailments bride”, and more to do with the differnece in he quality relationships I had with the North American and the Russian girls I had as gf’s. The relationship quality was much higher with the Russians. I really, really regret letting one of them slip away. She wanted to get married, and I wasn’t ready at the time, so I let her go. That is a decision I still regret every day, nd there is no going back, as she is now married anyways.
February 21, 2007 at 11:58 am
wolverine,
I’ts funny you should say that.Because here in Durban most women think the same way about farmers.They think that they are stupid men and have very low IQ’s.But they are not like that.When i got involved with a farmer’s son, my friends thought that i was crazy.I wasn’t too sure about it at first,but he turned out to be a really nice guy.And we were together for three years.People, male or female, shouldn’t judge other people just because of the type of job they have.
Taznay.
February 21, 2007 at 4:43 pm
Good for you taznay. Kind of funny that you should mention that. Girls hear that I’m a farm boy as well and they want to deduct about another 150 IQ points from my intlligence. That leaves me with an aproximate IQ of -142. Aparently, to them, I’m dumber than a bucket of hammers. 😀 Oh well, Could be worse. They could be throwing the hammers from that bucket I’m cunber than at me. 😛 Anyhow, the most valuble thing that I have learned is that people will try to shoot down anything that you want to do, and you have to learn to stop pleasing them, and do what you think is right, no matter what they say about you or how many times they try to kick you when you’re down. Someone will throw rocks and ‘bombs’ at your dreams. So what?? They can only destroy them if you let them. Not everyone will support you 100% of the time. My grandma is usually very supportive, but some of the things I want to do has her shaking her head. One of the things that she does support me on is me going to Russia. She says that it would be good for me to see another culture and meet a different kind of people. Then she says, “And if you find someone… 😉 “.
February 21, 2007 at 4:45 pm
Actually, here in the U.S., women don’t like men who are too smart either. Male professors rarely have decent looking wives, even if they’re good-looking, fit, and make six figures per year. Ditto for male engineers and computer programmers.
February 21, 2007 at 7:47 pm
Most of the male professors I have known have been in long term marriages with several kids.
February 21, 2007 at 8:19 pm
Wolverine,
I work in an office building downtown for a consulting firm. There are a lot of law offices in the building, so I assume many of the ladies are either lawyers or legal secretaries.
Marie
February 21, 2007 at 8:47 pm
For some unknon reason, ‘professional’ womyn seem to be the worst. I went to a College and Careers bit at several churches, and even the college girls will quit talking to me right away after hearing that I”m a truck driver and a farm boy. In a game, my male teammates would talk to me, but the girls steered clear until the part where shooting a paint ball gun was involved, and they couldn’t hit the side of a barn from the inside. One of the girls who desperately wanted to win started trying all kinds of little things that she had probably used to get attention and what she wnted in the past, like, “If you hit that target, I’ll be your friend for life.”, and “I love a man who caan use a gun.”. All of which I knew was bullsh.. But I accepte the offer of the gun, and asked her if she would stand near the target cause I needed her there for good luck. She obviously hasn’t watched “The Jackal” with Bruce Willis. I shot her 3 times just above the top of her tube top, and 2 times below before she even realized the first one had hit her. She was mortified, and all the guys that had heard her trying to manipulate me laughed at her. So manipulative, and so gulliable. For some reason, the girls didn’t think it was funny at all. I personally think they realized that their power wasn’t as effective as they thought it was.
Another amusing story about feminasties in my life I thought I’d tell for laughs and education. Although if you think I should not waste GL’s board in such a way, plese say so. His work is more important thn my rambling stories.
February 21, 2007 at 8:48 pm
A couple of keys are sticking on my laptop. My apologies for my spelling errors.
February 21, 2007 at 9:29 pm
Well my philosofie in life about them professionals…
“they are in an upper class..and I woundn’t step down to be in it”
Truck drivers and farmers. The backbone…the nerve center of any country.
Test any major American city with a hurricane or snow storm… see who lives without food.
February 21, 2007 at 9:29 pm
Wolv
Honest work is honest work–anybody who scorns you for being a Trucker is in the wrong. Do you know all the words to “Baton Rouge”? maybe we can sing a duet.
Marie
February 21, 2007 at 9:39 pm
ok my spelling today is out of coffee.
February 21, 2007 at 10:31 pm
Mongoose Says:
“Most of the male professors I have known have been in long term marriages”
And what did their wives look like? I challenge you to give an honest answer.
February 21, 2007 at 10:34 pm
Mongoose Says:
“Wolverine,
I work in an office building downtown for a consulting firm. There are a lot of law offices in the building, so I assume many of the ladies are either lawyers or legal secretaries.”
What man in his right mind would marry a female lawyer? She would know exactly how to give him the worst possible screwing in divorce court!
February 21, 2007 at 10:39 pm
The professors’wives were very ordinary looking, but devoted spouses–these men were looking for help-mates–not glamour girls. Hero–you sure are obsessed with looks–a woman needs other qualities to be a good spouse you know.
Most of the women lawyers I know are married to either doctors or other lawyers.
Marie
February 22, 2007 at 1:02 am
The reason I’m obsessed with looks is the same reason a starving man is obsessed with food. We men in the USA are surrounded by women who have absolutely no respect for themselves, and frankly we’re getting sick of it. I’m not holding out for a glamour girl, just somebody who’s presentable. And when you call a woman “very ordinary looking”, well, when you consider what the “average” American woman looks like, “very ordinary” translates into “bovine”. Finally, an American woman who accuses a man of shallowness is the world’s biggest hypocrite.
February 22, 2007 at 1:04 am
And another thing-those professors’ wives, in addition to being butt-ugly, aren’t even good help-mates. There’s a professor here who has to bring his kid to his office every day because the wife is too busy to take care of him. Also, there’s a graduate student here who had to turn down a teaching assignment because he was too busy with his baby-sitting duties.
February 22, 2007 at 1:50 am
Calling Baton Rouge, Grath Brooks with the bluegrass revival band?? I’ve known that song since I was 12. As for a duet, marie, I’m sure you’d disown me after the first 3 notes. I”ll whistle along though!!! Thanks for the kind words.
February 22, 2007 at 1:58 am
Hero said “Finally, an American woman who accuses a man of shallowness is the world’s biggest hypocrite.”
And any womyn who thinks women are deeper and care more about what’s inside should spend some time reading other women’s personal ads.
The deep inner spiritual trait “financial secure” is almost always at the top of the list.
February 22, 2007 at 3:11 am
Craig, you’re jsut alloking on the wrong damn continent. I think the russian girls would really perfer that though. But I think their definition is different.
February 22, 2007 at 3:24 am
You know, men and women aren’t all that different. When they’re looking for a potential lover, mate, etc., they look for the one that they think they can have that will give them to most attractive children that are able to survive. I know I can survive a lot. I went a work week without eating anything, and only drinking small amounts of water. The reason for that was a bet, which I won. And in an armwrestle with the one that had bet me after the week was up, I was still stronger than he was. By looks, he was the hands down favorite to win. No trying to brag or anything, jus trying to illustrate a point.
February 22, 2007 at 3:36 am
Oh, I’m not looking on the wrong continent anymore!
Nothing wrong with a woman wanting a man who’s financially secure. I just hate the hypocrisy of American women, who have themselves convinced that they’re morally superior to men.
February 22, 2007 at 3:36 am
(bracing for the mongoose attack .. 👿 )
February 22, 2007 at 4:06 am
LOL, she can give some heat too. I think there’s a difference between a FSU woman that wants to make sure that she and her children have enough to eat and a soulid houst to live in, and everything else is icing on the cake, and the average american woman that wants her husband to buy her $2000 dollar earings or neckalces on a whim, and the $900 boots, etc. mongoose will probably attack that.
February 22, 2007 at 4:08 am
I’m not trying to be mean, just stating the world as I see it. I have been in very rich areas, and very poor areas. The poor people that are just geting by seem happier than the rich ones that have everything the could wish for.
February 22, 2007 at 6:49 am
Of course the people who can barely get by in life would be happier than the richest person on earth. And do you know why? It’s because money doesn’t buy everything.You can’t buy real love or respect with money.Some people think that they can,but once the money runs out(which it will eventually do) then that person won’t have the friends or companions that they had when they were loaded.My family is pretty well off,but that doesn’t mean that we go around buying friends or flashing our money.We don’t get all dressed up when we go to town. Just because we are comfortable in life doesn’t mean that we have to wear the latest expensive fashions,or throw big parties every weekend to try and buy new friends.
wolverine,
No one should have to make anyone else happy,just to keep themselves happy.You’re right that not everyone will support you with your choices all the time.But if you think it’s right and you know that you can manage to work out your plan, then it wouldn’t matter if people disagreed with you.
I certaintly wouldn’t let someone stop me from making my dreams come true,if i knew that i would be able to make a success of it.
Taznay
February 22, 2007 at 6:55 am
I have one question. How when i wanted to submit my comment it didn’t happen? I did everything as i normally do, but it didn’t work.
Taznay
February 22, 2007 at 6:56 am
I have one question. How come when i wanted to submit my comment it didn’t happen? I did everything as i normally do, but it didn’t work.
Taznay
February 22, 2007 at 7:29 am
Wolverine,
Of course the people who can barely manage to get by in life would be a lot happier than the richest person on earth.Know why? Because money cannot buy everything.Some people think that it can.But it can’t buy true love and respect.Some people buytheir friends,by throwing big parties all the time and having expensive dinner parties or flashing their money around.But when the money runs out(which it eventually will do) then that person wont have the friends and companions they had when they were loaded.My family is pretty well off,but it doesn’t mean that we flash our money around.We don’t buy our friends, or have fancy parties all the time.If people really and truelly want to be happy,they shouldn’t let money rule their lives.
If there is something that you want to do in life and other people try to bring you down, it’s really not right.Ok, so not everyone would support your “plan” but if you know that you can make it work,then you should go for it.If i had something really important that i wanted to get done,and someone had to be against what i wanted to do,if knew that i could make it a success i would do it.
Taznay.
February 22, 2007 at 2:01 pm
Some Mongoose quotes:
(1a) “Let’s see some pictures of you guys in jock straps–now that would be something.”
(1b) “Hero–you sure are obsessed with looks”
Typical feminist double standards.
(2a) “What did you expect to see at a Walmart? …You were at the trough, so don’t be surprised that you saw pigs.”
(2b) “Honest work is honest work–anybody who scorns you for being a Trucker is in the wrong.”
And where do you think truckers and blue-collar workers shop? Bloomingdale’s? Neimann-Marcus?
Can you say “doublespeak”?
February 22, 2007 at 2:48 pm
So it’s OK for you guys to ask to see a picture of me in my fur coat and stilettos, but not ok for me to ask for some jock strap pics?
Can you say “hypocrite”?
February 22, 2007 at 2:54 pm
anon: “No one should have to make anyone else happy,just to keep themselves happy.”
Spoken like a single womyn only thinking of themselves. So what is your marriage philosophy when you finally wed the poor guy? What will your role as a wife be and what will be your (poor) husband’s role?
February 22, 2007 at 3:08 pm
moongoose: For the record, I only requested a photo probably a headshot to compare you to the ladies photos posted on this site. Since you signed off as “Slim Marie” while gorging on a (taco) salad, I (and probably the rest of the men here) want to see if you’re as slim as you say you are. So why don’t you put your money where your big mouth is?
And I did not read that anyone objected to your request for jock strap pics. In fact, I’d send you mine but it’s copyright protected.
February 22, 2007 at 3:11 pm
hyp….. hypo…. hypo…. hypo….
Nope. Can’t say it. Probably cause I didn’t ask and wouldn’t. Although if you were to take uch a foo, I’d probably ask you wha made you do it, and your mindset att he time. That would be more interesting to me than the photo itself. Call it self gratification ‘Gregory House’ style.
February 22, 2007 at 3:13 pm
hyp….. hypo…. hypo…. hypo….
Nope. Can’t say it. Probably cause I didn’t ask and wouldn’t. Although if you were to take uch a foto, I’d probably ask you what made you do it, and your mindset at the time. That would be more interesting to me than the photo itself. Call it self gratification ‘Gregory House’ style.
February 22, 2007 at 3:37 pm
Two of the professors wives that I knew were very attractive and also professors themselves. The others–for whom I baby-sat were not at all over weight, but average looking housewives–and for the record, I have never had a taco salad–beans give me gas, and since I work with people, I can’t be farting all the time.
M
February 22, 2007 at 3:50 pm
Hmmm Key words. Were very attractive. They’re not anymore. Seeing as someone brought up farting jokes without being asked, would you blue angel a fart in church either from yourself, or your partner, friend, etc?? Oh, wait, that was me doing it to a guy I knew that didn’t want the cute girls behind him to know that he farted. I said that I would take the blame, but didn’t say that I wouldn’t make it painully obvious that he did it. Poor guy.
I’ve been waiting for the mongoose wo jump on this wolverine, but it hasn’t happened yet. I’m curious as to why.
February 22, 2007 at 4:00 pm
(Gulity Pleasures) I love fart jokes. I don’t know if they are still attractive, since I haven’t seen them in a while. I don’t jump on you, because I find you kind of appealing–besides, I love Country music and anybody who likes “Calling Baton Rouge” must be a good guy.
M
February 22, 2007 at 4:12 pm
The Mongoose finds the wolverine appealing?? Two animals that normally fight to the death, and are both from the family of wiesels (sp?). This could be interesting. I’m wondering if there isn’t a spark of attraction there. But, perhaps, you are too old for me. 😉
I spent last night in the arms of a girl in Lousiana
Though I’m out on the highway my thoughts are still with her
Such a strange combination of a woman and a child
Seems a strange situation
Stoping every hundred miles
Callin’ Baton Rouge.
Sing along Mongoose!!!
February 22, 2007 at 4:59 pm
“A replay of last night’s events rolls through my mind
except a scene or two erased by sweet red wine
I see a truck stop sign ahead so I change lanes
Need a cup of coffee and a couple dollars change
To call Baton Rouge.”
Actually I am starting to like you a lot….age doesn’t much matter to a cyber fling….
BTW–“The Dance” also by Garth always makes me cry.
M
M
February 22, 2007 at 5:30 pm
Alright, you two, get a room already! 😈 😉
February 22, 2007 at 5:37 pm
Callin’ Baton Rouge, you like the live or studion version??
The Dance, the Thunder Rolls, Unanswered Prayers, The River are all favorites. Bellou Wood usually makes me cry for some reason. My grandpa told stories aobut the Christmas truces between the allies and germans. Ironically, the General of the army he fought against most was a 2nd cousin. War songs will get me every time. You hear 8th of November by Big and Rich??
Unasnwered prayers is one of the few other songs that can get me.
Soon, the others here will tell us to get a room!!! 😀
February 22, 2007 at 5:50 pm
Past the Point of Rescue by Hal Ketchum is also a favorite. Craig already told us to get a room. Come to my place tonight at 7 and I will cook you pasta with seafood.
Marie
February 22, 2007 at 5:52 pm
wolverine, don’t do it, don’t go over to the dark side!! NOOO-O-O-O-O-OOOOOOO!!!!! 😆
Speaking of Christmas truces, if you really want to cry — ever heard “Christmas in the Trenches”, by John McCutcheon?
February 22, 2007 at 6:02 pm
Mongoose, is this a virtual meal?? lol My computer screen doesn’t taste very good, at least I”m assuming that!! Anyways, I”m in Houston right now. As for a jock strap pic, I wouldn’t insult people, esp. the guys, with the scars on my body.
Craig, don’t worry. BTW, would you pass up a free meal?? I wouldn’t, esp if there’s lobster and shrimp. 😀 No, I haven’t heard the song. I’ll have to look it up when I get home. Something about downloading stuff at a truck stop doesn’t seem like a good idea.
February 22, 2007 at 6:07 pm
anon: “No one should have to make anyone else happy,just to keep themselves happy.”
(agreeing with kzarz) That’s a bizarre statement.
Could you imagine a relationship where you didn’t do all the little things for (and with) each other that make your partner (and therefore you) happy?
I’m just shaking my head here…
How could you not enjoy making other people happy?
February 22, 2007 at 6:19 pm
wolverine, you should know by know that thre’s no such thing as a free meal.
You should at least have a chaperone. We don’t know if her intentions are honorable, and I’d hate to see a nice guy like you taken advantage of…. 😈
February 22, 2007 at 6:37 pm
We should all go out of our way to make each other happy–the world would be much better.
Craig mind your own business–wolv and I are in love.
February 22, 2007 at 6:48 pm
I thought as much. You two get a room.
February 22, 2007 at 6:52 pm
“Let me not to the marriage of true minds admit impediment.” — Bill Shakespeare
I give it a week. 😆
February 22, 2007 at 6:54 pm
What kind of ofspring would a wolverine nd mongoose produce?? A monverine or a wolgoose?? Either way, sounds fierce. lol I didn’t mean to imply that I go my scarring from burning or anything. Well, ther was that bit with the molten metal drops from the blowtorch. Maybe that counts.
So, Mongoose, when will you pick me up?? I dont’ think your block watch would appreciate me showing up with a tractor trailer rig. I could close down the whold block though. :D:D:D:P:P
February 22, 2007 at 6:57 pm
(But wolverine, if you can get her to model the mink coat, I want pictures)
February 22, 2007 at 6:59 pm
You’ll have to take the bus. All I have is a bicycle. We will be snug in my little burrow.
February 22, 2007 at 6:59 pm
A guy once wrote a mail order outfit, “Dear sirs, please send me 2 mongooses.”. He scratched that out and started again: “Dear sirs, please send me 2 mongeese.” He scratched it out again, thought for a minute, then wrote:
“Dear sirs, please send me one mongoose. And while you’re at it, send me another.”
February 22, 2007 at 7:01 pm
You won’t pick him up for your date? What kind of equality is that??
February 22, 2007 at 7:06 pm
That was very cute Craig. I would pick him up but I don’t have a car–I live two miles from work and I walk in summer and take the bus when it’s cold. I suppose he could ride on the handle bars of my bike. It is mongooses I think btw.
February 22, 2007 at 7:19 pm
Hmm… you don’t sound too “financially secure”. You don’t even have a car?? How are you planning to support him if he decides to stay home and take care of the kids?
And you’re right, it’s mongooses.
February 22, 2007 at 7:19 pm
Scars on a man can be very sexy
February 22, 2007 at 7:25 pm
Craig–I don’t need a car–the car money goes in the bank. I make very good money. If he wants to stay home with our cubs–er kids that will be fine.
February 22, 2007 at 7:40 pm
How did this convo go from a free seafood and pasta dinner to marriage and kids?? Did I miss something?? I’d bring my own car, but I’m over 1800 miles from it. Maybe I should just run up and get it. lol It would just be a big old homecoming for it, as I bought it from this area.
February 22, 2007 at 7:41 pm
Craig, the answer is sey. Let me know if you get it. 😀
February 22, 2007 at 7:54 pm
wolv
craig is obviously an incurable romantic. Did you pick your name from X-Men? Wolverine is way sexy.
M
February 22, 2007 at 8:01 pm
Actually no. The name was given to me as a nickname that stuck, and I couldn’t get rid of in school, and so, after x-men came out, I adopted it. A few who were there the day I got this nickname still call me by it. lol I might tell if asked nicely.
😀
February 22, 2007 at 8:05 pm
“How did this convo go from a free seafood and pasta dinner to marriage and kids??”
Well … that’s always the question, isn’t it ?!?!?
February 22, 2007 at 8:15 pm
That’s how it always happens Craig–One minute you’re eating shrimp–then before you know it you’re cleaning up mashed peas.
My beloved–I would love to hear how you got your nic
XOXOXO
Marie
February 22, 2007 at 8:30 pm
Ever see Zorba the Greek?
Man: “Are you married?”
Zorba: “Am I not a man? And is not a man stupid? So yes, I am married! Wife, kids, mortgage — the full catastrophe!”
February 22, 2007 at 8:32 pm
lol
Beloved??
Its too early for that I’m sure.
For the amusement of others, I suppose I can tell you the story.
Once upon a time, in a land far away from where I am patiently sitting while my disbatcher finds me a load to bring back home, there was a boy named N. N was different from the other grade 6 boys. He had a lot higher pain tolerance than the others, and so, most of the other boys in his grade got hurt in a hockey smash up while he didn’t. It looked like he should have been the worst hurt to the bystanders. To him it wasn’t unusual. He had grown up on a farm. At the age of 12 he could force a 2000 pound bull through the chutes and into a trailer. He had been kicked so many times by these animals that it hardly hurt anymore.
This being a K-12 school, there were some grade 12 bullies. One day one of the bullies decided that he was going to take N’s milk money. N didn’t like that idea and started fighting the bully. N was 95 pounds soaking wet, while the bully was just over 200 pounds. A fight ensued. And to everyone’s surprise, it was the bully that was on the ground moaning, not N. The principal said that he had never seen anything like it. He compared the fight to a wolverine attacking a bear. Enough people heard this comment that they eventualy began calling N wolverine.
The end.
That is how I got my nickname. Cool, huh??
February 22, 2007 at 8:37 pm
I have to say that is one of the coolest things I have ever heard.
M
February 22, 2007 at 8:42 pm
How so??
i’ts just my crazy life. My dad was very sick when I was about 11-14. I had to look after 75 head of cattle alone before school every morning, and every evening after school.
have you ever tried coming between a momma cow and her calf?? It can be a scarry thing.
It’s an unfortunate thing that my cattle make better moms for their babies that just about every woman I have ever known. 😦 No offence if you’re a good mom.
February 22, 2007 at 8:45 pm
Good luck you two lovebirds. 🙄 I’m outta here for awhile. If I come back and find Marie calling him wolfie or wolvie or worfy or anything like that, I swear to god I’m gonna puke.
😆
February 22, 2007 at 8:50 pm
You shouldn’t say that, she probably will now. lol 😛
February 22, 2007 at 8:53 pm
No!! You are my Sexy Cowboy!!!
Marie
February 22, 2007 at 8:56 pm
Wait, Craig, don’t leave me here alone. She might try to rape me. 😛 We need a chaperone here!!!!! lol
February 22, 2007 at 9:06 pm
Batting my long lashes over my big brown eyes–COME HERE LOVER BOY!!!!
LOL
February 22, 2007 at 9:09 pm
lol You’re funny Marie. How many times have we been told to get a room now????
LOL
February 22, 2007 at 9:21 pm
Ride ’em Cowboy!!!
February 22, 2007 at 9:25 pm
Your boss might want you to wait till you get home from work to do that. lol
February 22, 2007 at 9:26 pm
He’s out sick today
February 22, 2007 at 9:31 pm
ahhh. You wearing cowboy boots and your mink coat??
LOL
February 22, 2007 at 9:39 pm
I am wearing a black skirt and a red silk shirt. The mink is in the closet, but I wore the brown one today.
M
February 22, 2007 at 9:43 pm
Well, I got half n answer out of you. cowboy boots?? You know, the real kind that you buy in texas or mexico. lol and where is here for you??
February 22, 2007 at 9:48 pm
I used to have some cowboy boots, but I wore them out–they look great with tight black jeans and the mink thrown over my shoulders. I live in Wisconsin.
M
February 22, 2007 at 9:58 pm
Well, that’s a little bit of a walk today. lol I’m in Houston today, and let me tell you, the weather is fine. How do you wear cowboy boots out?? I have never succeded. I just get them resoled,and the uppers usually still look great.
You live anywhere near I94 or I39??
Scandinavian or German??
February 22, 2007 at 10:01 pm
Oh man, I’m going to be sick. Excuse me while I throw up in my mouth.
February 22, 2007 at 10:06 pm
These were cheap machine mades ones. I am Italian–there are a lot of us here. Hi kzarz–drink some ginger ale–you’ll feel better
M
February 22, 2007 at 10:13 pm
Kzarz, you don’t like it when someone is having fun with an American girl?? Unless you count your appetite, no ones getting hurt.
Mongoose, maybe we could leave these nice people in peace. Can you give my your MSN or other way to contact you, and we’ll visit there more.
February 22, 2007 at 10:19 pm
If I post my msn all the guys who hate me just because I’m American will have it too. karz–I really am a nice person. I can’t help where I live and how I was raised.
M
February 22, 2007 at 10:31 pm
then check my screen nme as posted. I won’t let them bother me.
February 22, 2007 at 10:40 pm
If anyone else wants to talk to me, my e-mail is amosfella@hotmail.com
February 22, 2007 at 10:53 pm
btw, mongoose, you’re closer to my car than I am. Would you be so kind as to bring it over for me?? You do know how to drive, right??
February 22, 2007 at 10:55 pm
Where is the car?
February 22, 2007 at 11:02 pm
Come on to msn and I’ll tell you. We’ve probably overstayed our welcome here.
February 22, 2007 at 11:27 pm
Of course if you don’t want to, that’s fine with me. Your move.
February 23, 2007 at 4:16 am
wolv,
Unless rw-man decides otherwise, this is place for discussion not for hooking up. I don’t particularly care what you and the mongoose do but your conversation with her is getting me ill. Yes, please take this someplace else.
February 23, 2007 at 4:23 am
It’s gone, but who said we were hooking up. Just a little harmless flirting. When treated right, a Mongoose if easy to get along with. But, I’m sorry that I put you through that.
February 23, 2007 at 5:49 am
Shaun Alexander,
Actually i have a lot of ways to keep my boyfriend happy.And if you read my comment properly,you would know that i was talking about making and sticking to “plans” without letting other people bring you down.
kzarz,
I don’t intend on getting married.Just everyone else wants to eventually get married,doesn’t mean i want to.And besides i like my freedom.At least i wont get “tied down”
so to say.
Taznay.
February 23, 2007 at 6:40 am
LOL, need we say more…
February 23, 2007 at 9:09 am
I’m not the type of woman who wants to get stuck in a family.All i need to keep me busy is my work.I don’t really have the time for family.My work is more important to me at the moment,my boyfriend understands that and he feels the same way.And we have been together for four and half years and we are both happy with the way things are.
Because neither of us are ready for marriage.
February 23, 2007 at 11:40 am
Anon – your boyfriend is ready to marry, he is just not ready to marry you. He is looking for another woman worth marrying as we speak. However, there are so few American women worth marrying ..he is merely content to continue to shag you.
The hope is: that you will die childless, with your “work” and be “stuck” with many cats.
🙂
February 23, 2007 at 12:07 pm
Mongoose – frankly, I dare you to post a picture of yourself here. You are probably terrible looking and no american man will have you. That really is the only explanation for your continued presence on this site.
Wolverine – I don’t dare you to put a pic up. Pork rind grease is just not attractive on a girl and neither is quivering rippling thighs stuffed into cowboy boots. By the way, your soles wear out before the upper because your disgustingly heavy weight wears them out first. Duh.
Also, make no mistake.. you were never welcome here. Your texas fat-body is suitable only to be harvested for its massive meat yield. Please go rent a gun and buy a bullet for yourself.
😛
February 23, 2007 at 12:18 pm
Excuse me, but did you just call me a girl?? I hope you didn’t call me a call girl. 😛
And just to clear the record, I’m 5’10”, male, and 195 pounds, and I don’t need to rent a gun, even though I’m a Canadian. Bad citizens don’t own guns. Let’s just say that I”m a good citizen. 😉
February 23, 2007 at 12:31 pm
Arthur,
You seem to think that you know a lot about and Wolverine.And by the way,i won’t be dying childless, stuck with my work or stuck with many cats.
Because my boyfriend and i happen to be expecting the sound of little feet running down the hallway very soon.By the way,i’m not American.I don’t even live on the same continent.
February 23, 2007 at 12:52 pm
That’s fine that your work/career is most important of all even much more important than family. That’s your choice and you have the right to have a happy life. I respect that.
Every choice have a price that you have to pay. Since you chose to put work first and way above families and everything else, family-minded men would avoid you like plaque. No real traditional and well-cultured men would want to date or being friends with you. Those type of men would opt to date or marry women who value her husband and family much and much more than work/career.
Since this website is devoted to men who values life-lasting marriage, family and traditional and classical conservativism, it is very obvious that your own philosophy/values conflict with the philosophy of this website. So, What is the point for being here and making comments on this blog? Why are you wasting your time on this site since it obviously does not serve your own philosophy of your life? Are you here for getting more attention from men?
If so, can you please leave this blog in peace? Life is short and there are so many other better things that you can do with your time.
Simply, I have much different values from you. If I have a family, it should be a very top priority. It’s much more important than work/career. It’s in stake for being there for kids and spending more time with children. I would rather to be with a traditional girl who feels the same way as I do valuing great family and stable marriage by being faithful to each other.
Family does keep a woman busy… maintaining the house, cooking gourmet food for men and kids, teaching & educating kids, cleaning and doing laundry, having a husband coming home giving love, partying, some free time for hobbies and improving more knowledge, even running small business from home and much more…
On the other hand, in the working world… your boss screaming or threatening you, co-workers competing with you, bitchy and complaining customers, endless phone calls and so on… That is a typical employee’s world.
Which one is better and more suited for women? That’s self-explanatory.
February 23, 2007 at 1:10 pm
Oh, and Arthur, just because you don’t agree with western womyn doesn’t mean that you have to completely ignore them, treat them badly, or harmlessly flirt with them. In their minds it gives confirmation to their feminist theories. If you don’t want to, ,don’t marry them, but don’t be downright cruel to them because you won’t marry one.
Perhaps Mongoose is a nice, and pretty lady. But if I get a pic of her, I’m not going to post it, even if she’s not. There is no reason to not treat her like a gentleman would. Habbits learned at home will show up abroad. Perhaps being politeand even being willing to have some clean fun with Marie might help her see what we are saying. She is rare one that seems willing to have a bit of fun without getting all knotted up and screaming assault. Maybe she only is here to see if we can prove to her that what we are saying is right. I’m willing to challenge people a lot to see if they really believe what they’re saying, even if I do personally agree with what they’re saying. Honey attracts more flies than vinegar. Just cause you hold the door for a womyn, doesn’t mean that you have to take her to lunch and marry her in a week.
Sorry to say, but a Russian girl will test you to the fullest. She WILL find out what your manners at home are, and judge you by that, not by your words. She will notice if you hold the door for another girl, even if you dont like the one you’re holding it for. She will also judge you by he way you treat everyone around you. Every little thing. You’re not ready for Russia until you can treat eveyone round you with respect, even if it’s not deserved. That has been my experience with my 2 former Russian GFs. Perhaps GL would like to comment.
February 23, 2007 at 2:30 pm
anon says:”I don’t intend on getting married.Just everyone else wants to eventually get married,doesn’t mean i want to.And besides i like my freedom.At least i wont get “tied down” so to say.”
Oh to be 21 again.
February 23, 2007 at 2:40 pm
wolv,
I’ll take my chances with a Russian girl anytime. If you do your research and ask alot of questions, at least you’ll know what you’re getting in a Russian woman. The key here is to always be on your guard and do your homework. American femhags will lie, cheat and steal until you pop a ring on that finger and then go ape-shit on you. I’d rather be prepared for battle and experience an ambush.
BTW, I believe that flirting with any woman should be done in private, like farting. Nobody wants to smell your stink. And the conversation between you and mongoose wasn’t as bad as a “silent but deadly” but I think it made some members here go for the Lysol. Good luck with her.
February 23, 2007 at 2:45 pm
Wolverine and I were just having a little fun–we didn’t mean to piss anybody off–oh I weighed myself this morning. 125lbs 5’4″ not model skinny, but plenty good enough–Hang in there Cowboy–don’t let a few narrow minded people get you down.
Marie
February 23, 2007 at 2:56 pm
mongoose: that stuff that went on between you and wolv was inappropriate. It’s like if I came over your place to discuss the latest Oprah book selection and I started to have sex with one of your girlfriends. That thought alone makes me writhe in agony. Take it outside or book a room next time.
“125lbs 5′4″ not model skinny, but plenty good enough–”
Good enough for what? I think Hero was right. You are a high priced ho (call girl is what he said). Well, you got some of your biz back with the wolv. Maybe you can give him a discunted rate.
February 23, 2007 at 3:43 pm
And Arthur? Sorry buddy…but you win the golden turd award for ugly–inside and out!!
M
February 23, 2007 at 4:11 pm
wait a minute, I wanted that award!!
February 23, 2007 at 4:18 pm
You can’t have it–you are a reasonable person–even if I don’t agree with you. Arthur is just plain ugly.
M
February 23, 2007 at 4:26 pm
I have a feeling that this Arthur, or someone who has hijacked his name, is the same spammer that’s been showing up on Kara’s blog calling himself Rudy Ericson. The style is the same – a troll just trying to stir up a hornet’s nest with random insults. He’s better ignored, or blocked.
February 23, 2007 at 4:28 pm
So, kids, how was the date?
(125 lbs. sounds just about perfect)
February 23, 2007 at 4:32 pm
I wear a sz 8–most of the fashion ladies wear a 4. I like my pasta though. What is with this Arthur guy? I can see him stomping on me since I am an American woman, but he was way out of line with wolverine.
M
February 23, 2007 at 5:01 pm
mongoose:”What is with this Arthur guy? I can see him stomping on me since I am an American woman, but he was way out of line with wolverine”
Agree. But you got to admit, Anon did the same shen she signed on.
February 23, 2007 at 5:01 pm
oops, change “sen” to “when”. Sorry.
February 23, 2007 at 5:03 pm
wolverine
I’ll second your comments to Arthur. You are a gentleman and your honor and integrity will be noticed by the heart of a russian princess. Anger and bitterness will only kill a young spirit.
Better to be passionate for someone or someplace where you are going, then to be passionate against someone and burning bridges.
February 23, 2007 at 5:13 pm
To be honest with you Ceiver, I feel worse about some of the things Arthur said to wolverine that what he said about me.
M
February 23, 2007 at 5:40 pm
Kzarz
Farting is best done on an empty elevator–in order to nail the next unsuspecting person.
Fart Proudly!
February 23, 2007 at 6:12 pm
GL, please put a stop to this!
February 23, 2007 at 7:59 pm
Well, the lever of flirting that went on here was mild as compared to what happens in public shopping malls in Canada. In front of childern. So, I saw nothing wrong with it. If Arthur’s name was hijacked, I’ll apologise for the comment I made to him. For most of the other posts I have seen him in, he seems like a reasonble man.
Craig, Date was good, she’s a good cook. 😛
Kzarz, no need to be mean and keep insulting Mongoose. If she says that she’s a legal assistant, then so be it. She’s innocent until proven guilty. Isn’t that the cornerstone of the American Constitution. But that being said, you don’t have to marry someone within a culture that you think you’ll be miserable with.
Hero, Pandora’s Box has been opened. It has to run it’s course.
Mongoose, Thanks for the support. ‘Arthur’ was way out of line with both of us, but there is no need to feel bad for me. I found his insults to be a good laugh, kind of like a very funny jake that was being told in bad taste. truth be told, his comments didn’t really even sting. That’s why they call me wolverine!! I look froeward to having a convo on MSN which would be a better venue for us.
To all, I’m sorry for not following the When in Rome rule. Where I’m from, that kind of behavior even happens in churches. I had not thought it could be inappropriate or offensive. And cut Mongoose some slack. I personally think she’s not here to throw bombs, but to try to learn how to better herself. As for her questions or attacks, my dad told me once, “Faith untested is mearly a bunch of talk, and talk is cheap.” Thinkk that maybe she is testing you to see if you really believe what you are saying??
ceiver, Thank you for the kind words. Its nice to have someone support me, although in the past I have been a ‘lone wolf’. I have never needed support, but always found it nice to have. Much appreciated.
BTW, I second stoping the farting jokes. That could get out of hand very quickly.
February 23, 2007 at 10:30 pm
“Kzarz, no need to be mean and keep insulting Mongoose. If she says that she’s a legal assistant, then so be it. She’s innocent until proven guilty. Isn’t that the cornerstone of the American Constitution. But that being said, you don’t have to marry someone within a culture that you think you’ll be miserable with”
The Consitution never thought that the country will be taken over my feminists and manginas. The last great leaders IMO were the following: Pope John Paul II, Reagan and Margaret Thatcher. Those were good days, not perfect but good. In this day and age of feminists, for the man it’s “guilty until proven innocent”. Remember the Duke lacrosse players? How about the Tawanna Brawley case? What’s good for the goose …
Who’s talking about marriage? I just wanted you and her to carry the conversation outside of this blog.
You’re right about the insults. Sometimes I get carried away. My apologies, Mongoose. But when you’re in a mens locker room, be prepared for all kinds of crap because that’s the way we are. You take the bad with the good. And I was pretty bad.
February 24, 2007 at 3:18 am
Ceiver, I can’t remember, are you married to a Russian??
February 24, 2007 at 3:31 am
Kzarz, Nice to have the old you back. No, I don’t remeber the Duke bit or the other. I’m gunna have to look it up later.
Perhaps we could talk ofline about your wife. I would like to learn what I can. When you talk about her, you seem very proud of her. My msn is posted above.
February 24, 2007 at 12:48 pm
Mongoose, you came in swinging awhile back.. I have not forgotten. This reminds me of anon, with her heavy initial swinging comments. She has cleaned up her act but what really lies beneath is repulsive and decidedly still there. I only assume the same is true of mongoose.
I suppose I am confused as to why women are present on this blog. I feel the reason is for simple male attention. If this is not the case then please state your intentions.. you came here to man bash ..admit it. Frankly, I am tired of catering to base female needs, my risk-reward mechanism has been burned out in my 32 years with american wimmin’.
Wolverine – I am sorry for accusing you of being american. Also, without reading all of your posts, I thought you were a dyke. Sorry about that as well, I am an idiot. Also it is funny you mention “holding doors open”, I only just recently stopped doing this for women. What I have noticed is: before, they would walk through with their noses in the air and never a thank you or second look. Now, they can’t get enough of me (visually) which = women want a bad guy who dosen’t give a crap about them. So american women will get a bad guy outta me from now on and foreign women will get the finest gentleman that I can be.
I mean.. american women are hopeless, mongoose is here to ask the advice of men here about how to be a decent/desireable woman. Her hardheaded sicilian-american background was obviously useless at teaching her how to be a woman worth caring about. Its too late for you sweet pea, I fear. I just can’t play this silly game with ameriskanks any longer.
Kzarz – I enjoy your clear-headed unchecked insight. No need to apologize to them.
Cevier – I am only “angry and bitter” at american women. My heart and mind are wide open to foreigners. The 2 real loves of my life have been a ukrainian girl from winnipeg, and a japanese girl from kyoto. I wish I had a time machine.
Also.. my name has not been hijacked. How silly. All disgruntled parties will kindly realize that almost everything I have said is just another written form of what the site creator has already stated in his exhaustively complete observations about american wimmin’.
🙂
February 24, 2007 at 1:52 pm
Arthur
Angry and bitter.
My point is…LOSE IT
February 24, 2007 at 2:27 pm
Arthur, accepted.
February 24, 2007 at 3:08 pm
yes we could learn a lot from Ronald Reagan. From what i’ve learned he was kind and respectful to all he met. He was married to two strong minded women, had a rebellous daughter and they were both with him in the end.
and I’ll bet he opened the door for anyone and didn’t expect or need appreciation or approval. He did it because he was a gentleman.
February 26, 2007 at 10:48 am
High five, Gentlemen. And one little cultural hint…
Don’t ever get hurt if she doesn’t thank for doors, coats, helping her out of the car etc. There exists an unlearned Russian variation of etiquette that says “a smile is a sufficient non-verbal expression of gratitude, especially if he is your company, not a stranger; if you thank for prescribed things, you’re an awkward little girl infamiliar with real men and manner”.
But I reiterate, this is one of Russian institutionalized deviations from the universal Manner, which you may find in _some_ women, quite fair by all other criteria.
If you come across some moment of your date’s behavior that lacks class without apparent evil attitude in the background of her mind, have a discussion about etiquette norms existing in different societies, and she’ll take the hint to improve her performance. Some times people get over-accommodating or over-careless when stirred by a new and responsible occasion.
And one joke about “Russian bear” ways.
A lesson at MI6 academy.
“Russian Etiquette.
Ouch (Oops) means Sorry.
Umhu means Thank you.
A slice of bread is another tool of the place setting.”
Sinc., N.
March 1, 2007 at 7:51 pm
Each time I can see a Russian lady I do realy get convence myself of their beauty.
So nice. God is great.
March 12, 2007 at 1:20 pm
I think that anyone would admit that russian women are beautiful.But there are women in other places on earth that are also beautiful. Like Wonderlander said,not all big boned women are fat and ugly.I have travelled to a lot of different countries and most women,in the countries i’ve been to,are very attractive. And they do worry about the way they look.They like to take care of themselves and make sure they always look good.Mainly when it comes to impressing a man,but there are some women that go over board with the make-up and perfume. Some women have will have a fit if even one hair is out of place.
March 12, 2007 at 5:25 pm
Hi Chey,
I really can’t talk about other women of the world because I don’t live there. But I do have to wonder why the majority of “buzz” that I see on the internet concerning international marriages is about women from Russia and the FSU.
I’m sure culture, tradition, and values all have something to do with it..
But let’s be honest here..
Beauty is a big deal to Men and Women around the world. And while yes I agree there are beautiful women around the world I’d have to say that I believe that the highest concentration of this trait exists here in Russia and the FSU.
Thanks for joining us.
GL
March 13, 2007 at 9:21 am
Yes,beauty is a big deal to men and women.But after i read through the comments posted here,it makes me wonder how many women worry about what a man looks like.It’s like what Anon and wolverine said,some women think that a guy who is a farmer is stupid.
I don’t understand how a woman can judge a guy by the type of work he does.
Most men don’t seem to like getting married to women in their own countries,obviously because they know what those women are like.
A lot of the guys i know have left their home countries to get married to women from another country.
Where i come from,it’s easy to see why the men leave the country to get married else where.
Most of the women here don’t care what they look like.But there are still some women who worry about their appearance.
Thank you for welcoming me.
March 24, 2007 at 2:47 pm
Hey there,
I am considering corresponding with a woman that says that she is from “Russia Saberia”!
How common do you think it is that a woman that is an engineer by trade is going to misspell Siberia?
She has posted a profile on an American dating site and I think she looks like she could be from Russia(I’m American)
I have looked on line for pictures of Siberian women; OMG! Russian women are beautiful, and I am very impressed with the time and effort they take to post a flattering picture of themselves!
I would like to just drop a few inquisitive comments and see how she responds, in order for me to determine if she is in fact from Russia.
I would like to know what you suggest.
Is there a land mark that I could mention that she would immediately identify with if she is from Siberia? Or is there something that she would have in common with Siberian woman in general, that I could just drop into a conversation that might give me a clue, by her response, if she were indeed Russian?
I think that I would insult her by saying that it is hard to believe she could misspell the the area in Russia where she is from, additionally I think that I would insult her to suggest that she looks Latino in her pictures(as I said though, she also looks Russian in my “American” eyes)
Compliments again on your women! I swear that out of the many profiles at a Russain dating site I looked at I could not find one below average woman and most were stunning!
Thanks for the help and your earliest correspondence.
Xstar
March 24, 2007 at 3:53 pm
xstar,
The fastest thing you can do to validate location is to get her number and call. You can look up the prefix codes on Google to find the region and city she is in to make sure at least that’s all legit.
Now it could still be a scam just running in that area so if you really want validation on that you can contact me via email and I might be able to help you out with that.
galacticlove@gmail.com
The misspelling does bother me since “Siberia” even in English letters is still commonly used out here. Also unfortunately scammers are known to target American and Western dating sites with their profiles even if there are a number of legitimate ladies in there.
In anycase thanks for joining us and please tell your friends!
GL
March 26, 2007 at 7:40 am
Hi xstar,
I’d view this misspelling as a big red flag. Not just because illiteracy / inaccuracy is a turnoff. ) But this case appears phoney:
1. It couldn’t be a misprint, in any keyboard layout.
2. This transliteration couldn’t even occur to a native woman. As if you spelled America like “Amurica”. Freudian slip, haha ))
3. Serious Russian brides try to make their presentations neat. Scammers make deliberate mistakes to appear authentic-cute.
Also, specifically sporting the “trademark” of Siberia straight in her profile, looks like certain marketing experience. 😉 Maybe, though, it can be ascribed to the moderators of the agency. But then it means THEY are not very literate / competent => unlike a reliable business.
Sincerely,
Comrade Natalia
March 26, 2007 at 7:49 am
Oh, it’s on this page that I left some promises long ago… here are the links:
1. About that Russian humorist and his national philosophizings (Part I)
http://russianwomenspeak.wordpress.com/2007/01/17/serious-russian-humor-and-its-black-hot-star-the-essentials-of-daily-russian-culture-part-1/
2. About “power pulls” and “negs” in Russian relationships
http://russianwomenspeak.wordpress.com/2007/03/12/do-nlp-speed-seduction-double-dating-pickup-methods-work-with-russian-women/
March 28, 2007 at 3:37 am
Hey GL,
I am curious about the girl in the last photo…what’s she like?
(sorry – you know “my” story but I’m just curious : )
TB
March 29, 2007 at 5:16 am
TB,
She’s one of the ladies that I don’t know too well since we were at a party and I was just lucky to snap a cool photo of her. GL
March 29, 2007 at 10:36 am
Wow my days are scrambled eggs right now with work etc.!!!!
GL,
Judging from this girls coyness and other words, I would say that she is Russian. She says she is from the Omsk region. I am going to talk to her on line through e-mails for a while before I would ever venture to meet her.
She is a woman of few words but the ice is melting in Siberia! I have to also say, that she is not one of the pin up plastic scammers that populate most of the dating sites for Russian brides.
I am very skeptical of these sites and would hardly use one. If a Russian woman has made her way to the USA and is properly representing herself, I will find her through the proper channels where ever cultural events are taking place.
I suspect that there are as many sluts in Russia as there are in the USA, and money, drugs and taking advantage of stupid men are what they are about; not all women but some.
While Russian women are indeed pretty what sets them apart from American women is that they are not American; that just is not enough to make me want to trust their pretty faces.
Take a look at the porn industry in this country or online everywhere, beautiful girls are there baring it all for cash; there are stories online about these Russian girls scamming desperate men in the USA out of their money.
I’m looking for love and I would like a beautiful woman to provide that in my life, but I’m not looking with blinders on.
“Russian brides” is more than a cottage industry on the frozen tundra, it is alive and warm inside the fur lined cabin of the internet! That’s a metropolis not a cottage.
April 1, 2007 at 8:49 pm
We have a date next week end! I think she is for real but only our meetings will tell for sure.
I’ll let ya know!
April 7, 2007 at 4:12 pm
What a lovely time we had! I can see that there are challenges ahead for us should we decide that are relationship should continue. We both agree that our dating should not end anytime soon.
Our cultures are quite different but we are excited by the fact that we have found each other willing to take on the challenges this supports.
She is very intellectually stimulating and we like so many of the same types of things. I’m looking forward to our days together good luck to all of us!
April 9, 2007 at 4:31 am
Xstar,
Did you come to Russia already or are you only talking about your chats on the phone with her? Fill us in on how it went and what your impressions were.
Take Care,
GL
April 15, 2007 at 11:50 pm
Inna is a very smart, vivacious woman with one degree in Electrical engineering and another in Fashion design. I met her online however; she is a local woman to me in America (within 30min distance) Lucky me!
I was at first concerned that she may not be who she said she was (read above entries) and so, I looked on line to see and learn some thing about Russian women; this is how I found this site by the way. She is indeed Russian, from Omsk Siberia and has live in the USA for 9 years.
We began our relationship by first writing, and in a short time we knew by the things we wrote that we had much in common; we are now squarely commencing on a relationship and we would both like to see this mature into something full and lasting.
I think it would be helpful to others to know these things about our courtship:
1. Inna had been Americanized however her English is slightly broken so attention to what is being said is very important, eliminating the possibility of confusion or misunderstanding; the man wanting a real commitment from a foreign woman must be ready to give full attention to his woman’s conversation. For instance our sense of humor is different because of our cultural differences, so this must be taken into consideration when wanting to be funny.
2. I began writing by realizing I must have patience with this girl, I must give her time to decide that she can trust me, I can not rush or hurry our feelings but allow this to happen naturally; this was made difficult, because her writing is kept short, I had to take careful notice of her few written words.
3. My correspondence with her was unassuming and humble and meant to draw her into my confidence. When I wrote I relayed my true, honest feelings about what my desires were. I used imagery and nuance bringing out her feelings that otherwise she might not share with me. There is no way I can tell you how this done except to say that you should not overwhelm your woman with your American sentimentalities. I took cues from her for what each new thing would be that I would share with her.
4. I believe a man must be in touch with his feminine side if he is going to have much luck with a Russian woman with any sense. A man must be able to think like a woman in some respects if he is going to please her; you must be willing to impress her with your integrity, your sensitivity towards women, your cleanliness and organized home of affairs, all with her needs and desires in mind. You are a provider but not condescending, she is your help mate and on equal footing with building your lives together in America.
5. We American men are products of our American upbringing; our entire lives may have been built around the images of our American parents and has certainly been influenced (by a large degree) by our popular media culture. Your Russian lady is foreign to these things also, so you must allow that your understanding of her is going to be skewed by your being American. Her not totally understanding your customs is not an affront to your affection or intelligence and must be patiently handled in a caring, concerned way; your main thrust must be to meet the challenges of this relationship and the joys of these two culturally diverse people, meeting and continuing a relationship, can be enjoyed to its fullest.
Part of my ladies studies included physiology and this has been a big help in hers and my understanding of our differences, and funny enough, she will ask questions designed to have the answers analyzed for motivating personality structure. I think it’s interesting she has shared this with me rather then conceal it and use this as a covert tool(as an American woman might do) for ferreting out the truth in me; not that she ever would, could or have to. I am very happy that she has taken this type of interest in her man and is willing to candidly share her insights.
I think this all boils down to a few things: 1. If you have had no luck with your own nationalities women, then you had better understand that we are talking about female humans; regardless of their nationality they are still all women and there is no short cut to pleasing one. 2. If you have integrity issues or problems with honesty; see preceding statement. My Innas father told her, “Never lie and do not take anything that isn’t yours”
(Regardless of what may be your personal gain; if you can not provide it for yourself by honest means do without). I believe this is universally accepted wisdom handed down by good fathers to their children regardless of nationality, but because she thought it was important to say during our conversation, I’m taking it as Russian gospel. 3. Do not lie to your woman and do not steal her trust with dishonest ways; this will end badly.
We are both happy at this time and I have every confidence that our relationship will indeed last a long time; we are also willing to concede that this could mean forever or a day; something else to consider while your hours in the air ready to drop cool hard cash on a dream that must have more then cash to back it up.
Good luck to all and thanks so much for your insights.
Xstar
April 15, 2007 at 11:52 pm
Having trouble posting
April 15, 2007 at 11:54 pm
Are our posts limited to a certain length?
April 17, 2007 at 9:00 pm
Skip my last two posts 276 and 277 I thought that 275 was having trouble posting.
Xstar
April 30, 2007 at 11:49 pm
I meant to say, “Part of my ladies studies included psychology…” Not “physiology” Big difference!!!! Sorry about the confusion.
Xstar
May 2, 2007 at 6:41 am
I enjoyed the back and forth with Mongoose and Wolverine. Why in the world would anyone have a problem with their enjoying themselves and sharing the fun? What? So throwing daggers is now the only option between two Westerners when one of them is considering looking into mating with a Soviet?
Pritty damm cynical from my point of view to be complaining about innocent flirting between a couple of people who may just understand more about life than the humourless and socially inept.
Although it is not common, neither is it impossible for a Western girl to have some hints of a traditional Feminine girl—in spite of the possibility of the easy throwback should the deal go to the courts.
Now we’ve got them married and possibly already divorced–and they didn’t even get a chance to name the kids….
Kudos to GL, who hangs fairly loose while the opinions fly. Stones.
May 2, 2007 at 3:21 pm
Lol, Thanks Canuck. It was fun while it lasted. I haven’t seen mongoose since that ended. Too bad. I quite enjoyed her.
BTW, the kids names are mink and ferret. :P:D
May 3, 2007 at 4:01 am
Wolverine, you musta put her in a good mood, because we haven’t seen hide nor hair of her since……
May 3, 2007 at 8:57 am
Xstar: Applause and best luck! )
Sincerely,
Comrade Natalia
May 19, 2007 at 2:29 pm
My Sweet Inna,
In you my Dearest, I have found one flower in the meadow whose beauty and fragrance shames all the others; the sun rushes to the day to shine on you alone. A gentle breeze moves your soft petals into a smile and the entire world smiles with you. How have I been given this blessing and joy? What favor do I deserve for being no more then a man in search of love; yet my searching has ended at your feet, and I bask in your radiant flowers’ beauty.
Our lives have come together and our garden in complete, now the fruits of our loving relationship will be shared with our families and the warmth is felt by all in our presence. How happy you have made me my dearest Innochka! Each day that passes, with each rising of the sun, blue skies greet our hearts and all of creation smiles on our love.
As our lives will be spent together we will seek out our futures secure in knowing that we have each other to share all the happiness and love that is possible in life. Спасибо my Darling Inna for sharing your heart and soul with me, and for giving me such hopes that as our days close and our silver moon rises, we will always be in each others arms in love and forever.
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These are the types of things that I feel for my Flower, and yet these exact words have never been spoken to her; similar words but not exact. I composed this from the thoughts and deep appreciation I have for my girlfriend. We have an incredible amount of things in common and our cultural differences have added so much to our experience.
Men of earth hear me…get in touch with your femininity!!!! That is to say, understand and be able to experience life to it’s fullest by your ability to appreciate the flowers that you stop to smell. You will impress your women with a desire to see life with a child’s fascination yet be able to react with adult responsibility in a manly, respectful manner.
Your health and fitness can not be over looked; your attention to your own appearance will indicate to your woman that you are able to take care of her also. What can a beer gut and nasty habits such as drinking and smoking suggest to a woman other then you are sloppy in life; they have enough of that with other men already!
I haven’t been asked for my opinions, but here you have them read’em and weep.
Xstar
July 5, 2007 at 3:08 pm
This is nice, but how do we get to know these women (#3)?
September 17, 2007 at 9:04 pm
Interesting choice, #3. She’d be my last choice…
And this Anon is so typical. Knew she was from here before she said so…
(Posting on old threads, bored…)
November 2, 2007 at 6:54 pm
interesting ethnic types, predominantly Eastern Nordids. this type is so common in Russia and for some reason is in line with modern standards of beauty
January 7, 2008 at 12:08 am
let me take the last one 😉
July 24, 2008 at 5:09 pm
hmm
beatiful girls 😀
February 5, 2009 at 3:37 pm
As a nice girl here I was taken advantage of alot by men in the USA. So it remains the same for us women.