It’s funny how seeing simple things makes you realize deep facts of life…
In Russia when you go to a disco they have a tradition of doing these variety type shows intermixed with the dancing. Also while the dance music is pumping they will often have house dancers on stage strutting their stuff to get the energy up.
Well on this particular night they had this girl who was just plain fat and ugly up on stage dancing.. and for some unknown reason she was clearly being hired as a house dancer to do her thing. Now out of the hundred’s of dancers i’ve seen over 99% of them were just totally hot.. except for this one.
For the life of me I couldn’t figure out this club’s hiring decision.. and it was clear that it was turning off the audience and myself included. And then those little liberal thoughts started creeping into my mind..
Now now.. she’s a human being like everyone else and she deserves to be on stage just like the hot looking girls too..
But then as I was processing that thought thank God I caught myself and made a startling realization.
Wait a minute.. this girl is fat and ugly.. life was never meant to be EQUAL so therefore that means that I and probably every other guy in that room would never try to hit up on her… (ie try to sleep with her). I came to the realization that in the US we sure as hell have our share of ugly women too and they also probably don’t get hit up on much..
SO THEREFORE they may have a much HIGHER degree of humility. Which might mean that maybe they would make good and loving wives from purely a emotional level etc.. Don’t they deserve a say in my general assessments of American women as well? Is it “fair” for me to criticize most American women the way I have when in reality I’ve actually been slamming the generally attractive ones?
But then just as I was about to go deeper into another “liberal” thought I caught myself again..
STOP..
And then a National Geographic episode started flashing in my mind..
Just like every other animal species on the planet.. both men and women are VERY selective about who they choose as MATES. Biology rules.. Animals and people alike selectively breed with each other for a GOOD REASON. We need to have strong and attractive kids so that they can survive, prosper and BREED as well. If we don’t.. well that’s the end of the line for our gene pool..
So the process of selecting a mate is an extremely selfish one and it was ALWAYS meant to be this way. SO THEREFORE ugly single girls are not even in the equation for most men. SO THEREFORE they were never meant to be part of this blog or discussion.
Wow is that cruel or what.. Yes.. and that’s why they call it the UGLY TRUTH.
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Side Note..
Now just to end this on a “nice” note..
Can ugly girls do things to improve their lot in life? Absolutely so I don’t feel so sorry for them.. They can choose to lose weight, fix bad teeth, dress fashionably, and a host of other things. But the bottom line is that if they want it bad enough they need to go out and take responsibility for it.
Your average Russian girl will do far more to take care of herself then their western counterparts.. So I KNOW it’s possible and can’t be so easily dismissed with some American woman’s lame excuses or laziness.
ALSO ugly women can apply the SAME laws of supply and demand to themselves! Hell if they go to China where in some regions there is a 20 to 1 ratio of men to women they should have NO problem finding a mate. I know that there’s a significant population of older Mexican men who just LOVE fat girls too! The world is an open market for these women just as much as it is for us men..
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July 28, 2006 at 7:11 am
I am a 23 yr old Australian woman and I think you are generalising about these so-called ‘ugly girls’.
You seem to be saying that women who don’t fit into the cookie cutter beauty ideal have a problem in that ‘no man would ever try to sleep with them’. First of all, no woman should feel that her only aim in life is to look attractive so that a man would want to sleep with her. Many women are just as selective about men, and would not want just any man trying to hit on her. It’s almost like you are saying that ugly women have no standards and that they will have sex with any guy that comes along. You also seem to be saying that no large or unattractive woman has EVER had a successful and happy relationship. What planet do you live on? In my country women (and men) of all shapes, sizes and levels of attractiveness find love and fulfillment with the opposite sex. Often people who are only interested in looks find that they are disappointed with the other person’s personality (or lack of it).
Also, do you not think it’s possible that there are plenty of women around who don’t depend solely on their looks to feel validated by society? Perhaps this ‘ugly girl’ dancing in the club you mentioned didn’t give a fig about what anyone in the audience thought, and rightly so. Why should she care what you or anyone else thinks about her body? She has the right to be comfortable in her own skin without lugheads like you criticising her. I think the real problem you had with this girl is that you thought, “How dare she have the confidence to get up and dance, only attractive girls should be allowed to dance. She should be ashamed that she is not attractive.” It is exactly this kind of superficial attitude that makes people who don’t measure up to stupid beauty ideals think there is something wrong with them. Perhaps this girl and others like her have realised that there is far more to life than making themselves look pretty so people aren’t ‘offended’ by looking at them. I can only guess that this particular girl was having a great time up on stage. Too bad for YOU if you ‘felt sorry for her’. She most likely doesn’t give a crap what you think.
And so what if evolution suggests that attractive people are more likely to end up procreating. It’s simply not true in the modern world, where most people would want their partner to be an intelligent and caring person, not just someone who is ‘hot’. Unless of course, they are people who have the same unattractive attitude as you have demonstrated. You have not demostrated the ‘deep facts of life’, all you have done is project your own insecurities and beliefs. You do not speak on behalf of all men, so don’t pretend that your point of view is the ONLY one.
Just something worth considering.
July 28, 2006 at 4:53 pm
Hi Emily!
Cool! My first flame! 🙂 I love it! I was wondering when that would happen.. I was actually starting to get worried because if I made every reader happy then that means that I’m actually making NO ONE happy. Or is that too far ahead for you to understand?
No seriously I’ll give you credit where credit is due in that you have “balls” for coming here to my wonderful house of very specific knowledge and unloading on me. Congrats.. not to many girls would do that.
But Emily you should understand one thing and I don’t think you even realize this.. Your letter and tone completely validates the purpose behind this blog. In that there is a HUGE population of men who rather not associate let alone have a relationship with a woman who carries herself this way. We have had way to much experience with dealing with a world of women who are defensive, insecure, in denial, and just plain bitter.. Ugh..
We simply don’t want to play that game anymore and are picking up our marbles and going to the next school yard. Your complaints and I’m sure the other complaints from western women that are sure to come will do nothing but accelerate this process so please continue and validate our thinking process.
I have been to Australia and I absolutely love your country and you have many beautiful girls there too. BUT that doesn’t mean that I would want to sleep with them either just because they are attractive because quite frankly I have higher standards then just beauty and on this you and I agree.
That is a big reason why I’m in Russia. Because there is a much higher percentage of girls here who are not only physically beautiful but also extremely intelligent and feminine too! How can you beat that! You can’t..
Where we disagree is in your defensiveness of the word “Ugly and Fat”. Now let’s face it. You mean to tell me that you have never used those words before in your life to describe someone else? Or did you try to sweeten it by saying that someone was “appetite control challenged” or maybe had an “alternative appearance”. Who among us is being honest and who is just trying to blow smoke up someones rear end?
The bottom line is that if you live in Russia like I do one realizes that Western women who are within the realm of being called “normal” appearance AND attitude wise simply cannot compete with the vast number of LADIES we have here. And I really want to emphasize that word.
Ladies don’t try to slur my words into something that you think I was implying when I was not. Laywers are trained to do that and you don’t see me wanting to sleep with an Attorney anytime soon. Please read my post carefully and don’t try to mind read me.. You won’t have to.. My blog is as HONEST as it gets.
Here’s the bottom line for you. Any lady in the world no matter what her appearance is has an opportunity to find a killer mate for herself just as we men can do that for ourselves as well. Where we differ is in understanding the reality that this is all based on Supply and Demand based on your current location and not based on some God Given RIGHT that you deserve to have a great MAN dammit no matter what I look like.
I’ve stressed this before and I’ll stress it again that the relationship market is open to both you and me. You can shop at the corner store or you can go to the SuperMall to expand your choices.. But if you want to find happiness with yourself or with a great mate you will have to WORK for it and not complain to God, anyone else and especially not with me that you ain’t getting what you want in life.
So Emily I hope you still have your sense of humor intact and are not in a fit of mad fury. I honestly wish you and your life well. I just understand what that will realistically take and I hope you do too.
Cheers!
GL
August 6, 2006 at 3:44 pm
You know something Emily, your just a fat cow feminist piece of shit.
That fat woman in the club had no business showing off her drooping skin.
Understand that men ONLY have the right to be selective. Any women that is trying to be selective should be thrown in jail.
All women should strive to slim and tight, wear short skirts, and smile when they walk.
In America, most white women are obese cows. The few that are hot, are selective cum. Thats why any real straight male will go to Europe or South America. Also why do you think that most relationship on talk shows have a fat cow women.
August 6, 2006 at 8:13 pm
All I’ll say is this.
I’ve been living in Poland for the past 3 months and I am not going back to the U.S. until I am married. Not going into details, the girls here are on another level comapred to the U.S.
Dating in the U.S. was one long nightmare that would not end. I’m in heaven.
August 7, 2006 at 2:45 am
I am constantly amazed at how our society has come to a point of repression to where we are not supposed to be free to use the word Ugly or Fat. The road to HELL is always paved with good intentions.. and the liberals always believe this with their heart and soul.
Communism was such a great experiement to see if their ideas were right. If we could make “everyone equal” and have a more harmonious prosperous existence. But what no one realizes is that to make everyone equal is to forcefully degrade everyone to the LOWEST COMMON DENOMINATOR.
Or in other words everyone would be forced to become a lazy, un-motivated, jealous and ignorant person. The only way people like this make themselves feel good is by tearing into someone else that has something that they don’t. This becomes a virus within a culture and then leads to outright sabatoge and theft on a massive scale.
If anyone doesn’t believe me they should come to any ex Soviet country and see how destructive this system is in crushing a Man’s free spirit and how it turns millions of them into the walking dead. The most popular way of dealing with this failure is to anestitize themselves with cheap moonshine.
Make everyone “equal” and watch society slide into the worst that man has to offer.
THE SAME IS TRUE FOR BEAUTY AND UGLINESS. There has been this movement primarily in the US to start promoting physically UGLY and FAT women as being on “Equal” terms with women who are beautiful.
Well guess what that means Guys? It means that US and Western women who have any potential at beauty will start to degrade that to go with the new lowered standard of beauty which becomes the NORM. Just like with Communism our society starts to believe that we can alter nature’s most basic fundamental principals of CAUSE and EFFECT. ie. We try to cushion or remove people from experiencing the consequences of their own decision.. like getting FAT… and that encourages all the other women to do the same.
So US and Western women allow themselves to get Fat, to wear loose baggy street culture clothes like sweats and t-shirts, they start to get tatoos, have piercings in strange places, etc. etc.. you starting to get the picture?
Unfortunately I’m sure you do.. cause it’s all around you. American & Western women are letting themselves go to complete shit because they believe that’s the NORMAL thing to do. Even naturally beautiful women in the US would start to want “to blend in” with the rest.
AND just for added measure to make sure that we are forced to complete their DENIAL for them.. We are “supposed” to ignore this and “accept them” for who they are.. We are not supposed to say that the women that surround us are FAT and UGLY. If any of you guys DARE to do this then be prepared for a Harrassment lawsuit. Welcome to the NEW USSR.
There’s an old proverb in Russia that says, “Men fall in love with their EYES while women fall in love with their ears..” Wisdom and truth don’t change..
And THANK GOD Russian women understand this.
August 7, 2006 at 2:56 am
John I completely understand what you are saying. I wouldn’t want you to go back to the States either unless you were married to a Beautiful and Traditional Polish girl as well!
And even when you get married.. I bet a part of you would seriously consider NOT going back.
I’m happy for you John.. Please continue to spread the word to your Brothers who need to see the light..
Good Luck!
August 7, 2006 at 7:30 am
You guys have the most warped, and incoherent views i’v ever seen.
What started as 1 Females Disagreement went far south.
US, Russia, Poland, Etc.
Society makes , takes, and continues. Its these moronic time-of-day, (Guilty as I am) , Blogs and posts that fuel the fire that no-matter where you are…….who you are …..or who you think is “truly Sexy” ….You’re wasting your and my time. Get over it!
Just my 2 cents…… and US women are the best……. Most babes are easy….not in US you’ll meet your match if you get outta line.
American-Proud
August 7, 2006 at 9:39 am
Hello from Australia. As a Fat and Ugly male I can’t sit back and ignore Emily’s comments.
I heard another Aussie girl say similar things about how “it doesn’t matter what you look like on the outside.”
I responded “When was the last time you dated an ugly guy?”
That not only shut her up, it pissed her off too.
“In my country women (and men) of all shapes, sizes and levels of attractiveness find love and fulfillment with the opposite sex.”
Yes, unfortunately the men don’t. Aussie women are hypocrites. Fat and Ugly females in Australia are 10x more likely to be dating a good looking guy than the reverse as guys have bought into the “it’s what’s on the inside that counts” mindset. Women have not, they openly abuse ugly people. Aussie women are horrible creatures that should be avoided.
August 7, 2006 at 4:03 pm
Wow.. Amazing how one ugly chick on a dance stage can really toss the salad in a bad way! Actually fun to watch!
Oh and by the way this Fat and Ugly dancer also had a HELLACIOUSLY NASTY ATTITUDE as well.. Complete with Tatoos and nasty cigarettes hanging out of her primary orifice.
We weren’t dealing with the Little Mermaid here.. We were dealing with the Sea Witch!
Believe me I was there.
August 7, 2006 at 5:30 pm
Hey John…
Would love to hear more about those hot Polish women. Very similar in many ways from what I hear with I’m dealing with in Russia. Please do tell! 🙂
August 8, 2006 at 7:40 am
Hey wash..
Care to fill us in on your gender?
That’s part of the problem isn’t it? Guys like us not knowing if we are dealing with a “man” who’s been feminized to the point of actually believing their own BS..
OR
Are we dealing with a “woman” who is trying REAL hard to act like a Man..
Love the way you issued a “manly” challenge about meeting our match with an American “woman”… just nails the point!
God I just love it.. Another flame that’s totally validated my whole point for all the MEN who visit this site to see..
PLEEAAASSEE Don’t Stop.. You have no idea how much mileage and traffic I’m getting off of this thread and it’s only increasing the awareness.. Quickly..
I’m sure your contribution has certainly helped us to be listed as a WordPress BEST BLOG in less then 1 month.
So thank you “darling” for helping me to spread the word! 😉
August 8, 2006 at 1:16 pm
Wash,
since you said U.S. women are the best, then that means your a closet gay.
The fact that you like women that act and look like men proves you really are gay.
Its because of pussified femnist men like you wash, American women are the worst women in the world.
I always have a great time when I travel to Prague, Rio, Bueons Aires, Warsaw, Bangkok, Moscow, or Budapest.
I am so happy places like above cities exist, because the women are a hundred times more beautiful and have more trad values, and less career oriented BS.
By the way amongst the 5 percent “hot” women in the U.S., only 0.5 percent will make it into MILF status, while the rest will be headed to the path of jabba the hut aka fat cows.
In the above cities I mentioned, Euroasian and South Americam cities, most women that are hot make great MILFS and are less likely to have body that sagg.
Clearly its best to bet on a Eurasian or South American women then a North American fat cow bound, sweat pant, cunt attitude, femnazi, shit face women.
August 8, 2006 at 1:53 pm
(with my best Good Ol’ Boy accent)
DAMN Boys!
Do I sense a FRONT ROW SEAT to a NO RULES CAGE MATCH here?
I have you know that there seems to be just a tiny little storm brewing not only here but ALSO in other websites that feature real live high and mighty feminist!
Now as you can imagine.. these Gals AIN’T TOO HAPPY about what’s we be talking about. And I do suspect that maybe they will try to round up a possee and ruin all of the fun us Good Ol’ Boys be having.
And if they be coming for a nice neighborly visit to our little home on the prarie then I’d sure show them some true Texas hospitality and I’d encourage you to do the same.
BUT.. If they’d be coming with guns loaded and clear hostile intentions.. Well Boys.. you know what to do now don’t you?
Just be sure to keep your sidearms cleaned and loaded just in case.. That is all Gentlemen.. Now let me get back to making my pot of chili.. 🙂
August 10, 2006 at 2:56 am
Feminists are nothing but a disease that have destroyed America.
Women that are career minded, independent women, are the worst women on this planet.
Most of these are white women in the U.S.
They are all dirt bags and should be banished to some island.
Women from Latin America and Eastern Europe should replace them.
August 10, 2006 at 5:56 am
Rock remember that very old Sylvester Stallone movie many years ago called COBRA?
Well I’ll throw his most famous line into the mix for you so you can maybe get your humor back..
In my best bad Stalone imitation..
“You’re the disease.. and I’m the cure.. ”
Arnold actually had the better lines though.. 🙂
August 10, 2006 at 3:03 pm
I remember Cobra. That actually is one of the greatest movies of all time.
I think I can make Stallone’s line better. Watch this:
“American women are the disease, Foreign women are the cure.”
I also like the first two Terminators. Terminator 3 sucked. It was totally gay since it was made for MTV audience.
August 14, 2006 at 2:25 pm
There is an old saying. Fat ugly girls are like Mopeds. Sure, they are fun to ride, but you dont want your friends to see you on one!
August 25, 2006 at 2:35 am
Emily, most western women I’ve met are a hopeless basket case, like my ex-wife. What sane man would ruin his life, health and future by being involved with one. What is wrong with many western women is they feel they’re entitled to everything but don’t have to give anything in return. It’s not like that in real life, which is a two-way street. Frankly, I for one have been abused or ignored by American women too long to want to be around them anymore. You do not as a woman understand how men think either. Choosing a mate is a very selfish thing by it’s very nature, after all why would YOU want to be with someone who cannot provide for you and your children, abuse you, ect, ect. Naturally, you’d want to be with someone who’d make your life better, and I sure as hell hope you’d want to to the same for him. Man, or woman in your case, is not an island. You wouldn’t in your right mind do anything else, and neither should we. We’re not meant as humans to live out our lives alone, we die first inside then we end up in the grave. If you don’t believe that, then see what happens to people in a nursing home. Men are not machines, wallets and sperm donors without feelings or thought any more than women are. Yet feminism has created this situation that has made men and women here in the western world enemies, while the losers are everyone, including you. You are entitles to your opinions, and I do agree with you on a couple of points, but we have ours and that’s the way it shall be.
Taras
August 25, 2006 at 8:29 am
Here Here Taras..
August 26, 2006 at 8:10 pm
I wonder, why doesn’t Emily reply? I’d love to hear her comments to all of the above, delusional that they may be. I hate it when these gals (“wash” included) post one time and don’t bother to duke it out. Where’s the intellectual barrage these feminazi’s and their boy-bitches allegedly have?
August 27, 2006 at 7:36 pm
Hi Kzarz,
Your comment brought up an interesting point. Basically feminist will not be able to stand up to the truth if you are able to take the blows.. hold your ground.. and FIRE BACK. Not with obscenities but with a superior arguement.
The bottom line is this..
Any feminist that get’s “Offended” or vicious towards your decision to find a Russian Wife is a flat out hypocrite.
They want more choices in THEIR life but they don’t want you to have the same.
ALSO
The arrogant or snide behavior that they are sure to show you should be pointed out to them as the PERFECT JUSTIFICATION as to why you don’t want a vicious and jaded woman in your life.. and you sure as hell WOULD NOT BE CAUGHT DEAD with one in your BED..
The other point that you can TRUTHFULLY level at them is to say,
“Yes I understand your point.. I can see how ANY American woman in your position would feel completely threatened by women from abroad who have better competitive offerings as real ladies.”
OUCH..
Remember that at NO TIME should you allow them to take control of the arguement.. They can only do that if you STOOP DOWN to their LEVEL which was so well demonstrated above with Emily’s post.
Again.. they simply can’t do this because you CAN’T argue against the TRUTH!
As long as any of you Men realize these truths and STAND YOUR GROUND on this then you have NOTHING TO FEAR OR BE ASHAMED about.
Think about this.. what can they say after you fire this off at them?
Not very much I can tell you that.
As long as you ALWAYS STICK BY YOUR GUNS GENTLEMEN..
GL
August 28, 2006 at 1:17 am
Ha this Rock is a character.
Actually it is the FEMALE that is the most selective. We are made to pick the healthy men to have our babies and then the stable ones to help raise them and provide for the family. If we all followed our nature our prefered partner would be someone with good genes who is physcially fit, attractive, intelligent and a good provider (sense of humour sold seperately). We look for those good genes to pass them down to our children. Of course we live in a modern world (i.e women no longer need a ‘provider’) and remember that we are still evolving.
I really can’t say much about Western women because I don’t understand them. And yes I am one of them (Canadian). I’ve talked to male friends about their problems with women and I honestly can not fathom the actions and reasoning of those said females. From girls cheating to using men for their money or expecting to be treated like queens while they don’t do anything at all for their partners. A relationship is supposed to be 50/50. That’s the way I see it.
Though if you’re the type of men who expect women to be their ‘slaves’ (cook and clean (kids optional) all day while looking perfect with a bright smile on her face. And have sex whenever you want and fufill yuour every fantasy while you don’t even do anything to sexually please her) while you treat her like shit then I can’t help you there. Just wait for the moment that your dying and then realize that even if you had someone, you really were alone.
Also I think that we all, instead of blaming everyone else, should take a look inside. Have you though that maybe, JUST maybe, it’s you?
August 28, 2006 at 1:18 am
Sorry for the mistakes in the last post.
August 28, 2006 at 2:56 am
I still remember a show that ran a few years ago, but only for a few months I think, called ‘The other half’. It had a few actors on it and Dick Clark as well. It was basically a show put together from men’s points of view. Anyway, one day they had a show about how so many western men were going over seas to find a wife, and let me tell you, no other show produced anywhere near as much aggression from the women in the audience as this one! I’m guessing women, though bad with mathematics and economics, DO understand the law of supply and demand. Greater supply of women = less demand (And less likely to tolerate their bullcr#p) The women seemed truly frightened of the thought of losing their men to better women. And of course the women had to make it look like the men were doing this all just because they wanted a “slave”. BUT they also had a man in his late 50s on there who is married to a foreign woman and who even runs a dating agency for American men seeking over seas wives and this was definitely not this guy’s first day on the job, so to speak. See, he called these women in the audience on their bullshit slanders and exaggerations. I wish I would have recorded this show as I would certainly put it on the Internet now.
August 28, 2006 at 6:04 am
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August 30, 2006 at 2:38 am
I underestimated Jess, at least she’s willing to stand and debate with us, even though many of her premises are wrong. RW_Man, I salute you. As long as we keep our cool and stick to our guns, we’ll win out in the long run.
Taras
August 30, 2006 at 4:03 pm
Thanks Taras..
I do give Jess and actually any woman who comes here respect for putting out what they believe in either pro or con.. Just keep on recommending this to other guys you know and soon we will start this debate beyond the reaches of this website but in the general public. That is one of the things I hope for. For men to be able to re-discover the truth and to proudly wear it again..
August 31, 2006 at 2:26 am
So you agree that women should be kept in cages, eh? How would you like it if you were kept in a cage? No seriously, wouldn’t it be wonderful if there were 2 lovely genders instead of one?
August 31, 2006 at 2:39 am
That’s quite hiliarious, Maria! You are cracking me up.
In reality, any Western men who are married to American or Western women are already in cage. Marriage in the USA or western world is really like being in the cage with very little hope for escape and freedom for any men. Because of feminism and laws, married men are already in cage.
You are already seeing Western men being in the cage in the USA and any Western countries. So, do you enjoy seeing men being in the cage? 🙂
August 31, 2006 at 2:26 pm
Good point QuietRebel, marriage here in any western country is a tiger cage for men. And that is perfectly fine with many women in western countries. I am one of those men who found that out the hard way. I don’t want to see either gender in a cage, that only creates hostility and animosity that breeds like a cancer in people.
Taras
August 31, 2006 at 2:30 pm
You know something Jess, it is MEN that have are the ones that select their mates. NOT women.
If women were the ones selecting then how come its always a man approaching a women, and making initial conversation?
Also I dont want a slave. We want women with trad values.
Being married to an American woman is hell, they are all feminist dirt bag pieces of shit.
In the end women have no right to be selective. Unless the guy looks like Freddy Kruger women should be open to every man until they get married.
September 1, 2006 at 12:21 am
Actually I am totally right in what I was talking about. I’ve read books and seen lots of reports about medical studies done on sexual selection. In nature females (of every species not just humans) have to pick the males with the good genes to have children with. Men aren’t as picky because all they did was go around ‘spreading their seed’. They got to breed with a lot of females and they didn’t always know they were the fathers. And because in most species the males aren’t (or weren’t) required to help raise the young they are less selective of whom they choose for a mate.
In terms of human beings this of course is based on our primitive nature, which doesn’t exist as strongly anymore. If you’re talking about modern incidents then I think that traits like ‘personality’ are becoming much important these days than just physical looks. At least to people with a brain.
Rock (what are you 12? Because you sure act like it) women don’t approach men because of the society we live in. Society has taught us that men are the sexual beings that approach women because they are ‘studs’. While good girls stay at home, never approach the boys and aren’t sexual because if they are then they are ‘whores’. Of course this is completely wrong and fortunately has changed a lot in the past four decades, but we still have the stigma of the stereotype with us. No matter how far we’ve come, internally we still have that idea that men are the ‘hunters’ and women aren’t. Of course I have had quite a few females friends that are open (and some even aggressive) about approaching men so remember there are ALWAYS exceptions. It just depends what an individual is comfortable with, and it seems that most females are comfortable with being the ‘pray’ and not the ‘predators’.
And EVERY, male or female, has the right to be selective. None of us should have to settle for less. I know I never will.
I think I was right about you guys…
September 1, 2006 at 12:22 am
*every person
September 1, 2006 at 12:41 am
and p.s Rock (and any other guy who thinks like he does) do you know every American women? No you obviously don’t. So how can you possibly know how they all are? YOU CAN’T. There are good and bad women (and men) on every single continent and in every single country. So you’ve been burned a lot. Though you know what they say. Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me. (Think thats how it goes). Learn to look at yourself and deal with your own issues before blaming everyone else for them. So you can’t find a decent girl? MAYBE IT’S YOUR OWN FAULT. Have you ever thought of that? No, because that would take someone of much higher intelligence.
And what the hell is so feminist about North America? That women have equal rights that we’ve had for years now? That they want careers and not a bunch of bratty kids? That they ask their husbands to clean up the dishes once or make a meal once in while? Oh gawd no! What has this world come to?!
*mumbles*
September 1, 2006 at 1:28 am
ROFL, you’re killin’ me Jess. Everything failing you brought up men most certainly have no monopoly on. I know what my issues are, thank you very much, and I deal with mine. Do you? If you’re alive, you have issues, however minor or major they may be. Or you will at some point because of the sorrows ALL of us must face, not just those from a relationship or marriage going rudder up. Most people I know had to deal with some real sad, or bad situations before they were 23. Have you? But I have yet to meet many women who are aware of their issues, let alone doing anything about them. The ones who do are the ones who have better things to do than needle men who are excercising their power of choice. Namely to walk away from a losing proposition. If one cannot find a spouse in one venue, then perhaps HE needs to try another. That is all we’re doing. Women wanted equality, now they’re getting it. Don’t like it we’re excercising our right to choose whom we want to be with just as women do? Or in my case, staying single, sane and free? If women can opt to do that without stigma, then men can too. Too damn bad, because we’re doing it with or without your approval.
Taras
September 1, 2006 at 8:01 pm
First of all Taras, I wasn’t talking to you, so there wasn’t really much point in you responding. Well you see, I’m not saying there is anything wrong with looking outside your own city, state/province/ country to find other people to date. Not all of the bf’s I’ve had have been Canadian (or American). My most serious relationship was with a Persian guy(raised in Italy). And I DO understand because I frequently get fed up with the men where I live (bunch of retarded drug addicts and if they aren’t they are terrible to women). However just because they are idiots or I’ve had some bad experiences (and I mean BAD) that doesn’t mean I’m going to stereotype men in my WHOLE country. That just doesn’t seem fair. Plus I don’t really have the means to go traveling around the world at this time. It’s something I hope to do one day, but not for the purpose of finding someone. For my own enjoyment. Or perhaps to do humanitarian work.
You don’t need anyone ‘approval’. Just try not to stereotype. How do you know that your ‘soulmate’ *cough gag* isn’t closer to you then you think? If you want to date women in other countries go ahead. But if you meet one in your own, try to get to know her with a FRESH mindset.
September 1, 2006 at 8:07 pm
p.s I do know my issues (that I have or have had up to this point. I know that will change) and I’ve learned how to deal with and control them. I’ve seen many women twice my age (and talked to guy friends with gfs 10 plus years older than me) who haven’t come as far as I have. So I think I’m doing pretty damn well.
September 1, 2006 at 9:08 pm
Hi Jess,
I hope you take this the right way.. But I actually sense some rationality with you and that of course is a good thing. I think we can both agree that the general situation with Western women is pretty bad because this is something you’ve eluded to yourself in an earlier post. If you really do understand this and can see that the general tone of this site is to not be vicious but truthful I invite you to join us.
The reason is simple. Only women like you who understand the big picture have any chance at straightening out other women around you who don’t.
I think most of the men here understand what you are saying that NOT ALL women in the US, Canada or the West are Bad. But unfortunately in order to get our point across we often have to generalize in order to more easily communicate.
The main point is this.. Let’s pretend that for every 1 good woman that is available and qualified to be a good wife and mother in Canada or the US there are 20 good women in Russia and the FSU who are the same if not better due to a more traditional cultural base.. Well then the choice for most men becomes obvious. If you were a man as well I’m sure you would see it that way.
I invite you to learn more about what REAL wide spread male injustices towards women is really like regarding the Men that Russian Women normally have to deal with in their own country.
If you look at it in this light perhaps you would be happier in knowing that there are some truly deserving women over here that I am equally trying to help to find happiness and a good life.
You see the whole feminist arguement about Russian Women being slaves or whatever is very hypocritical.. Because the feminist generally think that they are the only ones that deserve “better conditions” and not other women from other countries.
Anyways.. Since you are one of the few girls who regularly posts comments your thoughts will be especially analyzed so I invite you to make the most of that and to continue what you’ve been doing with some of the more rational points I see you are trying to bring up.
Cheers,
GL
September 6, 2006 at 8:24 am
I agree that women from other countries where decent men might be lacking do deserve to be treated well. I have heard a lot of bad things about Russian men (which is as much the fault of their upbringing, society, and lack of better resources). I do think that Russian women are generally good people who deserve to find partners that will treat them with love and respect. I don’t think it’s the ideal of them being a ‘slave’ that is appealing (for some men, but they’ve got their heads screwed on wrong), but the fact that they honestly respect their partner. I think the Western world is lacking that these days.
September 15, 2006 at 12:14 pm
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October 1, 2006 at 4:04 am
I’m a litte late in the conversation,but I will add my thoughts anyway. I have two points of concern,the first is regaurding the issue of attractiveness.What exactly is ugly supposed to be? An overwieght girl that doesn’t wear make-up? because there are plenty of big girls with pretty faces and skinny girls with,well uh not the greatest face. As far as I know, if someone wears a lot of makeup and fancy clothes that just means they use a lot of manipulation to cover faulty genes, truly beautiful people don’t need a lot of extra help. But that is another discusssion.
As far as american women being good wives, you may be suprised to know this but a lot of american men are lazy which means it’s difficult to have a traditional lifestyle where the woman can devote all of her time to a family. I would love to be able to just “be a girl” and go shopping and chase my husband (that I don’t have) but that’s not a realistic lifestyle here in the states. Things are expensive and it takes two incomes (in most cases) to have a decent life. So I am sure a foreign woman might have more traditional values and doesn’t mind living in a tiny house in the US cooking for babies because it’s probably better than where they come from. They might change when they get here though. And your children will still be american and have the same mental complexes american women have. There is a lot of pressure on western women to be everything and have it all, a career, a family and have tight buns and firm abs too! To top it off there is the whole milf thing.At least before you thought there would peace after a certain age, but noooo. I’m ranting now, but I just wanted to offer some thoughts from a US female perspective.
October 1, 2006 at 5:34 am
Hi KatyKane,
Thanks for the comment.. Please don’t take this the wrong way but I need to be completely straight with you.
Before you make a general conclusion about the many Lazy American Men that you have encountered.. I would challenge you to put some things in perspective. The US is the number 1 economy in the world. You could combine the next 5 top country’s GDP and they still wouldn’t match the US.
Do you think this type of success would be possible from a population dominated by Lazy guys turning into sofa spuds? I don’t think so..
If you want to know what real laziness is.. I challenge you to go to any ex-Communist or Socialist Country and to see what those older guys are like. If you ever did this I guarantee that you would be kissing the ground you walk on right now along with the men who walk on it.
So let’s deal with attraction issues now. I know someone who is married to the most wonderful warm hearted woman in the world but their sex-life is completely non-existant because quite frankly she lacks any decent amount of sex appeal.
Please excuse me for being blunt here.. but let me tell you the bare truth..
No Man wants to get stuck with a woman that doesn’t give him an erection because of her bad appearance. If he doesn’t feel the potential of this from the beginning then it’s a lost cause as far as relationships go.
Sex appeal is a fact of life.. Not just between Men and Women but for all living things.. The worse thing you could possibly do is to go into denial about this because then you have absolutely no hope of navigating your way through it to find a Mate.
If a female doesn’t have enough beauty or sex appeal she will not get asked out let alone be able to mate in a given enviroment where there is abundant sexual competition. Her only real option is to change her environment where the lack of competition favors her.
The same rules apply to men as well. But it’s usually based on him being a high status mate as opposed to just being a pretty boy.
No matter how “unfair” this sounds this is certainly something that you can’t hope to blame Men for.. the only one you can take issue with is God and I’m sure he has his reasons.
Now as far as career and economics are concerned.. what’s more important to you? A big house or a loving mate?
Believe me I know more then a few women with nice careers and lovely homes that are just really solitary confinement cells.
Nature never allows you to have it all.. You along with every man here will need to prioritize what’s important to you.
Now when it comes to the issue of any children that are created from a Russian-American Union let me tell you the bottom line.. and this is something I’ve seening in quite a few Russian American households. Children absolutely flourish with love and patient attention.. the more of this they get.. the less they will turn into needy or spoiled problem children.
There is simply NOTHING that compares to a traditional Russian mother. If any child has to choose between the strong, loving and warm acceptance of their mother vs.. the callous and manipulative school yard pressures to conform to be “cool”. There is simply no contest for what that child will choose.
KatyKane since I can see that you made a real effort to deliver a rational post (and i’m not being snide here) I want to give you some good advice in finding a husband. And hopefully this carry’s weight with you because it’s pure honesty from a Man who knows.
1. Do everything you can to make yourself physically, sexually and emotionally warm and appealing.
2. Go onto any dating site or in public and openly declare yourself as a traditional girl who hates feminism and wants a real traditional man. And make sure you mean it..
3. Go find yourself a traditional Russian Family in your area and observe what the mother is like.. Pay special attention to her strong identity and her sense of contentment in giving her life to her kids. i.e. her level of happiness.
Do this and I promise you that a whole new world will open up to you in the best possible ways.
Good luck.. KatyKane.. GL
October 4, 2006 at 6:24 am
Thank you so much for the laughs you guys have given me and the joy you have brought me knowing that you are no longer in the gene pool in the States, that means there are a few less nutters out there that we have to worry about. once again thanks so much for the laughs and keep up the good work!
October 4, 2006 at 9:55 am
You are more then welcome sara.. the feeling is quite mutual..
October 4, 2006 at 1:17 pm
Don’t be so smug Sara, because the joke’s going to be on you and other American young women sooner than you think, and you won’t be the one laughing either. After all, he who gets the last laugh, laughs best.
Taras
October 4, 2006 at 3:42 pm
Personally I can’t wait to have children with my Russian girlfriend… not only because they will be worlds more attractive and intelligent than if I had them with a gal like Sara (just to name a few obvious reasons), but because I know that my girlfriend is more equipped to be a loving mother and family nurturer than most of the excuses for women in the states.
So YES, Sara – you WON’T be getting any of these genes… especially if there is a chance that my offspring could wind up even remotely close to the likes of you.
October 8, 2006 at 1:38 pm
When I say lazy,I mean that some men are not as eager to be “the sole breadwinner” as they may have been in the past. And who knows what the issues are behind that so I won’t try.
I’m sure you have good intentions when you give me the advice to find a man but I’m a cutie and I already have a man, he is traditional but he doesn’t make tons of money. Let me make clear, that he is very much satisfied with how I look. I don’t see how people can get married that aren’t even attracted to each other.
I have been to Berlin,but the only people I spent time with were a baptist pastor and his family. They were very kind and welcoming and they had strong family values.I don’t know if I can judge his work ethic because he’s a pastor and that requires an unusual amount of commitment for any country. Besides there isn’t a lot economically going on in East Berlin,even though the wall is down, they are still broke compared to West Berlin.
My original question regaurding attractiveness was mainly to distinguish what men and women think to be attractive in women. Because I’m sure beauty is related to features being in propartion,clear eyes and skin which signal good health. And of course the body.I get a little confused when makeup and clothes are involved.Does that really add to beauty or is that something else?
There are girls that are just pretty and you think “Oh isn’t she cute” and then there are girls that put in a lot of effort with the eyeliner,miniskirts and high heels . I just wonder is that for guys or girls? What I mean is that to attract guys or is that to compete with other girls? I personally feel silly being dressed up when I go to do mundane things like school or grocery shopping but I work in a college and when I went to college I noticed this. There are the plainer more subtle girls and then there are those that you can say scream there womanly prowess with how they dress. Is that beauty or is that something else?
I’m getting a little philosophical,but that’s okay. Maintaining manicured nails,styled hair and the latest dresses and purses all cost money. So if your definition of beauty is someone who mirrors the styles and beauty regimens of the magazines then beauty is attainable for anyone with enough money and time,according to the commercials . But if your definition of beauty is more scientific (proportioned features,bright eyes,clear skin and normal BMI) then it limits who is beautiful but then it also opens beauty to all the economic classes. But then of course I’m sure most people prefer a balance of the two but I think women are more likely to look for the raw BQ (beauty quotient) whereas men are more into the magic (maybe a composite score).I personally believe the first definition I gave is just a way to keep women in bondage, to keep them shopping for the latest clothes or that special creme that will prevent aging.The beauty industry is what a billion or trillion dollar industry I don’t know the exact nubmers but there is a lot of money in it. I personally support the raw beauty definition. But to be honest I don’t think beauty was an issue back in the fifties when the tv and magazines weren’t shooting unrealistic images at you everyday.If your ideal woman is 5’10 and 110 pounds then a lot of people will seem fat.Besides a figure like that is not good for bearing children.
October 8, 2006 at 6:58 pm
Two things,
Most men will never volunteer to engage themselves with a fat woman unless on a bet or as a lark, let alone on a relationship basis. When it comes to the end of the day, you still have to sleep with them. Yeech!!
On the other hand, any fat woman, any woman for that matter, can make herself more attractive by quantum leaps and bounds by being more attentive to her appearance. Confidence is another factor of sexuality determined by how the lady carries herself by posture, personality, and composure.
Fat girls, ugly girls, there is still hope for you yet. You just need to work on your stuff!
Very few gorgeous women are naturally gorgeous! Like anything else, it’s all a matter of presentation. Deceiving isn’t it?!
October 9, 2006 at 12:27 am
Hi KatyKane..
Thanks for the thoughtful and introspective comment..
What you are wondering about is truly the age old question isn’t it?
What is beauty?
I don’t think I’m really an expert to answer that because that is kinda like asking what is life?
All I can really tell you is that over here..
Women dressing extremely fashionably and sexy, staying thin, using makeup is completely the norm here.
And it doesn’t matter how poor they are.. so being poor is not an excuse for them to look their best like it is in the states. It all comes down to the positive effects of competition.. Yes competition can be brutal in any area of life.. but where it exists.. all the particpants are that much stronger for it. This is certainly the case here..
The averge Russian women faces a competitive environment along several dimensions that any American woman in my opinion would not be able to handle. If you think East Germany is a challenge.. wait till you have a chance to come here.
Instead of looking at the beauty industy manipulating women or anything else i would just look at the fact that on a basic evolutionary level.. Men have a responsibility to be strong and Women have a responsibility to remain attractive and feminine the best way they can in order to more easily harness a Man’s strength. Beauty and grace is truly a Woman’s magic wand.. If she doesn’t have it then she needs to do everything she can to develop it.
Instead of questioning, scorning or doubting it.. women would be much better served if they just understood this as a reality of life and harnessed it to their advantage.. Not in a manipulative sexual power game way but in an alluring innocent way that just makes any normal man like myself just fall to pieces. And for us Men.. this feels VERY good when we get hit with this.. And we want more of it.
I’ve seen physically beautiful women who just completely turned me off with their bad attitudes.. so obviously it ain’t just physical.. it’s emotionally driven as well.
If you believe that the “optimal standards” of beauty are “unrealistic” then you haven’t been to Russia… or you haven’t been watching your standard Miss American or Miss Universe Pagents.. Women like this really do physically exist and normally it’s not because of cosmetic surgery as we are being led to believe today. There is little to no cosmetic surgery here in russia but I can take any group of these girls and go head to head with any beauty contest in the states against girls that are augmented.. and my group of girls would easily win.
Also this whole myth about women with great bodies not having optimal figures for delivering babies is complete hogwash.. I have seen women here who you’d swear look like porceline figurine china dolls with a nearly invisible waist that have born quite healthy children. This is much more the norm then the exception here.
What else can I really say? We all have our strengths and weaknesses.. The key is to find your strengths and to play up to them while acknowledging your weaknesses without sucumbing to them with denial.
Too many women in the US now believe the exact opposite.. and this mentality as I can see in some of your writing is prevalent. Don’t fall for this and I’m sure you will have a more rewarding outlook on life and with the level of beauty that you can constantly adjust and apply to yourself.
Thanks again KatyKane.. GL
October 14, 2006 at 2:41 am
Why do feminists care what men do in America. They have spent the last 30 years phycologically sterilizing two generations of women and wonder why we don’t what to fertilize their last egg that slipped into the sewar!
Who wants to marry a contentions nag?
October 28, 2006 at 5:46 am
“Aussie women are hypocrites. Fat and Ugly females in Australia are 10x more likely to be dating a good looking guy than the reverse as guys have bought into the it’s what’s on the inside that counts mindset. Women have not, they openly abuse ugly people.”
I have to agree with you there Jon. How often do you see good looking guys on the street, taking their beach whales for a walk? If these women want to be beach whales, they should go find another beach whale to mate with!
They think they have a right to date guys whom are way out of their league but the feminist hypocrites will treat a man like a criminal if he wants to go to Russia and find a woman who is actually on his level. Forget lowering our standards to beach whales, us Aussie and western men should go to South America or Eastern Europe and go find a woman who is actually our equal match.
October 28, 2006 at 1:58 pm
Hi CSL,
Thanks for joining us. That’s a great point you nailed on the hypocritical nature of many feminist when it comes to the “Economics of Dating” aka Dating Game.
Please continue to contribute and please tell your mates as well about us! 🙂
October 28, 2006 at 3:09 pm
Great post CSL. I need an applauding emoticon here.
You took the words right out of my mouth when you said “They think they have a right to date guys whom are way out of their league”. Recently a female acquaintance of mine wanted to date me and wouldn’t take no for an answer. She looked like one of those homeless women who’ve been living on the street for years. She was only 33 years old but she looked closer to 45.
Not only was she physically repulsive, but she was loud, obnoxious, and mean. Anyway, when she started pursuing me, I thought “What the hell are you thinking? Do you even own a mirror? What makes you think ANY man would be interested in you?” But then I answered my own question when I recalled all of those beach whales dating guys who looked like gods. She saw all of those mismatched couples and decided that she could also get a guy way out of her league. I had to threaten to get a restraining order before she backed off.
October 29, 2006 at 4:45 am
Hey thanks guys. Hero, your story about that 33 year old shemale, reminds me of this beach whale and a dog face (with a hot body) that started spreading rumors that I was gay, just because I didn’t want to get with them. As a teen, it didn’t take me long to figure out, I was surrounded by “girls” that acted like men. So I thought I’d go look in the bible believing baptist churches. But there I found “girls”, which Jesus would have called hypocrites. They believed feminist bullshit more than they believed the bible. The bible is completely anti-feminist so the feminists are anti-christian.
The way I see it, we should leave the west. I’m going to do my best to move to Russia ASAP. If the feminists want the west, let them have it. As rw_man once said, history proves that this kind of crap will not last many generations, before it destroys it’s society. Let the feminists destroy the west so that the rest of the world will be warned by their bad example. To the people of the FSU I can not stress enough, “Never, ever, let the feminists ruin your countries like they did ours.”. Let the feminist western world be a bad example as a reminder to warn you.
If the feminists don’t give up their ways and start behaving like real women, they will be in for a nasty surprise. Consider all these Muslims emigrating to the west. Muslims don’t give a damn about feminist crap. They hate feminists. Already the Muslims are having clashes with the feminists. These selfish feminists think their careers are more important than children, so the Muslims will surely outnumber them and when that happens, the feminist movement will be history.
Hey Hero you just gave me a thought. How often do we see western women calling themselves “Goddesses” but when was the last time they referred to men as “Gods”. They want us to bow down and worship them. But they so don’t deserve it. The western white women are so up themselves but for them, it is okay to be racist if it serves the feminist cause 😛
The feminists have some sort of alliance with the gays. Western guys are becoming more effeminate and the women are becoming more manly than the men. I think the feminists are to blame for all these guys that are turning gay. I give praise to God for all these wonderful real women in countries like Russia. Without this hope, us guys would probably go insane.
The feminists use propaganda words like “slaves” to describe real women. Nothing could be further from the truth. There is a big difference between a real woman and a sex slave.
Now here is some encouragement for all the real women out there in the FSU, Asia and South America: I believe that God has given women the most important role in society. What could be more important than raising the next generation of children? A man and his career are nothing without the emotional nourishment of a good wife and healthy children.
CSL
October 29, 2006 at 4:00 pm
CSL,
Funny that you should mention Bible-believing Baptist churches, because I met that shemale in a Catholic Adult Fellowship (CAF). It was exactly like those Baptist churches you mentioned. The president of the CAF was this middle-aged feminazi who chose for her boyfriend a pussified girly-man who was 15 years younger than she was, because she needed somebody easy to control. Anyway, this president turned the entire CAF against me because I wouldn’t date her shemale friend. I don’t think there’s a church left in America that isn’t feminized.
October 30, 2006 at 1:27 am
Hero, that is shocking news. It seems like the feminists have taken away every square inch of the west. Which is why I want to leave this sinking ship, any way I can.
October 30, 2006 at 1:10 pm
A lot of western men are jumping ship or preparing to do so CSL. That’s because the time to do it is not when the ship goes vertical in the water like the HMS Hood or Titanic before going under very quickly. A friend of mine is seriously planning to leave the U.S., and I’m starting the process in motion myself.
Taras
November 1, 2006 at 11:43 pm
I am not a western citizen..but I guess this thread makes me glad I am not..and yeah i agree with much of what you people have to say.I am a guy and I am sure that it would be a cold day in hell before I mate with a ugly woman.It’s not that I hate ugly women or something but I just do want to feel sick everytime I think of having sex with my partner.And besides what is wrong if I am not attracted to a ugly girl? Is that not natural?
I mean what the hell am I gonna do with “what’s inside” when outer appearence to me is revolting.
November 1, 2006 at 11:45 pm
Sorry for the mistake in above post
it should read “do not want to feel sick”..lol
November 2, 2006 at 1:14 am
I don’t hate ugly women either. What I hate is when fat and/or ugly women think that they’re God’s gift to men.
November 2, 2006 at 11:16 am
I’ve had my times over the years as well and I would say the women here in North America share their similar attitudes. Once they feel they have you in there claws, fat, trim, skinny, ugly or beautiful, the attitudes completely change to their chosen mate.
I tried to explain this joke to a Russian friend and she cannot grasp it. Have you heard the quickest way to kill a woman’s sexdrive? Wedding cake.
I’ve tried about six times to explain to her and she doesn’t understand why a woman would do this. It seems there that once you are married the chances of “getting lucky” with your wife actually INCREASE. Wow, what a marvelous idea.
Canajun
December 10, 2006 at 11:21 pm
Whoa that last comment there sounds appealing,
Canajun.
I never really thought of leaving my home country permantly. I mean, I like the diversity of the food, activities and work.
But another of my priorities is finding that one Lady. (and emphasise L A D Y) I was lucky to meet one in europe but I had to move away.
1 person out of 33.25 BILLION People eh? Never thought it would be so hard to catch…. time to switch waters.
December 10, 2006 at 11:22 pm
Error: It’s supposed to read 3.25 Billion people.
January 16, 2007 at 5:35 pm
Small note on the 20/1 m/f ratio claim in China…it’s overhyped.
Actually, according to the CIA factbook, China’s overall m/f ratio is only 1.06…which is actually around average (slightly more males are naturally born than females everywhere…since they naturally have a higher mortality rate later on in life).
January 17, 2007 at 3:36 pm
Hi Susan,
You must have misread my post. I said in some regions this is the case.. not in all of China. I remember reading this from a demographics article that was printed on Newsweek a few years back.. and it seems to bear true especially if you take into account that existing women in the rural areas are going to be very valuable and will migrate to the cities to find the best lives possible leaving behind whole villages where male to female ratios such as this are certainly possible.
Ok so now that I’ve said that.
Do you have a more interesting point to make? Or are you just here to try to discredit me or my central point with your trivial comment?
Or do you want to support my idea that any Western Woman no matter how physically unattractive she may be can find an eager husband there no problem.. 🙂
December 22, 2009 at 1:50 am
Not only do I think the advice for KatyKane is very good, I also wrote it down (I am going through the blog page by page and taking notes on how to resist the enemy of feminism), and did what I could at the moment to act on it immediately 🙂
I would also like to mention that I am 5 ft 6.5 inches, and weigh about 50 kilos [110 lbs.], and I don’t think I will have any problem whatsoever bearing children.
February 12, 2010 at 2:04 pm
I must say that here in Russia, many women are super to look at but impossible to go out with. Please advise me where to look for success as I go out a lot and would like to go out with a woman who isn’t old, fat and/or ugly. Those are the only women available here, unfortunately. I think that Australia and the U.S. are lovely places to live in, but the women seem to be rather ugly and get a kick out of insulting men, it seems. I’m not a creep, so don’t expect me to buy flowers, chocolates, look for their approval, etc.