I just read a great post from Mr. Rule 62 and he said the following,
“We are so beat up and bashed by feminist nonsense. I feel like an alien every time I go back to the States now. “
Well Mr. Rule 62.. I know EXACTLY how you feel about feeling like an Alien in your own country! Nothing like Feminist Political Correctness to ruin a Man’s day with.. or life..
Feminism is a POTENT Adversary in many ways. And in some key areas I would even consider them a “Worthy Adversary”.
Why in the world would I call them “Worthy” you might ask?
Because of this..
They Ingeniously CONTROL Our LANGUAGE and Our Thinking.
You see if the Feminist control the language that we speak in our society then they EASILY control the Society itself!
Let me explain this with a little history..
During the dark ages of the Soviet Union ANY RELIGION or SPIRITUALITY WAS COMPLETELY BANNED by the Communist State. Churches, Synagogues, Temples or any place of worship were either outright destroyed or condemned. Marxist-Leninism was the only belief allowed. In many ways it was it’s OWN RELIGION. A Religion of complete obedience and subservience to the power of an all powerful state. God did not exist.. because Marx, Lenin and Stalin were all cunning enough to realize that any belief in God would be competition for the belief that they themselves were Gods. We define this today as a “Cult of Personality”.
Any normal person would recognize this as a hellish nightmare come true. Since the Soviet State was so threatened by the idea of “God” they were ruthless and absolute in their desire to ban the very concept of God or the Human Soul. They EASILY did this on a public level by DEFINING and CONTROLLING the language that people were allowed to interact in.
Any Person who DARED to believe in God or Spirit was labeled either SUPERSTITIOUS, STUPID, or INSANE.
Years of Propaganda films were effectively used to manipulate public opinion to create a sense of deep shame for anyone who even spoke about God. Very public examples were made of religious believers being hauled off to receive “Psychiatric Treatment” for their “Mental Illness”. MILLIONS more were simply thrown into the Gulags which was an inevitable death sentence or just outright killed..
SO EFFECTIVE was the control of language through the “labeling” of people that 2 different social classes emerged. “Educated” and “Proper” people believed only in the State… While un-educated people believed in stupid superstitions such as God. This is the exact phrasing they used by the way. Even today 15 years after the collapse of Communism there is hardly any open discussion of spirituality or relgion in this society among the people. You have no idea how many YOUNG people I’ve met who have a carry over attitude from these days. YOUNG people who still believe it’s stupid to talk about such things. Or young adults who have literally said, “NO Way I don’t believe in such things!” to each other and to me personally.
And people wonder why this country is self-destructing demographically..
If I’m bringing up a very dark subject it’s for a very good reason.. As I’ve said in an earlier post.. Feminism is a very prominent branch from this root of terrible evil. It’s ideologies are variations of a Communist Utopian theme and it’s methods have frightening similarities to what was once done here.
Feminism has greatly succeeded in also creating a deep sense of SHAME for any man who DARES to reject them and exit their circle.
“You are a Loser!”
“You can’t find a girlfriend or a wife in your own country!”
“You obviously are an Awful man since you are rejected by any women you meet!”
“What is wrong with you?
“You are not a REAL man”
“Foreign women are desperate green card hounds!”
We Men most likely find ourselves shutting up instead of having to constantly fight and defend ourselves from this barrage of criticisms and “group think”.
We Men find ourselves needing to justify or apologize for our every move especially when it comes to Women.
Sound familiar? It’s all around us and usually your subconscious just says.. “to hell with it.. it’s not worth getting into a fight over.”
And in many ways you are right.. because most of the time it isn’t worth it to spend the energy.. especially when you believe that you are mostly all alone in thinking this way as a MAN.
But at that moment a part of your soul and a part of a free society has been lost.. And I believe on some level.. most of us men understand this and silently despair..
Gentlemen.. We have all been through this in one form or another.
We can choose to play defence to this for the rest of our lives and ultimately lose..
OR
We can go on the offense.. kick some serious ass.. and win BIG for ourselves, our families, and ultimately for society itself.
I know in my heart and soul that finding yourself a traditional loving & supportive wife is the most potent tool you have to combat this.
It’s that easy.. because this IS the solution.
Or to put it in another way..
Your happiness and joy as a Man is a stealthy all weather GPS guided high yield NUKE against the Fortress of Feminism..
And I know Damn well that the Feminist know this too.
So therefore, they will do ANYTHING they can to prevent you from gaining this either by squeezing the relationship market shut with political or legislative action or by pulling the “mail order bride” card out on you.
If we Men cannot stand-up to their attacks then we should just hang it up and wait for our number to be called to be admitted into their Gulags. Humiliating and demoralizing prisons which are cleverly disguised as things like non-objectionable restraining orders, child protective service investigations, financial disclosure interrogatories, mandatory sexual harassment & anger management workshops, and the list goes on and on. Within their fortress, these are all the weapons at their disposal and you cannot win fighting it within their walls because it is all designed to sap your strength and bleed you to death no matter if you cooperate or resist.
No gentlemen to me it is very clear. The only way you can win is to first find sanctuary in the loving arms of a woman who nourishes your soul and allows you to regain your strength and self-awareness. And with that ever increasing strength and clarity you will ultimately have no fear to take on the world. Deep down inside you know that this is what you were meant to be as a man. And if you think about the hero’s that you looked up to as a kid (or even now) I’m sure you will recall a man like this.
For me that hero was and forever will be Ronald Reagan.
I have studied this great man’s life and the great things he did for our world and I’m always awe-struck as to how he did it. How did he boldly know the future and how to get there when it seems that everyone said he was just a stupid old washed-up 2nd rate actor who worked with Bonzo the chimp. When they were screaming in the streets of Europe, New York and Washington DC.. screaming bloody murder that this man was about to lead us straight into the Apocalypse of World War III. Where did he get the courage and the fortitude that he seemed to so effortlessly wield against the endless onslaught of those who would do him harm including a nearly successful assassin? How did he deal with the un-imaginable pressure of literally changing the world at such a key moment in history?
The more I studied him the more I realized it was because he had one HELLUVA wife behind him. Nancy Reagan was his rock, his loving muse and his soul-mate. He simply had no fear because Nancy was always behind him.. Always loving him, always protecting him, and always there for him.
Ronald Reagan was once quoted as saying,
“You know in my position I am often in the company of many people.. perhaps millions that I need to reach out to.. But the only time I really get lonely is if Nancy leaves the room..”
When I gained this insight I realized that of all things life has to offer.. This is what I wanted the most..
And I believe you do too.
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August 8, 2006 at 1:11 pm
if American women are aware that Russian women are more beutifull as a whole than American women. and that they are in “compitition” with them, than why don’t american women change-? and are American women aware that by trying to stop american men from marrying russian {or foriegn women in general} women that they alienate them selves more and make us men more determened to not have an American wife-? IF they are aware of this than why do they keep persuing this course-? thanks, Dave
August 8, 2006 at 3:26 pm
Great Questions Dave..
Here’s the Deal.. The answer can be summed up in one little 6 letter word.
D E N I A L
Don’t ever underestimate the POWER that this has over anyone.. man or woman..
But especially with women.. Denial makes turning to the Dark Side of the Force look like a simple PMS craving for Chocolate.
Now especially with most women if you are expecting them to think rationally or analytically about things like competition from other countries.. You’ve got the wrong planet buddy..
They primarily think in terms of emotional reward. Their brains are hard wired to be different then ours and although the politically influenced scientist of the past tried to pass this BS that there were no differences there is now an overwhelming amount of evidence to say otherwise.
While this scientific battle is going on guys like you and me are sitting back and saying.. Well NO SHIT Sherlock OF COURSE MEN and WOMEN are DIFFERENT in the most fundamental ways. Anyways back to the present..
Let’s get back to competition.. There are really only 2 ways possible for anyone to deal with compeition. One is the good but hard way.. the other is the easy and bad way..
Good but Hard Way..
You have a SERIOUS Come to Jesus moment with yourself and realize that someone is kicking your ass. So you’d better shape up and COMPETE back or hang it up and ship out.
Bad but Easy Way..
You pull out every dirty trick you can to SLAM the Competition. You call them losers, you make fun of them, you tell the public that they are a danger to society, etc.. etc.. and you can fill in the blanks here I’m sure…
But it’s all hinged on believing that there’s NO WAY someone could be better then YOU. Why it’s all a mistake.. an illusion.. The Ref made a shit call.. The umpire had it out for us.. We were the better team and the other side just got lucky!
See how DENIAL is a key part of this?
In the end it doesn’t matter.. victors are victors.. and losers are losers..
And NO amount of denial in the end can change that.
August 8, 2006 at 3:54 pm
PMS craving for Chocolate. LOL, GL you are the greatest. Dave
August 8, 2006 at 11:42 pm
[…] One last bit of final irony is the fact that I had just written this post about how the Feminist will do anything to stop us 2 days ago. […]
August 10, 2006 at 3:08 am
American shit face feminist women are jealous of Eastern European because they are superior in looks.
Feminsit cunt women want American men that are not GQ material to be with fat cow American women.
However American men are smart enough to realize that marrying a fat woman will only lead to a miserable life. Hence, Eastern European, Latin American, or Asian women ia a much better bet.
The foreign women are a 100 times more beautiful, have outstanding personalites, and are caring.
August 10, 2006 at 5:49 am
Wow Rock..
So can you tell us all what you REALLY think? 🙂
Rock I’m going to leave your comment on this thread but I want you to realize that when you use obscenities like that some feminist is going to quote you.. and I’m sure quite a few of them will visit here to see what the fuss is all about..
They will look at you calling them Feminist cunts and say..
“See.. ALL of the men in this group are vicious ANIMALS and we need to make more laws to protect ourselves and those POOR Russian Women that they want to get married too.”
You starting to get the point? I’m a true believer in free speech and I’m sure you know this.. But I also want you to be aware of the consequences.
The primary goal is to get you and every other man the best options available for starting a family with.
We’ve all been pissed beyond belief at the feminist.. and heaven’s knows I’ve done my share of pissing.. But then I realized that there wasn’t too much mileage in this and it only makes them think that they have won.
Rock buddy.. there’s MUCH more mileage in what we are doing here to spread awareness of beautiful women who are not feminist and I know you are trying to do that in your own way.
Cheers man.
August 10, 2006 at 3:27 pm
Rw,
The Feminists are evil rodents that are equal to Nazis.
Either people hate modern feminsts aka Feminazis, or they dont.
I am sick and tired of people that try to play both sides by pinning equal blame on American men for the deterioration of American women.
All I can say is American men that prefer American women over beautiful foreign women are pussies, because they want there woman to be the man, while they become the woman.
For those not interested in American parasite women, the feminists are also trying to control American mens lives by having laws passed that limit movement to foreign countries.
When I go to Prague or Rio to have a great time, no feminist slime has the right to control what I do.
Feminists are hypocrits because they feel women should do anything they want in life, while men should suffer and be denied all rights.
Lets be clear. I hate American women. I stopped looking at American women years ago, since they never gave me the time or day. Even since I got a job where I can travel to Eastern Euope, Latin America and Asia, I have been having the greatest time in my life.
It is not just because the foreign women are a billion times more beautiful. It is also because they have class, culture, and personality.
If any “man” does not like what I have to say, then they are an ally of the Feminazis, and a traitor to straight men.
Rw, as far as I can tell, I think you are with the real men side, and a good guy.
August 10, 2006 at 10:06 pm
Hello Rock,
Why thank you Sir for your post along with your compliment which I truly respect coming from a man with your experience abroad.
I wish there was some way I could convince all of you men to take a solo trip abroad to any country that has women like this.
There was once a famous psychological experiment dealing with pain and helplessness conducted on dogs that to me really illustrates what’s going on in the psyche of millions of Western Men.
A dog would be brought into an enclosed room that had two large metal plates as floors. A painful electrical shock was turned on and off repeatedly to both plates so that no matter where the dog ran to it would still be shocked.
Very soon the dog would just simply give up and lie down and take the shocks. Next the shocks were only given to the one plate that the dog was lying on while a dog handler would encourage the dog to move to the other plate that had no shock.
The dog would refused to move and just moan in pain in the same position.
Think about this Gentlemen…
Even when there was an escape or a solution to the pain.. the dog’s wouldn’t move to it.
They were CONDITIONED to take the pain and to not resist anymore.
I know in my heart that many men in the West have reached this sad and depressing place.. because quite frankly it’s the ONLY place they’ve ever known! Most of us have now GROWN UP with feminism since our early childhood or teenage years. Dominant, nasty and degrading general behavior from a large proportion of wome around us is ALL we know!
For Men the pain and oppression has been so constant in the past that they make an ACTIVE DECISION to still subject themselves to the pain becomes it is literally a part of their IDENTITY. Once it reaches that point then it is often TOO LATE for these Men.. because now they are afraid to “LOSE” that identity no matter how much pain they experience!
They will keep on subjecting themselves to this RATHER then FACE THE FEAR of the UNKNOWN.
The UNKNOWN is simply:
NOT Knowing what would life be like WITHOUT THIS PAIN.
OR
NOT Knowing what life would be like to actually be loved and nourished by a woman that you equally love.
Gentlemen you have NO IDEA how much truth is in what I’m saying here. In my mind it is the root of most suffering in the world and it applies equally to everyone and anyone.
Also this is the HARDEST thing in the world to personally face in yourself and quite frankly most people just can’t do it as they continue to self-sabatoge themselves.
If any of you out there are reading this and understand this from a personal experience.. I urge you to look at yourself honestly and to have the courage to MOVE. Your suffering in the begining used to be something that wasn’t your doing or fault. But then somehow over time you absorbed it and made it part of you.. so now when any type of FAILURE seems to randomly comes up again. Many times without you even consciously knowing it.. It really does becomes your FAULT because on some level you sabatoged yourself from changing the status quo..
Now what in the world does any of this have to do with Russian Women?
Simple.
If I reach out to 10 guys through this website or in person and tell them that the love they are so badly searching for in their lives is here.. ONLY 1 of them will actually listen and get on a plane.
For every one guy here like Rock who actually follows his heart and goes out into the world to find what he’s searching for.. There are NINE other guys who are sitting at home rapidly turning into a depressed potato.
Some of you may think well maybe the other guys don’t have jobs, time or freedome from obligations that allow them to travel etc.
That is only true for the short term but Rock’s ability to find a job to allow him to travel and to make these discoveries i’m assure you was NOT a case of DUMB LUCK.
He and anyone else who’s been oversees at some point decided to make it a bigger part of their identity then the part that we all have that says:
I “Can’t” Go because it’s too scary, difficult, or fill in the blank with your own excuse.
You guys should start to get the picture by now… I hope..
So again… you guys reading this.. who have actually experienced what I’m talking about..
POST HERE and let the other guys KNOW!
The more we share the faster this awakening self-realization will happen.. and the faster some damsel in distress over here will meet her prince charming.
August 14, 2006 at 7:22 pm
Very Excellent article. So true.
I have gotten some wisdom from older men I met. Something that relates to this article very well. They advised… “Marry the right person. This one decision will determine 90% of your happiness or misery.”
Over time, I have found this to be true.
By the way, very excellent website! I really enjoy reading them so much. It opens up my horizon so much.
I am a young man in my early 20’s. I just graduated from college. I am starting to build my future. This website and other related websites gave me a great start in my life. I’m very very grateful to see the light. I would not be here if it was not for my past horrible experiences with my old American girlfriends.
In fact, about 2 years ago, I had some of most horrible experiences with my old American girlfriends in the past. With one ex girlfriend, I went through the most violent, harrassment, abuses and stalking you can imagine. She kept using sex to control how I think, constantly used shaming language to make me feel guilty, tortured and manipulated me, disguise someone who I know to entrap me, and screaming at me. It was the most soul-destroying experinece I have ever encounted in my life. Thank to my family and local police to ban her from seeing me, I was able to recover from this traumatic experience. I was so determined not to have another horrible experience that I went through. I became so curious about why girls or women act so violent and what causes girls to act they do here in the USA. I found a lot of websites where men are sharing the similar horrible experiences with women. I have came to a conclusion that feminism is responsible for the whole destruction of the Western Society.
I am very grateful to see the light in my young age. I already have rebuked American girls. No matter how attractive they look, I have no desire to be with them at all. I have met few foreign girls. I found that they are more mature, so beautiful, and mentally stable than American female I’ve encountered.
I have been hearing that Russian women are so much different, more conservative, proud to be a lady, decent and Godly, so beautiful, and much more. Your website seems to be right on money. I already made up my mind that my future girlfriend should be from Russia or any FSU. I’m saving up my money and learning Russian language for a nice lengthy vacation in Russia in the near future. I want to be able to see for myself what those ladies are like as well as opportunity to be and act like a real man.
August 15, 2006 at 5:51 am
Well Quiet Rebel..
Be very glad you aren’t married or have kids with that she-devil. Then you would have real issues to deal with. Eventhough you went through a tough time in your past it’s all over and you got out relatively clean.
Time to take what you learned and make your next move.
I want to tell you this. There is TREMENDOUS PERSONAL POWER in openly telling the feminist women who surround you that you have absolutely NO interest in dating them. If will shock and offend them but get this.. they will also want to learn more and will probably actually warm up to you.. I know it’s happened to me a bunch of times.
It takes lots of courage to open your story up and to realize the truth and I give you kudos for it. Just be happy that you are young and understand what the big picture is at this point in your life without having to have gone through a divorce attorney first to figure it out.
My advice for you is to simply spread the word to your brothers because the more you interact on this level the more natural synergy occurs where all of you will have a better chance of getting over here sooner rather then later.
You are right on target in terms of just how critical marriage is to the path that you choose in your life. You’ve just hit a fork in the road and one path may lead to a very difficult and depressed life.. While the other although intially longer and more difficult to travel across has a much higher probability towards real happiness and growth across all dimensions for you as a Man.
Good Luck and keep commenting!
August 19, 2006 at 9:52 pm
Wow – I came across this blog by chance – lots of anger here!
Perhaps a quote may shed some light on ALL your situations…
“The only consistent feature in all your dissatisfying relationships is you” – Despair.com
Possibly saving all that money you plan to spend on trips abroad to find appropriate women would be better spent on anger managment and therapy. 🙂
And for the record – I’m not a feminist or an American.
June 7, 2009 at 9:44 pm
maybe not anger -> but maybe he would realize.. its not going to be a wise choice,,,
i somehow.. find this very perplexing.. espcially as i sit in india these days?
if someone says.. they will come to india and park there and find – indian women to marry -> how on earth do you think one would feel..
or maybe you guys think indians are weirdos..
ok. lets try france -> does france have beautiful, slim, feminine women? -> they are more feminine than russians – for sure and beyond doubt,,
how about spain?
how about greece?
venenzuela?
china?
i see – economic wage rate differential ..
tell me – { without yelling, cursing, abusing etc etc} if you can ->
i think we should be honest .. with ourselves..
olga mishra
August 20, 2006 at 12:11 am
Hello Biotchface666,
I LOVE IT..
Since you didn’t direct your quote to anyone person I can presume that you are questioning the “emotional balance” of me and everyone who shares my view.
Great.. You are welcome to it..
BUT
There are 3 THINGS I’d like to challenge you back on..
So let’s see if you can volley this back in front of our live audience.
FIRST
Everyone has an AGENDA.
What is yours?
I can give credit to both Men and Women who come to my site and state their HONEST opinion EVEN when they are against what I say and are “Angry” in the way they express it.
I have openly stated with my supporters OR DETRACTORS that at least they have the “Balls” to come here, lay it out, and to try to take me on if they wish.
So in my mind these “Angry” people that you are refering to whether they are “For” or “Against” me are much HIGHER ON THE EVOLUTIONARY SCALE then you.. Eventhough your tone is a painfully clear snobish attempt to “imply” otherwise.
The Agenda I promote is quite OPEN for all to see. It’s called expanding the “Freedom of Choice”.
And yes this means that it is in DIRECT opposition to guys like you who would try to scoff at this PRINCIPAL with some BS elitest attitude.
If people get ripped off from a car dealer they are rightfully pissed off and have every right to vent their feelings and to explore better options.
So if we take your quote above,
“The only consistent feature in all your dissatisfying relationships is you”
Then I can agree with you up to the point that yes people need to take responsibilities for their actions BUT in many of the cases that we are talking about the fault lies more in the “buyers” SELECTION of a BAD CAR as opposed to this BAD CAR somehow being caused by some “Angry” character flaw of the driver..
Or in other words Buddy.. Your attempt at SPIN is just shit..
SECOND
Everyone has an identity and a GENDER. People who come to my site normally would identify themselves with at least this and give some background if they were HONEST enought to have a REAL point to make.
Sooo..
Who the Hell are you? Man, Woman, It? And What the Hell’s your point? That you happen to LIKE Anger Management and would like to share your insight with us as well?
Go For It..
THIRD
Are you a shrink?
Or just trying to act like one.
If you are a shrink then the first BASIC thing you should know about dealing with people in a positive way is to ENCOURAGE them to OWN their thoughts and feelings.. AND NOT try to spin it as something irrelevant or as a “distortion” as some Cognitive Psychologist would just LOVE to say.
So since you weren’t courteous enough to share a clearer vision of your philosophy concerning this with us.. Allow me to indulge myself a little and to share with you mine..
In my realm all Emotions have purpose..
Especially Anger..
Anger can be PRODUCTIVE or DESTRUCTIVE and you should at least have the minimal brains to understand this.
I really don’t care what the heck anyone says on my site as long as it gives them the juice to do something productive in their lives..
Gee MAYBE Something REALLY EXTRAVAGANT Like..
Creating Strong & Loving Families..
I don’t know what planet you live on but Life is clearly not all wine and roses.. or “politically correct” and “equal” as any Liberal would try to delusionally push.
No.. Life IS and ALWAYS will be a Strugle and a Competition ESPECIALLY when it comes to securing the future with a loving spouse and family.
Therefore Anger has a CRITICALLY IMPORTANT role if the the very ability to create or protect that family is threatened.
So in the eternal wisdom of any teenager who wishes to validate something Completely Obvious..
“DUH”
Anyways Biotchface666..
I hate to say this because it shows off my very low tolerance for fools..
But I’m laughing my ass off at you right now.
Cause in my mind I have this VERY funny picture of you walking into the middle of an American NFL Football game and telling the players to go to “Anger Management” in order to deal with their Aggression..
I would just LOVE to see you try to tell any MAN who knows what it takes to be a WINNER in life to go to Anger Mangement.
Try it like you’ve done here..
Because at the very least you will provide great entertainment and some good laughs like you have with me. 🙂
Cheers!
GL
June 7, 2009 at 9:27 pm
i think the response from biotchfacee.. is too generic.
its not right or appropriate to say that
” the only problem with you is you” depair.com or what not..
however your response is also a bit too harsh.. wouldnt you say?
by the way.. whats the name of your agency?
ps: to find my identity -> you can just ask google or linkedin or anything
ps2 -> I really am doing a paper ..on marriage -> following Gary S.Becker’s marriage market extension and well.. i come here because i read to guage the mood and i read other places too..
ps3 -> dont be bitter in responidng to me – i express my opinions.. i am a woman.. so.. not sure what you mean by ” balls” -> but i do.. see that your blog posts are a bit too much geared toward blaming everything on – i am not sure why this word feminazzii… !! everything cant be the fault of one single race, nation or whatever..
cheers and chill out
olga
ps:
disclaimers:
Olga = woman,
olga = not american
olga = taken
olga = taken by an indian man
olga = has a job and can afford a man too 🙂
olga’s fiancee -> rich.. and educated..
so.. please no visa..{ infact marrying me.. gets HIM a visa too 🙂
so maybe he is a visa -> digger 🙂 hahhaha
August 26, 2006 at 5:33 pm
GL,
Kudos to your website and your response to biotchface666. (For some reason I typed in “bitchface666” first). I have been happily married to my Russian wife for 1 year and I haven’t regretted any moments. And you are right on about how a genuine Russian woman can make a man feel. I hope more and more American men read your website and save their money to travel to Russia and see what how “class” is defined and what a “lady” truly is. Russia has its share of feminazis but I find that the genuine women to live in the small cities and villages. And they are truly a wonder to look at. Guys, it takes a true lady, a true wife and a true woman to make you feel what a true man supposed to feel. I would encourage any man to start the process of slow disintegration of the feminist mystique by reading and studying about the enemy (feminism) and experiencing the flavor and culture of countries not yet indoctrinated to feminism. Russia and the FSU countries come to mind.
I am assuming that you live in Russia and I have entertained living there for 6 months and living in the States for 6 months. (I still want to keep my SamsClub membership). Any advice as how I can keep from being bored out of my skull living in town of about 300,000 people (Yoshkar-Ola)?
Appreciate the website. Rest assured I am fighting the good fight.
KZ
August 27, 2006 at 7:12 pm
Hello Kzarz!
Kudos to you too for sharing your great success story with you and your lovely wife.
We certainly need more guys like you to fight the good fight and to lead by example. One of the very first guys I met who was engaged to a Russian Girl told me that the only reason he first considered marrying one was because he showed up at his kid’s little league game and one of the other guys had a Russian wife and she was a “smoking hot babe” as he puts it.
The main point is this and you probably already know this.. But when you walk around with your wife and you and her share that total “Matrimonial Glow” of love… Other guys take notice and start asking questions.
Obvious questions like..
“Now why in the HELL can’t I have that!”
The answer is…
“You can.. but you need to get out of your comfort zone and get off your ass and go get it..”
So I bet you anything that you have already started raising a few eyebrows around the neighborhood with some very large animated question marks floating over a few men’s heads.
That is the BEST way I know of (besides my site of course ;)) to convince guys to stop trying to nourish themselves on a 49 cent McDonalds burger is for guys like you to spread the joy by showing these guys how totally happy you are.
What will really spread the word is if you get the women in your neighborhood pissed off.. then this will send a very clear message to the guys that YOU ARE DOING SOMETHING RIGHT… God it’s fun to be devious sometimes and to use a Feminist’s own spite against them..
Ok now that my Dr. Evil side has had a chance to come out and play..
Anyways.. if you get a chance to live in Russia for 6 months out of the year I would do it. I don’t know what your professional background is but all sorts of Western style help is needed and it’s an extremely rewarding thing to be out here and doing something as simple as teaching english and sharing your culture with them. If you get into a routine of doing that I don’t think you will be bored at all and instead I’m sure you will have tremendous growth and satisifaction.. not to mention one helluva an adventure..
Drop me a note when you roll back into town.. I would love to have a local guide into a small town like that.
Anyways please keep posting and have the wife stop in to say hello too! 🙂
Cheers
GL
September 2, 2006 at 3:40 am
Gotta love the psuedo-shrinks, if there ever was such a thing as a real one. Biotchface666 was just trying to stir the pot, and it got dumped all over him, LOL. It’s a great day when both feminazi American women and agitators elicit not anger from us, but a good ole belly laugh, ROFL.
Taras
September 9, 2006 at 11:57 pm
biotchface666 is gay since he supports the feminists.
Americn men have the right to seek beauitful women from around the world.
The women from around the world said we are the best husbands, and if anything we are liberating them.
The Feminazis on the otherhand, want the foreign women not to come to America because they dont want straight men to be happy.
June 7, 2009 at 9:34 pm
yes I agree with blade..
every woman/man has a right to choose what they want..
and the world is global..
but i dont agree with point 3 of yours.
how come.. every think has feminazis => somehere stuck in the equation.. It seems there are so many many boards.. everyone talks about feminist movement.. i mean.. mine.. what happens -> do women stop you guys at the airports ? or stop you from writing..
my fiancee is indian – lives in usa.. and in europe -> they have arranged marriages in india.. even now ->
we have russian men.. who are allegedly so bad.. and what not.
how come. no one ever was able to STOP us ..?
i mean… i can see the American women are typically more – sort of aggressive -> yes.. but so are American men.. its the culture..
but anyway.. American women.. i personally have found to be more aggressive than lets say Spanish or french women.
but i am at a loss to understand .. this…
it just is perplexing..
regards
olga mishra
September 15, 2006 at 12:58 pm
Hi – Just stumbled across you site and have enjoyed looking through it. I’ll be calling back soon for another look. Keep up the great work.
David
September 16, 2006 at 10:03 am
Hi David,
Sorry your comment didn’t get displayed earlier it was caught up in the wordpress spam filter. Just discovered it today.
Anyways.. Yes Please participate and tell your friends and even clients if you wish about what we are talking about.
I’m sure you will always have lots of business but an attorney friend of mine once told me to do myself a big favor by not doing anything stupid that would cause me to call him down the road when I could have prevented it by making the right decisions earlier. I think the same advice heeds for your existing and future clients as well.
Selecting the right partner to begin with is a huge step in the right direction. Expecting a Marriage counselor or anyone else for that matter to try to solve deep existing problems at the core level is often completely unrealistic.
Anyways thanks for your comments and please come back with your friends!
Cheers, GL
September 20, 2006 at 11:43 pm
Now I know that what my wife says is really true: Russian men are some of the stupidest, vodka-snorting, American-whore-loving, STD ridden, poor excuses for men on the planet.
September 20, 2006 at 11:57 pm
Oksana,
“You can’t handle the truth” says Jack Nicholson. The truth is that intelligent, professional (read: money) American men of all races are slowly but surely making their way to Russia and Ukraine to sweep intelligent, beautiful, family oriented women off their dainty feet and whisk them to a better life, in the United States or elsewhere on earth. That leaves you, a bitter woman (probably a Russian feminist) with poor dental hygiene and two slowly shrinking ovaries with Devyneros, an equally disgusting man with slow growing prostate and lung cancer from smoking too many Malboro’s (American made, of course). Congratulations!
September 21, 2006 at 3:16 am
Nice comeback. Did you think of that by yourself or did you have to get help from your lesbian friend?
September 21, 2006 at 1:44 pm
So let me get this straight. You are on this website bashing us American males for extolling the vitures of the Russian woman yet you married an American man. It just goes to show you that when the “virus” hits, women’s immune system takes a powder and all semblence of logic gets buried amidst the hormonal currents and fast deterioration of ovarian function. Congratulations, you are now a card-carrying feminist.
September 22, 2006 at 3:28 am
Hey Tania
Why all of the hostility?
I am disappointed in your attitude and the extreme lack of character that you have displayed in your comments.
Certainly the readers of this blog and I would never react with the animosity and belligerence that you have exhibited here if given the opportunity (though I doubt there will ever be a blog acclaiming men of any nationality, unfortunately)
Tell me Tania, if GL’s words are so “misleading,” how would YOU eloquently and in a civilized tone, enlighten us?
Don’t bother using any Russian – I’m sure the fact that you know English already makes you an expert.
September 22, 2006 at 4:14 am
WK’s right, Tania. You are falling on deaf ears because of your bad attitude and extreme lack of class and respect.
If you don’t agree with any of comments, please tell us in a civilized and decent manner. Provide us facts, not opinion.
Since you claim that you are not a feminist and being a normal women, let me provide you one proof that you are a feminist.
You said, “The truth is that you can’t handle strong and independent women.”
Fact: How many times have we heard this? It’s nothing new to us. It is a very typical line from feminist shaming on men for looking a wonderful girl. You are just another girl sprouting out the same lines from the feminist matrix.
One proof is enough to show how hypocritical you are.
Please think for yourself and question for what feminism is and how they do harm to families and loving relationship between men and women.
September 22, 2006 at 6:43 am
Hi Guys.. Sorry about the bombthrowers.
Unless they engage in some logical and civil dialogue they are on my Spam list.
Thanks for taking care of the house while I was out by the way.. 🙂
September 22, 2006 at 2:04 pm
GL and Gentlemen of the Board,
I must admit that my comments to the bomb-throwers added to the fire and for that I apologize. I know that almost impossible not to respond in kind, mnuch like the instinct to slow down and gaze at an accident along the highway. I promise to temper my responses and only respond in a more logical fashion … although I do like to throw the occasional bomb once in a while.
Please accept my apologies.
September 22, 2006 at 4:07 pm
Cheers kzarz!
No worries comrade! It is amusing to watch the bomb throwers behave the way they do… almost like watching monkeys swinging around in a zoo exhibit. If you throw a rock at one of them, it’s sort of amusing to watch it try to throw the rock back 😉
September 25, 2006 at 6:44 am
No Problemo Kzarz..
I got fired up to.. that’s why I wrote the open letter to feminists post.. Sometimes it’s a good thing eh? 🙂
Cheers Man
September 30, 2006 at 3:27 pm
Another really nice, great and original comment.
November 1, 2006 at 1:36 pm
They had a show from Russia on the Fashion Channel. I am so burned out on the hard-ass look in models!! I don’t care how beautiful a woman is, to me the hard-ass look makes her unattractive. Anyway the affect of the Russian models was VERY different, more like “look at what God gave me, isn’t is glorious?” but VERY feminine and open, not closed-down and defensive. And they were stunning women! Had a wet spot afterwards and a craving to buy a plane ticket for Moscow.
I had never know anything but American women my whole life, just figured I was a loser and my life would be somewhat lonely. This included marriage a good and decent (Jewish) woman and having 2 beautiful daughters. In 2001 though I took a tour thru S.E. Asia and basically went of the deep end: seeing real feminine women was like visiting Hawaii after living my whole life in the desert. It cost me my marriage, but the marriage deal bascially meant being fitted for the La-Z-Boy and Fantasy Football at age 45. I got WAY too much mojo left for that.
I have been living in S.E. Asia ever since, where there is a regular parade of young beautiful feminine women thru my life (I’m 50 now). There is NO WAY I could EVER go back to live full-time in Sexual Siberia (the USA), at least until my prostate shrivels up. When I visit the US, I do not even see many attractive women; the ones I do see are defensive and hyper-sensitive. I take a condom “just in case” but it will sit unused for a month, until I get back here to Paradise where there is continual activity.
As these poorer countries (mostly former Communist) develop, the window of opportunity may close up. As China develops (because of the 1-child policy there is a surplus of men) when they get money they will suck up a lot of the surplus women. But I’ve had enough great experiences for a lifetime. Most American men remain clueless. I agree with the writer above, I rarely even look at western women anymore, except as curiosities.
December 6, 2006 at 6:10 pm
Hi….
One cannot generalise.
I have married two foreign women, one an Asian muslim. She was a she devil to match all she devils.
My second marriage is to a gorgeous young Romanian girl. They, like Russian girls are Orthodox both in their religion and in their attitude to men.
I have had the Mail Order Bride card flagged at me, also asked the question of “whats wrong with our women”. I just look at them and quietly tell them that I am niether American nor have I lived in my homeland for over 8 years. Why should I not do as my heart tells me?
My girl loves me and she rescued me from a hell of abuse and denigration. I can never explain what she did for me, nor what she continues to do.
My ex-wife tried the Feminist manipulations in the Family Court, to make me seem some kind of monster. While the vehemence was quite shocking, she was largely ignored. Take heart men – its just noise. Be strong – know what you are.
I cannot speak for Russia, but Romanians are terribly patriotic. I doubt the trend of marrying foreigners will continue once the economy is relativly normal – but right now the idea of marrying is abhorent, a good percentage local men routinely dominate and abuse their wives.
Stephen
December 24, 2006 at 7:37 am
Reply to JR.
I think its important to separate two different issues, which rather melt into each other at the edges.
You say the “window of opportunity” will close. This is partially inaccurate. What could happen is those countries will get richer, the women may look less abroad or become bitchier… but it will never close completely BECAUSE THE MODERN FEMINAZISM IS SO UNNATURAL.
Women in the west get jobs they dont deserve (affirmative action, Army, firefighters) and cultivate attitudes that are simply out of touch with reality (because they are protected from it from all sorts of things like liberal judges who give them generous divorce laws and alimony, college seats and degrees that they dont deserve or a left leaning Mass Media). Right now russian/asian women might be EXTRA-feminine due to their circumstances, but at worst they will simply slide to normalcy over time.
But, and heres the catch, even normalcy is an improvement over bitchy western women.
So we are dealing with, to over-generalize, three states of being, NOT two.
1) Bitchy Feminazis – a monopoly created by unjust laws, restriction of choice and information.
2) Normalcy – forces of the free market would be the best analogy. Probably will be caused in the future a generation or two down the line in Russia/Asia
3)Uber-feminine females – Caused by current circumstances in Russia/Asia.
This all assumes all differences are cultural. Hypothesizing genetic differences may or may not confuse the issue of change between the states over time.
To repeat – Even NORMALCY is a HUGE improvement on Westernized females!
December 26, 2006 at 8:46 pm
“The only way you can win is to first find sanctuary in the loving arms of a woman who nourishes your soul and allows you to REGAIN your strength and self-awareness.”
To regain? I strongly doubt that those who need somebody to regain their “strength” will ever do it. So silly to expect somebody to allow you to regain something. That`s nothing but incapability to be responsible for your own life.
I think that American men are the most infantile in the world.
Really, this website is a lot of fun.
December 27, 2006 at 1:00 am
Hi Nat,
I just love it when people like you take something I say out of context in an attempt to paint a derogatory picture because you are incapable of discussing the topic accurately due to a combination of ignorance and arrogance which you are demonstrating.
My question for you is this. I know you are married. Are you telling me that you DON’T like it when your husband cradles you in his arms and makes you feel loved, nourished and strong? Because you are implying that you should be completely “responsible” for this on your own..
Wow.. you must be one really “strong” aka “cold fish” woman if that is the case Nat.
Good luck with your marriage Nat..
May 17, 2007 at 3:10 am
I would like to take a moment to elaborate on something RW briefly touched on. My question to the feminists is this; what exactly is your motive for being here? WHAT IS YOUR AGENDA? Could it be that the obvious superiority complex is a feigned attempt to hide a feeling of inferiority? Could it be that you feel threatened or intimidated by men who instead of taking your feminist abuse, seek refuge in a relationship with a traditional Russian woman? You obviously think higly of yourselves, however only a fool would waste time interfering with something that has nothing to do with them. American Woman, we didn’t invite you to this party. We know that you stay at home, bite your pillow at night and cry. You only have yourselves to blame. Our agenda is clear and yields something real outside the confines of a feminist’s narrow-minded view of the world. These responses highlight the reason I hate American Woman. To an American woman her behavior is everyone else’ problem but her own. She never misses an opportunity to lash out and spout out her superficial knees-jerk inducing insensitive comments. Before I marry an American Woman I’ll die with a plane ticket in my hand.
May 17, 2007 at 4:29 am
Hear hear, Calvin. And a corollary question (even if rhetorical) for the feministas: why, when a man stands up and challenges your BS, do you dry up, blow away, and disappear into thin air?
May 17, 2007 at 5:40 am
I, Luke Skywalker, am very angry.
I am angry because now wordpress is treating me like I am a spammer! Every comment I write, even on my own blog, goes into the spam box. I’ve tried different email addresses and everything.
It seems that wordpress has now decided that my home IP is a spam IP.
Anyway, I agree with Calvin.
And I also hate the way that the US is such a stifling environment that tries to turn all its people into Pillsbury dough boys!
May 17, 2007 at 7:03 pm
Okay, why are feminists on here? Because we happen to stumble across this site and find some really hateful and untrue things directed at us. When you attack somebody, it becomes their business. When something is available to the world to read, you have to expect the world to respond. Even if the KKK says its hate-speech is just among itself, if a black person comes across it, they have the right to talk back. Feminists want equality. We want to be treated like something more than foreign souvenirs with ratings like “quality” objects. Only real men and women can have truly satisfying relationships which involve both partners being equal human beings. Having a “traditional”, subservient, non-equal woman as a partner can give an illusion of support to a weak ego that needs to be the more powerful partner to feel like a He-Man Creature, but it’s not healthy for either partner. You are advocating a system where men relate to women as objects, not equally human like themselves, and that is what is eating away at our culture. I agree with bioch666: improve your anger issues and Napleon complex. Then you might be able to have a satisfactory relationship with another human being.
May 18, 2007 at 10:38 am
No, Lillith, feminists are not willing to settle for “equality”. Their goal is the domination of the world and the subjugation of men.
What I find most objectionable about feminism is its hypocrisy. You claim that men treat women as objects, yet most western women are as shallow as the worst men.
Furthermore, you feminists have a strange definition of “subservient”. Any favor done for your husband is slavery, in your definition. God forbid that a guy ask his wife to wash a dish or make him a sandwich or have sex with him, because she’ll go on a two-hour tirade about how “I’M NOT YOUR SLAVE!!!”
I will say this, though. The name “Lilith” seems apt. Do you know the legend of Lilith?
May 18, 2007 at 12:48 pm
“Only real men and women can have truly satisfying relationships which involve both partners being equal human beings.”
Men and women have never been created equal, never is never ever will be. Don’t you see, that’s the beauty of inequality. Men wants to be protector, women protected. Inequality draws us together. Equality is boring, boring, boring!!!
“Feminists want equality.”
You can have equality, but you’ll also be driving men to foreign lands. We (men) don’t want equality. We want to come home and be served tasty meals, homes cleaned, laundry washed. We want the 60’s and prior type women when women look after their men. What is wrong with being subservient? We men love subservient!!! Go anywhere else in the world and you’ll see what real women are like, they are SUBSERVIENT. And their men love them for it.
“You are advocating a system where men relate to women as objects, not equally human like themselves, and that is what is eating away at our culture.”
Feminists are what’s eating away at our culture like vulture. Ever hear of marrying well to divorce well? Thank you, feminists. No men wants to marry you feminists. Wouldn’t want to touch a feminists with a ten foot pole. Look around, the land is a waste of souls ripped apart through divorce.
We are voting with are foot. Hope you’ll see someday, the real women we men want… always traditional, feminine, subservient…
-M
November 22, 2007 at 6:54 pm
Gentlemen,
(and I do mean gentle men)
To destroy the existing feminist social structure change is composed by force but in order to accomplish this we must become the very thing we hate.
To illustrate my point: I had my own personal bully in grade school and he had my number. He was older and bigger than me so for most of the year I endured everything he dished out. We were both in the percussion section in the orchestra and every day he sought me out to torment me and slap me around. I talked with my father about the situation and asked him what I should do. He told me whatever I choose to do I must face the consequences. The next day, with one punch, I broke the bully’s nose and I cried for him (there was a lot of blood). I was peaceful at heart but I had to become Abusive in order to stop the Abuse. Consequently, I was the one (not him) who was sent to the “guidance” counselor to talk about my “anger” issues and the he never vexed me again.
Is our only choice to tear this system down? Feminist bullies don’t realize the power of men of resolve. We are peaceful at heart and for the most part we go along to get along. However, change can and will occur in an instant (after we have endured decades of torment). The question is: Are we prepared to face the consequences? Incidentally, consequences aren’t all bad.
A gentle man,
Mick
November 22, 2007 at 8:01 pm
Mick, what will be the straw that will break the camel’s back??
November 23, 2007 at 8:33 am
Manoah it looks like you need to go and read GL’s post ‘Russian women are not slaves’. We don’t want slaves (aka subservient). We want an equal who recognises that she is different.
December 30, 2007 at 9:38 pm
Interesting forum. I must agree here. I see a lot of broken men all too often by the hands of western women. Often in the divorce courts. This appears to be very rare with foreign marraiges. Foreign women are so much more understanding and sincere from my experience. Their feelings are very real unlike ball breaking western women (utterly false).You describe American feminazi women as evil. Well most (not all) Aussie women are not much behind.
I am sure this is no coincidence.
I hope to make the move soon overseas to find paradise. Foreign women Rock!
I wish all those well in their endevours.
Godspeed
January 2, 2008 at 3:32 pm
I think Manoah is probably right:
““Feminists want equality.” We (men) don’t want equality. We want to come home and be served tasty meals, homes cleaned, laundry washed.”
I totally agree, it is wrong, for American women to try to change your views. You are entitled to your opinions. But you will have to watch out, as the country develops, there will be a rising number of feminists in Russia too. hehe 🙂
January 2, 2008 at 9:22 pm
Lenka you obviously have no clue as to what you are talking about as the state of “feminism” in Russia.. and I’m willing to bet that you’ve never been to Russia.
Typical jealous feminist spew.. no credibility.. no reason.. no logic.. just denial that Men like us would reject your BS and envy towards the women that we would embrace.
January 3, 2008 at 2:06 am
Then there will be a lot more Russian women dying alone and spending their old age in the company of cats. Sorry Lenka, women who make themselves competitors with men will find that many men will rebuke and avoid them. Feminism is nothing but the global elites effort to depopulate the planet and turn the Earth into a global gulag.
January 3, 2008 at 2:36 am
Lenka,
The Russian culture is far wiser in psychology and in dealings between man and woman than you or any feminist will ever be able to comprehend, understand or accept. They know the way to true and passionate love; the gift of which is happiness and bliss. Russian women understand the secrets to making their men love them. It is through labours of love, attention, sacrifice, to cook and to nourish not only body but also the soul of their men. Russian women satisfies their men with good love making. American feminist uses sex as bargaining chips; in essence turning themselves into whores and sluts selling their bodies. Is it not true that when men and women meet in America, the girls usually ask about the type of house and car that the man has??? Russian women know how to encourage their men to inspire them and to make them feel at ease, comfortable and to make life interesting and satisfying for them. American women really know how to psychologically torture their men causing them emotional pains. American women likes to play head games because out of their own insecurities they somehow want to feel that they have the upper hand in their dealings with men. Unfortunately, the way feminism is set up, true love will be forever out of their reach. Every ideologies that come with feminism is antithetic to true love. Feminism is FALSE, FACADE of LIES.
Anyhow, Russian women are wise and see through the illogic of feminism.
Lenka, trust me on this, humble yourself and learn from these ladies.
I and many thousands of other men have been with Russian ladies and they have all felt heart felt true love; the type of which we men DO NOT and CAN NOT ever feel with an American women. Simply because gullible American women have been misguided, and lied to by feminist ideologies.
-M
January 3, 2008 at 2:02 pm
rw_man- I come from Eastern Europe and have lived in Russia for a while (I now live in the UK). So I know what I am talking about, and I cannot be jealous of their looks, as people mistake me for a Russian girl all the time.
Taras- You are right. Women should not try to compete with men, as this makes many of them intimidated and run away. Your quote about feminism is very good, I like it. You are smart with words.
Manoah- I see you have had some bad experience with American women. I understand. I have met horrible American women before, who were overtly feminist, and thought it was their God-given gift to eat like pigs, not care about their appearance and treat men like crap. I do not support this. That is in deed wrong. Russian women do treat men better.
But: Russian girls are much more materialistic than American or British girls. If you think they aren’t, you are fooling yourself. They are just smarter about it.
Russian girls are nicer to you, because you are rich compared to them. If you go to Vietnam, girls will also be very kind to you. In addition: in Russia there is a huge demographic surplus of women. They have been brought up to be competitive, when it comes to men. Many have no other choice than to mary. No education or opportunities to do well on their own.
I am interested in your views. What do you think?
January 3, 2008 at 6:33 pm
Sorry to introduce an off-topic subject, but I’m sure I remembered getting a link for an online book called Garbage Generation from the comments section on this site. If so, who was it? I wish to thank them, and recommend to anyone else here that they read it, especially the female visitors. I would love to hear opinions from those who have read it. It’s engrossing reading, and will finish in no time it’s so interesting.
http://www.fisheaters.com/garbagegeneration.html
January 4, 2008 at 6:29 am
I’m well aware of how materialistic Russian women can be, but that is a tendancy that can be found in women anywhere although in varying degrees. After all, my grandmother was one even though she had little in common with American women then and now. It is naive to assume that going to another country would make everything peachy overnight. It would be hard enough to bridge the culture gap, something you know from firshand experience. And when there is a real shortage of men, can you blame the ones who do want to marry turning to foreigners? That can be either a good or a bad thing, depending on the lady and the man too. Not all women are the same, wherever you go but you are not totally off the mark about several points. Not all women are devils anymore than all men are angels, but a few bad apples can ruin everything for everyone else. It’s very much caveat emptor wherever you go.
Taras
June 7, 2009 at 9:39 pm
i think is mostly:
[1] economic differentials
[2] family in russia is crumbling – like it is in the west -> so.. what gives is -> better roads + better infrastructure -> and well.. thats .. a tarde – off -> age differential versus infrastructure differential..-
[3] There maybe some cases -mostly in Europe – where its also an upward income differential – adjusted for the GDP deflator – which could be around 4 – 6 for FSU nations in general -> but with a wide latitude and dispersions -> the bid -ask spread would be higher..
January 4, 2008 at 4:51 pm
Thank you Taras for accepting some of my views and giving an inteligent, balanced answer. I fully agree with you.
January 4, 2008 at 9:19 pm
As long as someone is willing to discuss things as an adult with me, I’m willing to hear someone else out even if I don’t agree with him or her. Honest, open debate never hurt anyone, but it does help everyone.
January 5, 2008 at 4:27 am
Lenka, you do not “come from Eastern Europe.” You are an Army brat or an embassy brat or something. But you are not Russian or Eastern European. You were brought up as a Western girl by Western parents. You are only claiming otherwise in an attempt to cloak yourself in a false credibility.
January 5, 2008 at 2:17 pm
Doamna,
A most excellent find and is on contrary, very relevant to our discussion. Everything starts to make sense now. I would highly recommend reading the Garbage Generation and reading cross referencing with the following books:
A General Theory of Love by Thomas Lewis, Fari Amini and Richard Lannon
The Developing Mind: How Relationships and the Brain Interact to Shape Who We Are by Daniel J. Siegel
-M
Lenka, feminism works to the demise of male-female relationship and of society in general. We must fight its progress and encroachment. It seeks to destroy love and family. Feminism is the antithesis of love of God.
January 6, 2008 at 12:41 pm
Craig – I grew up in the Czech Republic with two Czech parents and only moved abroad for university. But I agree, most of my views are more ‘western’.
Manoah – You are an angry man. I think you are afraid of women being stronger than you. There is a saying in Czech “Only weak men beat their women”.
January 7, 2008 at 1:00 am
I hear alot being said about feminists on here, and to some extent I agree, but have any of you stopped to think about who it was that made feminists the way they are?
Or who made it possible for them to be to begin with?
Granted what it is now, is not what it was intented to be when it started, but due to the foolishness of us men (not all of us) it has become a cancer in this world.
Brute force is what put us in this situation my friends, but that is not what will change it for the better.
January 7, 2008 at 6:39 am
RobofCanada…
“but have any of you stopped to think about who it was that made feminists the way they are?”
A: Cultural Marxism
“Or who made it possible for them to be to begin with?”
A: Cultural Marxists and their useful idiots (mangina enablers)
A: “Granted what it is now, is not what it was intented to be when it started,”
It is exactly what it was intended to be when it started i.e. Cultural Marxist agenda to destroy families and good values & implement state domination.
**gone**
January 7, 2008 at 2:16 pm
Lenka, what is it about Manoah that classifies him as angry?
January 7, 2008 at 5:57 pm
and to Manoah, thanks for the reading recommendations: I’ll be checking out what my library has got…
January 9, 2008 at 2:57 am
Lenka: and more’s the pity.
March 12, 2008 at 8:59 pm
Two Quotes:
“The only way you can win is to first find sanctuary in the loving arms of a woman who nourishes your soul”
“The primary goal is to get you and every other man the best options available for starting a family with”
One question:
Where do I sign up?
Defenetly something worth investing time in and walking towards.
March 12, 2008 at 9:15 pm
This thread deserves a double post. I will share my opinion out here but keep in mind it is just my opinion.
There is no superior or inferior in terms of men and women. It is my belief that men and women are very different because they were meant to fulfill different roles. To claim equality all those who fight for that equality better grow a penis. If you have not realized it, evolution has created two very different roles and two very different beings when it comes to a man and a woman for a very specific reason. The survival of the species!!!!
Do not claim superiority or inferiority, do not claim equality because the mere thought of it is stupid. Womens brains are wired in such a way that they are mostly lead by emotions in most cases. Why? Because those emotions are the ones that help nourish the young for the ensuring of the survival of the specie. Men are problem solvers, practical and yes ANGRY because that ALSO helps ensure survival of the specie. 40,000 years ago this made sure that the young were nurtured by the mothers and protected from other clans and wild animals by the fathers. To an extent this is still VERY true. So please dont claim equality, superiority or inferiority. Nature has put you here to fulfill a purpose and it sure as hell aint to go hunting to bring meat to your family 40,000 years ago, and it sure as hell aint more true today than it was then.
Men and women are just different, thats it. And within those differences evolution has made sure to balance things to increase the odds of survival. I always have fulfilled my role, always will it is my nature. Finding a good woman who will fulfill hers, well that is a whole other ball game. And that is the sole reason I am here for. Im not claiming superiority, inferiority or Equality. I am just looking for a partner for this long journey we call life, one who will make it worth living every moment and not one who will turn it into a nightmare.
Be and let be. It is everyones god given right and choice to live life as they want, and I sure as hell dont want a woman who will manipulate, use, abuse or do any of the things that are not part of her role as the counterparts of males in our specie.
Evolution has and always will have a big resonance on how we behave and what we do. It is also what has made us the dominant species on this planet so listen to natures whisdom. Just fulfill your role and thats all you have to do.
T.
March 13, 2008 at 3:24 am
Hi T.
Funny how something so basic and fundamental in life as complimentary differences between Men and Women can become so easily distorted with some relentless feminist propaganda.
Good job with the commentary.. Please keep it going 🙂
GL
April 20, 2008 at 2:20 am
“You know in my position I am often in the company of many people.. perhaps millions that I need to reach out to.. But the only time I really get lonely is if Nancy leaves the room..” – Ronald Reagan
I’ve read through this entire blog and this quote is one of the few things that I can remember distinctly reading. It’s message is dead on about the complimentary needs and desires between the man and a woman in a relationship. Ronald led as Nancy supported and stood by him, his pillar of strength. Neither was superior or inferior to the other, both roles equally as important.
I’ve read this and other blogs about men who have found traditional wives abroad and they generally show many positive changes, like promotions at work, marked improvement in their happiness, and much more confidence. None of these men say they did it, they all thank their wives.
I was out fishing with two of my uncles once and one of them said “It sure is nice being out here, don’t have to deal with the wife.” Well after we returned home and that uncle had left, the other uncle, sitting on the couch with is wonderful traditional Filipina wife of 16 years snuggled up against him, commented about how troubling that comment was to him. While he liked being out doing things with the guys he had never even thought of doing something just to get away from his wife. In fact he, like Ron, missed being away from her and always anticipated coming home to her.
To me being a loving wife and mother is the most important job a woman can have, it’s far far from being beneath them. To have a home where your children can be properly reared by their mother instead of a stranger. What could possibly be more important than properly reared children? Or where a husband can come home after a hard days work to his immaculately kept home, leave his stress at the door, smell the divine scent of a wonderful home cooked meal, and enjoy a quality afternoon with his wonderful wife and children because his wife has taken care of all the domestic tasks. What’s beneath a woman here again? The woman is the CORE if this relationship, she fills in all the missing pieces, and she’s been hollowed out in western culture.
SiSD
April 25, 2008 at 2:16 pm
I agree with Lenka.Russian girls are quite materialistic.Guys I will give you a tip.If you want to learn something real about slavic women,ask other slavic women.Do you want to learn the truth about czech girls?Ask slovak girls.Do you want to learn the truth about russian girls?Ask czech or belarus girls.Do you want to learn the truth about ukrainian girls?Ask russian girls.Trust me,it works.What Lenka tells you is true because she is czech and talks about russian women.Listen to her.
My two cents.
May 20, 2009 at 9:38 pm
I found this site by a man who also prefers foreign women: http://www.the-niceguy.com/articles/RiekosPassionII.html and in the article here he describes perfectly the attitude that many feminists take towards western men who marry outside of their own country. He’s into Japanese women but from what I’ve read here the sentiment is exactly the same when Russian women are involved. He really spells it out. It is shudderingly cruel when you get down to it – and although there’s no IMBRA in the UK, I know what it is
And it works the other way round. I have a Japanese fiance and loads of western women, at home and in Japan, have said all kinds of things about him: he must be unfaithful, have another girlfriend, waiting to ditch me so he can marry a Japanese girl, addicted to porn, will hit me and treat me as a house slave, etc … they all say they would only ever get involved with a western man, but they obviously don’t want one of those either or they might treat their man the right way! What does it take to make them happy?