American Men

Since I’m always advocating that you gentlemen do your best to actually be in Russia to experience the culture and extraordinary beauty..

I thought it might be wise to pass on a possible way to do it.

Volunteer for a worthy cause.

As it turns out there is an outfit called Cross Cultural Solutions which specializes in matching up volunteers with various programs not just in Russia but internationally as well.

Although this is a noble thing to do I realize that this may not be everyone’s cup of tea.

But if you are up for an adventure of a lifetime and feel like you can make a difference.

Then this may be the ticket which gets you in and initially settled.

I just came across a interesting article from the UK Telegraph that stated something that most of us already know.

Men lose their minds speaking to pretty women.

I sure hope this study wasn’t too expensive because I could have given them the same information for the cost of an iced tea.   (Actually I probably would’ve given it for free.)

In any case I certainly didn’t need a fancy research lab to discover this.  I know this simply because I see it all the time with the various Men who travel to this part of the world in search of true love.

Now as fun as it may seem for you Gentlemen to take a spur of the moment road trip to Cloud 9 without your trusty little GPS in hand there is a serious side to this which all of you should pay close attention to.

Because getting lost in what you believe is love (but is actually lust or infatuation) can be a VERY EXPENSIVE and VERY DISAPPOINTING journey.

It usually starts with a man who is devoid of any feminine attention who starts corresponding with only a picture of some younger beauty on the Internet.

I can hardly find fault with them but it is simply way too easy for these Gentlemen to lose their minds, let their imaginations roam and believe that they have “found love”.

Now if he’s one of the lucky few who actually makes it over to the FSU to meets his lady then he’s really at risk for losing his marbles if he’s truly attracted to the girl standing before him.   Now I totally understand that these hazy feelings can be a very beautiful thing because Mother Nature can do blissful, wonderful things in matters of love and attraction.

But the flip side is this.

Lack of common sense can often bring about confusion and BAD Decision making.

So before any of you Gentlemen go flying off to marry the first girl who gives you any attention try to take a step back and realize that there is a powerful force in play that will most certainly impair your judgement as to what the best woman may be for you to build a future with.

ALWAYS keep your options open and try to meet as many everyday women as possible because..

Contrasts + Comparisons = Common Sense

Men lose their minds speaking to pretty women
Talking to an attractive woman really can make a man lose his mind, according to a new study.
Pat Hagan
Published: 10:28AM BST 03 Sep 2009
The research shows men who spend even a few minutes in the company of an attractive woman perform less well in tests designed to measure brain function than those who chat to someone they do not find attractive.
Researchers who carried out the study, published in the Journal of Experimental and Social Psychology, think the reason may be that men use up so much of their brain function or ‘cognitive resources’ trying to impress beautiful women, they have little left for other tasks.
The findings have implications for the performance of men who flirt with women in the workplace, or even exam results in mixed-sex schools.
Women, however, were not affected by chatting to a handsome man.
This may be simply because men are programmed by evolution to think more about mating opportunities.
Psychologists at Radboud University in The Netherlands carried out the study after one of them was so struck on impressing an attractive woman he had never met before, that he could not remember his address when she asked him where he lived.
Researchers said it was as if he was so keen to make an impression he ‘temporarily absorbed most of his cognitive resources.’
To see if other men were affected in the same way, they recruited 40 male heterosexual students.
Each one performed a standard memory test where they had to observe a stream of letters and say, as fast as possible, if each one was the same as the one before last.
The volunteers then spent seven minutes chatting to male or female members of the research team before repeating the test.
The results showed men were slower and less accurate after trying to impress the women. The more they fancied them, the worse their score.
But when the task was repeated with a group of female volunteers, they did not get the same results. Memory scores stayed the same, whether they had chatted to a man or a woman.
In a report on their findings the researchers said: ‘We conclude men’s cognitive functioning may temporarily decline after an interaction with an attractive woman.’
Psychologist Dr George Fieldman, a member of the British Psychological Society, said the findings reflect the fact that men are programmed to think about ways to pass on their genes.
‘When a man meets a pretty woman, he is what we call ‘reproductively focused’.
‘But a woman also looks for signs of other attributes, such as wealth, youth and kindness. Just the look of the man would be unlikely to have the same effect.’

Men lose their minds speaking to pretty women

Talking to an attractive woman really can make a man lose his mind, according to a new study.

Pat Hagan

Published:  03 Sep 2009

The research shows men who spend even a few minutes in the company of an attractive woman perform less well in tests designed to measure brain function than those who chat to someone they do not find attractive.

Researchers who carried out the study, published in the Journal of Experimental and Social Psychology, think the reason may be that men use up so much of their brain function or ‘cognitive resources’ trying to impress beautiful women, they have little left for other tasks.


54 year old Mel Gibson and his 39 year old Russian Lady, Oksana Grigorieva

54 year old Mel Gibson and his 39 year old Russian Lady, Oksana Grigorieva

Clearly there are many obvious reasons behind this.

However there now seems to be a real evolutionary purpose as to why our instincts work in the way they do.

And perhaps this is the most important reason of all because…

Our genes naturally drive us Men towards younger women in order to promote a LONGER life.

Now i’m sure subconsciously we all realize this.

Because as a friend of mine once said.

“Being with a young and beautiful woman forces you to stay young yourself.”

(And give the night and day physical differences I’ve seen in him because of his relationship I’d have to concur.)


If any of you Gentlemen personally know a Russian or FSU Woman..

Then TODAY is the day to once again extend your deepest adoration and to make her feel like a REAL Lady.

(These women also love to pamper and make each other feel beautiful on this day too.)

So pick up that phone..

Send those emails or ecards..

Or just simply arrange a nice romantic evening together.

Oh and don’t forget the flowers and chocolates too.

They really love that.  🙂


2 Awesome Ladies   

2 Awesome Ladies

I personally have much to be thankful for on this Thanksgiving Day.

First and foremost I am deeply thankful for all of you incredible visitors and participants out there who help to make Russian Women the Real Truth what it is.

Hopefully this site is a modest but meaningful beacon for those of you who wish to pursue your own dreams for finding love, happiness and a little truth in this often upside down world of ours. 

I not only wish all of you Good Fortune but I would also like to add one very important caveat to this wish.

You can literally make your own Luck.

My life here and the beautiful love I receive is a testament to this.

I know I live in a different world then what many of you are accustomed to. 

But this is only the case because like so many others..

I just decided to start walking towards it. 

Not only can you do the same..  But if there is a similar desire in your soul then you MUST do the same for yourself.  

I believe that this is a test that the Man upstairs gives all of us at some critical point in our lives. 

I know firsthand that this journey WILL be a successful one if you do it with an open heart and mind. 

This is not just warm and fuzzy fluff designed to make you feel good either.   

Its the real deal..

So on that note I’d like to share with you an important article that I hope all of you will take to heart.

Where I come from and the life I have now is living proof of its validity..


“May you live in interesting times..”

– A Chinese Curse

My Friends,

We are currently witnessing growing tears in the fabric of the United States of America that does not bode well for the long term prospects of it’s sovereignty nor for the ability of its citizens to freely obtain Life, Liberty or the Pursuit of Happiness.

I personally started to see the writing on the wall for these current events nearly 10 years ago and a significant part of my decision to expatriate 5 years later was due to the growing momentum I was witnessing in the orchestrated destruction of our traditional values and freedoms as Americans.

Its important to note that all of us have different internal alarms which serve to alert us to the potential hazards within our environment.

And unfortunately in our “modern” world these hazards to our well-being are quickly multiplying and creating greater waves of destruction against our financial, emotional, and physical health.

It doesn’t take a genius to realize that any of these hazards can easily manifest like a cancer and spread to the point of lethality not just for ourselves but for our society as well.

My own personal alarm started to ring with the realization that we were the first (and maybe the last) generation in the entire history of our species to blatantly violate our natural imperative as Men and Women to find love and symbiotic cooperation with each other.

To our own demise we are callously rejecting the tender aspirations of stable families which form the very core of any solvent society.

I’ve been a witness to the “War of the Sexes” since the 1970’s and have had a deep sense of dread in seeing Cultural Marxism rise up and take it’s most prominent form in Radical Feminism.


Masha's Friend Rita from Siberia

Masha's Friend Rita from Siberia

Check out this article.

Ky. Woman With ‘Too Short’ Dress For Mall Hires Lawyer
College Student Asked To Leave Mall

RICHMOND, Ky. — A 20-year-old Kentucky college student who was kicked out of a shopping mall because her dress was too short has hired an attorney.

Kymberly Clem, 20, attends Eastern Kentucky University and said the incident happened on Sunday when a security guard approached her at Richmond Mall and asked her to leave because of complaints about the shortness of the dress.

“I felt humiliated because not only did he embarrass me by making a scene, but he actually followed me out of the mall as if I stole something,” she told the Richmond Register. “It’s hard for me to understand how I could be disrespected so much.”

Ironically, Clem had bought the dress the day before at the very mall she was kicked out of.

The mall manager was not available for comment Monday.

Clem said her lawyer was looking into legal options.

(click here for original article)

When I read articles like this I just thank my lucky stars that I’m in this part of the world and don’t have to deal with any of this craziness.

As you can see from the lovely photo of Rita above.  When the weather is warm Russian girls LOVE to wear short dresses and take every opportunity they can to enjoy the limited sunshine they get during the year.

In fact it makes me want to deliver the following message to the American Ladies back in the US.

Attention American Women.

Quit being jealous of other women who eat less and stay in shape and have the ability to proudly show off their beauty, health and natural feminine confidence in themselves.

I know you may have a hard time believing this but this style of summer dress is completely the NORM here.  And yes it’s SEXY and these girls have absolutely no reason to be ashamed of their beautiful bodies whatsoever.

But if you are ashamed then please do something about it and don’t take it out on them.

Now I can only imagine what it would be like to walk around an American Shopping Mall with one of these lovely ladies in tow.

Do any of you Gentlemen or Ladies have an interesting story to tell in relation to this?

In a number of my previous posts I’ve stressed the importance of developing your social network in Russia and the FSU in order to find yourself a True Lady.

Although introduction agencies are not my most recommended option I still understand that many men will still go this route in order to get started.

However I believe there is a much better and safer method to roll into this without encountering any of the numerous scams that unfortunately exists in this realm.

There are literally millions of Russian, Ukrainian and Eastern Europeans already living in the West.  And many of these folks have immigrated recently or still have close ties back with their motherland.

These people are an incredibly rich source of information and possible contacts that you should not ignore.

Do your best to socialize with these people and if an opportunity presents itself during the conversation don’t be afraid to be honest about your intentions towards finding a traditional wife.

If you tell them that you would really appreciate any assistance they can give you in your goal towards creating a happy family they will more than likely feel very proud that you’ve asked them.

If they like you then they will enjoy playing the matchmaker role since many of them have a single lady friend or relative back home that is looking for a serious man to have relations with.

This is the absolute best way to get started because you are initiating your social network in your own country and expanding out from there.

These immigrants can help you establish the all important “beach-head” in their country that you will need to get yourself launched.


The backlash against Feminism has officially begun from within their own ranks.

It started only as a few drops leaking through the dam.

But now it’s starting to look more like a trickle.

The latest evidence to support this comes from self-proclaimed feminist and writer Anna Pasternak.

She has seemingly thrown in the towel on her “in-control” feminist lifestyle after finally realizing that being a lonely, aging, hard and masculine woman really sucks.

She’s writes a detailed article about trying to regain her femininity back.

And you will also notice a very prominent reference to Russian Women there too.

As much as I applaud her cautious article that casts a shadow over Feminism I’m still quite sure that this lady is a little late to the party and is going to have a exceedingly difficult time trying to find her “womanly soul”.

(The great irony here is that “Anna Pasternak” is a very Russian name to start with. )

The odds are against her but I still genuinely wish her luck and all the best.

One more thing..

After you finish reading her article below you might want to take a moment to revisit an earlier post I wrote up on this very same subject.

Fast track to femininity:

Why competing with men has left women out of touch with their feminine side

By Anna Pasternak

Recently, the media has been awash with articles suggesting that career women are to relationships what garlic is to a vampire – the kiss of death.

We’re unable to sustain meaningful unions, apparently, because men are intimidated by our intellect, threatened by our higher earning potential and turned off by our controlling, capable, yet powerful personalities.

While this has been my personal experience – I was left by the father of my daughter (now nearly five) three years ago when I was the higher earner – I think that the issue goes far deeper.

It is more psychological than sociological.

The problem, I believe, is not so much with career women per se, but that women are increasingly out of balance with themselves and, therefore, with men. I know I am.

In the past three years of being single, I have been on a handful of dates.

Two years ago I went to dinner with a doctor who told me that I ‘wasn’t in touch with my femininity’ as I ‘didn’t flirt or wear much make-up’.

His diagnosis also included the undeniable fact that I was in ‘acute need of affection’.

The last straw came four months ago when I had dinner with a successful, high-profile entrepreneur who literally screamed at me that I was ‘so in control it was scary’ – although he did backtrack when I dropped my head towards my plate and started sobbing.

As well as being hurt, I was shocked and outraged.

Kathleen Parker has finally done something that is long overdue.

She is a conservative columnist who has just released a book called “Save the Males”.

In “Save the Males” she pretty much highlights all the relevant points of the Men’s Movement knowing full well that she will be attacked quite relentlessly by her feminist sisters.

What she talks about is nothing new for any Men like ourselves doing our best to spread awareness and change the feminist tide that is so determined to sink us.

But nonetheless she’s a brave woman putting forth the same message because she has the foresight to realize that if traditional Men go down in flames..

Then ultimately so will Women.

I’ve read several articles and interview by her and its interesting to note that one of the key reasons she decided to write this book and join this important crusade is because she has 3 sons and realizes just how hostile our modern culture is towards them.

I feel that the Men’s Movement has hit a pretty important milestone with her book release.

I realize that there are many Men who have championed this cause for years but if Western Women are to truly adjust their attitudes and beliefs then their inspiration will most likely have to come from within.

So here is another serious red flag being hoisted from within their ranks.

Also important is the fact that she’s getting serious press coverage because of it.

Good for her.

Good for us.

Here are some links to follow.

Notice the defensive and hostile tone some feminist reporters have taken with her.

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