Our lovely Mascha will be back soon.
I thought this might be a good opportunity for you to present her with any questions that you might have about her or her background as a Russian Girl on the comments section below.
I’m sure she’s looking forward to this..
So let’s see what kind of interactive adventures we can have here.
🙂
October 25, 2007 at 4:26 pm
Privyet Mascha,
As GL can tell you, I am happily engaged to a Russian woman and could not be any happier! She is easily the most wonderful person I have ever met in addition to being heavenly beautiful.
I think a question a lot of the guys here would like to know: What qualities do you look for in a man?
Also, what do you enjoy for hobbies?
Thank you for helping to open the eyes of the many men out there who have yet to realize the treasures that await them in Siberia.
Большое спасибо!
October 25, 2007 at 5:19 pm
Mascha, Privet, kak dela? Menya zovut Misha, 🙂 Ti takaya krasiyava! I must tell you, we are so lucky to have you here. We enjoy your videos very much. I have been to Russia 3 times and miss being with my friends there. You are a very special woman. Your walk video brought back special memories for me while I was visiting Russia. Spacibo!
My two part question: If a Russian woman finds love with American man, how many are willing to marry and come live in the USA with him.
#2. Would a typical Russian woman prefer to stay in Russia and have her man come live with her there.
Thank you !
Misha
October 26, 2007 at 1:23 pm
Mascha,
Two trains leave different cities heading toward each other at different speeds…
I promise I’ll think of something better to ask.
-Mick
October 26, 2007 at 3:43 pm
Mascha,
I’m curious to know whether Russian ladies like guys in same age range (I’m 24)?? Does it hurt me that I’m younger???
Also, how much does it help to be able to speak Russian?
Thanks!
-JW
October 26, 2007 at 8:46 pm
JW…
While its understandable to want to share your most virile (:) ) years with a special partner (I am the same age as you are, btw) and has been very much the norm throughout most of history (unlucky us) … the dynamics of an intercultural / international relationship require a level of maturity and life experience that I doubt any of us will attain until at least our late 20’s…
Remember ideally you’d want someone at least 3 or 4 years younger than you.. and I don’t think many 20 year-old girls, even in Russia, would be ready to marry just yet… (Or maybe I’m wrong? GL??)
If I were you (actually, I am you, more or less…) … I’d enjoy my youth (as much as is realistically possible)…
Learn. Travel. Gain life experience. Start a small business. Make money. Learn. Did I say learn?
I’m sure GL will still be here 3 or 4 years down the line to find us wives. (Right GL? )
😉
October 28, 2007 at 8:26 pm
hello mascha
if i can explain my situation to you, i would like to meet a russian women, unfortunately my work does not permit me to jump on a plane and go in search of the love of my life like mr rw man did, so for me it is the internet/agency route.
on reading many of the russian womens profiles many of them specify they would like to meet a man with a good job, who is finnacially secure and well educated,
i have my own business, i am secure and consider myself a very honest and hard working guy, however i am not university educated and i am also not a doctor, a lawyer or a bank manager, how do russian women view men who may be a builder or a plumber or a mechanic?
and buy the way, thanks for your video,
you look great!
georgieboy99
October 29, 2007 at 10:53 pm
Mascha,
How do Russian women feel about living on a farm or do they prefer a more urban setting?
-Mick
November 4, 2007 at 8:58 am
hello mascha:)
another question for you.
i have noticed that many of the western men who look for a russian wife are men who may have been married before, and that some of them (especially americans it seems), have suffered great financial losses at the hands of thier ex wives, this makes them very wary about marrying again.
in the west russian women recieve a great deal of bad press, i have said to some friends that i am looking for a russian lady and the response i get is ” she will marry you,get her passport, steal your house and your money and leave you in two years”, keep in mind that nobody i know has ever even met a russian women let alone knows one or someone married to one!
so, my two questions are 1, what would you think if a man asked you to sign a pre marriage agreement limiting your financial
benefits in the event of a divorce? and 2,
what do russian women think of this in general?
georgieboy99
November 10, 2007 at 8:58 pm
hello mascha!
can i ask just one more question? 🙂
as you know i would like to meet a russian lady but due to business commitments i am unable to drop everything and move to russia in search of my dream girl, for me it would have to be a lady who is willing to relocate to the west.
if you met a man who you thought was your most special man would you consider moving west to be with him? or would you expect him to move east to be with you? also, what are the thoughts of other russian women on this subject? do you know any other women who would be prepared to move west? and if so what percentage of the women you know would consider a move?
georgieboy99
November 13, 2007 at 4:40 pm
Mascha, pleased to meet you. I like your video very much. I would like to know, is it common for Russian women to play musical instruments?
November 14, 2007 at 2:30 pm
Again, apologies for interrupting the thread but I do not know where to put this.
This weekend my boyfriend made a long-awaited trip from London to visit me out here in Russia, where I’m working. Of course I’ve told him a lot about Russia and I couldn’t wait for him to see for himself. He laughed when he saw that our driver opened doors for me. He grumbled about carrying my bags (the precise quote was, “I think I prefer feminists. Less heavy lifting”) and he got quite bored waiting for me to get ready in the morning, but he is accepting all these things as a cultural experiment. He is a very tolerant man.
Then we went to St Petersburg. I’ve been telling him about how gorgeous all the girls are in Russia and he has been very sceptical. We spent the weekend in St Petersburg and wouldn’t you know it… no beautiful women to be seen! There were almost NO dressed-up, primped and perfect women walking around at all! I’d told him everyone was very slim — not in St Petersburg. Lots of fatties (not the obese American kind, but certainly not thin either). The best I could tell him was that these were all tourists, but to be honest I don’t think they were. At least, not Western tourists.
So my question to those who know is… where are all the beautiful women of St Petersburg? Moved to Siberia??
November 14, 2007 at 4:07 pm
Mascha,
What will you be doing to celebrate Thanksgiving next Thursday?
-Mick
November 15, 2007 at 11:45 am
I would also like to ask, do Russian women smoke?
It makes me sick to see AW lighting up in public. Smoking gives women wrinkles and makes them smell like old men. Most unfeminine and decidedly unattractive.
In many Asian countries I have been, eg Korea, females never smoke.
by the way kudos GL on a most intersting website.
November 16, 2007 at 4:52 am
Greetings my fellow American men!
Since we are on the subject of Siberian women I’d just like to tell you all how happy I am with my Siberian fiancé Elena! She has been with me in San Diego on a Fiancé Visa since September 12th. We will be tying the knot very soon! She is the most loving, giving, respectful, feminine and passionate woman I’ve ever met! Every day is a joy to be with her. She has a sense of wonder and excitement about life that makes me feel happy to be alive and with her. She makes me want to be a better man. If you are thinking of dating or marrying a Russian woman I say it will be the best decision you can make! Best of luck all! PS. I can send a photo. Just let me know where. Keep up the good work GL!
November 19, 2007 at 4:44 pm
RWTiger, you are a lucky man! we would love a photo, upload it to flicker and post a link to it here.
It is rare to find such a relationship with any woman from any country. Living in San Diego, we are lucky to have the most beautiful women in the world, however,, their personalities leave much to be deisred. Most can’t compare with FSU women for the most part. I agree RW in larger cities have become Americanized and has spoiled their Russian charm, made them less feminine and attractive.
I have to agree with visiting girl about women in Piter, my experience has been that women there are not as concerned about their looks as in Moscow. Genetically, RW will get thicker as they age, many are that way from teens on. Just like anywhere, some are thin, some are thicker, but inwardly, there are qualities that make real men want to be with them. All of us need to stop judging women on their weight and put value on their personality. In general, we put such pressure on people to look a certain way. Thin girls dont look healthy to me, To heavy may not be healthy either.
November 19, 2007 at 9:25 pm
Hi All,
Thanks Michael for the kind words. Yes, you are correct about San Diego women being nice to look at but that’s where it ends. Having experienced what a normal woman is like I could never go back to a Western Woman.
Here is a link for some photos of us and mostly Elena on Flicker.
From what I have read Siberian women in particular are the finest in the world. My experience confirms it also. Gentleman I urge you to follow through with your dreams and don’t be deturred. Best Wishes!
November 19, 2007 at 11:29 pm
to RWTiger
Very nice photos of your Elena, she looks very happy to be with you. Where did you meet Elena?
November 20, 2007 at 5:33 pm
Hi Ceiver,
Thanks for your compliment. Yes, we are very happy together. I met Elena online initially and then later in Moscow. She had moved and was living in Moscow for 4 months before I arrived. Moscow was a real treat! Expensive though 🙂 Good luck with your dreams.
November 21, 2007 at 12:35 pm
RWTiger..
You the man 🙂 Oh and yes she’s very beautiful 😉
I’m so happy for the two of you.. please continue to share your joy both visually and with the great words you have been sharing. Would love for your wife to visit us as well to chime in if she feel up to it..
Again congratulations!
GL
November 21, 2007 at 8:22 pm
Guess what? Your blog is amazing! I can’t remember when was the last time i’ve overcome such a good blog that almost all articles/posts were interesting and wouldn’t regret spending my time reading it. I hope you will keep up the great work you are doing here and i can enjoy my everyday read at your blog.
November 23, 2007 at 6:27 pm
Hi Mascha, I’ll get straight to the point: How do you think a woman should balance her career and family responsibilities? Do you believe a woman should take some time off when she has a newborn? If so, how much time? How old should the kids be before the mom goes back to work full-time?
November 25, 2007 at 7:36 am
RWTiger – great pics. Congratulations. The writings under the couple pic certainly make quite the statement too! Great cannon-fodder to fire through a room full of angry feminists.
Mick – Thanksgiving Day is an American holiday and tradition, not an international one. Some people around the world refer to it (light-heartedly) as “turkey day”. It’s generally only vaguely known due to American film & television.
November 27, 2007 at 7:23 pm
Thanks GL! You’re the MAN too! Thanks for the compliments. How are things with you and your Siberian Lady? Best of luck!
Thanks Shaun for your congratulations and nice compliments. Yes, my quote would certainly piss off some feminists! Ha! Happy Holidays!
November 28, 2007 at 7:55 am
Lena is a true beauty RWTiger, you are one lucky man! Thanks for posting for us.
Since my break up with Tanya, she has led me to some web sites to find a Siberian wife, so Ive been writing andtalking to a few. Its been interesting to say the least. Im surprised how many serious women there are that want to be married to a western man and live in America. THe handful I’ve been talking to have asked some pointed questions, want photos of my house and areal I live in, They ask about kids and career.
After looking at some 5000 profiles, Ive found about 150 that interst me. After writing about 23 of them, I narrowed that down to 4 who are serious. Im planning a trip for 2008 to visit. So now that I have a choice, between Olga, Larissa, Guzel and Alexandra, Im going a bit insane. After a month of writing we have all kept each others interest. Getting letters from these 4 everyday with phone numbers, and addresses included.
Now its time to talk over the phone and take it further. Maybe with Skype I can get them to video call. what programs do you guys use to talk free or cheap?
November 28, 2007 at 11:19 pm
Hey
After all those interesting questions, I have one…
“Where is Mascha?”
Cheers
November 30, 2007 at 2:58 pm
I just found this blog, I am researching info on Russian brides and culture. I have been corresponding with a couple ladies in Odessa. My concern is how the ladies adjust to the cultural difference between America and the Ukraine.
Any information is appreciated.
December 2, 2007 at 10:16 pm
Privet Mascha,
Is badminton and ballroom dancing popular in your city?
-M
December 9, 2007 at 12:00 am
Ladies and gentlemen
I’d like to announce an exciting new initiative that myself and some of my Russian friends have been working on for a couple of months now. We’re very excited about the potential and hope those of you who know Russian women personally can tell them about it too. We need to spread the word!
As some of you might know, I have been travelling around Russia for the past couple of months and one of the activities I’ve been involved in has been canvassing support and ideas for a major new women’s initiative. In the past week our women’s collective has received final confirmation of two very generous grants from the American and British governments and so I am pleased to say we can finally begin to put our plans into concrete action.
Let me explain…
As has been pointed out on this site many times, currently the dice are really loaded against women in Russia. Divorce laws, the dating scene, and many other aspects of Russian life favour men rather than women.
Our women’s collective has ambitious plans to raise the status of Russian women in society. Our mission is threefold: (a) to educate Russian women about their rights and opportunities (b) to advocate to change unjust laws and (c) to materially support Russian women e.g. by helping out with childcare arrangements so those who want to can resume their careers after having children.
How will we do this? We’re adapting a model which has been successful in many countries, based around group education and a network of Women’s Centres. Our first Women’s Centre will be in Moscow (operational July 2008). Outreach will be led by teams of Russian women and ex-pat Westerners. I’ve spent a lot of time recruiting Russians for these teams and we have a great core of really enthusiastic and talented women to start things off! The next step will be to expand to the regions in 2008/9, starting with Samara and Tyumen, then Nizhnevartovsk, then other centres.
We are still finalising our location in Moscow and many of the bureaucratic details involved with creating a charitable organisation. However now is a great time to get involved. Please spread the word — direct any interested Russian women to our temporary collective email address: moscowwomenscentre@googlemail.com
Thanks!
December 9, 2007 at 1:44 am
VisitingGirl,
Are you looking for a printer to help spread the word? If you are, may I offer you my services.
-Mick
December 10, 2007 at 12:52 am
VisitingGirl is a damned feminist looking to spill feminist vile in Russian soil. Despicable!!
December 10, 2007 at 2:42 pm
VisitingGirl,
Is it true? Are you a feminazi?
-Mick
December 10, 2007 at 3:58 pm
Geez, can we gt back to the topic? Speaking of which, where did our host get to, and Mascha?
December 10, 2007 at 6:12 pm
It is true… and to think I was almost blinded by those “two very generous grants from the American and British governments”.
The love of money is truly the root of all evil.
December 10, 2007 at 11:45 pm
It is the successful play book strategy from the west. VisitingGirl is exporting feminism to Russia. Deconstruction of society begins now in earnest.
“Our mission is threefold:
(a) to educate Russian women about their rights and opportunities
(b) to advocate to change unjust laws and (c) to materially support Russian women e.g. by helping out with childcare arrangements so those who want to can resume their careers after having children.”
The above should be all quite familiar to you guys.
Item a) We want equal pay!!! Equal rights!! Equal everything when in fact there is nothing equal about it.
Item b) Does IMBRA come to mind?
Item c) is an attempt to split families; the building block of society. Weaken the family and you gain power and control over society. The public becomes weak and moronic and brainwashing can then be implemented. Mothers are around for a very good reason – to provide love guidance and moral guidance. Put the mothers in workforce and leave the children to be raised by MTV and voila – western style paradise.
Seems innocent this VisitingGirl, but the end of it is evil.
December 11, 2007 at 2:31 am
VisitingGirl,
I want to apologize for such crude comments. I think your intentions are well meaning but the end result will not be positive as we have experienced in the west.
December 11, 2007 at 2:40 am
Dear Mascha,
How do you feel about this? Would the world be a lovelier place with more career womens who exert their rights for careers and to drop children off at stranger’s care? Or would the world be a better place with loving mothers who give the best love and care to their children?
Given the choice between career or raising children, which would you prefer?
I am quite curious to hear your answer.
-M
December 11, 2007 at 2:52 am
“I don’t think many 20 year-old girls, even in Russia, would be ready to marry just yet… (Or maybe I’m wrong? GL??)”
They begin to look seriously just as when they about to finish up with school, 21-22 yrs old is my impression.
Hey Socon, I think Mascha would be flattered if you were to ask her out on a date; seeing this is a section for asking Mascha questions. And I don’t believe any one has stepped up to the plate yet, although I am tempted myself. 😉
December 11, 2007 at 8:47 am
Here is a blueprint on de-constructing society. Notice how everything is geared towards benefit of women at the wholesale neglect of any benefit of men.
“(a) to educate Russian women about their rights and opportunities.”
Does Equal rights for men and women sound familiar to you guys?
The next logical extension of this is Russian women can have it all – career and family when in truth we know family will ultimately suffer along with society.
“(b) to advocate to change unjust laws”
Does IMBRA come to mind? IT sure does for me.
and
“(c) to materially support Russian women e.g. by helping out with childcare arrangements so those who want to can resume their careers after having children.”
Does this not sound like NANNY State?
When you remove mothers from their God ordained role and put them into careers, society is at risk. Why? Because her model as love giving and nurturing and guidance disappears from the child’s life and the child is left to grow up without love and care that Russian mothers are so well known to give. What happens when children grow up without parents at home? The children grows up under the influence of the likes of MTV, soap operas, TV’s propaganda and brainwashing. The end result is a messed up f*&ked up society like the ones we have in the West.
I want to quote from a really good book called “A General Theory of Love” page 159.
“Learning to Love
Suppose for a moment that a friend whisks you to New York’s Museum of Modern Art. The dusty basement of a chateau undergoing renovation has yielded up a new painting, he tells you, and it is on display. The painter was either Manet or Monet, or perhaps Matisse – your friend cannot recall, his mind awhirl in French artistes and their alliterative surnomic M’s. The painting hangs unlabeled. If you are familiar with the works of the three artists, you may be confident that you could tell them apart.
How? By the reflected gleam of implicit memory. If you have seen, say, Matisse’s work, then you hold title to an accessible prototype that imparts what his paintings generally look like. A critic or connoisseur might be able to articulate the identifying characteristics: composition, lighting, tints, texture, perspective, subject, color. But book-learning is superfluous here. Armed only with the neural results of serial viewing, absorbing, pondering – some paintings look and feel like Matisse. Others do not. Without a degree in art history, you can know a Matisse when you see one. As you see more of them your intuition sharpens.
So it is with emotional knowledge. In the first years of life, as his brain passes from the generous scaffold to the narrow template, a child extracts patterns from his relationships. Before any glimmerings of event memory appear, he stores an impression of what LOVE feels like. Neural memory compresses these qualities into a few powerful Attractors – any single instance a featherweight, but accumulated experience leaves a dense imprint. That concentrated knowledge whispers to a child from beneath the veil of consciousness, telling him what relationships ARE, how they function, what to anticipate, how to conduct them. If a parent loves him in the healthiest way, wherein his needs are paramount, mistakes are forgiven, patience is plentiful, and hurts are soothed as best they can be, then that is how he will relate to himself and others. Anomalous love – one where his needs don’t matter, or where love is suffocating or autonomy intolerable – makes its ineradicable limbic stamps. Healthy loving then becomes incomprehensible.”
And that folks is how society is demonized!! Take away the love of a mother and place her in careers. And that is what we have in the West. Are we all happy with this.
By the time VisitingGirl is through, the society that produces and fabricate the likes of Mascha, her innocence, her femininity will cease to exist. How many Maschas do we have in the West? Why must we look to Russia? Could it be because Russia is still patriarchal and that the intent of VisitingGirl is to upset this balance? Like I said before, VisitingGirl is spreading feminist vile onto Russian soil.
Then end will not be positive.
-M
December 11, 2007 at 9:03 am
I will repeat the last sentence again.
“Anomalous love – one where his needs don’t matter, or where love is suffocating or autonomy intolerable – makes its ineradicable limbic stamps. Healthy loving then becomes incomprehensible.”
And that is how we are where we are. Why are men and women in the west so cold hearted? Could it be that they grew up in an environment where love is non-existent. No one can give a love to a child like his mother can. Certainly how can strange care do that. Think of the pain of separation that causes for both mother and child when the mother must attend to her careers.
They say Russian moms are the best in the world because of her love and her care. That is what VisitingGirl is aiming to get rid of. That is what the money from Western governments are aiming for. Weakening of Russian society.
By the way, while VisitingGirl is canvassing Russian society, cities, who is there to give love to her child? Is there a child out there feeling neglect, unloved, unattended to? Would this child grow up to be psychologically pained at not having the benefit of loving parent by his side? Why do we have mass shootings in the West? Why do we have child molesters and rapists in the West? Why do people have psychological problems in the West? Why are people so depressed in the West and must take anti-depressants? Why are children taking up drugs and immoralities like casual sex? BECAUSE the good love of a mother is ABSENT during his formative years!!!
Is London the paradise that we want to model Russia after?
December 11, 2007 at 9:22 am
Hi Mansman,
Thanks for the compliment.
Unfortunately there is a significant proportion of RW who smoke. Numbers or percentages are imposible to come by. I’ve always avoided the girls who smoke right off the bat. Usually when I see a girl smoking especially a young one I believe that she’s still looking for an identity and smoking happens to be one of those accessories to it.
Many girls at the university smoke because they believe it helps to “calm their nerves” or keep them focused with they are buried with course work. Just keep this in mind but don’t concern yourself with it because it’s just as easy to find a lady who doesn’t smoke because she’s aware of the dangers of it.
Hope this helps..
GL
December 11, 2007 at 9:24 am
Hi Antanas,
Thanks for your enthusiasm. I really appreciate it. Lately it’s been tough keeping up with this blog with my work schedule but that’s why I rely on gentlemen like you to be engaged and to help spread the word. Please help out 🙂
GL
December 11, 2007 at 9:27 am
Hi Buck,
Thats a really tough question to answer because that would be like saying.. how would you adjust to life in Russia? What type of background do you have? What kind of support would you have in Russia waiting for you? What are you looking for in life? etc. etc. etc.
It’s extremely difficult to generalize.. It honestly comes down to strength and character of the individual girl and with what type of environment she walks into..
Sorry if this is so vague but hopefully this will just encourage you to investigate the person that much more deeply and not just the idea.
Good Luck
GL
December 11, 2007 at 9:35 am
Visiting Girl,
In the existing socio-economic-political climate of Russia I think you are going to have a very steep uphill climb. I believe in the free exchange of ideas but I’ve been around here long enough to know that ideas without the cultural, legal or economic structure to support them will just remain ideas.
I believe your motives are noble but I question any movement that promotes “equality” with deep suspicion.
Do what you must but I hope you study the situation in the US and in Western Countries deeply to see the cause and effect of any action taken to an extreme. Hopefully you are not on the wrong side of history and just encouraging the further destruction of relationships between men and women. Good luck to you.. GL
December 11, 2007 at 9:37 am
Hi everyone..
Mascha is home. but i’m not.. and I don’t know when I’m going to get a chance to meet up with her either. We keep in contact and she’s eager but as with all things it is a matter of time and logistics..
December 11, 2007 at 4:51 pm
Okay… Like GL I’m very caught up with multiple things atm & don’t have the time to get into this… but I just had to comment on this thing with VG.
This feminazi troll has spent months infiltrating our community, & has finally come clean with her liberal feminist agenda.
Guys, don’t fall for this. Run her out onto the street where she belongs.
Give a person a finger. Sheesh.
December 11, 2007 at 8:14 pm
Hi Socon..
I appreciate the warning.. But I’m going to let her in and allow the debate to continue. She doesn’t violate my comment policy in anyway. Let the cards and ideas fall as they may because I believe in traditional values and I also believe that they are strong enough to stand up to any pseudo-liberal ideology.
Thanks again.
GL
December 12, 2007 at 12:23 pm
This sounds like a large-scale assault on one of the last bastions of real femininity, the Traditional women of Russia. It does not surprise me that the Feminazi governments of the west are AIDING and ABETTING.
December 12, 2007 at 6:58 pm
This reminds me of one of Micksop’s Fables
(Assop’s derelict younger brother).
Two Men and a Pile of S**t
Two men were on a journey when they encountered a pile of what appeared to be s**t but they weren’t sure. “Is that… could that be… s**t?” they asked each other. They determined to go in for a closer look “It looks like s**t.” They felt its texture smoothing it on the palms of their hands “It feels like s**t.” With a slow deep breath they took in all the aromas “It smells like s**t.” They finally tasted it just to be certain “It tastes like s**t.” With confidence they exclaimed “IT’S S**T… I’M SURE GLAD WE DIDN’T STEP IN IT!”
The moral of the story is…
January 7, 2008 at 4:10 am
Mascha, how does it feel to know that most men in America would choose you over a hundred million American women? 🙂
January 23, 2008 at 1:28 am
Hello Mascha,
I hope this message finds you well! I was wondering what is the best way to meet a Russian woman? Use the internet? Dating Site? I am looking for authentic way to meet such an intriguing woman from Russia. I have had this desire to meet a Russian woman for quite some time. Also, is it very difficult for a Russian woman to get a visiting visa to come to the USA?
Thank you for your time. Have a great day!
March 18, 2008 at 10:26 pm
[…] Well as finally promised we are posting more videos of Mascha answering some earlier questions that were submitted from an earlier post. […]
June 9, 2008 at 2:02 pm
Privyet Mascha,
I would like to know what a Russian woman means when she says “I have good feeling about our relationship”. She has said it to me more than once, and I need to know how I should be responding.
Спасибо, Илья
July 23, 2008 at 2:40 am
Mascha! I dated a Russian, just recently, he is (26) I enjoyed our relationship until it’s end this year. But their were some things I find to be unnacceptable. These bad relationship patterns with the russian men seem to transcend Nations. The men should see these problems and work on them. Otherwise they risk loosing the beautiful women in their lives. I won’t deny that you are gorgeous. What do you think it will take to shape them up?