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I just got done reading a pretty disparaging article about how big the Russian Mafia Online Dating Scam Industry is…

And it’s NOT a “Pretty Picture”…

Even if the entire scam process itself is launched with thousands of images of beautiful women floating around on the internet.

You’ve already heard the stories I’m sure but here’s what a major British Newspaper, the Daily Mail is reporting.

Thousands of people, including many lonely and gullible British men, have lost large amounts of money after entering into correspondence with women on websites, naively beguiled by their warm words, suggestive chat and the sexy pictures they attach to their emails.

When they were asked to send money, which the women claimed was needed for British visas or to buy tickets for travel to Britain, the men readily agreed.

They never saw the money or heard from the women again.

In a final humiliating twist, they found out, usually far too late, that many of the sensuous “women” with whom they had been corresponding were actually men – part of one of the many sinister Russian mafia rings making a fortune out of such scams



This Saturday.. March 8th Gentlemen.

MAKE SURE you congratulate EVERY Russian Woman or FSU Lady that you know and simply tell her the following..

“Congratulations and Happy Woman’s Day!”

(Carefully notice the sincere joy and appreciation that is returned to you with something so simple as this.)

OK that’s the bare minimum to start with.

Now the actual tradition usually has Men volunteering to do the cooking and cleaning for one day along with a affectionate dose of flowers, gifts or a dinner date at some nice restaurant.

But whatever you do keep in mind that for a Russian Woman this day is BIGGER and MORE IMPORTANT then even Valentines Day.

If there are no men around then the women will congratulate themselves with their own little party and sometimes give gifts to each other. This is very typical in any workplace where there are mostly women present.

Any man present in this situation is expected to play the role of the host who will keep their glasses filled and their plates occupied with fruit slices, cakes or other sweets. Vodka, Cognac and Wine are also very popular drinks during this event as well and frequent glowing toasts are given towards each other in honor of these great, humble and incredibly hardworking ladies.


Take a look at the following article from CNN.

(CNN) — Looking for love this Valentine’s day? Make sure Cupid’s arrow doesn’t hit your wallet.

That’s exactly what happened to Kim Kossie, a single woman in Houston, Texas. Kossie joined an online Christian dating site after a friend recommended it. She thought she had met the man of her dreams … an artist from London.

“He sent these wonderful pictures. This guy was quoting scripture. We were praying everyday,” she says. “It was almost like a dream guy.”

They talked on the phone several times a day, everyday. He was engaging. He gave great advice. He was even supposed to visit her parents in Houston. But then, he started asking for money, with promises to pay her back. In two months, Kossie wired him a total of $2,000. Not to mention the phone bill she was stuck with for $1,500. To this day she has not seen him — or her money.


First off..

I’d like to wish a very special Happy Valentines Day to all the Lovely Ladies I know who read and enjoy this blog.

You know who you are and you certainly deserve all the Romance, Love and Joy in the world.  🙂


I’d like to tell you Gentlemen that if you haven’t already done so then please make sure that you also give your most heartfelt Valentines Day wishes to every Russian or FSU Lady you know.  

Because I tell you they really deserve it.

Valentines Day is also highly celebrated in Russia and the FSU. 

And as you can guess every Russian Woman’s dream is to receive a special batch of flowers, cards and of course chocolates..

So Gentlemen make sure you go out and make some lucky lady’s dreams come true.  🙂

One of the hardest things for most men to grasp is that the feminist cultural norms they were indoctrinated into are absolutely destructive towards their dream of having a happy marriage with a beautiful and traditional lady.

And the core factor which determines success or failure for them depends on which of the following paths they choose:

Bold & Active


Defensive & Passive

Now Imagine what would happen if you yourself acted in a DEFENSIVE or APOLOGETIC stance everyday.

It shouldn’t be too hard to see that this would lead to a whole host of problems that would make your life pretty miserable.

Now let’s take this one step further.

Imagine a life where everything you say as a Man is followed by some disclaimer or apology because you are constantly expecting to be attacked or labeled as one of the following:

  • Abuser
  • Chauvinist
  • Stupid
  • Rapist
  • Sexist
  • Violent
  • Lazy
  • Irresponsible

… and the list goes on and on.

Tragically Gentlemen this is the “Feminist Re-education Camp” culture that many of us were born into.


Well I’ve finally decided to sit down and spell out the important things that you should know in knowing how to interact with a Russian / FSU Lady that you wish to have a relationship with. 

Over the following days and weeks I will introduce some valuable information for you to absorb and hopefully take to heart. 

Now from my own personal experience I know that the decision to bring a traditional Russian lady into your life is a profound experience.. 

And I believe that the most important thing you need to understand is this..

This is NOT about finding a woman who can completely accept you for “who you are”.

Now I know this may sound harsh but there is a great deal of truth in this..

I say this because I’ve met a significant number of Western Men who FAIL to understand that the process of successfully bringing a woman into their life..

Requires CHANGE and HARD WORK..


.. and LOTS of HARD WORK.

And most men TOTALLY UNDERESTIMATE how much effort is required to succeed.

Now on one side of the scale you may have Mr. Socially Unacceptable making a futile search for a “desperate woman” who he hopes will “easily” accept him.

And on the other side you may have Mr. Analytical looking for the step by step play book that he needs to follow in order to win the heart of a special girl.

Well in both cases nothing could be farther from the truth..

Sure you could pick up the latest Men’s Health or Maxim Magazine and read all about the “right techniques” that you “should” use to improve your love life..

And yes..  there is probably some value in between those glossy pages..


There is a much deeper goal which needs to be accomplished first.

And that would be to firmly establish your IDENTITY as a Traditional and Real MAN.


When you read through the various posts on this blog you may notice that I often use the term “Traditional Russian Women” as opposed to just “Russian Women”.

I do this because because I’m more then aware that there are many different types of women in Russia and the FSU.

As with all countries and all nationalities there are various unknown percentages of women who are less then honest, moral, sincere, humble, or gracious..

For example many men who visit various agency sites may be enticed by a scam artist or by some lady who has some type of problem which would prevent her from having a healthy relationship.

Yes these women do exist and it wouldn’t be too hard to define a litany of red flags which you should be looking out for.

(Like a woman you’ve never physically met who convincingly tries to ask you for money. Which you should all know by now to NEVER DO.)

Now for every man who has encountered these types of nefarious woman either in correspondence or in real life I’d like to tell you right now..


This is NOT the type of woman that I admire or generally write about.

This is NOT the type of woman that you should create a stereotype about in your mind.

Trust me on this..

If Russia and the FSU was dominated by these types of women then neither this blog or my presence here would exist.

OK now that this is out of the way..

Let me just say that by default anytime I use the term “Russian Women”..

I’m actually referring to the TRADITIONAL Russian Women that live their lives according to TRADITIONAL Feminine values and beliefs.

(And if you want to find out more about what this is all about then just start reading through my previous posts to get the picture.)

And we can all certainly be grateful that this is norm here.

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